我係一個唔會AA制的女仔 ! never !



  • <p><strong>強烈推介正在播出的日劇《我無法戀愛的理由》,吉高由里子做的角色在第一集便遇上要求房錢AA制的ons對象,她說「你就想!」便轉身離去。以後遇到這種「鬼仔」,大家懂得怎做吧?</strong></p>
    <p>Text: F. Alarm</p>
    <p>世上沒有免費午餐,當然,也沒有免費晚餐。</p>
    <p>這是真理。而有很多人,都是不明白真理的。</p>
    <p>例如有位朋友最近跟一位追求者第一次出去約會,也不算是很正式的「我們是男女朋友」的那種,只是吃個飯傾個偈互相了解一下。</p>
    <p>飯吃到一半,朋友就已深感中伏,這個男的好像是上天派下來跟她作對似的,他們在每一個話題上面都有極端相反的意見,哪套戲好看啦今年的視帝該頒給誰啦哪個政黨是最無恥啦周一嶽唱歌好唔好聽啦等等等等,她說東他總會說西,而且是真心地說西。</p>
    <p>她用「以後不再跟這人聯絡」的心來吃完下半餐飯,叫埋單時,男人拿出電話開了計數機app──大家心照了,他也大概覺得「呢條女溝到都冇幸福」吧,所以打算飯錢除二。朋友見狀立即說「不如我請」,男人竟然說:「好!」</p>
    <p>OK,普通朋友出來食飯,Dutch date是絕對沒問題的,問題是,你而家嚟溝我、發現唔啱嘴型/自覺應該溝唔到,便想改行AA制?</p>
    <p>男女平等在其他地方體現就足夠了,在某些情況,男人還是要表現出應有的風度來。</p>
    <p>但現今世代,你還期望有幾多男人知道「風度」?他還說「好」呢!</p>
    <p>另外一個朋友,她男友的小家是出了名的,別說平時了,連她生日呀聖誕呀這些日子,吃飯慶祝也是AA制的。OK你可以話「我鬼仔性格,鬼仔都係鍾意AA嘅」;可是呢,他在生日前呀聖誕前呀,都會明示(對,是明示)女友該送甚麼禮物給自己要請自己去哪裡吃飯。</p>
    <p>這是哪門子的鬼仔性格?是衰格的鬼仔性格!</p>
    <p>後來兩人分了手,她才說之前為了保住男友面子所以沒跟我們呻──這幾年來他們連開房也是AA制的,你付一次我付一次。有不下十幾次,輪到他付房錢,他不知是特登還是大頭蝦啦,銀包裡面只有幾十塊錢囉。女友墊完他又不了了之,下次又是女的付錢。</p>
    <p>他大概是想「你都有高潮吖!你都有爽到吖!爽唔使俾錢呀?」</p>
    <p>其實單憑這一點,就應該早早把這貨掃地出門。</p>
    <p>這已不是男女平不平等的問題。除非是女的包養男的,否則兩個人去開房,錢一定要男人付。就算是女的先說要去,也要由男人俾錢。</p>
    <p>如果連這點也不堅持的話,你一生都會栽在男人手上,男人不會尊重你,會四處說「我條女俾埋錢我同佢去爆房」,你們因錢銀嘈交時會說「房錢你都肯出啦借幾皮嘢俾我有乜所謂啫?」</p>
    <p>平時buy him a dinner沒所謂,買衫買鞋買褲給他沒所謂,分擔他的房租水電煤費也可以,但某些費用,女人要緊緊守好自己的銀包。</p>
    <p>這是真理,女人們好好記住了。</p>



  • Jeesica,
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    <br>Totally agreed.



  • 如果連這點也不堅持的話,你一生都會栽在男人手上,男人不會尊重你



  • 普通朋友出來食飯,Dutch date是絕對沒問題的,問題是,你而家嚟溝我、發現唔啱嘴型/自覺應該溝唔到,便想改行AA制?
    <br>
    <br>男女平等在其他地方體現就足夠了,在某些情況,男人還是要表現出應有的風度來。
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  • Hope you never meet a jerk who even ask for Pay Dutch on such case. ;c}



  • 做咩偷人地既野用嚟開thread?



  • 我知好多she男都借男女平等來問返要 aa



  • 如果個男人係唔啱自己嘅, 我寧願請埋佢食,一餐飯小意思, 亦都係最好嘅hint.



  • Jesscia1982 8:31pm dec 14, 2011
    <br>我知好多she男都借男女平等來問返要 aa
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    <br>我無呀, 不過唔好食左我隻車就OK



  • Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 8:31 pm
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    <br>我知好多she男都借男女平等來問返要 aa
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    <br>爆房唔會呀~



  • Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 8:31 pm
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    <br>我知好多she男都借男女平等來問返要 aa
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    <br>咁我又唔會...
    <br>只糸自己要岩口味先去做SL或SP..



  • 錢定面重要?



  • 我一路以為係啲小朋友仔先會話AA(可能工資低)男人負責所有使費,係風度甘解。可以話理所當然。



  • moss 好男人一個 !!!! 我like你



  • Jesscia
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    <br>Hmm....你咁講,我覺得唔係我好,只係女人的要求低咗,唉!
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  • Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 8:57 pm
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    <br>moss 好男人一個 !!!! 我like你
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    <br>totally agreed, even just come out touch n lick, guys should buy dinner n drink la



  • Moss replied at 2011-12-14 8:59 pm
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    <br>Jesscia
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    <br>Hmm....你咁講,我覺得唔係我好,只係女人的要求低咗,唉!
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    <br>簡老公先去要求高啦



  • Jesscia
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    <br>咁可能我要求高啦



  • 有風度唔計較既男人真係勁加分 !



