will gals here sleep with the man in the first date ?



  • How long u will date him before u have sex with man from she.com , either sex or relationship forum. 



    Hows the  'relationship'  move on before /after sex ?  Will he look for u again , or other way round ?



  • See how's the feeling, I keep with my sp for 3 yrs b4, how abt u?



  • ken, did u feel in the begining u will keep her 3 years ?





    i am new , no sex with man here yet



  • Usually around 2-3 dates to see if each fits together.


    (fastest of course is first date..)





    relationship moves like normal I guess, why would it be any different? (as long as it's not the deal that he's looking for SP , you are looking for bf sort of thing)




  • I am a man, and I just slept with someone here on the first date



  • Janet,


    Frankly, all abt feeling and communication! Think two won't keep long without one of them, do u think so?





    So, what you are searching here now?



  • play replied at 2011-05-22 11:07 pm


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    I am a man, and I just slept with someone here on the first date


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    woo... so u hit the target in every date ?



  • hi janet


    can we chat?


    I am new too :)



  • janet, I'm know a gal here and chat/sms around one month. First date for dinner and sex.



  • janet, not really.. but apparently she wanted that as much as I did, so... it's all natural



  • As long as one knows how to respect the girl and offer her options, she would let you know if she wanted that



  • feathers replied at 2011-05-22 11:04 pm


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    Usually around 2-3 dates to see if each fits together.


    (fastest of course is first date..)





    relationship moves like normal I guess, why would it be any different? (as long as it's not the deal that he's looking for SP , you are looking for bf sort of thing)


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    ic... agree !



  • zen_men replied at 2011-05-22 11:25 pm


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    janet, I'm know a gal here and chat/sms around one month. First date for dinner and sex.


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    woo...know more now ...



  • Janet,


    So u want sl fr here?



  • janet, actually what is your feeling to him.


    some gal want to see his outlook first and consider sex or not. But some gal already sweet chat with the guy long time, she trust him and don't mind to sex.



  • zen_men replied at 2011-05-22 11:25 pm


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    janet, I'm know a gal here and chat/sms around one month. First date for dinner and sex.


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    lol Trina?




  • Yes it all depends on your feeling, no one can force you really



  • No wonder that gal will sleep with the man in first date, may be they had been chatted for a while & know each other, pls chat with me smpthk@hotmail.com



  • Any gals say something pls ..?



  • janet replied at 2011-05-22 11:57 pm


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    Any gals say something pls ..?


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    the gal reply they did



  • depends what you wants. One hand can't make sound.



  • janet, u look like interest on that wor ....


    i think jz like ons la, but last longer


    did u tried ons b4 ?



  • Hi sleeplessgal, totally agree with u ar. All are adults and should know what should do or not, no one can push u!! May i chat with u before go to bed for sleep??



  • of coz, its up to my descision and choice !





    and i wanna know how open is the gals here ....


    how handle 'relationship' happened in here..



  • janet replied at 2011-05-23 12:21 am


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    of coz, its up to my descision and choice !





    and i wanna know how open is the gals here ....


    how handle 'relationship' happened in here..


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    If you are a new comer, I can told you more, pls add me for chat smpthk@hotmail.com



  • Gentle, do you know me?!?!?!



  • sleeplessgal, not yet la, haha.. Wanna to know you here, any chance?? Wanna to chat in MSN??



  • better phone chat, my friend!



  • sleeplessgal replied at 2011-05-23 12:31 am


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    better phone chat, my friend!


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    I want to get to know you too sleeplessgal!



  • Thanks gal, mind to add my MSN first and I can tell u my mobile number there : nicengentle@hotmail.com.hk



  • call me ~ 9 0 8 6 4 4 9 2


    msn : mikelwc2004@live.hk



  • how ?



  • janet





    hi,take carethis one





    i play she.com for long time


    most of man in here is bad man




  • 90% of the time the girl will sleep with me on the first date. After a few drinks and dinner. Afterall, we have express very clearly about our objective : sex.





    The dinner is just to verify the person in real.



  • Yuki, What do you mean by "bad man" ? Interested to know.



