Will you ask him if you were me?



  • We had good dating (no sex) ... but he suddenly doesn't date me anymore ... I feel a bit disappointed and bad.



    I dun know what happened so I want to ask him why ... though i am not expecting his date anymore. But just want to know the reason. Am I too silly to ask?



  • you mean you two had 1 dating only, right?



  • 你都可以約佢, 如果say no, 即係你唔o岩佢




  • If you don't expect the further dates, why need to bother him???


    Knowing reason is meaningnessless I think.



  • We have been known each other for a few months, about once every 1-2 weeks.



  • silly replied at 2010-11-29 3:39 pm


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    We have been known each other for a few months, about once every 1-2 weeks.


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    so may be his spouse discover that



  • he has found another gal la, I think.





    Man



  • that's my problem ... always want to know why ... though knowing the reason won't help at all



  • If he has a wife or finds another gals, that's the reason. But now I dun know the reason and always thinking why ... it's annoying.



  • silly replied at 2010-11-29 3:45 pm


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    that's my problem ... always want to know why ... though knowing the reason won't help at all


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    not interesting u lor silly,u think who u are?



  • He is not interest in you anymore.


    But, I am interesting in you, can I talk with you by MSN.


    Add me chin-lap@hotmail.com if you want.



  • I STILL LOVE YOU AND CARE YOU BUT NEVER TO BE WITH YOU!HA HA HA HA....



  • If he is not interested on me, i dun think we would have been dating for a few months. And if I dun think he has interest on me, i wouldn't think strange on why he suddenly doesn't date me anymore.



  • YOU WILL NEVER KISS ME..... THATS WHY YOU FEEL SICK.....HA HA HA HA



  • i am just here seeking some advice



  • YOU WILL NEVER NEVER KISS AND HUG ME....EVEN A TOUCH JUST EYES TO EYES ONLY....HA HA HA HA HA HA,,,,





    you will regret 100 percent!hahaha



  • silly, y u are so sure he got interested on u? did he say anything sweet to u or did anything that made u feel u both are bf/gf relationship? just wondering if it was just a casual dating!



  • fun, u are funny... haha



  • your eyes cant tell a lie!but you fall in love with me...ha ha ha ha



  • yes he did say something like missing me ... and something more but i dun want to disclose the details.



    I think i will keep thinking on it if i dun ask ... i know it's silly ... but any good suggestion for me to ask him in a less silly way?



  • YOUR EYES CAN'T TELL A LIE!HA HA HA HA HA



  • How old r u and ur friend?



  • do you think he will asnwer your phone call?



  • I will ask by sms



  • A word from my heart "I STILL LOVE YOU AND CARE YOU BUT NEVER TO BE WITH YOU!.....HA HA HA HA HA....








    BECAUSE OF THIS WORDS HE MADE HIM FEEL SICK...HA HA HA HA HA



  • search4fun, i dun know what you are talking about but sounds like you are even more silly than me. anyway thanks for your time to make my thread more interesting



  • TO BE CONTINUED!....



  • Simple reason: He found some one better



  • I experienced it before so I am smarter now.



  • Guess u guys are probably right as there ain't be any better reason to explain this. But why he suddenly loses interest on a lovely and decent gal? Haha!


    He was not cheating me to bed. So he just wanted to cheat me for some sweet dating?



  • 要先了解下


    你地係點樣識?


    係咩關係?dating即係拍緊拖定係指有出街?


    佢無再搵你出街,咁有無用其他方式聯絡你?


    你想同佢發展咩關係?



  • 我其實無想同佢發展乜嘢關係,只係想去下街...但我覺得就這樣無疾而終好奇怪。如果係全心呃我,無理由只係想呃我去下街,其實可能佢真係已經有另一半,只係想得閒同其他女仔去下街,所以唔想同我繼續落下。佢唔同我講,係因為佢一開始已經呃我話自己係單身。但我寧願佢同我坦白,唔使我繼續喺度諗點解,等我去忘記佢。



  • 其實我真係好傻,佢又唔靚仔又唔有錢亦都唔係風趣,我只係覺得佢有風度,gentleman一個,我初初見佢仲覺得佢個樣好老,比真實年齡大幾年。其實我要求咁低,要搵個replacement應該唔難,但總係好想佢搵返我。



