婚外情 "純粹分享 不喜物進"



  • 我與個同事發生了婚外情, 大家都是已婚., 佢係澳門人, 在澳門分公司.  一年都見不到十次.  大家有FEEL 都係呢半年的是,  但發生係呢兩個月.  佢好錫佢老婆, 只不過不滿意佢老婆有公主病,  成日買嘢.    我覺得一個負責任的男人, 唔會做對不起老婆的是.  唔知是否大家喏傾, 所以佢對好有FEEL. 但我唔知佢對我是否係愛情, 知大家不會有結果.其實我都好辛苦, 唔應該同佢開始.  但我控制唔到自己, 但又唔知佢點諗.

    開始時係佢做住動.



  • ahey,


    then what makes u to go with him?



  • 七情六慾 最後孤獨





    先打爆對方婚姻


    再打爆自己婚姻


    跟住兩個互相打爆





    最後


    孤令令街邊汁紙皮


    比蚊咬



  • 反正不為天長地久, 大家都祗在開心. 能維持多久, 便多久好了. 當然, 早晚事情穿煲, 便要分手. 最好, 就是騎牛搵馬. 一邊玩樂, 另一邊就去找個真正合自己的人.



  • 男歡女愛,好正常!我已婚有小朋友,都有一個男朋友啦!



  • 甘請問你對老公同男朋友的心態係點?





    ============================================================人妻 replied at 2011-08-22 5:00 pm


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    男歡女愛,好正常!我已婚有小朋友,都有一個男朋友啦!




  • 回覆"COCO"


    因為結了婚11年, 我對我老公都有感情, 但佢有D嘢係比唔到我. 我男朋友係比到有返戀愛感覺.



  • 對男朋友有戀愛感覺,甘咪會成日掛住佢ㄚ,想成日見到佢ㄚ甘羅? 甘好似已經吾愛老公,對老公無感覺了.





    =============================================================ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:22 pm


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    回覆"COCO"


    因為結了婚11年, 我對我老公都有感情, 但佢有D嘢係比唔到我. 我男朋友係比到有返戀愛感覺.




  • 結婚內左, 就一定係咁, 就算拍拖內左, 都冇感覺, 我有時都問自己, 點解要同佢一齊, 一齊悶, 完全冇晒自己既時間, 同佢一齊, 只會係屋企, 又吾出街, 真係好悶, 悶到我都吾知為什麼仲要一齊



  • "Ng hei ma...."





    How long can boyfriend feeling last? You have a husband that has been with you 11 years... You expected him to give you "excitment" like you guy first dated?





    Pls grow up and assess your situation. If you have kids... better forget this little adventure. If you don't and is prepared to blow your family apart, pls go ahead.





    By the way, pls don't think your husband is that stupid for you go get away having an affair and don't know about it. Some short time, some longer but ultimately everyone will know. Even if your husband does not find out fast, what about the guy's wife?





    Better keep life simple.



  • "COCO"


    我都唔知對老公有無感覺. 想知男朋友對我係點.




  • Ooops... lots of typo...








    "Ng hei ma...."





    How long can this "boyfriend feeling" last? You have a husband that has been with you 11 years... You expect him to give you "excitment" like you guys first dated?





    Pls grow up and assess your situation. If you have kids, better forget this little adventure. If you don't and is prepared to blow your family apart, pls go ahead.





    By the way, pls don't think your husband is that stupid for you to get away having an affair and will not know about it. Some affairs take shorter time, some longer time but ultimately everyone will know. Even if your husband does not find out fast, what about the guy's wife?





    Better keep life simple.



  • 我地可以做個fd私下傾嗎? 我係女.





    =============================================================ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:49 pm


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    "COCO"


    我都唔知對老公有無感覺. 想知男朋友對我係點.




  • ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:49 pm


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    "COCO"


    我都唔知對老公有無感覺. 想知男朋友對我係點.


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    男朋友對你點咁又點呢?





    不要玩火, 否則後果自付. Passby 說得對, 你係唔係想破壞自己個家及人地個家? 沒有好結果. 好自為知.




