曾經有一個SP, 維持了一年, 當中有苦有樂



  • 曾經有一個SP, 維持了一年, 當中有苦有樂

    但後來我有男朋友

    就結束了

    你們曾經試過嗎



  • meiaa





    我試過因為怕太投入而放棄



  • 未試過..


    你地一星期見面多唔多?


    難唔難維繫?



  • 明志決定



  • KK replied at 2011-01-23 3:54 pm


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    meiaa





    我試過因為怕太投入而放棄


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    好容易就出左真感情



  • Meiaa,





    Yup..have similar experience



  • It is so easy 出左真感情 ar...but in fact..if have no 真感情..i think i cannot sex with her happily...



  • 雖然知道男人係可以有性冇愛


    (當然女人都可以)


    但那時我常常想,


    一年了


    難道當中真的沒有過愛?


    那時自己很傻


    常常問自己, 問朋友這個問題


    當然是愛得不夠




  • So far..me and her still a close fd that could meet and chat...i think there must be love in between..just not more than normal bf and gf...



  • 學會苦中做樂, 梗就祗有樂..



  • right now u do not have SP/SL la..i think you dun need to think about this questions anymore.



  • 女人沒有怠感覺的話, 根本就不可能維持關係



  • 只要大家享受,大家都有滿足....


    咁咪夠law..



  • just4fun replied at 2011-01-23 3:55 pm


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    未試過..


    你地一星期見面多唔多?


    難唔難維繫?


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    2星期見一次左右


    大家那時都SINGLE


    其實唔難維繫


    當中曾經在半年時吵過STOP左




  • 我都試過,維繫左半年


    因對方老公知知地,STOP左



  • Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:02 pm


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    right now u do not have SP/SL la..i think you dun need to think about this questions anymore.


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    JUST TALK TALK~



  • 我覺得sp / sl 關係入面





    就算真係「愛」左





    都唔可以講出口










  • 你們男人的心態是什麼




  • smMansm,





    I don't think a realtionship could be simple like that....


    just my opinion..



  • 男人會放感情的少之又少



  • 我sp要結婚, 所以散咗



  • 心態是...seeems so happy to have a gal that very close relationship with u...more than a real best fd but really can relax and can talk anything...the feeling during meet is good lor...





    not everytime meet is sex ka...dunno how to describe..feeling good.



  • 所以話呢...


    SP...係一種關係. PARTNER 嘛!


    初初唔岩既, 又邊會走埋一齊..





    所以分開既時候...又係會傷心既..


    加上你地都一齊左一段日子..


    點都會有感情啦..





    人黎架MA..



  • 心態係想有個人ENJOY SEX


    平時可以係好好朋友,或者SL咁







  • 做得SP


    就要懂得GAME的RULE


    其實他條件很好


    是受異性歡迎類型


    我常問他為何還不快快找個女仔拍拖


    他說有靚的性格好的


    但就是冇 "FEEL"







  • sure need obey game rule la...cannot give trouble to each other..





    for sp..one more thing is..can try more different thing in sex lor...something u may not dare to try with gf/wife but may dare to suggest with sp lor..



  • Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:14 pm


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    心態是...seeems so happy to have a gal that very close relationship with u...more than a real best fd but really can relax and can talk anything...the feeling during meet is good lor...





    not everytime meet is sex ka...dunno how to describe..feeling good.


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    對~ AGREE





    我付出左真感情


    明知不應該但完全控制不到自己




  • same here....



  • 係架,搵女朋友係要有FEEL


    有時你對個女仔有FEEL,反相又未必岩佢





    但SP唔駛咁要高REQUIREMENT,唔駛十全十美


    對SP都會有容忍



  • meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:20 pm


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    Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:14 pm


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    心態是...seeems so happy to have a gal that very close relationship with u...more than a real best fd but really can relax and can talk anything...the feeling during meet is good lor...





    not everytime meet is sex ka...dunno how to describe..feeling good.


