同男友拍拖3年, 感覺越黎越疏黎



  • 以前一個係HK, 一個係大陸做野時, 日日都有電話, 5,6,日 一定會一齊

    而家兩個都係HK. 平日一個電話都冇

    周五各自出去

    SAT 等佢訓醒打黎睇下去邊

    冇拍拖就好似冇拍拖咁

    唉...



  • 可能就係淡左..





    但都需要其中一方去比返D新鮮感落去架~



  • 當佢同朋友飲野去到凌晨5,6點都OK


    同我出去. 去到7,8點就嗌累..


    我係好唔開心


    之前我生日, 仲會買禮物俾我. 今年呢? 叫我自己去買, 番黎俾番張單佢


    少少心思都唔放我度. 佢一D 都唔明點解找唔肯自己去買,亦都唔知自己真係咁傷砉左我


    仲有其他野,,我同朋友講, 佢反映..其實你地而家似SP多過拍拖


    果刻我真係想喊



  • whohavehopes: 我有試


    不過去得遠又話遠, 熱又熱, 凍又凍時


    我真係唔知可以點


    關心佢, 打電話俾佢, 唔夠2句就話好累/唔得閒


    真係好心灰意冷




  • then dont waste your time with him....



  • 是但一個無左個心,係無就無



  • 我好唔捨得....


    有時佢又會表現番少少, 好似真係你將你講既野聽入耳


    不過most of the time都係咁


    去到而家..呢個月, 我地除左SAT, SUN見面


    冇通過電話, 冇SMS..成日都覺得好孤單



  • 哎呀...我諗你至少要提出分手, 佢先會反醒一下E段關係..



  • I_am_fly : 我唔知道叫無心..


    其實佢本身就係一個大男人, 一個自私既人


    可能佢對我已經好好 (在他來說)


    但係我只想係要多DD ATTENTION



  • whohavehopes : 之前有嗌過一次大交, 真係分手. 我又搵番佢一齊


    跟住就變到而家咁



  • 咁你可以自己打電話比佢,係唔係兩句就唔講




  • 算吧啦`


    直接講出你既不滿.





    受夠就要走,


    "天涯上有更多的好情人仍然未抱"


    唔好因為唔捨得而MISS左身邊岩你既人.



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:09 am


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    咁你可以自己打電話比佢,係唔係兩句就唔講


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    10次有10次都係我打俾佢..次次都係佢唔夠兩句就收線


    話會打番俾我, 冇一次做到


    越打就越失望, 唔想再打



  • 其實係佢唔想聽...





    HEY~


    我訓喇~


    下次再傾~^^


    加油~!



  • whohavehopes replied at 2011-03-19 12:10 am


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    算吧啦`


    直接講出你既不滿.





    受夠就要走,


    "天涯上有更多的好情人仍然未抱"


    唔好因為唔捨得而MISS左身邊岩你既人.


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    講過好多次, 次次都係HIT 到我爆出黎


    我唔知佢明幾多...我唔係淨係WEEKEND 果幾個鐘開心就夠, 我想要人關心我


    可能佢覺得自己已娙好多野忙。已經俾左好時間我.但係點解佢俾哂佢D 時間屋企, 朋友..我永遠覺得自己係佢最唔重視果個



  • 你男朋友真係……無心肝



  • whohavehopes replied at 2011-03-19 12:12 am


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    其實係佢唔想聽...





    HEY~


    我訓喇~


    下次再傾~^^


    加油~!


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    thanks. gd night



  • 唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場





    我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am


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    你男朋友真係……無心肝


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    以前都會乙水下我..而家乜都冇哂...



  • 你有無諗你要有番多點專嚴,如果人唔重視你你都唔好感覺自己係咁唔值佢對你好



  • passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am


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    唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場





    我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........


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    我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?


    (我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:15 am


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    你有無諗你要有番多點專嚴,如果人唔重視你你都唔好感覺自己係咁唔值佢對你好


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    其實人係咪真係好犯賤? 我係度諗. 如果有一日我真係走左, 佢會唔會先會諗我



  • chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:16 am


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    passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am


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    唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場





    我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........


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    我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?


    (我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()


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    放鬆D拉...要喊就喊。喊完會覺空虛、赲,訓一覺個人會幪幪地...





    過一排就會慣,好似我咁



  • passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:22 am


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    chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:16 am


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    passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am


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    唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場





    我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........


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    我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?


    (我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()


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    放鬆D拉...要喊就喊。喊完會覺空虛、赲,訓一覺個人會幪幪地...





    過一排就會慣,好似我咁


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    其實如果真係左手, 我會舒服D. 起碼, 我會開始DATING. 唔使再留番WEEKEND俾佢...



  • 如果有日你走,就係完結…千其唔好理佢有無唔捨得


    無人天生出來係賤嘅



  • chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:24 am


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    passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:22 am


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    chrischi replied at 2011-03-19 12:16 am


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    passaway replied at 2011-03-19 12:13 am


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    唉.....你嘅情況同我以前一樣,無論我多努力,最後都係分手收場





    我今時今日都仲唔捨得..........


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    我真係好傷心. 但係點解佢唔明?


