How to break up with your SL? (I am a girl)
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I want to break up with my SL, but I dun know how can do it better.
Actually I like him very much, but I found that he is still looking for other gals.
I feel very upset and I think I should leave........
Anyone has good suggestion?
(Please dun leave me msn, I just wanna chat here, thanks)
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Erina,
just tell him clear about this. cut it short if you really want to end up this relationship
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you can tell him u find out hes looking for other girls
and you dont like it
if he wont stop, u will no long be his SL
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just ask him to stop finding other gals if not, you will leave him politely and be friend after separated lor .........
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無辦法...因為同sl太開心
一齊時無煩腦...又唔使付責任
好難甩身...除非車窗事發比雙方另一伴撞破...被迫分開
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Happened same to me before. I just told him I found out the truth and I will give him time to interview all the candidates first. Then good luck to him and bye bye.
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我地既關係雖然無future commitment, 但我自問作為secret lover唔算差, 起碼我除左佢之外, 無搞三搞四, 絕對既faithful, 因為我覺得要respect 同protect 大家.
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:23 am
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我地既關係雖然無future commitment, 但我自問作為secret lover唔算差, 起碼我除左佢之外, 無搞三搞四, 絕對既faithful, 因為我覺得要respect 同protect 大家.
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啱呀, 佢搵另一個女仔, 對你唔好
不過你地平時應該有用condom?
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我覺得呢度既男仕好多都唔尊重sl, 得到一個之後仲想有第二個.
其實我又唔使佢娶我, 我只係想一齊開開心心, 同有人關心下
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if you can leave him... that's fine... @@
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snash
有, 我地有用
其實我一年前已經發覺, 不過我喜歡同佢一齊既感覺, 所以無出聲, but我而家忍無可忍
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u eat some shxt then kiss him in the mouth, he wll leave ga la.
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:26 am
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我覺得呢度既男仕好多都唔尊重sl, 得到一個之後仲想有第二個.
其實我又唔使佢娶我, 我只係想一齊開開心心, 同有人關心下
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係嘅, 上得網搵sl都係想玩完就算
想佢地關心下你都真係唔易
就算出黎玩都未必開心
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:23 am
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我地既關係雖然無future commitment, 但我自問作為secret lover唔算差, 起碼我除左佢之外, 無搞三搞四, 絕對既faithful, 因為我覺得要respect 同protect 大家.
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Totally agree with you. This is also the point that I cannot stand for it.
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:28 am
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snash
有, 我地有用
其實我一年前已經發覺, 不過我喜歡同佢一齊既感覺, 所以無出聲, but我而家忍無可忍
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咁你都識保護自己
你都唔知佢出面有幾多其他女仔
有病都唔知...
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我真的好唔開心.......點解呢度既男人可以咁, 我從來沒要求過任何promise, 但係佢至少要respect 我, 如果佢想搵第二個, 可以直接同我講, 我絕對會走的
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男人天生就係咸濕...一個邊會夠
所以要分開sl....sp同ons
但係玩要玩得專重D...唔可以比人知
你sl真係唔得
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:31 am
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我真的好唔開心.......點解呢度既男人可以咁, 我從來沒要求過任何promise, 但係佢至少要respect 我, 如果佢想搵第二個, 可以直接同我講, 我絕對會走的
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佢就係唔想你知囉
明知你知左一定唔開心
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Talk to him directly
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doggod
起碼唔好俾我知......
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snash
好難唔知, 佢用同一個msn, 個下我覺嬲
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超嬲
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:34 am
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snash
好難唔知, 佢用同一個msn, 個下我覺嬲
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咁佢好似想你知咁喎, 佢係咪想唔要你呀?
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維持到幾耐.?
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:35 am
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超嬲
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係咪佢都想breakup呀?
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doggod replied at 2011-07-26 11:31 am
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男人天生就係咸濕...一個邊會夠
所以要分開sl....sp同ons
但係玩要玩得專重D...唔可以比人知
你sl真係唔得
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on9 peolpe talking on99
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but SL is not gf wor.
Part of being SL is not to mind if the other person has more girls / guys?
But if you really want to, just talk to him and tell him how you feel. And say you should stop seeing each other.
Or, just not pick up calls / answer back, when he tried to find you.
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佢用得同一個 EMAIL, 預左你會見到.... 佢係咪當你係SP...??
