我bf 生cancer, 點算!?



  • 我同我bf 拍左拖8年. 一開始識佢時已經知佢食煙, 叫極佢都唔肯改, 嘈都嘈過幾十次… 終於,上年冇啦啦身體檢查講佢有左肺癌.. 擔心死我!!!!

    好彩,佢做完化療, 但成日人落晒形, 又成日嘔 , 睇見就辛苦.

    我呀媽係咁叫我分手…. 我好煩R!!!!我應該點…



  • 分手啦,醫返都沒用,又可能復發



  • 愛-是那個人無論變成怎樣(我指生病),你都會不離不棄在佢身體陪年佢,支持佢


    8年的感情,好奇怪你仲會猶豫不定應該怎樣做



  • It depends how much you love him.





    If you love yourself more, leave him.





    If you love him more, stay with him, encourage him and support him.





    The choices are obvious. Leave him and you may blame yourself for a period. Stay with him and you will lose your young age but you will feel comfort for the rest of your life.





    Thinkclearly that how much you love jim and what you can give up for him.





    Only you can know the answer and no one else can know the innermost of your heart.



  • 186-講真,如果係離開佢,我好懷疑那過去的8年是什麼,會是感情嗎?



  • 186 is just talking about the fact.


    it need to see how much she love the bf...



  • 久病床前無孝子,你們清醒吧


    你們可以站在道德高地,因為吾係發生自己身上嗎



  • sigh....




  • twofishpink replied at 2010-07-10 11:10 pm


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    186-講真,如果係離開佢,我好懷疑那過去的8年是什麼,會是感情嗎?


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    Dear 2fish pink,





    We are not in her situation. You can't feel pain when the needle is not pluged on your skin. Only she can know what is happening.





    We can not neglect that there is love between them. That's why she is stillstaying with her bf at the moment even she is under the pressure of her mother.





    The power of moaning of the parents is as powerful as an atomic bomb. My mum is one of the example. I can understand her feeling.





    In her mother's point of view, she doesm't want her daughter to waste her time for a nearly death person. Her mother is not wrong if you stand in her position. You can only say that her mother is in lack of a mercy heart.





    This girl still chooses to stay with her bf until this momnet. It is already better than a lot of marriage couples.





    She need encouragement at the moment. We analysis the fact to her. I am not going to give any comment in this case since I do not know the real situation.



  • bf replied at 2010-07-10 11:21 pm


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    久病床前無孝子,你們清醒吧


    你們可以站在道德高地,因為吾係發生自己身上嗎


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    Absolutely agree.





    Give her support.





    She does not need any blaming at this moment.



  • 186


    u are damn right!!





    we were not in her position. we just use our point of view to judge.







  • I appreicate what you have done to your bf but I won't encourage you to do anything.





    Just follow your feeling of your heart and do something that you won't regret for the rest of your life.





    Ask yourself and only you will know the answer.



  • 生cancer,親如老豆老媽,第一個月可能好緊張,天天探望,但如果連續一年,二年要去照顧,你都可能受不了



  • 我以前都有個男朋友有血cancer,當時我仲捐咗骨髓俾佢,不過都救佢唔翻,我陪著佢到佢最後的一刻,起碼我無遺憾


    我覺得真的愛一個人是當佢有需要關心的時候,你會留係佢身體支持佢,而唔係走咗,


    不過試問又有幾多個人真係懂得去愛


    世人就是有太多的計算,無條件的愛,太罕有了




  • twofishpink replied at 2010-07-10 11:40 pm


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    我以前都有個男朋友有血cancer,當時我仲捐咗骨髓俾佢,不過都救佢唔翻,我陪著佢到佢最後的一刻,起碼我無遺憾


    我覺得真的愛一個人是當佢有需要關心的時候,你會留係佢身體支持佢,而唔係走咗,


    不過試問又有幾多個人真係懂得去愛


    世人就是有太多的計算,無條件的愛,太罕有了


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    加分加分!衷心地欣賞你的行為!誠摰地拍兩下手掌給你鼓勵!



  • 我都唔係blame,只不過想佢清楚自己的事應該自己有決定,而不是因為父母或其他人講幾句而有所改變


    我都係想point out翻我認為係愛的意思



  • 版主你要撑住啊!Be tough!



  • bf replied at 2010-07-10 11:35 pm


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    生cancer,親如老豆老媽,第一個月可能好緊張,天天探望,但如果連續一年,二年要去照顧,你都可能受不了


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    ............








    不敢苟同



  • bf replied at 2010-07-10 11:21 pm


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    久病床前無孝子,你們清醒吧


    你們可以站在道德高地,因為吾係發生自己身上嗎


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    最近一個朋友跟重病需要長期照顧的女朋友結婚了...



  • 最近一個朋友跟重病需要長期照顧的女朋友結婚了...





    可憐!!



  • LONGANN--那對朋友真的難得喎



  • bf replied at 2010-07-11 12:00 am


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    最近一個朋友跟重病需要長期照顧的女朋友結婚了...





    可憐!!


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    你是你, 他是他! 嘻~~





    不站「道德高地」批判人, 亦不用「道德高地論」論斷人. 沒有道德高地沼澤, 祇有選擇.