    (我次同人講, 我都忍住唔想喊, 但係係INTERNET 真係忍唔到...:'()


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    放鬆D拉...要喊就喊。喊完會覺空虛、赲,訓一覺個人會幪幪地...





    過一排就會慣,好似我咁


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    其實如果真係左手, 我會舒服D. 起碼, 我會開始DATING. 唔使再留番WEEKEND俾佢...


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    我以為只有我會咁,原來又多一個傻人...哈哈哈



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:25 am


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    如果有日你走,就係完結…千其唔好理佢有無唔捨得


    無人天生出來係賤嘅


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    我唔明, 點解有人對我, 我唔揀. 會唔捨一個放我係最低位置既人



  • 版主,我明日要番工都要先休息。


    想同我contact可以add我


    no.feel@live.hk





    good night 各位



  • I_am_fly replied at 2011-03-19 12:30 am


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    版主,我明日要番工都要先休息。


    想同我contact可以add我


    no.feel@live.hk





    good night 各位


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    nite. add u now



  • Chrischi


    can chat ?


    so boring and lonely




  • Wing replied at 2011-03-19 12:33 am


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    Chrischi


    can chat ?


    so boring and lonely


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    why? it's friday night?


    actually am pretty tired after cryin



  • can add me in msn?



  • Wing,


    "SAT 等佢訓醒打黎睇下去邊"


    可以一齊訓醒HEA 住食TEA, 都正架..


    睇你點轉角度去睇~



  • Wing replied at 2011-03-19 12:38 am


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    can add me in msn?


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    it would be nicer to chat here~moreof us can share the topic:)



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:41 am


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    Wing,


    "SAT 等佢訓醒打黎睇下去邊"


    可以一齊訓醒HEA 住食TEA, 都正架..


    睇你點轉角度去睇~


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    we used to


    不過當上次分手, 佢講左俾佢mum分左手. 就冇再過去佢屋企了



  • chrischi,





    do you tell him directly about the problem?


    tell him directly of what you feel?



  • 分手又關阿媽事..


    佢既理由, 咁即係你地無將來啦, 一世都唔會見家長..


    咁點解仲要落去?


    你又唔覺得開心, 又唔似有將來..



  • marco replied at 2011-03-19 12:47 am


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    chrischi,





    do you tell him directly about the problem?


    tell him directly of what you feel?


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    i did. i tried to express to him in a calm way


    seems he has improved a bit, but then it's getting worse again.


    i knew i would lose my temper & become out of control if i told him verbally, so i texted him. but he just ignored it and gave me no reply which had triggered our big fight n led to the breakup last time.


    but since then, i just felt like we ar getting apart...



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:50 am


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    分手又關阿媽事..


    佢既理由, 咁即係你地無將來啦, 一世都唔會見家長..


    咁點解仲要落去?


    你又唔覺得開心, 又唔似有將來..


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    佢好錫佢媽媽, 咩都會同佢講


    PLUS, 佢同佢媽媽一齊住, 我果時過去佢度, 都係有同佢媽媽一齊



  • 如果真係乜都同阿媽講, 你地復合又唔講?


    或者你應先反思下佢愛你幾多...




  • I think it is better to discuss, chat and share directly face to face , verbally.


    If he cares about the relationship, he will do something continuously.


    otherwise, 算拉, 及早make decision and don't waste your 青春



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:53 am


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    如果真係乜都同阿媽講, 你地復合又唔講?


    或者你應先反思下佢愛你幾多...


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    :'(



  • marco replied at 2011-03-19 12:55 am


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    I think it is better to discuss, chat and share directly face to face , verbally.


    If he cares about the relationship, he will do something continuously.


    otherwise, 算拉, 及早make decision and don't waste your 青春


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    be frank, i think it's just him. unless either of us changes, or otherwise, i wont be realy happy in the relationship


    but just emotionaly i cant let go..n stil hope that he woul suddnely understnad one day



  • 開心又唔開心, 又似無將來, 唔見得光..


    你又大方, 竟然唔嬲, 可能你都要自私少少, 佢先會愛你, 男人係犯賤~



  • Also, one more thing is 你吳好call or text him 一排, 如果佢都吳find you , 甘可以bye bye la


    because 佢都無heart to keep the relationship



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 12:58 am


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    開心又唔開心, 又似無將來, 唔見得光..


    你又大方, 竟然唔嬲, 可能你都要自私少少, 佢先會愛你, 男人係犯賤~


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    都唔知係咪真係有得落去,..冇謂又來來回回咁....


    其實我自己越黎越心灰意冷



  • marco replied at 2011-03-19 12:59 am


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    Also, one more thing is 你吳好call or text him 一排, 如果佢都吳find you , 甘可以bye bye la


    because 佢都無heart to keep the relationship


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    i've had been stopped from calling or txt him.


    anyway, he didnt call me neither. but he called once on wed when it's getting cold n remind me to dress more. but then hurry to off again.





    anyway, he will call me tmr after he woke up i think.



  • I agree 男人係犯賤


    although I am 男人


    有時冷淡D係一種相處方法



  • 因你以佢為中心, 佢變得無所謂..


    你圍緊佢轉呢



  • Rollei replied at 2011-03-19 1:02 am


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    因你以佢為中心, 佢變得無所謂..


    你圍緊佢轉呢


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    嗯..所以我冇再主動搵佢了