一個心情好差、好差既男人......



  • 我新黎,各位好~~~~~

    好想搵人傾下計......

    平日如過著忙碌的生活,工時長,壓力大........ 表面好硬正,好tough,但內心卻自覺生活開始失衡........

    特別係,近來發覺自己實在太少把時間留給「自己」了..... 加上倦勤,滿臉愁容...... 聽著 radio 播著 “因為愛情”,心中不自覺地疼起來......

    Anyway, 心情好差.... 真係好想好想搵人傾下計....



  • 兄台, 唔開心就出街玩玩啦 ^^



  • Thanks, will try to, but you know.... the mood is just not there...



  • hi



  • 一念天堂, 一念地獄, we as human are more capable than what we think we can, cheer up...



  • dofu...definitely something i miss from HK, hihi! ^^



  • thanks a lot for the encouraging words, you guys are so kind-hearted....





    real thing is.... i'm kinda lost....



  • i was there... take time... add oil... do sth u like to do,


    do sth you haven't done...




  • just do something you like,


    e.g. listening music or eat some nice food


    have a walk and breath some fresh air will help also.



  • blue replied at 2011-03-07 8:02 pm


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    i was there... take time... add oil... do sth u like to do,


    do sth you haven't done...


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    hey, blue... thanks, it's warm... you've been there...? like how? what went wrong with you?



  • Hermioneee replied at 2011-03-07 8:03 pm


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    just do something you like,


    e.g. listening music or eat some nice food


    have a walk and breath some fresh air will help also.


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    Thanks Hermioneee.... yeah, will try to do some things I like..... but you know, the more I listen to songs, the bitter I feel sometimes...




  • Dofu replied at 2011-03-07 7:36 pm


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    hi


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    Hi, back.



  • depends what sort of music you are listening to ^^


    anyway, chatting here is a good idea, right ?




  • Hermioneee replied at 2011-03-07 8:09 pm


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    depends what sort of music you are listening to ^^


    anyway, chatting here is a good idea, right ?


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    Chatting here is fine.... talking over the phone will certainly be more comforting I guess....



  • haha maybe i guess XDDD



  • Hermioneee replied at 2011-03-07 8:18 pm


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    haha maybe i guess XDDD


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    Em... what do you wanna guess....??



  • good question !



  • Hermioneee replied at 2011-03-07 8:18 pm


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    haha maybe i guess XDDD


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    Hope you're not as down as myself anyways.... still at work or what?



  • home already



  • Hermioneee replied at 2011-03-07 8:21 pm


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    home already


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    sounds so lovely! home alone?



  • no, with my family, waiting for dinner



  • Hermioneee replied at 2011-03-07 8:27 pm


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    no, with my family, waiting for dinner


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    so nice to have somebody cook for you huh.... bet you must be a lovely daughter of some lucky parents...




  • hahaha, don't be too jealous XDD


    Have you eaten?




  • Hermioneee replied at 2011-03-07 8:30 pm


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    hahaha, don't be too jealous XDD


    Have you eaten?


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    not yet, still in office... wrapping up work, involuntarily...



  • @.@ concentrate on your work then, finish it then have a nice dinner. Or you have to sleep in your office..........



  • Hermioneee replied at 2011-03-07 8:34 pm


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    @.@ concentrate on your work then, finish it then have a nice dinner. Or you have to sleep in your office..........


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    hey, r u on MSN or something?



  • give me yours, i will add you.



  • feel better today?



  • just passerby and see ur thread. do u feel better day, Moore?



  • sometimes i will feel lost as u do! really feel tired of my daily life, just work work work and work, no more free time for myself! :(



  • 點解括住“自己”兩個字, 有特別意思嗎?



  • haven't thought that my thread can still catch some attention here.... wow.... i'm indeed feeling a slight sense of warmth now.... thanks everyone =)





    Hermioneee ~~ thanks so much for catching me again, seriously! feeling a bit better now, kinda trying to "release" myself a bit (i.e. 睇開d), should a long way to go i can tell.





    ariel ~~ thanks for your kind words too. hey, know what, what you said is simply what i'm going through, i'm totally "lost"! just couldnt' find a way out... got stuck in life... so how do you comfort yourself?





