lonely OL

hi, I'm mike

phone ~~ 9086-4492

msn : [email protected]

hi guys,

i have a very busy work, but more busy more lonely, dont know why? have you got the same feeling?

thanks for sharing

A,

I am 36 and online now. Let's chat :[email protected]

when you feel lonely, you try to make you more busy...

the more you busy, the more you remind yourself that you made yourself busy because you feel lonely..haha...what am I writing now?

adberg

hey A

send email to me anytime you want to chat?

[email protected]

hi A,

how are you?

can we chat in msn?

[email protected]

aa replied at 2010-03-16 3:11 pm

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hi A,

how are you?

can we chat in msn?

[email protected]

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aa, are you a girl?

feel very lonely so i come to here, waste time 9up. u horny guys want sex with me? on9 la. u will not get it.

Hi A,

I am Man.

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:03 pm

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when you feel lonely, you try to make you more busy...

the more you busy, the more you remind yourself that you made yourself busy because you feel lonely..haha...what am I writing now?

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Lawrencce,

thank you, i think i understand what you are talking about, actually it is true.

many ppl are looking for sex here, but i wonder if it works

A replied at 2010-03-16 3:14 pm

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feel very lonely so i come to here, waste time 9up. u horny guys want sex with me? on9 la. u will not get it.

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Hey,

you are a fake one, you are NOT me, get out of here!!!

A

I am not sure if it works or not also.

not sure you will feel more lonely after it and when you separate with the guy.

I just know there are many things to do besides sex to make myself happy

hi A

normally when a person gets too busy, he/she won't feel that lonely, as the time has been filled up.....

so u are not in a relation right now?

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:17 pm

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A

I am not sure if it works or not also.

not sure you will feel more lonely after it and when you separate with the guy.

I just know there are many things to do besides sex to make myself happy

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i know Lawrence, there are many things to do can make us happier, but...

norman replied at 2010-03-16 3:18 pm

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hi A

normally when a person gets too busy, he/she won't feel that lonely, as the time has been filled up.....

so u are not in a relation right now?

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Hi Norman

dont know how to tell if i am in a relation, i dont agree what you said, busy wont feel lonely, i feel more busy and more lonely

Hi A,

so let us chat for fun.

whatever we want.. haha.

aa replied at 2010-03-16 3:23 pm

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Hi A,

so let us chat for fun.

whatever we want.. haha.

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aa,

maybe it is a good way, who knows?

time is the best and only medicine, A. it will overcome, take it easy.

oldbird replied at 2010-03-16 3:27 pm

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time is the best and only medicine, A. it will overcome, take it easy.

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Oldbird,

I will try, sometimes feel so sad and dont know the reason.

it is a sad thing, isn't it?

A,

just go and find your own fds out more,

gathering more, you wont feel Lonely anymore ^^

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:17 pm

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A

i know Lawrence, there are many things to do can make us happier, but...

A, but what?

you want to find someone who can share with you?

A,

yes it is. modern people have so much uncertaincy and confusion. some of them use religion, some of them use alcohol, drugs, sex...to sooth. life is sad anyway...

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:31 pm

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Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:17 pm

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A

i know Lawrence, there are many things to do can make us happier, but...

A, but what?

you want to find someone who can share with you?

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yes, maybe, i dont know, just want to stay with someone be comfort, no thinking, no faking, no concerning...

would be nice!

A

I think it cannot be "no thinking" but should be "no pressure" and no faking is very important

what you like to do in your leisure time?

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:37 pm

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A

I think it cannot be "no thinking" but should be "no pressure" and no faking is very important

what you like to do in your leisure time?

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me? dont know, i like gym, sing and dance.

haha, if i have thime to do those

A

you always very busy?

like what you said, you make yourself so busy? haha

Hi A,

that means that you are not lonely.

Got a lot of fun..

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:42 pm

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A

you always very busy?

like what you said, you make yourself so busy? haha

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yeah, try stay in busy, but more empty

A,

maybe you don't know you busy for what, maybe you have lost your life target, maybe you don't like what you are doing, your colleagues, etc... there are many reasons to feel bore at work, especially it keeps you busy like hell!

A

I am sure that your heart still have someone important and you are waiting for him, am I right?

nothing can really help if you putting yourself into the cage, i think busy working is the cage you set up for yourself.

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:46 pm

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A

I am sure that your heart still have someone important and you are waiting for him, am I right?

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maybe you are right, never thought by that way, who is the one?

A

who is the one? haha...it's so complicated

oldbird replied at 2010-03-16 3:48 pm

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nothing can really help if you putting yourself into the cage, i think busy working is the cage you set up for yourself.

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maybe, i am not sure, just tired with my life, want something new.

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:51 pm

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A

who is the one? haha...it's so complicated

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it IS complicated, no one knows

A

mind to let me understand more about you?

do I have chance to chat with you in msn?

my msn: [email protected]

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:54 pm

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A

mind to let me understand more about you?

do I have chance to chat with you in msn?

my msn: [email protected]

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thanks Lawrence,

you are nice, how old are you? sorry to ask, but thinking about the age gap

A

I am 36 lu....but I think we chatted quite naturally here, so I'm sure that we don't have much gap...haha

maybe starting something all new in your life will help. u like dancing, gym...stuff like that. how about new things like art works? drawing, painting, ceramics...?

Lawrence replied at 2010-03-16 3:58 pm

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A

I am 36 lu....but I think we chatted quite naturally here, so I'm sure that we don't have much gap...haha

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well, we dont know

maybe u dun hv an goal in life, or career........... so u dun know what u look for, live for......

that's what i said, but it's natural. because the more busy, u hv to think this & that, loneliness often results from too much to think abt yr situation, meaning of life, etc.......

hello~i am 29, hope that we chat and kill times~

[email protected]

oldbird replied at 2010-03-16 3:59 pm

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maybe starting something all new in your life will help. u like dancing, gym...stuff like that. how about new things like art works? drawing, painting, ceramics...?

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oh yes, i never think about that, thank you

norman replied at 2010-03-16 4:05 pm

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maybe u dun hv an goal in life, or career........... so u dun know what u look for, live for......

that's what i said, but it's natural. because the more busy, u hv to think this & that, loneliness often results from too much to think abt yr situation, meaning of life, etc.......

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yes, it can be a reason,

hmm, yes, sometimes just thinking too much

many night schools have art courses.

then may be u think of sth u wanna achieve, & work towards that goal.......

hope it may help~~

norman replied at 2010-03-16 4:25 pm

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then may be u think of sth u wanna achieve, & work towards that goal.......

hope it may help~~

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yes, i am doing a course, but it is a boring course

but then....why are you posing in sex? just curious. why?

oldbird replied at 2010-03-16 4:30 pm

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but then....why are you posing in sex? just curious. why?

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well, because more attentions, otherwise how you guys talking with me?

more attentions about sex issue, lady.