無性=無愛?



  • 我同我老公拍拖兩年之後結婚,宜家結左一年,岩岩生左個B



    初時佢係一星期有三、四次,最多試過一日七次



    宜家...幾星期都無一次



    佢話攰.....我都FEEL 到佢對我無興趣....



    唔知係咪生完之後身型變左,為左照顧個B又無咁著緊外型同打扮...



    最近佢俾我見到佢上友緣人睇女人相、又睇陳法拉網頁、又睇facebook 既女人(都有睇男人)....



    於是我知道,佢唔係對女人無興趣,只係對我無興趣o者



    我立即將屋企d condom 丢晒掉垃圾桶,我唔希罕佢既垂清,我同佢講,以後都唔會同佢有肌膚之親



    當我見到佢睇友緣人果陣,真係好嬲,將結婚証書都渣皺埋,佢就撕碎埋佢,丟掉廁所沖左佢



    佢既解釋就係:友緣人只係八卦睇下,因為個front page 好colourful,無login 無開acc 無傾計,唔算係玩;陳法拉只係好奇睇下,係yahoo見到;facebook 只係睇下舊同學近況(我見佢睇某女人既相片,睇晒咁制)



    睇過一本書話,男人唔掂你,即係唔太愛你....呢樣我都幾相信



    我都預左離婚,為左個仔有個完整家庭,同一個唔愛自己既人一齊,就算表面幸福都係假既!



    趁自己後生,快趣修身,執好自己既心境外型,搵過第二個好過



    唔通真係等佢係出邊搵到一個女人,再黎拋棄自己咩



    都係要為自己打算下好!



    p.s. 真係唔知點解,我平時好鍚好錫個仔,今日係咪受佢個衰老豆影響,我對個仔都冷淡左好多,一黎個仔真係好難湊....呢個係生左佢之後第一次有咁既感覺



    我以為結左婚,就可以穩穩定定,唔洗再尋尋覓覓,可以專心湊好個仔....



    但事與願違,原來世上並無穩定的關係,人的一生都係在不停的尋尋覓覓中打轉,無野係一生一世,一張婚紙既價值=零!





  • 事情未必係咁差



  • everythings have 2 different side...





    u think no sex = no love?? have sex also not = have love!!!





    just hanging around the net watch girls dun mean he wanna do anythings...peoples man or woman also like to see pretty things...





    the problem between u2 will be leak of Communication!!! I can tell guys will act like a baby which need care , u must be too forcus on ur son but forget about him..





    it's never too late to fix up u2 relationship, sit down and talk about it...



  • 佢未必唔愛你 大膽d講做女人點都係keep下好



  • 你地都講得好有道理





    不過...係我主動approach佢,佢都係唔想掂我


    宜家知佢咁樣,令我自專心受創


    我只知道,未婚前我都算係好索,我唔需要佢,世上有大把人會欣賞我





    我為佢付出左咁多,換黎既係咁


    我有點唔甘心咁講,之後我變返索之後,我都絕對唔會益佢


    我會向外走....!



  • ... replied at 2010-06-19 8:58 pm


    你地都講得好有道理





    不過...係我主動approach佢,佢都係唔想掂我


    宜家知佢咁樣,令我自專心受創


    我只知道,未婚前我都算係好索,我唔需要佢,世上有大把人會欣賞我





    我為佢付出左咁多,換黎既係咁


    我有點唔甘心咁講,之後我變返索之後,我都絕對唔會益佢


    我會向外走....!


    reply to thread





    I know u still mad at him but think twice b4 doing anythings...as I said b4 try to claim down and talk with him...things wont be as worst as u think!!



  • ... replied at 2010-06-19 8:58 pm


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    你地都講得好有道理





    不過...係我主動approach佢,佢都係唔想掂我


    宜家知佢咁樣,令我自專心受創


    我只知道,未婚前我都算係好索,我唔需要佢,世上有大把人會欣賞我





    我為佢付出左咁多,換黎既係咁


    我有點唔甘心咁講,之後我變返索之後,我都絕對唔會益佢


    我會向外走....!


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    welcome you, into my arms, and my bed



  • dry, 多謝你


    你有冇contact可以留俾我?有野想私底下問你....



  • I think u r gone already





    ok we can chat on msn if u dun mind





    drying_spray@hotmail.com



  • 我老公見到我呢個post


    佢話因為我同個仔訓,同佢分房訓,所以少左咩咩喎


    之前我傷口又痛


    佢就話俾我抖下先,之後又因為分房訓而無左mood...




  • 其實佢一開始已經反對分房訓


    但bb踢被好犀利,講真我一晚都醒十次八次同佢蓋被,你話又點放心俾bb一個人訓呢


    所以,雖然講左,但其實個問題都係無解決到



  • 妳地係有左BB先結婚架 ?



  • 你o地在這裡識的?



  • 冷靜D


    而家咁既情況唔需要衝動.會唔會你產後老公俾唔到支持你而唔開心


    佢又無做D對你不忠既野點解唔好好傾下


    修補下關係先呢?


    夫妻係要忍讓下..何況小朋友咁妯考慮下先..



  • Hi...,





    睇完妳個post,我都覺得好難過.我相信妳同妳老公嘅情況未去到好壞,仲有得修補.況且妳已經係1個仔嘅媽咪,而且佢係無辜.雖然勉強要妳哋响一齊係冇享福,不過至少都比多次機會相方再努力修補,如果真係唔得先分開.



  • 91407159 call me to talk if u don't mind



  • hi ...





    mind to chat over the phone now?





    my mobile number is 63975889



  • 爸B replied at 2010-06-20 1:00 am


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    Hi...,





    睇完妳個post,我都覺得好難過.我相信妳同妳老公嘅情況未去到好壞,仲有得修補.況且妳已經係1個仔嘅媽咪,而且佢係無辜.雖然勉強要妳哋响一齊係冇享福,不過至少都比多次機會相方再努力修補,如果真係唔得先分開.


    =================================================================


    exactly



  • hello..





    how are u..


    may i be ur fd.?





    ownbs@live.hk


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