30+ 已婚人士集中营



  • Hi nice to meet you here.  Welcome to come by and chat.



  • OK



  • please count me in!



  • i don't like to be in a Concentration Camp



  • cc, what do u like then?



  • who does...?



  • Hi


    nice to meet you all



  • hahaha nice name~



  • mark replied at 2011-05-24 2:56 pm


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    cc, what do u like then?


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    Fun Camp lor



  • hi hi, good afternoon everybody



  • Karl


    are u talking about my name or the thread?? haha


    or both??



  • 大家好!!!入嚟報吓到先



  • hi all, how's married life?



  • so far so good



  • LoLa


    I was talkin about the thread's title, but your name is nice too~ haha



  • not too bad.



  • 生活淡淡似是湖水......



  • Here let's share the pros and cons of being married at this age. I'll go first, I get a stable family but sort of missing all the fun outside especially with ladies and even the good times with friends. I'm committed to a single person but after a while things get bored and there the craving for excitement. Miss the old days! What a dilemma.



  • Louis Saha replied at 2011-05-24 3:04 pm


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    hi hi, good afternoon everybody


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    hey, will u stay in Everton next season? lol


    just kidding~



  • 人夫 replied at 2011-05-24 3:14 pm


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    生活淡淡似是湖水......


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    有無咁慘!?



  • 各位好


    生活真的似清水,淡而無味



  • drink some saline, then



  • Aston


    I guess u dun have kid right?



  • Aston


    are u in your early 30s?



  • Kid is not really the issue. I don't know about others but my wife is great in every way but after a while there is always the itch of trying something different. I just want some change and stimulation. A deviation from the norm sort of, since everything is becoming so routine. Maybe there is always the urge for freedom deep down even after I got married.



  • 我結左婚 4 年幾,個女 3 歲大,都尚且仲有 d 漣漪喎~



  • Simply put, I'm in my 30s. =)



  • Aston


    what exactly is the "something different" u wanna try?



  • Aston


    more or less we are all in a routine life..




  • Lola replied at 2011-05-24 3:45 pm


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    Aston


    more or less we are all in a routine life..


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    yeah we eat, drink, sleep n piss....it's just the way we think



  • 30+ 報到~~





    背景: 結婚 10年 有2個小朋友





    頭幾年是幾開心因為始終都是新婚及後生活真的開始淡淡如水打算生個小朋友再令家庭加點動力~~ 初初都ok~~ 之後生活就更加透不到氣來每天的生活刻板過黑版...日日如是~~ 太太又將全副精神放左小朋友身上~~ 放工回家之後忙溫書, 忙沖涼, 忙睇功課, 忙練琴, 陪小朋友訓覺那機械式生活~~ 是悲定喜??



  • you should expect that before marriage!?



  • 如果大家可以重新再續選擇過,會唔會選做返單身?



  • There's a great spectrum of things I'll love to explore, ranging from affairs, group sex to learning sexaphone to traveling the world to studying for another degree in Oxbridge or the lvy's, all of which would be quite difficult to materialize. What about you? What are you all looking for?



  • smile replied at 2011-05-24 4:00 pm


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    如果大家可以重新再續選擇過,會唔會選做返單身?


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    i won't



  • smile replied at 2011-05-24 4:00 pm


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    如果大家可以重新再續選擇過,會唔會選做返單身?


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    不會~~ 生活上總一定遇上問題及不快世事豈盡人意呢~~



  • i just think that as one gets older, the responsibilities just get greater and greater. wonder how our parents got through it all...?



  • exactly



  • smile replied at 2011-05-24 4:00 pm


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    This is an excellent question I have been trying to answer for quite some time. You never realize the constraints of marriage until you have experienced it but at the same time there is the sense of security I have never felt when I was partying day and night during my single years, despite having many friends and female around me. All I can say is that I do dream about being single at times.



  • Jess replied at 2011-05-24 4:07 pm


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    i just think that as one gets older, the responsibilities just get greater and greater. wonder how our parents got through it all...?


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    你認為不是咩? 那人一出世就是越揹越多野~~ 讀書, 工作, 結婚, 生仔, 養父母, 為老來生活拼博........







  • karl replied at 2011-05-24 3:20 pm


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    Louis Saha replied at 2011-05-24 3:04 pm


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    hi hi, good afternoon everybody


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    hey, will u stay in Everton next season? lol


    just kidding~


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    for sure la, which clubs would sign a player who is in the age over 30? just like the thread name.





    Actually, i would have chosen to get married with my wife if i had another chance. Although the marriage life is quite bored, my kid and wife could give me a reason why I still need to survive in this world and in this company. Actually i tried to do something bad outside but u would know that the love from others are not more true than the woman waiting in my home.



  • smile replied at 2011-05-24 4:00 pm


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    如果大家可以重新再續選擇過,會唔會選做返單身?


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    我唔會





    講真,你睇我好我睇你好,單身有單身好雙身有雙身好


    我承認有時兩個人一齊都需要有空間,但係你揀左同一個人過下半世,就要負責任架啦,唔通真係無諗清楚就 say I do 咩





  • 我唔會





    講真,你睇我好我睇你好,單身有單身好雙身有雙身好


    我承認有時兩個人一齊都需要有空間,但係你揀左同一個人過下半世,就要負責任架啦,唔通真係無諗清楚就 say I do 咩


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    如果有個機會比你同你女同事出TRIP, 佢挑逗你, 你會?



  • glad i opened this topic to hear your perspectives



  • smile replied at 2011-05-24 4:00 pm


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    如果大家可以重新再續選擇過,會唔會選做返單身?


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    100%唔會



  • 已婚男 replied at 2011-05-24 3:53 pm


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    30+ 報到~~





    背景: 結婚 10年 有2個小朋友





    頭幾年是幾開心因為始終都是新婚及後生活真的開始淡淡如水打算生個小朋友再令家庭加點動力~~ 初初都ok~~ 之後生活就更加透不到氣來每天的生活刻板過黑版...日日如是~~ 太太又將全副精神放左小朋友身上~~ 放工回家之後忙溫書, 忙沖涼, 忙睇功課, 忙練琴, 陪小朋友訓覺那機械式生活~~ 是悲定喜??


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    有得你咁做, 你已經好幸福, 仲要求d 咩? 有d 連希望都無呀!!!!



  • smile replied at 2011-05-24 4:26 pm


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    glad i opened this topic to hear your perspectives


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    相信大多數人都會同意不會揀回單身~~ 不如問下如果有機會~~ 會不會出軌??





  • 有得你咁做, 你已經好幸福, 仲要求d 咩? 有d 連希望都無呀!!!!


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    攪清楚一樣事我不是不感恩 而是講緊你聽生活淡淡的而已~~





    我亦不會同人比較畢竟人比人比死人



  • 路過 replied at 2011-05-24 4:26 pm


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    我唔會





    講真,你睇我好我睇你好,單身有單身好雙身有雙身好


    我承認有時兩個人一齊都需要有空間,但係你揀左同一個人過下半世,就要負責任架啦,唔通真係無諗清楚就 say I do 咩


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    如果有個機會比你同你女同事出TRIP, 佢挑逗你, 你會?


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    身為一個普通男人,我都唔敢寫包單俾你話我可以坐懷不亂,不過我可以話你知.........


























    我公司 d 女同事唔多掂架


    wakakakaka



  • 已婚男 replied at 2011-05-24 4:29 pm


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    smile replied at 2011-05-24 4:26 pm


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    glad i opened this topic to hear your perspectives


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    相信大多數人都會同意不會揀回單身~~ 不如問下如果有機會~~ 會不會出軌??


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    咁你一定會出啦~