男朋友唔比我做model...想分手



  • 其實我想做model好耐 因為一直都有人叫我入行

    但每次同親佢傾, 佢都話唔好

    問佢點解又講唔出, 成日話驚我被人睇蝕, 又話驚被人呃,

    好似今次咁 我話想去參加女生天下(淘雜誌搞果個fashion show)

    人地咁大間公司 點會搞人ja 點知佢又say no

    真係好灰...我都係想做d自己鍾意做既嘢ja 咁都唔比?

    想點呀, 咩年代呀?

    大家覺得我應唔應該去? 咁同唔同佢分手?

    help~~~~~~~  >.<





  • How old are u ar?



  • Simply,


    2 choices only :





    1. 男朋友or


    2. 做model



  • 如果你男友了解你性格


    講既野有說服力


    就聽下話啦


    你男友擔心你俾人呃


    參加比賽有排先入行


    入行又有排捱


    你自己諗清楚


    真係想做就做啦



  • 分.





    理由有二:


    1) 佢唔理解你, 如果你真係好想做, 但佢唔支持, 即係唔支持你理想;


    2) 你既然有咁嘅考慮, 會喺呢度問出嚟, 即係你有諗過; 你重視你理想多過你男朋友.





    雖然我認同你男友都你鍾意你先會阻止你, 我唔覺佢唔啱, 呢啲嘢冇話應該點做先係啱嘅, 但基於以上理由, 客觀上分析我認為應選擇分手.





    當然, 我唔知你咩條件, 可能你分開咗之後又冇人請你做MODEL, 到時你唔好怪我, 哈哈!





    順帶一提, 大公司唔見得一定好......小心啦~



  • is this a kind of ad?



  • 做左MODEL,你唔荒冇有車有樓有米男排隊追?當然冇咁笨為果樹放棄個森林掛。



  • 你男朋友唔係驚你比人睇蝕,佢係知道一旦比你提升左地位,佢唔夠出面啲人爭啫.



  • exactly



  • Grenade replied at 2011-12-08 2:33 am


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    Simply,


    2 choices only :





    1. 男朋友or


    2. 做model


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    not multiple choices?



  • Iceman replied at 2011-12-08 2:03 am


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    How old are u ar?


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    I m 20yrs old><



  • 如果佢驚你比人欺騙,佢應陪同你呢個女友應徵。全程保護你!



  • Grenade replied at 2011-12-08 2:33 am


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    Simply,


    2 choices only :





    1. 男朋友or


    2. 做model


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    I dun know how to choose ..


    I wanna both.. .. . Please help me



  • minniechan1028 replied at 2011-12-08 9:18 am


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    Grenade replied at 2011-12-08 2:33 am


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    Simply,


    2 choices only :





    1. 男朋友or


    2. 做model


    ===============================================================


    I dun know how to choose ..


    I wanna both.. .. . Please help me


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    already told you, 做model will have 男朋友 x 10



  • minnie,





    想清楚,真係好想做咪去馬囉。 免得日後後悔。



  • hello replied at 2011-12-08 3:25 am


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    如果你男友了解你性格


    講既野有說服力


    就聽下話啦


    你男友擔心你俾人呃


    參加比賽有排先入行


    入行又有排捱


    你自己諗清楚


    真係想做就做啦


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    今次係一次好難得嘅機會,勁想參加!


    因為佢搞得好大型,雜誌都有報導,


    所以一定唔會比人呃先!



  • just do it. and if he loves you, he will stay with you no matter what.



  • minniechan1028 replied at 2011-12-08 9:18 am


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    Grenade replied at 2011-12-08 2:33 am


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    Simply,


    2 choices only :





    1. 男朋友or


    2. 做model


    ===============================================================


    I dun know how to choose ..


    I wanna both.. .. . Please help me


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    NO way



  • conedben replied at 2011-12-08 6:26 am


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    分.