    茶 ~~ thanks for dropping me a line here, and you're smart, "自己" did come with some sort of meanings... i guess i'm feeling that i can't really manipulate myself, for me, life is like a lock-up, no escape at all...



  • Hi Moore,





    Spend much time for yourself..... sometimes, be selfish. Treat yourself better. Plan to have a crazy day on friday with friends!





    Daisy



  • 我唔識點安慰你,但從你的字裹我感受到你好辛苦。你好年輕?



  • Daisy replied at 2011-03-08 11:50 pm


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    Hi Moore,





    Spend much time for yourself..... sometimes, be selfish. Treat yourself better. Plan to have a crazy day on friday with friends!





    Daisy


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    Hi there Daisy, thanks, you're absolute right with your advice, and actually I've repeatedly thought about all these, but even so, life is still very unbalanced..... a good example is... if you're still at the office on a fine lovely friday night at 1am chasing up calls with some US people to close a deal while all your friends are having a good time in LKF, how will you feel...?



  • 茶 replied at 2011-03-08 11:56 pm


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    我唔識點安慰你,但從你的字裹我感受到你好辛苦。你好年輕?


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    Thanks for trying to understand my feelings, that's already comforting! =) Thanks, truly.





    年輕... well, I'm in my early 30s la, and the thing is, I don't find myself "young" anymore.... I'm so lacking of a optimistic, energetic mindset....



  • Hi Moore,





    I have the same feeling like you recently,


    Hope you feel better very sonn



  • 你滿意你份工的人工和前途??


    咁唯有繼續付出,做只勤力小蜜蜂@~~~



  • wasabi replied at 2011-03-09 12:08 am


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    Hi Moore,





    I have the same feeling like you recently,


    Hope you feel better very sonn


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    thanks wasabi. so you're also experiencing some sort of same feelings as well? mind telling me (us) more...?



  • MORE MORE replied at 2011-03-09 12:09 am


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    你滿意你份工的人工和前途??


    咁唯有繼續付出,做只勤力小蜜蜂@~~~


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    份工的人工... well, very satisfied, frankly, no greedy sense, it's just that i got stuck in life...





    份工的前途... well, looks bright, but, again, i've lost my life, or even worse, my soul...



  • 我份工人工奀,無前途,仲好準時放工





    你要同我交換? wakaka~~~~





    食得鹹魚抵得渴呀,兄台



  • 這樣的情況唔會係永遠既, 改變唔到就只有想辦法舒緩下, 三十幾係男人既開始喎, 大把時間嘆呀第日.



  • still here



  • 我又聽完“因為愛情”,流左兩滴眼淚。



  • folks, its normal to be confused when u r in your thirties...once u reached 40, that's when things clear up...不惑之年嘛... :)



  • or in other words, 果頭近, 仲有咩好煩 :p



  • 茶 replied at 2011-03-09 2:05 am


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    我又聽完“因為愛情”,流左兩滴眼淚。


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    oh, tears shed....? u know... i almost had the same thing last night.... left office, reached home at around 3am in the morning... was then asking myself (again) in shower, "what the fxxk are you really looking for?!"





    today, i heard Eason's 苦瓜 accidentally, my heart turned even more sour... =(



  • moremore replied at 2011-03-09 12:22 am


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    我份工人工奀,無前途,仲好準時放工





    你要同我交換? wakaka~~~~





    食得鹹魚抵得渴呀,兄台


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    兄台, not kidding, i really wish that i can "change" my work with someone's...





    i just don't how to describe my hectic mode when it comes to me... when you get to a point where you don't even have time to sleep or to have dinner or simply have a drink with your friends... i'm sure you will start thinking the same thing... yes, money talks, but it also takes away your life somehow



  • bad mood strikes again? I know... it gets real nasty sometimes. Mine is striking me too. Sigh ><



  • glad to hear that Moore ^^