  • janet





    how old are you?


    what are you looking for?



  • yuki replied at 2011-05-23 3:55 pm


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    janet





    hi,take carethis one





    i play she.com for long time


    most of man in here is bad man


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    Thx... why did u get hurt but gals love bad man ...


    afterall not only in she ,i think hk man is really naughty



  • yuki replied at 2011-05-23 3:58 pm


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    janet





    how old are you?


    what are you looking for?


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    30+


    not ons , what about u look for ?



  • James replied at 2011-05-23 3:58 pm


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    Yuki, What do you mean by "bad man" ? Interested to know.


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    Really, then do you have time tonight for dinner?



  • janet





    some is very bad


    such as dun use comdom,after sex with you,will post the repot in she,and take ur nude pic under you dun know....





    u should take care



  • Janet,





    I do not know "fast match/fast sex" = bad.





    It is about how 2 together to enjoy. To me, bad sex is the only thing that is bad when 2 come out for sex.



  • Sleeping with someone you meet off the net on the first date, is just like sleeping with someone you meet for the first time in a bar. The platform makes no difference.





    As to how the relationship will develop afterwards, it's like all other relationships as well. No difference.





    And yes, I've slept with guys from she.com on first date. But one very interesting observation, however, is that the ones that I keep seeing afterwards are the ones I didn't sleep with up front.



  • Connie replied at 2011-05-23 4:04 pm


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    James replied at 2011-05-23 3:58 pm


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    Yuki, What do you mean by "bad man" ? Interested to know.


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    Really, then do you have time tonight for dinner?


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    hi Connie, tonight I am engaged for parents gathering. maybe we can chat more and exchange details before meeting up.





    gordonmoore1999@hotmail.com



  • yuki replied at 2011-05-23 4:04 pm


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    janet





    some is very bad


    such as dun use comdom,after sex with you,will post the repot in she,and take ur nude pic under you dun know....





    u should take care


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    OMG ! i got to watch out .





    Are they behave very decent before sex ? Could u tell they are such bad in the begining ?



  • simple..depending on feeling....for man, it may be easy to sleep with a girl for sex only. but it may be different for girls...anyway, the world is changing now...ons becomes more and more common....anyway, for safe sex...it's OK.



  • Kate replied at 2011-05-23 4:05 pm


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    Sleeping with someone you meet off the net on the first date, is just like sleeping with someone you meet for the first time in a bar. The platform makes no difference.





    As to how the relationship will develop afterwards, it's like all other relationships as well. No difference.





    And yes, I've slept with guys from she.com on first date. But one very interesting observation, however, is that the ones that I keep seeing afterwards are the ones I didn't sleep with up front.


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    kate, i guess here will chat longer before met in real life .


    it means when u not sleep with him in first date, they'll look for u again ....man is like that less easy to get worth more , right ?



  • janet





    i can share with you


    do u mind to talk in e-mail?


    cos i dun want to post it in here,i worry thiese bad man know who am i



  • janet





    very much agree with kate. no regular rules. different case by case..



  • janet replied at 2011-05-23 4:13 pm


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    Kate replied at 2011-05-23 4:05 pm


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    Sleeping with someone you meet off the net on the first date, is just like sleeping with someone you meet for the first time in a bar. The platform makes no difference.





    As to how the relationship will develop afterwards, it's like all other relationships as well. No difference.





    And yes, I've slept with guys from she.com on first date. But one very interesting observation, however, is that the ones that I keep seeing afterwards are the ones I didn't sleep with up front.


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    kate, i guess here will chat longer before met in real life .


    it means when u not sleep with him in first date, they'll look for u again ....man is like that less easy to get worth more , right ?


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    Haha, gender is fair now. I have similar experience. sleep in first date, then she did not find me again. but i am a man...so sad..




  • yuki replied at 2011-05-23 4:17 pm


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    janet





    i can share with you


    do u mind to talk in e-mail?


    cos i dun want to post it in here,i worry thiese bad man know who am i


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    Yuki





    could u leave your msn to this markselbyhk@gmail.com