    理由有二:


    1) 佢唔理解你, 如果你真係好想做, 但佢唔支持, 即係唔支持你理想;


    2) 你既然有咁嘅考慮, 會喺呢度問出嚟, 即係你有諗過; 你重視你理想多過你男朋友.





    雖然我認同你男友都你鍾意你先會阻止你, 我唔覺佢唔啱, 呢啲嘢冇話應該點做先係啱嘅, 但基於以上理由, 客觀上分析我認為應選擇分手.





    當然, 我唔知你咩條件, 可能你分開咗之後又冇人請你做MODEL, 到時你唔好怪我, 哈哈!





    順帶一提, 大公司唔見得一定好......小心啦~


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    多謝你!如果換係您您會點選擇?



  • Tommy replied at 2011-12-08 7:49 am


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    is this a kind of ad?


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    What s the mean of ad?



  • 一路小心。



  • simple replied at 2011-12-08 7:49 am


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    做左MODEL,你唔荒冇有車有樓有米男排隊追?當然冇咁笨為果樹放棄個森林掛。


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    我都明白,但有感情嘛


    唔係話分就分,有無辦法呀><



  • man replied at 2011-12-08 7:54 am


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    你男朋友唔係驚你比人睇蝕,佢係知道一旦比你提升左地位,佢唔夠出面啲人爭啫.


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    試下先都好嘛!而且我都有信心可以發展!




  • weirdo replied at 2011-12-08 9:25 am


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    一路小心。


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    多謝您!如果換係您您會點選擇?



  • man2 replied at 2011-12-08 8:16 am


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    Grenade replied at 2011-12-08 2:33 am


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    Simply,


    2 choices only :





    1. 男朋友or


    2. 做model


    ===============================================================


    not multiple choices?


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    Both both both><



  • simple replied at 2011-12-08 9:20 am


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    minniechan1028 replied at 2011-12-08 9:18 am


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    Grenade replied at 2011-12-08 2:33 am


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    Simply,


    2 choices only :





    1. 男朋友or


    2. 做model


    ===============================================================


    I dun know how to choose .. ,


    I wanna both.. .. . Please help me


    ===============================================================


    already told you, 做model will have 男朋友 x 10


    ===============================================================事實一定係咁?




  • 你再大d就知想做就去做先無後悔


    無人應該擋住自己去完夢





    希望你早日有解決..努力



  • 我覺得難得可以向自己理想進發,唔係一件易事黎


    如果你男朋友連呢一點都諗唔通既話,就算今次冇出現呢個問題,日後你地都會為左其他問題而出現分歧.或者佢會覺得model界品流複雜,會令你思想改變如果入左行,但作為另一半既伴侶,我都覺得應該要support既.



  • minniechan1028 replied at 2011-12-08 9:40 am


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    simple replied at 2011-12-08 9:20 am


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    minniechan1028 replied at 2011-12-08 9:18 am


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    Grenade replied at 2011-12-08 2:33 am


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    Simply,


    2 choices only :





    1. 男朋友or


    2. 做model


    ===============================================================


    I dun know how to choose .. ,


    I wanna both.. .. . Please help me


    ===============================================================


    already told you, 做model will have 男朋友 x 10


    ===============================================================事實一定係咁?


    ===============================================================





    你入到圍嘅就係喇。依家你連踩入嘅第一步都未做到,就暫時KEEP住呢個男人先羅,已經錯左,比佢知道你有咁嘅意思,因此正式去選,要瞞住所有人秘密進行!唔得嘅咪返嚟同佢講羅,我聽左你話,唔好貪慕虛榮,決定唔選啦!得嘅話,呢個男人已可隨時棄掉。重點係自己嘅RISKREWARDRATIO,要清楚知道自己嘅實力,認清自己,如真有過人嘅地方,REWARD大過RISK就可行了。




  • 你真係得嘅話,生活圈子大左,朋友多左,見識又曠闊左,咁你係男友方面選擇自然更多更好。好現實的。最重要係平衡RISK同REWARD。



  • weirdo replied at 2011-12-08 9:22 am


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    just do it. and if he loves you, he will stay with you no matter what.