  • 道德問題....會有報應的





    到時你嘅女兒做雞,你就死啦



  • man40+ replied at 2011-08-22 7:33 pm


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    道德問題....會有報應的





    到時你嘅女兒做雞,你就死啦


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    如果你有仔女, 都唔知係你死定你仔女死, 雞都係一份工作....點解道德問題會有報應? 點解報應又關個女事,又關做雞事?





    黑心他人最終黑心自己





    哈哈哈哈



  • man40+ replied at 2011-08-22 7:33 pm


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    道德問題....會有報應的





    到時你嘅女兒做雞,你就死啦 ===============================================================


    r u sure? how?



  • coco replied at 2011-08-22 5:58 pm


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    我地可以做個fd私下傾嗎? 我係女.





    =============================================================ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:49 pm


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    "COCO"


    我都唔知對老公有無感覺. 想知男朋友對我係點.


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    可以的.



  • 我系己婚男,都有個己婚女友~~~



  • 雞雞



  • 金水 replied at 2011-08-22 8:54 pm


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    我系己婚男,都有個己婚女友~~~


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    想知道你地男人點諗. 是否對女友係玩玩下.



  • not for me



  • 有沒有想過,結婚不到三個月便有了外遇!那種激情沒人可以控制到。





    坦白說,不試過不會心息的,現在點樣勸妳也是徒勞,多少人可以懸崖立馬!重要的是,懂得回去妳應去的地方,祝好運。





    還有,已婚的男人,對妳什麼最有興趣!知嗎?



  • 過來人 replied at 2011-08-22 6:00 pm


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    ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:49 pm


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    "COCO"


    我都唔知對老公有無感覺. 想知男朋友對我係點.


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    男朋友對你點咁又點呢?





    不要玩火, 否則後果自付. Passby 說得對, 你係唔係想破壞自己個家及人地個家? 沒有好結果. 好自為知.


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    我跟本無想破壞自己個家及人地, 只不過係控制唔到.



  • 人妻 replied at 2011-08-22 5:00 pm


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    男歡女愛,好正常!我已婚有小朋友,都有一個男朋友啦!


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    但你同你男朋友係點.



  • ahey replied at 2011-08-22 9:47 pm


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    人妻 replied at 2011-08-22 5:00 pm


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    男歡女愛,好正常!我已婚有小朋友,都有一個男朋友啦!


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    但你同你男朋友係點.


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    唔要男朋友,叫他見鬼去吧,攪亂檔



  • Well, there are lots of jerks in this forum that promote the idea of having affairs or pure sex relationship. You know what, they are all males, not female, with no spine.





    I can tell you one thing, having a real affair while still caring about own family is exciting at first but a torture as time goes by. Have to constantly lie, worry and sad 90% of the time.





    Again, there are all kinds of irresponsible advice out here. Becareful unless you want to be treated as a sex object and nothing more.





    Sorry for being blunt.



  • 過來人二!





    還有,已婚的男人,對妳什麼最有興趣!知嗎?


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    我想知



  • ahey replied at 2011-08-22 9:31 pm


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    過來人 replied at 2011-08-22 6:00 pm


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    ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:49 pm


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    "COCO"


    我都唔知對老公有無感覺. 想知男朋友對我係點.


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    男朋友對你點咁又點呢?





    不要玩火, 否則後果自付. Passby 說得對, 你係唔係想破壞自己個家及人地個家? 沒有好結果. 好自為知.


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    我跟本無想破壞自己個家及人地, 只不過係控制唔到.


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    我唔係壞人,只不過阻我者死.哈



  • Pass by replied at 2011-08-22 10:11 pm


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    Well, there are lots of jerks in this forum that promote the idea of having affairs or pure sex relationship. You know what, they are all males, not female, with no spine.





    I can tell you one thing, having a real affair while still caring about own family is exciting at first but a torture as time goes by. Have to constantly lie, worry and sad 90% of the time.





    Again, there are all kinds of irresponsible advice out here. Becareful unless you want to be treated as a sex object and nothing more.





    Sorry for being blunt.


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    依一個係一個算係最為平和家庭的做法,


    若然似是又係做到一半時講到要放棄既


    你既家人只係一開始嫌棄大家


    對外互討不是之處,玩玩吓


    要擁有又為何要暗借不足



  • ol replied at 2011-08-22 10:14 pm


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    過來人二!