  • 唉...如果你見到我喺度嘅留言,你send個message俾我,話俾我聽點解你突然唔再揾我,我只係想知道點解,我唔會怪你,亦都唔會揾你。



  • Silly replied at 2010-11-29 9:22 pm


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    其實我真係好傻,佢又唔靚仔又唔有錢亦都唔係風趣,我只係覺得佢有風度,gentleman一個,我初初見佢仲覺得佢個樣好老,比真實年齡大幾年。其實我要求咁低,要搵個replacement應該唔難,但總係好想佢搵返我。


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    Dont tell me that u met this gut through she.com !??!?!?




  • mimiran replied at 2010-11-29 9:34 pm


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    Silly replied at 2010-11-29 9:22 pm


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    其實我真係好傻,佢又唔靚仔又唔有錢亦都唔係風趣,我只係覺得佢有風度,gentleman一個,我初初見佢仲覺得佢個樣好老,比真實年齡大幾年。其實我要求咁低,要搵個replacement應該唔難,但總係好想佢搵返我。


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    Dont tell me that u met this gut through she.com !??!?!?


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    this guy




  • 他對你是不錯的, 沒有騙財騙色; 你也不騙他財色, 你也是很好的女人.


    他對你是認真的, 用幾個月時間了解你, 發覺不適合就應儘快散, 以免有更深的傷害; 因為我都會這樣, 適合就會繼續進深, 不適合就要應把傷痛減至最低.


    如有需要, 可留下msn談.







  • 香薰油,r u him? Guess not ... Hehe!


    Yes I met him here but I think he is not like those color wolf guys here...


    Does he really think we dun match each other so he decides not to see me again? But we were so sweet when we met last time? Maybe it meant to be the last time for us as well. I just want to know why. Sigh.



  • Anyway, I shouldn't ask, rite?


    He leave me for a reason of himself. If he really wants to see me, he won't disappear like this, rite?


    I should find another better companion instead of waiting him here alone, rite?


    What a pity! It's supposed to be a sweet and warm relationship. But the sweetness and warmness leave me again.



  • Silly,





    Why all the sadness when u didn't love him anyway.







  • 因為很失落,在失落的時候碰上他,從他身上得到一絲絲温暖、一點關懷。


    現在又回歸失落,彷彿比前更失落。



  • 其實會唔會係佢本身出左問題唔方便聯絡你?


    例如有事入左醫院、忽然要出trip?





    其實你唔打算同佢發展乜嘢關係,又何需咁上心?


    你同佢又唔係有咩關係,可以話只係普通朋友


    你都只係想搵人去下街啫,咁你都可以搵其他人同你去街架



  • I think just call and ask...in a polite way.. dont sms.. after sms you need to wait, i hate waiting.



  • he is just not that into u.



  • 先了解,我有同其他人去街,但總會想起他、和他比較,其實他真的不是特別的出眾,但總覺得他很貼心...還有他的擁抱總是那麼的溫暖和安全...很想睡在他的懷抱裡。





    我很傻吧?他不想再擁抱我了。現在只能懷念那種暖意。



  • 我知道我真的不是愛他,我只是愛和他一起那種溫暖感覺,令我覺得很sweet。



  • 唔明白


    你又唔係佢女朋友,點解要同佢擁抱?


    我唔清楚佢點解唔搵你,係刻意定係有原因,如果你想了解下咪搵佢問下囉



  • 我睇晒版主同其它網友寫嘅嘢!!!唔我真係好感動因為我都有Similar case但係唔好唔開心因為呢個世界係真係有更好嘅嘢等近你架!!!!



  • muna replied at 2010-12-02 7:35 pm


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    我睇晒版主同其它網友寫嘅嘢!!!唔我真係好感動因為我都有Similar case但係唔好唔開心因為呢個世界係真係有更好嘅嘢等近你架!!!!


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    我都一樣睇過所有:





    純講你地兩人,你地無太多背後了解,大家各偷一份暖意。





    你地有分別的似係…佢可以對你放手而你係意柔未盡;而且你自問無大問題但你問題在係都想知原因。當然你份感覺係有點似死唔眼閉,但你反正未死,不如唔好理那知唔知都一模樣的答案啦!





    我有無講錯!