女人搵SL一樣難



  • KAMMY 可以問下, 你做邊行嗎?



  • kammy u have sl before ??

    hows to keep the relationship??



  • howaboutu replied at 2010-09-03 3:17 pm

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    KAMMY 可以問下, 你做邊行嗎?

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    I am OL, how about you?



  • 『SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?』



  • angusangus1 replied at 2010-09-03 3:18 pm

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    kammy u have sl before ??

    hows to keep the relationship??

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    keep contact and keep meet each other, that's simple

    but the important thing is: hard to keep long lasting.hahaha



  • kammy n others

    welcome to add me to chat in msn. I am not lethal. hahaha...



  • KAMMY 我是MERCHANDISER.

    之前我同SL都會天天MSN, 都有SMS同講TEL IN OFFICE HOUR.

    回家後就睇下對方是否方便, 因唔可以影響對方的正常生活



  • kammy replied at 2010-09-03 3:23 pm

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    angusangus1 replied at 2010-09-03 3:18 pm

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    kammy u have sl before ??

    hows to keep the relationship??

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    keep contact and keep meet each other, that's simple

    but the important thing is: hard to keep long lasting.hahaha

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    i think every thing start from normal friend. then will lasting longer



    i didnt have any sl or sp.

    just a rookie.



  • howanoutu

    been there done that, i spent almost all my free time with her, but still she wasnt happy. i guess the expectations increases as time goes by?



  • NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:23 pm

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    『SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?』

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    浪漫派:係錯的時間遇上對的人, but u can always choose things which is right for you to reduce the harm to people around you!



  • BAND 每個人要求都不一樣, 有D女人唔中意男人太痴身的.

    只好睇下對方想點, 再ADJUST一下自己啦



  • typo

    howaboutu*



  • kammy 2:15pm sep 03, 2010

    我一直都認為 SL 同 BF/GF 係一樣, 只係見得光同唔見得光既分別

    不過呢度d人唔係咁想法



    agreed but my ex-SL didn't think so, and we finally discontinue, you are welcome to share and add me at [email protected]





  • howaboutu

    on the contrary! she prefer me to be more 'sticky'



  • NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:23 pm

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    『SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?』

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    兩者都可!

    感性的人也許會有前者的感覺

    理性的人也許只有後者的感覺



    但對我黎講, 2者都不絕對是唔太感性也不會過份理性, 我只知我會用心經營一段關係,也因為如此,我最後是不開心! (因為大多數既人只視為game, 一個莫視對方感受而只為sex的game, hahaha....)

    可能我都唔岩玩呢個game!



  • 問題係時間受到限制, 你個sl會唔會接受有時有, 有時冇時間比你呢



  • Liz

    If constraints doesnt exist, we dont need to be in an 'sl' situation.



  • i can



  • that's the basics of SL relationship....



  • typo again :(

    ' in an 'sl' relationship'



  • band,



    thanks a lot, you can be a good sl



  • that mean need to have good time management.





  • 明白sl關係一定唔會時時方便見, 但約十次, 十次你都唔得閒, 又唔會安排時間見對方的, 就不是稱職的sl



  • Any ppl work at hk island??



  • as time goes by, maybe, women expect the guy to spent more n more time with her?



  • band replied at 2010-09-03 3:52 pm

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    as time goes by, maybe, women expect the guy to spent more n more time with her?

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    i don't think so, in my experience, just only the guy spend less snd less time on me obviously but not i request more and more!



  • Miu_Babe replied at 2010-09-03 3:32 pm

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    NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:23 pm

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    『SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?』

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    浪漫派:係錯的時間遇上對的人, but u can always choose things which is right for you to reduce the harm to people around you!

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    I watched a movie called MR.NOBODY, it says that people of each choice is correct, but each choice will have different results.



  • 比起一般情侶要更加遷就和忍讓



  • kammy 3:52pm sep 03, 2010

    明白sl關係一定唔會時時方便見, 但約十次, 十次你都唔得閒, 又唔會安排時間見對方的, 就不是稱職的sl



    100% AGREE



  • hi..i am a mature man..40+

    would like to chat with any mature woman here...



  • kammy

    i am sure u're an very understanding person.



  • band replied at 2010-09-03 3:31 pm

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    howanoutu

    been there done that, i spent almost all my free time with her, but still she wasnt happy. i guess the expectations increases as time goes by?

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    why dun you go and hv an open discussion with her and tell her how you feel and try to understand the issue btwn u and her?



    maintaining one relationship is all about communicating,compromising and understanding



  • kammy replied at 2010-09-03 3:41 pm

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    NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:23 pm

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    『SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?』

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    兩者都可!

    感性的人也許會有前者的感覺

    理性的人也許只有後者的感覺



    但對我黎講, 2者都不絕對是唔太感性也不會過份理性, 我只知我會用心經營一段關係,也因為如此,我最後是不開心! (因為大多數既人只視為game, 一個莫視對方感受而只為sex的game, hahaha....)

    可能我都唔岩玩呢個game!

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    或者係呢個關係上, 就係需要在感性中帶點理性

    就好似一個曖昧遊戲, 當其中一方想接觸對方的內心的話...

    『GAME OVER』

    而選擇後會有咩結果, 就應該有心理去準備



  • NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:54 pm

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    Miu_Babe replied at 2010-09-03 3:32 pm

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    NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:23 pm

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    『SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?』

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    浪漫派:係錯的時間遇上對的人, but u can always choose things which is right for you to reduce the harm to people around you!

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    I watched a movie called MR.NOBODY, it says that people of each choice is correct, but each choice will have different results.

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    hmmm i guess u will juz have to make your own mind and once decision is made never look back and try to find out "what if". there is no return as we all knew



  • ed replied at 2010-09-03 3:57 pm

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    hi..i am a mature man..40+

    would like to chat with any mature woman here...

