為甚麼自己還是放不開



  • 和她分手後所有朋友都叫我放手

    點解自己仲放唔低?明明她已經說盡所有絕情的話



    每當一閉上眼就會想起她





    唉~真的很辛苦





  • 可憐!又无人帮到你!



  • 明明應該知放手,但點解又要想糾纏



  • 好正常,因為你重感情,係佢身上你可以找你心中所求



  • raingola replied at 2010-06-16 6:40 pm


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    好正常,因為你重感情,係佢身上你可以找你心中所求


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    係香港,重感情好像都是會做被傷害的角式多





    一切都失去了~真的很痛苦



  • 呢段時間盡量令自己忙D, 參加多D活動, 分散下注意力, 只要時間過左就會無事...


    建議你去做下義工, 不單可以幫到人, 最重要係當你見到一班弱勢社群時, 你就會覺得自己既痛苦並不是什麼...



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    呢段時間盡量令自己忙D, 參加多D活動, 分散下注意力, 只要時間過左就會無事...


    建議你去做下義工, 不單可以幫到人, 最重要係當你見到一班弱勢社群時, 你就會覺得自己既痛苦並不是什麼...


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    失戀後都沒有一天真的在家食飯,都是在外面....但是一回到家就會想起她


    始終7年感情太多點滴



  • fire, be strong! support u!



  • There is nothing u can change if she no longer loves u. It's better to end it soon than later if the final result is the same.



  • 幾屆既世界盃都有佢陪我睇.........



  • water replied at 2010-06-16 7:01 pm


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    fire, be strong! support u!


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    thx water~^^



  • PP replied at 2010-06-16 7:03 pm


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    幾屆既世界盃都有佢陪我睇.........


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    那現在的她還在陪伴你嗎



  • 世界盃 ... i can watch with u if u dun mind



  • water replied at 2010-06-16 7:03 pm


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    There is nothing u can change if she no longer loves u. It's better to end it soon than later if the final result is the same.


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    很多東西我也明白,時間可以磨滅一切


    但7年的時間要用回多少時間才可忘記到呢?這個我也不知道





    上一個真的自己所愛的人,雖然一起了9個月,但用了2年時間才可真的忘記...



  • 今屆再無佢, 其實我鐘意既事好多都係佢鐘意.



  • PP replied at 2010-06-16 7:11 pm


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    今屆再無佢, 其實我鐘意既事好多都係佢鐘意.


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    那你還會傷心嗎?



  • Maybe you won't be able to forget in ur life as it has already happened. You can't just press a "delete" key to erase the memory. It won't happen. But time can heal ur pain.



  • 我覺得我已經傷心得好夠, 但有時難免會想起.



  • 傷心 is actually very normal


    I had been 傷心 for a few years ... but now I feel empty more than 傷心.



  • 如果可以控制得了, 就不會有人受傷......

    結自己一點時間吧



  • water replied at 2010-06-16 7:15 pm


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    Maybe you won't be able to forget in ur life as it has already happened. You can't just press a "delete" key to erase the memory. It won't happen. But time can heal ur pain.


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    明白,但人就是明知如此也會傷心



  • PP replied at 2010-06-16 7:16 pm


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    我覺得我已經傷心得好夠, 但有時難免會想起.


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    想起會傷心?



  • dun be rush ... give urself more time to 傷心 or even cry... no force urself to forget... time can heal anyway though it may take a long time



  • water replied at 2010-06-16 7:26 pm


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    dun be rush ... give urself more time to 傷心 or even cry... no force urself to forget... time can heal anyway though it may take a long time


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    已喊到不識喊





    今天還要去求簽,下下簽~唉



  • hmmm ... 求簽 is just for reference and dun take it too serious





    ur life, ur fate is controlled by urself



  • water replied at 2010-06-16 7:30 pm


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    hmmm ... 求簽 is just for reference and dun take it too serious





    ur life, ur fate is controlled by urself


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    人到迷茫時都會想求神問卜吧



  • though i suffer a lot these years coz of a very bad relationship ... i didn't go to 求簽





    i believe my life is controlled by myself and i am the only one who can choose how my life will be going on. no one can help actually



  • 讓自己忙起來, 沒有太多時間去想 :)



  • it will make u more unhappy if you dun get any good news from 求簽





    anyway ... be strong la



  • and actually ... i am not strong at all. haha ... that's why i have been in a bad relationship for a few years without the courage to break it



