I find it very difficult to fall in love again. Do I think too much?

oops... forgot to type alias

The another reason is that romance and marriage becomes business.

nice to meet you, i'm 34 years old, single, male, live in T.S.T, back from canada, this is my msn : [email protected]

Now I'm not young. No one desire to sleep with me.
 
 May be, I'm the exception

lovingyou, may be you are right. My memory is too good.
 
 Yes, all are very calculative now.

usual, when one grows.....but, there is still love....

panzerace, so do u mean we need to date often in order to keep the feeling of "being in love"?

lady: I understand because I faces the same problem, so you don't need to worry.

I am not worried, or yes. I just feel sad that my golden age of enjoying that is losing with time

If you still think bad memories, it must not find Mr. Right.

Yes, it's very hard to find that one. sigh~
 
 I know many good quality guys. But all very rush. And yet I think too much, is that means they are not the right one?

just read yr thread, may i share this book, i just read it this weekend. It helps to treat and understand myself again.
 
 30歲前一定要搞懂的自己
 作者／金惠男 Kim, Hae Nam
 http://www.titan3.com.tw/creative011/
 http://www.books.com.tw/exep/prod/booksfile.php?item=0010470416
 
 My email is [email protected]
 
 Wish you like it and have a nice weekend

lady,
 
 actually i'm not sure.I said that mainly base on my own experience.
 The long I've been single, the less easy to get along with girls I think.
 Cos it's too easy to do everything alone, and I'm used to it very much.
 When a person (girl) is added, it's not only 2-times more complicated.

No, it depends on what you need. Good quality guys have many choices, but is it really good? I don't think so.

pan, yes, I think many ppl are now get used to be alone. And feel ok with that. So feel so lazy to change the status.
 
 lovingyou, what are those good quality guys to you?

Sorry I am man and not interested to gay. It's hard to define good and bad quality because it's depends on market orientated.

good quality of course have more choices.
 It applies on both men and women

lovingyou, sry I thought you are a gal. Well, agree with that good quality is co-related to the market demands. But somehow those may not be my pursue. So I dunno if they are really good quality. haha.

It's 人夾人緣 or 格食格, understand?

lovingyou. yes I agree.

so changing mind may help you.

希望大家搵到心目中既mr right/ms right, 如果佢根本唔係你/妳心目中愛既人就千祈唔好諗住是是但但搵到個就hold住係手.咁樣不但傷害對方,仲浪費大家既光陰!不如爭取時間搵個岩既又或者一個人繼續enjoy生活,鐘意做乜都得,點玩都得.

其實咩叫愛.....已經好難介定

Steelmen replied at 2010-10-10 1:22 am
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 其實咩叫愛.....已經好難介定
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 如果連愛都唔識介定,又或者自己愛唔愛呢一個人既感覺都唔識分,我諗根本無
 資格去講愛更加無資格去愛另一個人開始新既關係.
 
 愛爸爸,愛媽媽.我諗自己都應該識分你愛定唔愛.
 
 無安全感,無信心只係唔面對現實既說法.如果係呢個時候仲要去開始一段新感情就更加係自私.傷害緊愛你既人
 
 愛係感覺,無得解釋.無論你愛既人係高矮肥瘦.
 
 未準備好去接受第二段感情,就唔好咁快去傷害另一個人.