    還有,已婚的男人,對妳什麼最有興趣!知嗎?


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    我想知


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    Answer 1 (90%+) - Your body. To be specific, just the sexual parts. No obligation sex is the best.





    Answer 2 (10%-) - Your body and your soul. This is worse than answer 1. 99% of the time lead to bigger tragedy or great sadness at least. The payback will extend to the kids.





    For the remaining 1%, there are marksix winners. Yet marksix costs little to bet and losing is no big deal. Marriage and if have kids... the stake can be too high to risk.



  • ahey, 請問你的email或msn 是.....?





    =============================================================coco replied at 2011-08-22 5:58 pm


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    我地可以做個fd私下傾嗎? 我係女.





    =============================================================ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:49 pm


    -------------------------------------------------------------可以的.




  • coco replied at 2011-08-23 9:28 am


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    ahey, 請問你的email或msn 是.....?





    =============================================================coco replied at 2011-08-22 5:58 pm


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    我地可以做個fd私下傾嗎? 我係女.





    =============================================================ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:49 pm


    -------------------------------------------------------------可以的.


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    不如你比我啦.



  • crysly@yahoo.com.hk





    =============================================================ahey replied at 2011-08-23 10:12 am


    不如你比我啦.




  • ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:22 pm


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    回覆"COCO"


    因為結了婚11年, 我對我老公都有感情, 但佢有D嘢係比唔到我. 我男朋友係比到有返戀愛感覺.


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    時間久了,當有另一人出現,真很貪想地去試一下.


    ahey 請問妳現在幾耐可約會,他不需返澳門嗎?



  • coco replied at 2011-08-22 5:29 pm


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    對男朋友有戀愛感覺,甘咪會成日掛住佢ㄚ,想成日見到佢ㄚ甘羅? 甘好似已經吾愛老公,對老公無感覺了.





    =============================================================ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:22 pm


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    回覆"COCO"


    因為結了婚11年, 我對我老公都有感情, 但佢有D嘢係比唔到我. 我男朋友係比到有返戀愛感覺.


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    hi coco


    最初,真是日又掛夜又掛,好想好想見到.但原來有這樣的心,很辛苦啊!


    我明白到回家時就必需抽離.千其吾好吾愛老公,不要將男朋友和老公作比較,和他一起肯定肯定甜蜜很多很多,只要享受這段時刻.記住太上心只會辛苦自己.



  • rose replied at 2011-08-23 10:34 am


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    ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:22 pm


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    回覆"COCO"


    因為結了婚11年, 我對我老公都有感情, 但佢有D嘢係比唔到我. 我男朋友係比到有返戀愛感覺.


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    時間久了,當有另一人出現,真很貪想地去試一下.


    ahey 請問妳現在幾耐可約會,他不需返澳門嗎?


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    係無咩時間可以見, 除了公司有function. 只有靠msn, 電話.



  • rose replied at 2011-08-23 10:45 am


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    coco replied at 2011-08-22 5:29 pm


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    對男朋友有戀愛感覺,甘咪會成日掛住佢ㄚ,想成日見到佢ㄚ甘羅? 甘好似已經吾愛老公,對老公無感覺了.





    =============================================================ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:22 pm


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    回覆"COCO"


    因為結了婚11年, 我對我老公都有感情, 但佢有D嘢係比唔到我. 我男朋友係比到有返戀愛感覺.


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    hi coco


    最初,真是日又掛夜又掛,好想好想見到.但原來有這樣的心,很辛苦啊!


    我明白到回家時就必需抽離.千其吾好吾愛老公,不要將男朋友和老公作比較,和他一起肯定肯定甜蜜很多很多,只要享受這段時刻.記住太上心只會辛苦自己.


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    Another irresponsible advice.... if can 抽離 easily then there won't be such problem and mental conflict now.... Yet, going into the relationship further will be even harder to 抽離. Now is the time to really sit down and try to think about priority.





    The thrill of having an affair can be tempting. Yet, we need to assess what is the hidden pricetag to see if can afford.





    Even if you don't have kids, does the guy have kids? At the end of the day, if the guy left his family and be with you while you divorced peacefully. You will feel insecure for the rest of your life and this is already the better scenario. If the whole thing turned ugly, you probably will lose a lot more.