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    對~ AGREE





    我付出左真感情


    明知不應該但完全控制不到自己


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    Ok ka..付出左真感情 will make both get closer..feeling in sex also more excited...however, most important is both will obey the rule ma..





    But..finally when separate or stop sp/sl relationship, there is still a feeling of "lost"..





    to me..after stop..can do back fd is good ar^^



  • Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:18 pm


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    sure need obey game rule la...cannot give trouble to each other..





    for sp..one more thing is..can try more different thing in sex lor...something u may not dare to try with gf/wife but may dare to suggest with sp lor..


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    那我不會


    我只有過他一個SP


    在SEX上其實沒有分別


    我會好似女朋友咁咩都OK~





    我愛一個人就是完全付出


    又坦又勇那類型


    SO同男朋友SEX方面不會有什麼不敢的~


    我覺得一樣啊




  • meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:26 pm


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    Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:18 pm


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    sure need obey game rule la...cannot give trouble to each other..





    for sp..one more thing is..can try more different thing in sex lor...something u may not dare to try with gf/wife but may dare to suggest with sp lor..


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    那我不會


    我只有過他一個SP


    在SEX上其實沒有分別


    我會好似女朋友咁咩都OK~





    我愛一個人就是完全付出


    又坦又勇那類型


    SO同男朋友SEX方面不會有什麼不敢的~


    我覺得一樣啊


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    then..it is my own case lor..heee..for example..i wanna try some kind of toy or role play uniform for so long time..but i only dare to suggest to my sl in the past..heeee



  • 我絕對不會與他做回朋友


    太危險了吧


    我跟很有SP 經驗的人不同


    我不是高手


    只是一個曾經試過一段這樣的關係


    你們男人或者不知道


    那時雖然我是SINGLE


    但我有很大很大的羞愧心


    覺得自己很不好



  • 覺得自己很不好?為什麼呢?


    你地大家都係SINGLE , SP只係LABEL


    實際上同男女朋友冇分別



  • 可能我只有一段


    所以我又不會降低要求...


    HAHA



  • meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:31 pm


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    我絕對不會與他做回朋友


    太危險了吧


    我跟很有SP 經驗的人不同


    我不是高手


    只是一個曾經試過一段這樣的關係


    你們男人或者不知道


    那時雖然我是SINGLE


    但我有很大很大的羞愧心


    覺得自己很不好


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    oic...wish u do not feel yourself like that right now...


    start a secret relationship surely impact your moral standard la...


    but if started already, make the relationship clearly separate from your normal life should be ok..


    i am not a 很有SP經驗的人 but i just know the rule only..





    So, u stop the sp/sl relationship after u have bf..coz u feel it is bad to keep 1 more sp when u have bf?



  • 如果我與他不是SINGLE


    我100%不會同他開始....SP


    我會覺得大家不是情侶


    有SEX就不對咁




  • Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:12 pm


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    smMansm,





    I don't think a realtionship could be simple like that....


    just my opinion..


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    當然,


    大家投入幾多, 付出幾多/ 期望幾多,


    好在乎各自的心態,





    感情好多時就係,連自己都估計唔到自己原來己經泥足深陷


    講係易,


    而情感的付出, 一d 都唔易控制....





    sp/sl,就係想大家的關係簡單d,


    又大家能夠滿足大家





    如果要搞到咁複雜....


    點解唔乾脆拍拖wo.....





    ps, 個人意見..



  • meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:34 pm


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    可能我只有一段


    所以我又不會降低要求...


    HAHA


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    yup ar..why need lower the standard for having sp lei?


    have feel sin consider la..



  • meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:36 pm


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    如果我與他不是SINGLE


    我100%不會同他開始....SP


    我會覺得大家不是情侶


    有SEX就不對咁


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    oic..that meant u can more or less treat him as "bf" like relationship lor..





    大家不是情侶, 有SEX就不對咁


    This is most ppls thinking ar^^



  • 有男朋友


    當然不會再要這段關係


    或許同他那時給人的感覺同一般人拍拖沒什麼分別


    有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊


    NO LA


    我們從來不會說"我愛你"這句死?