  • 如果 一手鋸開枯樹 木不會發現痛


    不過 日日澆水的我 覺得被挖空


    如果 必須結束關係 難扮成從未栽種


    讓我 數著年輪 這些年輪 我的心會痛 wo~





    畢竟那段如沐春風


    早刻進百年長的信


    在信中 圈圈緊扣 情感多深厚


    前因 非因 錯種





    分開簡單 抹去往事極難


    幾多溫馨 燭光晚餐


    難以用 斧頭一劈 叫畫面飛散


    伴侶沒了 記憶會為患


    倚星細語 抱月夜談


    歷歷在目 錄下年鑑


    來年樹倒 身影孤 煙花散


    年輪未可推翻 化不淡





    緣慳 但是人非草木 並不會太易慣


    刻個 木造的心給我 痛苦未會減


    情願 舊事連根一拔 忘滅如燃盡的炭


    但我 數著年輪 幾圈年輪 已經濕了眼 wo~





    分手與又平復之間


    少不過百年零一晚


    就怕翻風的一晚 回首貪一眼


    回憶急速擴散





    分開簡單 抹去往事極難


    幾多溫馨 燭光晚餐


    難以用 斧頭一劈 叫畫面飛散


    伴侶沒了 記憶會為患


    倚星細語 抱月夜談


    歷歷在目 錄下年鑑


    來年樹倒 身影孤 煙花散


    年輪未可推翻 化不淡





    就怕新婚的一晚 臨終貪一眼


    徒添幾分慨嘆





    分開簡單 抹去往事極難


    幾多溫馨 燭光晚餐


    難以用 斧頭一劈 叫畫面飛散


    伴侶沒了 記憶會為患


    倚星細語 抱月夜談


    歷歷在目 錄下年鑑


    來年樹倒 身影孤 煙花散


    情長未可推翻 化不淡




  • oh fire, i can sing this song very well ... haha



  • 真的很傷心~



  • I know how sad it is. take it easy and try to do something else u like and not to think so much.





    or simply go to have a drink ... it should help but dun drink too much.





    hope u can get rid of the sad feeling soon





    ^o^



  • 男人之家,要拎得起,放得低. 女人尚且要咁做,男人更加. 成日 E E Ai Ai, 有冇煩d?



  • 放唔低只因為係得唔到.......男人,你既世界只得一個女人??



  • not very fair comment ... both men and women are human being and can be hurt and sad.





    for me, my world doesn't only have a guy ... but i only want one guy but not others.



  • 人 replied at 2010-06-16 10:10 pm


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    男人之家,要拎得起,放得低. 女人尚且要咁做,男人更加. 成日 E E Ai Ai, 有冇煩d?


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    每人性格也不同吧~有些女人可以好像男人,有些男人可以好像女人


    對住一件死物幾年你都有感情,何況係人?



  • FIRE^_^ replied at 2010-06-16 10:22 pm


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    人 replied at 2010-06-16 10:10 pm


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    男人之家,要拎得起,放得低. 女人尚且要咁做,男人更加. 成日 E E Ai Ai, 有冇煩d?


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    每人性格也不同吧~有些女人可以好像男人,有些男人可以好像女人


    對住一件死物幾年你都有感情,何況係人?


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    咁你係到 E E Ai Ai 又有何用? 會改變現狀嗎? 吾該你長大啦,成熟的人會將自己注意力轉移,做d有建設性既野. 你好似吾係第一條thread講失戀Lok bor. 係咪如果全世界人都話同情你,呵返你,你會覺得舒服d? 牛奶仔



  • 我睇你應該係個廿o靚出頭既死o靚仔, 飛起你既女友一定係你初戀情人



  • 如果你對住件死物都要傷春悲秋一翻, 你直頭係戀物狂,吾死都冇用.





    抑或你想係度博同情,等d女中可憐你,中你圈套?



  • 人 replied at 2010-06-16 10:31 pm


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    如果你對住件死物都要傷春悲秋一翻, 你直頭係戀物狂,吾死都冇用.





    抑或你想係度博同情,等d女中可憐你,中你圈套?


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    如果對住一件你好鐘意的死物幾年,如果那件野爛左冇左都會覺得傷心,如果你不會究竟會不會係你冷血呢?





    而且這個post好似冇乜中女入黎喎~咁又搏甚麼可憐呢?





    真的凡事給你看透了



  • hihi.........fire!我同你感受一樣..好痛



  • cc replied at 2010-06-16 10:43 pm


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    hihi.........fire!我同你感受一樣..好痛


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    你又是怎樣呢?



  • 但為一個唔愛自己嘅人傷痛直得咩?



  • 醉左幾日終於醉醒....



  • cc replied at 2010-06-16 10:47 pm


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    但為一個唔愛自己嘅人傷痛直得咩?


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    理智上不值,感性上你會覺得傷痛值得





    這一刻一大班朋友你不會覺甚麼回事,但是一個人你就會想起佢




  • FIRE^_^ replied at 2010-06-16 10:40 pm


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    如果對住一件你好鐘意的死物幾年,如果那件野爛左冇左都會覺得傷心,如果你不會究竟會不會係你冷血呢?


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    而且這個post好似冇乜中女入黎喎~咁又搏甚麼可憐呢?


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  • 呢條契弟好似全世界得佢一個失過戀,冇能用



  • 我肯定佢係eddie313 或DarkRed 是但一個