  • replied at 2011-12-14 9:00 pm
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    <br>Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 8:57 pm
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    <br>moss 好男人一個 !!!! 我like你
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    <br>totally agreed, even just come out touch n lick, guys should buy dinner n drink la
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    <br>我覺得如果你咁講似叫雞~
    <br>請唔請對方係風度.....唔係因為條女比唔比你有d咩行動~
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    <br>講真如果係環境冇咁好既咪一早講law.....去d自己afford到既地方~



  • replied at 2011-12-14 9:00 pm
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    <br>Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 8:57 pm
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    <br>moss 好男人一個 !!!! 我like你
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    <br>totally agreed, even just come out touch n lick, guys should buy dinner n drink la
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    <br>I think it's not about what we will get from the gals. Even just a casual dinner, guys should pay. It shows our demeanor.



  • 想識你moss



  • Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 9:06 pm
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    <br>有風度唔計較既男人真係勁加分 !
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    <br>who likes a stingy guy? haha!



  • Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 9:09 pm
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    <br>想識你moss
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    <br>I am flattered! you can reach me at [email protected] (msn or email) :)



  • 其他女仔可唔可以add架 ?



  • 隨便, 沒關係



  • 已add了



  • Jesscia
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    <br>I didn't receive any invitation ??



  • 我真的add了



  • 哈哈~好有趣既topic, 更有趣既係各人既對答~



  • Jesscia
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    <br>I dunno what's the problem. Do you mind to send me an email so that I can add you? Thanks!



  • 我覺得都係睇大家intention係點﹐唔小家嘅就好了...



  • 我一向以為男仕一定比(錢)風度!除非係group party.



  • Hi Jessica, a gentleman here would also like to know you as well. Mind to add me too? [email protected]



  • Jesscia~ 我叫Mark呀, 可以同妳做個朋友嘛??? ^^
    <br>
    <br>[email protected]



  • Jessica,
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    <br>幾時俾機會我表現下我的風度呀?



  • 咁又係, 你人工低麻reception.



  • 我 1000% 支持妳,
    <br>我尊重妳,
    <br>所以不會 AA,
    <br>由得妳出晒.
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    <br>Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 8:24 pm
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    <br>如果連這點也不堅持的話,你一生都會栽在男人手上,男人不會尊重你
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    <br>



  • jesscia1982 ,
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    <br>妳好,想識妳做個朋,等我介紹下先,男35以下,乜都可以一齊傾下玩下GA^^
    <br>我樣子OK唔肥,平時有時間可以一齊睇戲,唱K,傾下計咁.
    <br>可以互相陪伴下,開開心心咁.ADD我方便聯絡呀~
    <br>
    <br>[email protected]



  • MuscularAsss replied at 2011-12-14 11:00 pm
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    <br>我 1000% 支持妳,
    <br>我尊重妳,
    <br>所以不會 AA,
    <br>由得妳出晒.
    <br>
    <br>Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 8:24 pm
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    <br>如果連這點也不堅持的話,你一生都會栽在男人手上,男人不會尊重你
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    <br>M A.....真想車巴你....夜嘛嘛搞到我笑出聲.....



  • 他大概是想「你都有高潮吖!你都有爽到吖!爽唔使俾錢呀?」
    <br>
    <br>===> 女仔應該答佢 [我一路辦高潮去滿足你喎,你咪以為當真先得架]



  • Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 9:21 pm
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    <br>我真的add了
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    <br>Hi Jessica, do you have a fd call Yanger? We met before in Tin Hau for dessert, remember? Hope u will add me and chat, [email protected]



  • 其實當有人投訴有男士係咁計住的時候,一樣有女士係咁計住個男人有冇畀錢?
    <br>
    <br>當大家都係計住計住時,其實個關係都差不多係一個買賣關係,重要係短線買賣關係:「一單蝕畀你唔緊要,兩單蝕畀你當投資,三單都係蝕就梗係止蝕啦!」不論男女,講來講係咪又係「邊個著數啲」既問題?攞出來講都覺小家。
    <br>
    <br>若你真係當對方係一個人,而唔係一個攞著數既對象,呢啲婆毑「著數」,點會上心?點會記人地AA一次記成世?



  • Jesscia1982 replied at 2011-12-14 8:31 pm
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    <br>我知好多she男都借男女平等來問返要 aa
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    <br>No wor, i always paid even the gal i don't like, by the way, i paid all the bills for my SL from a bottles of water to a LV or Prada .



  • Sane replied at 2011-12-15 10:37 am
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    <br>其實當有人投訴有男士係咁計住的時候,一樣有女士係咁計住個男人有冇畀錢?
    <br>
    <br>當大家都係計住計住時,其實個關係都差不多係一個買賣關係,重要係短線買賣關係:「一單蝕畀你唔緊要,兩單蝕畀你當投資,三單都係蝕就梗係止蝕啦!」不論男女,講來講係咪又係「邊個著數啲」既問題?攞出來講都覺小家。
    <br>
    <br>若你真係當對方係一個人,而唔係一個攞著數既對象,呢啲婆毑「著數」,點會上心?點會記人地AA一次記成世?
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    <br>講得好!
    <br>



  • 我習慣唔使女人$$.....如果下下咁去計較....真係幾討厭



  • 想識你 Jessica



  • edk9394.....今日咁得閒上黎睇書...^^



  • yamazaki66 replied at 2011-12-15 11:20 am
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    <br>edk9394.....今日咁得閒上黎睇書...^^
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    <br>haha.... 放假前夕靜D, 上黎八卦下...
    <br>書好似都靜英英


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