will gals here sleep with the man in the first date ?



  • Kate makes some very valid points, this is just a platform and no different to other platforms. You are just as likely to meet good or bad people as in bars, clubs on the streets.

    Relationships are two way interactions, as someone mentioned earlier you can clap with one hand. How it all turns out depends on what each party brings into the relationship and what they want to take out



  • janet,

    you have dates with guys here?



  • janet



    i hv send u a e-mail,pls check



  • isn't it a funny name for a girl (mark selsby)????



  • NT replied at 2011-05-23 4:27 pm

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    janet replied at 2011-05-23 4:13 pm

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    Kate replied at 2011-05-23 4:05 pm

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    Sleeping with someone you meet off the net on the first date, is just like sleeping with someone you meet for the first time in a bar. The platform makes no difference.



    As to how the relationship will develop afterwards, it's like all other relationships as well. No difference.



    And yes, I've slept with guys from she.com on first date. But one very interesting observation, however, is that the ones that I keep seeing afterwards are the ones I didn't sleep with up front.

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    kate, i guess here will chat longer before met in real life .

    it means when u not sleep with him in first date, they'll look for u again ....man is like that less easy to get worth more , right ?

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    Haha, gender is fair now. I have similar experience. sleep in first date, then she did not find me again. but i am a man...so sad..

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    yes, gender is fair on this aspect... esp to the post 80



  • mark replied at 2011-05-23 4:40 pm

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    isn't it a funny name for a girl (mark selsby)????

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    Go and check who is markselby la !



  • janet



    u knwo lots poor man in here

    u need take care



  • yuki replied at 2011-05-23 4:47 pm

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    janet



    u knwo lots poor man in here

    u need take care

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    Yuki



    Not get your MAil yet



  • mark selby is either a US blues musician or an English snooker player according to wikipedia^^



  • In fact, I don't usually spend a long time chatting with the guys here either in forum or MSN. To be honest, only very few of them are good chats. Most people here can just manage hi/bye/what's for lunch sort of conversation.



    I don't know if the guys find the gals who sleep with them on first date easy to get and thus less precious. In fact, I can't care less. I only know that the fact that the man sleeps with me on our first date would make the man less desirable to me. I would guess he probably sleeps with everyone on first date.



    Whether or not they remember you or arrange a second date really have no inkling to whether you sleep with them I think. I think it's more about whether you are an interesting person and you offer what they are seeking.



  • janet



    [email protected]

    right?

    i send you one more time now,pls check



  • It is quite hard to find anyone on the same wavelength here and be able to carry on more than a casual chit chat. People here want to past the time of day so it's always hi/bye/what did you have for lunch/ what are you doing now.....etc.... after a few more of these conversations, the bad drives out the good



  • Kate replied at 2011-05-23 4:53 pm

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    In fact, I don't usually spend a long time chatting with the guys here either in forum or MSN. To be honest, only very few of them are good chats. Most people here can just manage hi/bye/what's for lunch sort of conversation.



    I don't know if the guys find the gals who sleep with them on first date easy to get and thus less precious. In fact, I can't care less. I only know that the fact that the man sleeps with me on our first date would make the man less desirable to me. I would guess he probably sleeps with everyone on first date.



    Whether or not they remember you or arrange a second date really have no inkling to whether you sleep with them I think. I think it's more about whether you are an interesting person and you offer what they are seeking.

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    you guys ar very sophiscated and know what u want ! Gd !



  • yuki replied at 2011-05-23 4:58 pm

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    janet



    [email protected]

    right?

    i send you one more time now,pls check

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    yup,

    something wrong with gmail ?



  • how about chatting with me??

    my MSN: [email protected]



  • yuki replied at 2011-05-23 4:58 pm

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    janet



    [email protected]

    right?

    i send you one more time now,pls check

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    yuki



    i've recieved some unwanted male email,

    could send with other account ?



  • Actually, why all the myth?



    I sleep with the guy because I fancy him. How many times we have dated before the sleeping together is unimportant. If I cease to fancy him, or he ceases to fancy me after the sleeping together, then we don't meet again. If we still fancy each other, then we keep seeing each other.



    Everything is very simple really.



  • sometimes these mails go to the "junk", check there!!



  • janet



    which account?

    my acc is [email protected]



    get it?



  • i guess yuki is a guy himself as well !!



  • yuki replied at 2011-05-23 5:08 pm

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    janet



    which account?

    my acc is [email protected]



    get it?

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    hm.. yahoo, she.com account ?



  • why all the myth,

    maybe some people are looking for more than sex and they believe having sex signals something more...and then it all gets very complicated



  • janet



    i leave my msn to you, u add me,ok?



    [email protected]



    (Only janet can add me)



  • yanXX



    i knwo who you are,pls go aways,dun hurt any gal in here again



  • Olsen, I think everyone is looking for more than just sex.





  • janet



    add me yet?


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