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    you are welcome, anything share with us



  • NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:58 pm

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    kammy replied at 2010-09-03 3:41 pm

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    NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:23 pm

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    『SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?』

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    兩者都可!

    感性的人也許會有前者的感覺

    理性的人也許只有後者的感覺



    但對我黎講, 2者都不絕對是唔太感性也不會過份理性, 我只知我會用心經營一段關係,也因為如此,我最後是不開心! (因為大多數既人只視為game, 一個莫視對方感受而只為sex的game, hahaha....)

    可能我都唔岩玩呢個game!

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    或者係呢個關係上, 就係需要在感性中帶點理性

    就好似一個曖昧遊戲, 當其中一方想接觸對方的內心的話...

    『GAME OVER』

    而選擇後會有咩結果, 就應該有心理去準備

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    NoiseC 咁你到底係偏向理性定感性



  • miu

    thanks for your thoughts. there are other issues between me n my ex's. it's pretty complicated. Plus, she is the one that dont want to communicate.



  • Liz..tks..

    Seems ppl are serious here to discuss ....

    we are asking something extra in our daily life..if we get..we should be glad to enjoy it..



  • Final result is want happy. Dont thonk too much.



  • sure, glad to enjoy it, but not easy to get a right man to enjoy with me



  • yes...要化d, 哈哈



  • Miu_Babe replied at 2010-09-03 4:00 pm

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    NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:58 pm

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    kammy replied at 2010-09-03 3:41 pm

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    NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:23 pm

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    『SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?』

    =================================================================



    兩者都可!

    感性的人也許會有前者的感覺

    理性的人也許只有後者的感覺



    但對我黎講, 2者都不絕對是唔太感性也不會過份理性, 我只知我會用心經營一段關係,也因為如此,我最後是不開心! (因為大多數既人只視為game, 一個莫視對方感受而只為sex的game, hahaha....)

    可能我都唔岩玩呢個game!

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    或者係呢個關係上, 就係需要在感性中帶點理性

    就好似一個曖昧遊戲, 當其中一方想接觸對方的內心的話...

    『GAME OVER』

    而選擇後會有咩結果, 就應該有心理去準備

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    NoiseC 咁你到底係偏向理性定感性

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    哈哈''我係一個感性既人,理性只會存在於剛開始既時間。

    好似你有一個岩岩入職既男同事,開始時你地Ladies Talk都話唔會鐘意佢

    但係時間既經過, 或許有一日你會聽到某個女同事同佢拍緊拖



    鐘意一個人只需要一秒鐘, 但係係呢個關係上,以後既時間就要用理性去控制感性 =]



  • LIZ replied at 2010-09-03 4:06 pm

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    sure, glad to enjoy it, but not easy to get a right man to enjoy with me

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    Try to step by step ...

    Simple friend > know each othe more detail > sl



  • band replied at 2010-09-03 4:04 pm

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    miu

    thanks for your thoughts. there are other issues between me n my ex's. it's pretty complicated. Plus, she is the one that dont want to communicate.

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    well :( it's hard when u met someone u like but never like to communicate. If this is the case u will just have to try ur very best to balance the relationship.....orelse...one of the end will be exploded easily....either u or her...



    Sometimes i just do believe that if people decided to stick with each other, both of them will have to pay some effort to drive things happen



  • Liz..睇你要求乜,文武雙全?

    尤來舊愛新歡兩邊也難全....



  • NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 4:08 pm

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    Miu_Babe replied at 2010-09-03 4:00 pm

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    NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:58 pm

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    kammy replied at 2010-09-03 3:41 pm

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    NoiseC replied at 2010-09-03 3:23 pm

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    『SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?』

    =================================================================



    兩者都可!

    感性的人也許會有前者的感覺

    理性的人也許只有後者的感覺



    但對我黎講, 2者都不絕對是唔太感性也不會過份理性, 我只知我會用心經營一段關係,也因為如此,我最後是不開心! (因為大多數既人只視為game, 一個莫視對方感受而只為sex的game, hahaha....)

    可能我都唔岩玩呢個game!

    =================================================================



    或者係呢個關係上, 就係需要在感性中帶點理性

    就好似一個曖昧遊戲, 當其中一方想接觸對方的內心的話...

    『GAME OVER』

    而選擇後會有咩結果, 就應該有心理去準備

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    NoiseC 咁你到底係偏向理性定感性

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    哈哈''我係一個感性既人,理性只會存在於剛開始既時間。

    好似你有一個岩岩入職既男同事,開始時你地Ladies Talk都話唔會鐘意佢

    但係時間既經過, 或許有一日你會聽到某個女同事同佢拍緊拖



    鐘意一個人只需要一秒鐘, 但係係呢個關係上,以後既時間就要用理性去控制感性 =]

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    對一個人有感覺..需要一分鐘. 喜歡一個人..需要一小時. 愛上一個人..需要一天



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    NoiseC 咁你到底係偏向理性定感性

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    哈哈''我係一個感性既人,理性只會存在於剛開始既時間。

    好似你有一個岩岩入職既男同事,開始時你地Ladies Talk都話唔會鐘意佢

    但係時間既經過, 或許有一日你會聽到某個女同事同佢拍緊拖



    鐘意一個人只需要一秒鐘, 但係係呢個關係上,以後既時間就要用理性去控制感性 =]

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    100%. Agreee.

    每一分鐘都有變數



  • SL係錯的時間遇上對的人, 定係只係一個game?



    我個位係timing 問題



  • miu

    yes, it's very difficult when she acts like that.



  • 係個天俾小小空間你地減壓啫,唔好去咁盡。

    所以secret lor...


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