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    Ya ! You are correct!



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-12-08 9:47 am


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    你再大d就知想做就去做先無後悔


    無人應該擋住自己去完夢





    希望你早日有解決..努力


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    Thank you您><



  • Wallace replied at 2011-12-08 9:59 am


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    我覺得難得可以向自己理想進發,唔係一件易事黎


    如果你男朋友連呢一點都諗唔通既話,就算今次冇出現呢個問題,日後你地都會為左其他問題而出現分歧.或者佢會覺得model界品流複雜,會令你思想改變如果入左行,但作為另一半既伴侶,我都覺得應該要support既.


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    所以我會努力叫佢支持我^^身邊嘅人支持真係好緊要!


    我會再唸多點辦法^
    ^多謝您!



  • 作為女生,我都試過比男友反對去實現自己的理想。





    如果佢既理由係合理既,好似當年我開公司,佢勸我先搵長工有穩定收入先,我會考慮。





    如果你分析到,佢因為大男人、想控制你、擔心你叻過佢、或者驚你飛佢等等要你唔好做,咁你飛佢都應該。因為一個愛你的男人係希望你開心,更有成就同長大。





    對自己同上帝誠實啦,至少你唔會後悔。



  • 真係對自己誠實的話!我定要參加!因為


    我知道機會唔係經常有!


    我會堅決參加。


    但您覺得我點同佢講我決定參加比賽?


    唸起就頭痛



  • 對自己誠實,倒不必對他誠實吧。佢唔係你家人,又唔係你老公,佢冇乜權知!況且,都話喇,唔比佢知咁多,第時轉彎都易啲。米走入倔頭巷。KEKE。



  • 我覺得你同你bf講,要對你地呢段感情有信心,如果你地係經不起風浪既話,就算你唔選擇做model,日後都會因其他問題而令你地感情有變.鐘意一個人就要去分析/尊重對方既決定



  • 只要係清楚自己嘅條件,就比個機會自己,抱住試左冇蝕底嘅心情得㗎喇。



  • minniechan1028 replied at 2011-12-08 3:33 pm


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    真係對自己誠實的話!我定要參加!因為


    我知道機會唔係經常有!


    我會堅決參加。


    但您覺得我點同佢講我決定參加比賽?


    唸起就頭痛


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    just like u told us here



  • 我覺得妳男朋友都係唔想傷妳自尊心姐,時下個個女仔係唔係都話去做model,如果真係有咁既條件的話,自己又有信心,又係自己一直以黎既理想,莫講話男朋友唔同意,就算係全家都反對,都一樣會一意孤行。




  • minniechan1028 replied at 2011-12-08 9:21 am


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    hello replied at 2011-12-08 3:25 am


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    如果你男友了解你性格


    講既野有說服力


    就聽下話啦


    你男友擔心你俾人呃


    參加比賽有排先入行


    入行又有排捱


    你自己諗清楚


    真係想做就做啦


    ===============================================================


    今次係一次好難得嘅機會,勁想參加!


    因為佢搞得好大型,雜誌都有報導,


    所以一定唔會比人呃先!


    ===============================================================


    入左行之後都可以比人呃


    一個小職員都可以扮野呃到你.




  • 男人係自私,佢鐘意你唔想你比人睇虧留返比自已慢慢嘆都唔出奇。但如果佢專重你既,佢應該一路陪住你,等你了左件心事。


    但後生女想做MODEL係好平常既事,但要記住入到去真係好黑暗,你一係會變左另一個人,一係會變心。



  • minniechan1028 ,





    hi,我都想識個由普通朋友先,可以用心傾下既人~


    我30,識個成熟,有禮貌既長久朋友,做個普通朋友得閒傾下食下飯咁~


    可以一齊做個伴,有心識朋友add我傾下了解下先呀^^





    believe_hearthk@hotmail.com



  • 小米米 replied at 2011-12-08 9:14 pm


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    男人係自私,佢鐘意你唔想你比人睇虧留返比自已慢慢嘆都唔出奇。但如果佢專重你既,佢應該一路陪住你,等你了左件心事。


    但後生女想做MODEL係好平常既事,但要記住入到去真係好黑暗,你一係會變左另一個人,一係會變心。


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    我都明白,會有好多改變有好多經歷,真係睇我好唔好彩!