  • twofishpink replied at 2010-07-11 12:06 am


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    LONGANN--那對朋友真的難得喎


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    Frankly speaking, 佢地結婚前我有叫我朋友再三想清楚, 畢竟祇係勿勿一年. 最後他決定啦, 就衷心祝福他倆.



  • 簡單...你同佢如果有真愛過或真感情根本任何人講任何野都打動唔到你



    你諗下佢值唔值得你同佢共渡時艱先....佢而家最需要一個佢信任同愛護佢既人支持佢



    如果你有猶豫既......佢有無病你都有機會離開佢啦.....係時間性問題啫....你不如問問自己個心先啦~~









  • 如果你係因為驚照顧佢辛苦而想分手,好似唔係咁好...除非你已經唔再鍾意佢


    我覺得佢好需要你既支持架其實,整D好野俾佢食,俾D愛佢啦



  • 你幾歲? 你bf幾歲? 療程仲有幾耐? 你媽係咁叫你分手, 都係擔心你...



  • longann replied at 2010-07-11 12:06 am


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    bf replied at 2010-07-11 12:00 am


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    最近一個朋友跟重病需要長期照顧的女朋友結婚了...





    可憐!!


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    你是你, 他是他! 嘻~~





    不站「道德高地」批判人, 亦不用「道德高地論」論斷人. 沒有道德高地沼澤, 祇有選擇.


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    Nice. Good attitude.



  • 其實我好中意佢…..


    佢最近成日嘔,食唔到野,我好心痛, 好慘


    我想問下有咩岩cancer病人,食完會開胃D既野?




  • 醫院有冇癌病支援組織??





    食煙,


    已經out.


    傻仔先仲食煙.



  • 少食多餐,多飲d濕口既野,好似湯水那些


    其實每個人身上都有癌細胞既




  • 點解版主開咗post之後又走咗,一句都吾回? 好趕時間,開完就走?



  • 針吉唔到肉唔知痛既. 





    不過,如果我係好愛呢個男人,我諗我係唔會因為佢病而離開佢lor.



  • 好愛,就俾大家一個承諾.





    拍拖8年都唔結,





    香港人先咁奇怪.



  • when you can ask this question, I would say you might not be too sure how much you love him.





    If that's the case, why not leave now?





    If you really like him, or love him, you should stay by him at the moment as this is your last duty (could be some miracle to happen later....who knows)



  • 拍拖成8年,都已當對方係親人咁滯,話分就分?你都咁大個人,係咪樣樣野都要聽你呀媽講?



  • 如果你真係愛佢就用心去愛佢 , 唔好令自己後悔


    我知道好多CANCER 病人都可能冇咩胃口


    你可以試下 Revive復元素


    之前我老爺又係生CANCER食唔到野


    之後有個澳洲的朋友提議佢食下Revive復元素,因為聽講澳洲醫院都會用


    我地在香港萬0見到$280盒>15包,之前去健x坊去拎過free sample 試下


    老爺之前好抗拒飲呢D野,後尾我地溝埋oral impact一起飲(一半Revive, 一半oral impact)


    佢飲過講隻味好似蘋果味的礦泉水, 而且去多左廁所,,將化療之後積聚既毒素排出


    同埋, 佢飲左之後,講好飲過其他營養奶, 而且都開胃左,可以食下我奶奶煮的野,人都精神左.隻野可以凍飲又可以熱飲, 因為我老爺唔中意飲熱野, 所以我地通常用凍水沖. 而家老人家身體好左, 大家都放心左好多










  • 我知道有隻產品比有癌細胞既食左可以控制到…有人試過第四期鼻煙癌!食左之後去反0



  • s1coccus replied at 2010-07-12 12:28 pm


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    when you can ask this question, I would say you might not be too sure how much you love him.





    If that's the case, why not leave now?





    If you really like him, or love him, you should stay by him at the moment as this is your last duty (could be some miracle to happen later....who knows)


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    how much you love white rose ar?



  • it's been a year, how's your bf now? hope he is well



  • 應該快D結婚.充喜一下.



  • 如果你仲好中意佢 ... 你仲洗乜問人?





    拉你你都唔會走啦 ...





    ken .. 你咪玩啦 ... 如果佢講真 ... 你仲係度玩



  • 一有機會 ... 身體好d ... 就去玩下 ...



  • 原來咁耐架啦



  • 充喜一下就係講笑..但.快D結婚就真係真心話.





    愛一個人就要愛下去.. 咁樣走左去.. 就算之後點好都無用啦..良心唔會好過.. 不如面對. 做一個X太.做下人地既妻子. 有病有咩問題. 真心去愛就可以.



  • 多難興邦



  • s1coccus replied at 2010-07-12 12:28 pm


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    when you can ask this question, I would say you might not be too sure how much you love him.





    If that's the case, why not leave now?





    If you really like him, or love him, you should stay by him at the moment as this is your last duty (could be some miracle to happen later....who knows)


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    agreed



  • ai....道得 ,現實+感 情 question....@__@





    throw coin la..! otherwise u cant make any decision



  • bluelittle replied at 2010-07-11 11:51 pm


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    其實我好中意佢…..


    佢最近成日嘔,食唔到野,我好心痛, 好慘


    我想問下有咩岩cancer病人,食完會開胃D既野?


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    係咪仲撐緊?? 如果仲未醫好, 睇吥呢篇 ... 布緯食療戰癌症(上)


    轉貼自嚴浩@平果勉布 ...


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