    Yes, I may sound judgemental and rude. Hope you understand my good intention.





    I have been thru all these....



  • ahey replied at 2011-08-23 11:08 am


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    rose replied at 2011-08-23 10:34 am


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    ahey replied at 2011-08-22 5:22 pm


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    回覆"COCO"


    因為結了婚11年, 我對我老公都有感情, 但佢有D嘢係比唔到我. 我男朋友係比到有返戀愛感覺.


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    時間久了,當有另一人出現,真很貪想地去試一下.


    ahey 請問妳現在幾耐可約會,他不需返澳門嗎?


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    係無咩時間可以見, 除了公司有function. 只有靠msn, 電話.


    ===============================================================實好掛住啦,我想疲此都有feeling,如覺得負擔得來繼續lor,他點諗,當然對妳有feel,但只為親親定真心找情人知己,妳才清楚.




  • By the way, I am not saying no one should divorce. Yet, betraying a husband just because of being bored and want some spices in life is just not a good enough cause. You can try to find things fun to re-charge the marriage instead.





    Imagine, this guy will one day become boring to you even if you guys finally got together. You wanna have another affair few years down the road?





    There are a lot of things in life bigger than this. More importantly, living a life without priority straight will usually ends up in deep sorrow. We have to know we can never have all. ;-)



  • it is a personal choice.





    some people disagree as it is immoral (betray, cheating).


    some people agree as 'i' am the master (enjoy, pleasant).





    the world changes, the time changes, both husband and wife are possible going to have an affair, as long as they know and be responsible for the consequence arising out of the affair, it is good enough.





    don't cry and regret if "東窗事發"







  • 我諗男人好, 女人好. 比著你成日對住個悶老公或囉嗦既黃面婆,你都想有一刻的的激情卦, 吾需要講到罪大惡極咁誇張!



  • Pass By





    So sad, totally agreed your opinion, but seem the "ahey" and "coco" are fully enjoying this kind of relationship, and never response to your advice.





    We all know the world is changing in every min, every second...etc etc & become more complex. But if we just think for ourselves only, being that selfish, what a sad world it would be!!!!!!!!!!!! sigh sigh sigh



  • tinny replied at 2011-08-23 2:34 pm


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    我諗男人好, 女人好. 比著你成日對住個悶老公或囉嗦既黃面婆,你都想有一刻的的激情卦, 吾需要講到罪大惡極咁誇張!


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    tks.



  • 我都想好似你咁, 但係我個悶蛋老公眅到實, 去街都問長問短, 朋友都吾比見, 如果你堅持要出, 回來就有氣你受了! 所以都好羡慕你, 可以有番戀愛感覺.



  • tinny 4:00pm aug 23, 2011 我都想好似你咁, 但係我個悶蛋老公眅到實, 去街都問長問短, 朋友都吾比見, 如果你堅持要出, 回來就有氣你受了! 所以都好羡慕你, 可以有番戀愛感覺.


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    而家仲有D咁管老婆既老公既...!!??


    管老公既就大把



  • 因為我都幾多人昅, 所以我老公驚我比人昅左去掛



  • tinny replied at 2011-08-23 2:34 pm


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    我諗男人好, 女人好. 比著你成日對住個悶老公或囉嗦既黃面婆,你都想有一刻的的激情卦, 吾需要講到罪大惡極咁誇張!


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    想有一刻的的激情,不等於要實行.



  • tinny replied at 2011-08-23 4:00 pm


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    我都想好似你咁, 但係我個悶蛋老公眅到實, 去街都問長問短, 朋友都吾比見, 如果你堅持要出, 回來就有氣你受了! 所以都好羡慕你, 可以有番戀愛感覺.


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    Hi tinny,


    How r u? Can we chat through email or msn? I think chatting in msn or email. Your husband will not complain or find out. Please add my email/msn - frank2@she.com. Hope we can find some matching points to share.



  • tinny replied at 2011-08-23 4:00 pm


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    我都想好似你咁, 但係我個悶蛋老公眅到實, 去街都問長問短, 朋友都吾比見, 如果你堅持要出, 回來就有氣你受了! 所以都好羡慕你, 可以有番戀愛感覺.


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    我都係同佢日夠生情, 先有戀愛感覺.


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