    多謝您嘅關心!今次我真係好了解完成理想並不容易!



  • newsgroup replied at 2011-12-08 9:02 pm


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    minniechan1028 replied at 2011-12-08 9:21 am


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    hello replied at 2011-12-08 3:25 am


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    如果你男友了解你性格


    講既野有說服力


    就聽下話啦


    你男友擔心你俾人呃


    參加比賽有排先入行


    入行又有排捱


    你自己諗清楚


    真係想做就做啦


    ===============================================================


    今次係一次好難得嘅機會,勁想參加!


    因為佢搞得好大型,雜誌都有報導,


    所以一定唔會比人呃先!


    ===============================================================


    入左行之後都可以比人呃


    一個小職員都可以扮野呃到你.


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    真係預計唔到之後嘅事係好定唔好><



  • minniechan1028 replied at 2011-12-09 12:27 am


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    小米米 replied at 2011-12-08 9:14 pm


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    男人係自私,佢鐘意你唔想你比人睇虧留返比自已慢慢嘆都唔出奇。但如果佢專重你既,佢應該一路陪住你,等你了左件心事。


    但後生女想做MODEL係好平常既事,但要記住入到去真係好黑暗,你一係會變左另一個人,一係會變心。


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    我都明白,會有好多改變有好多經歷,真係睇我好唔好彩!


    多謝您嘅關心!今次我真係好了解完成理想並不容易!


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    完成理想並不容易 applies everywhere to almost everything



  • 做MODEL, 高質素的話揾錢好快, 多JOB, 仲段鐘計好好PAID,,得閒又會有人揾妳飯局,公價都1000句鐘, 比有錢二代睇中自然有媽媽生揾妳,,個時揾錢仲快,好多人入行前都好單純話唔會出賣自己,,我眼見就好多都做唔到呢點...因為實在太好揾了.


    低質素的, JOB 唔多,, ON 9 仔私影都會揾到GEI,,將貨就價, 識人都有機會去D NIGHT CLUB 賣下煙仔,,賣下酒,,都算比一般工作好PAID ,,叫做2 3百蚊一句鐘,,但都唔會夠錢駛,, 好多到最後比D on9 咸濕私影仔,,出"高價" 1,2千咁,,又去到出賣自己條路了,,..


    最後就係,,行得呢條路,,收開個人工,,,正常工係好難揾得返,妳唔會想再做返其他工.. 所以,妳自問有條件,有能力,可以係26前揾夠,,就去做...再唔係妳自問有姿色有內涵,,工作其間釣到有錢二代都係一條出路...坦白講,冇幾多人建立到呢行事業,,有的都一定已出賣自己...



  • 又喺度賣廣告啦!!!!



  • 又喺度賣廣告啦!!!! replied at 2011-12-09 2:39 pm


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    又喺度賣廣告啦!!!!


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    點賣講告啊,,我了解件事同大家分享下...邊D字眼係我好想係度揾到著數?,揾人都唔係SHE.COM 揾啦..



  • Minnie,





    Sorry for belate reply, I guess the main problem is your bf afraid that you will leave him anyway if you success to develop your career as a model. I am in a opinion that it's very easy for you to separate with your bf when you succeed.





    At this moment, you have to concern what kind of life that you are going to take. I do understand that 1 20 yrs old girl are not willing to give up any opportunities at this stage. You have to consider many things, such as if your bf will be your husband or if he is capable be your husband ?


    Do you think BIG company will not get the advantages from you ? Advantages can include many means, no matter in money, or..?? who knows..


    Well, seems I talk too much. Think about it