    在街上當然不會拖


    不會見彼此的朋友


    是好似FD咁


    只是多了SEX呢PART



  • meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:42 pm


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    有男朋友


    當然不會再要這段關係


    或許同他那時給人的感覺同一般人拍拖沒什麼分別


    有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊


    NO LA


    我們從來不會說"我愛你"這句死?


    在街上當然不會拖


    不會見彼此的朋友


    是好似FD咁


    只是多了SEX呢PART


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    Right...that is really a SEX FRIEND relationship..level higher than SP!!





    I like such relationship more:P



  • Stepshk replied at 2011-01-23 4:44 pm


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    meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:42 pm


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    有男朋友


    當然不會再要這段關係


    或許同他那時給人的感覺同一般人拍拖沒什麼分別


    有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊


    NO LA


    我們從來不會說"我愛你"這句死?


    在街上當然不會拖


    不會見彼此的朋友


    是好似FD咁


    只是多了SEX呢PART


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    Right...that is really a SEX FRIEND relationship..level higher than SP!!





    I like such relationship more:P


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    You said "有時個FD串我~ 你地根本就係一齊"


    Maybe coz u both single...u feel that is more ok to have sex relationship with him and will not shame too much..



  • 當然,


    大家投入幾多, 付出幾多/ 期望幾多,


    好在乎各自的心態,





    感情好多時就係,連自己都估計唔到自己原來己經泥足深陷


    講係易,


    而情感的付出, 一d 都唔易控制....





    sp/sl,就係想大家的關係簡單d,


    又大家能夠滿足大家





    如果要搞到咁複雜....


    點解唔乾脆拍拖wo.....





    ps, 個人意見..


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    所以, 我從來都覺得


    SP變不到做情侶


    就是因為愛得不夠


    坦白說


    我當然期望過與他真的一起


    因為我付出了真心


    其實那時不是不痛苦的







  • meiaa





    作為男人





    我覺得一段sp / sl 關係





    用以彌補自己生活上的不足





    但唔可以影響固有生活





    亦唔可以傷害任何人





    以平常心同相信為基礎



  • meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:46 pm


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    當然,


    大家投入幾多, 付出幾多/ 期望幾多,


    好在乎各自的心態,





    感情好多時就係,連自己都估計唔到自己原來己經泥足深陷


    講係易,


    而情感的付出, 一d 都唔易控制....





    sp/sl,就係想大家的關係簡單d,


    又大家能夠滿足大家





    如果要搞到咁複雜....


    點解唔乾脆拍拖wo.....





    ps, 個人意見..


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    所以, 我從來都覺得


    SP變不到做情侶


    就是因為愛得不夠


    坦白說


    我當然期望過與他真的一起


    因為我付出了真心


    其實那時不是不痛苦的





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    As i said, the feeling is quit "lost" when stopping the sex relationship and become normal fd ka at that moment..



  • 其實可能我跟一般人不同


    我跟他其實是初戀情人


    分開N年了, 一直沒有聯絡


    某一年, 我們大家都剛各自分手


    在某一天晚上, 就發生了


    那時大家都沒想過會變成SP










  • meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:36 pm


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    如果我與他不是SINGLE


    我100%不會同他開始....SP


    我會覺得大家不是情侶


    有SEX就不對咁


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    totally agree!! same case, same feeling!!




  • meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:52 pm


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    其實可能我跟一般人不同


    我跟他其實是初戀情人


    分開N年了, 一直沒有聯絡


    某一年, 我們大家都剛各自分手


    在某一天晚上, 就發生了


    那時大家都沒想過會變成SP








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    So, as i said lor..no feeling really cannot sex ka..



  • cc replied at 2011-01-23 4:52 pm


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    meiaa replied at 2011-01-23 4:36 pm


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    如果我與他不是SINGLE


    我100%不會同他開始....SP


    我會覺得大家不是情侶


    有SEX就不對咁


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    totally agree!! same case, same feeling!!


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    So, cc, do u have sp right now?