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咁你sl近期又有貨...又氹得掂D女
比你知都無所謂...你唔玩仲有大把女玩
覺得無咩所謂....
你估出面個條on99...淨係識講人on 99
夠膽就出真名見人...條o能樣淨係識周圍起火頭
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:35 am
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超嬲
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唔洗嬲啦...
最多以後唔搵佢
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doggod replied at 2011-07-26 11:42 am
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咁你sl近期又有貨...又氹得掂D女
比你知都無所謂...你唔玩仲有大把女玩
覺得無咩所謂....
你估出面個條on99...淨係識講人on 99
夠膽就出真名見人...條o能樣淨係識周圍起火頭
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on9 people is on9 people,never change just because you are onlun79 people
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snash
我都唔知, 我只係覺得個心好重, 其實我知道自已既地位沒咩資格過問, 所以咁耐以黎我都無出過聲, 我忍左成年, 亦唔開心左成年. 既然佢俾唔到我希望既, 我寧願喊足一個星期都唔想咁樣落去, 再係咁我會痴線
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well, have you talk to him about your concerns? at least give him a chance to talk. if he is really seeing others, then you can make the call if you can’t stand that, right?
Just my 2 cents
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:50 am
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snash
我都唔知, 我只係覺得個心好重, 其實我知道自已既地位沒咩資格過問, 所以咁耐以黎我都無出過聲, 我忍左成年, 亦唔開心左成年. 既然佢俾唔到我希望既, 我寧願喊足一個星期都唔想咁樣落去, 再係咁我會痴線
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其實大家出黎都係想開心
如果覺得個心好重, 就已經違背左sl嘅purpose啦
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我希望可以處理得好d, 唔想不歡而散, 亦唔想影晌大家既生活, 做返最普通既朋友就可以了
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我甚至連佢最基本既關心都得唔到......可能我真係好差,連佢少少既care都無
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:54 am
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我希望可以處理得好d, 唔想不歡而散, 亦唔想影晌大家既生活, 做返最普通既朋友就可以了
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如果你決定左, 開心見誠同佢講囉
佢一定會好後悔
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snash replied at 2011-07-26 11:52 am
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:50 am
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snash
我都唔知, 我只係覺得個心好重, 其實我知道自已既地位沒咩資格過問, 所以咁耐以黎我都無出過聲, 我忍左成年, 亦唔開心左成年. 既然佢俾唔到我希望既, 我寧願喊足一個星期都唔想咁樣落去, 再係咁我會痴線
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其實大家出黎都係想開心
如果覺得個心好重, 就已經違背左sl嘅purpose啦
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also on9 people talking on99
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應該連最普通朋友你都唔可以做
因為係你鐘意佢...分開左做朋友
你只會陣唔中都掛住佢...佢約你都一樣會出返去
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snash
我都希望佢會後悔, 起碼俾我知道我都唔係咁差.
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doggod replied at 2011-07-26 11:57 am
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應該連最普通朋友你都唔可以做
因為係你鐘意佢...分開左做朋友
你只會陣唔中都掛住佢...佢約你都一樣會出返去
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on9 is on9 doesnt change??
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我最怕見到佢我會好心軟......
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其實只要清清楚楚就可以了, 我寧願佢直接d唔要我, 好過拖泥帶水
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:58 am
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snash
我都希望佢會後悔, 起碼俾我知道我都唔係咁差.
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what do u think who you are?will get 後悔,you also onlun79 people,get hurt go eat shxt la,who you are,on9
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who you are
Yes, you are right, I am "nothing" in his eyes. So I need to wake up now
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Erina,
開心過 就是了
懂得離開 亦是學識愛人既一部份
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 12:03 pm
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who you are
Yes, you are right, I am "nothing" in his eyes. So I need to wake up now
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it seems alot of disturbance in this forum
Erina, do you want to talk in msn?
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依家係你仲愛佢嘛...佢做咩hurt你...你都一樣咁愛佢
走唔甩gala你...有無決心分開先你
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snash
Sure, if you dun mind to leave me your msn.
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Erina replied at 2011-07-26 11:56 am
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我甚至連佢最基本既關心都得唔到......可能我真係好差,連佢少少既care都無
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Then it's not good la.
Think he's treating you as SP than SL. Find another one la. Just tell him you don't want him to be part of your life anymore.