HELP !!! 分手了....女朋友說心死心.....有得救嗎??



  • 跟她拍拖三年了,因我皮氣有点大,常常抄架(我不打女人,只是口角之争) (但我做錯了-件好嚴重的錯事..在友網識人,但沒有連絡,連MSN都冇,只是email 了2次,因為當時抄架,心情很差)。她也說跟我一起壓力很大,要改善很多來迎合我。其實我都糸為她好。最近幾次抄架後,終於再次提出分手,但她這一次很 confirm 的不會再有機會(但之前都好哋哋),她說這數月想得很清楚,看不到將來,無安全感,心亦死了,因為她想結分生仔,而我不是他想要的男人。大家分開冷靜一下。這對於我來說太突然了,縱使我們常抄架,但我對她的愛從沒減。她本來是跟我同住的,但已回家。在我不肯放手的情況下,求她給大家一次機會,但她不想再談,她說覺得很煩。但她會聽我電話,也會同我去街,我拖她手時她也沒有縮開,我也會吻她,抱她,但她對我的態度很冷莫,偶然也我到我家睡。已一個月了,她說只是不想做得太絕。我希望盡力做到最好,比佢知我們可以好以開頭咁 sweet... 但始終她也不比機會,佢會做翻佢自已。



    我真的不知怎樣做,我現在再做好D,改善自已有用嗎??  



    女人死心時是不是無得救?女人有冇可能純因為問題而死心?? 



    做d咩先可以令佢開翻個心,去試下接受新的我??



    請指点指点.....HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP



  • 你都係睇下自己做乜發脾四先喇 ~~



    唔好下下搵藉口話為左女友 ... 佢唔需要你咁為佢囉 ~~



  • 我知我既問題,態度太激動,但在這一兩年已改善了一点



  • 其實我哋已經打算呢一兩年結婚,婚紗 trip 也下了訂



  • 係咪你潛意識有 d 野 ... 你好抗拒你唔知呀 .... 

    你一日搞唔掂 ... 你都比唔到安全感女友 ....



  • i really love her, wanna protect her, care of her, really wanna spend the rest of my life with her



  • 你而家無事無幹梗係咁講架喇 ~



    你試下細心回憶下次次因咩事嗌交先喇 ~



  • 以前我個性格系貪玩在D,外表又花 fit.. 但已沒有那麼貪玩了,加埋果次網上.....唉真後悔



  • 兩個 email 嗟 ~ 冇咩大不了呀 ?



  • 睇佢EMAIL 講左D 咩啦

    不過死心的女人做咩會仲同你過夜? 我覺得唔會LOR



  • forgettrouble replied @ 2010-02-26 9:51 pm








    睇佢EMAIL 講左D 咩啦


    不過死心的女人做咩會仲同你過夜? 我覺得唔會LOR





    >>> 咁又係喎 ~~~ 喂 ~~ 有冇人會對我死心呀 ?? kekeke




  • 咁又係喎 ~~~ 喂 ~~ 有冇人會對我死心呀 ?? kekeke



    >>> 要對你有左心, 先可以死心架MA, 邊個對你有心呀, HHAHA



  • forgettrouble replied @ 2010-02-26 9:54 pm








    >>> 咁又係喎 ~~~ 喂 ~~ 有冇人會對我死心呀 ?? kekeke





    >>> 要對你有左心, 先可以死心架MA, 邊個對你有心呀, HHAHA








    >>>> 唔知喎 ~ 都冇人同我講對我有心 ~ 我鬼知咩 ~~~







  • 版主你覺得你女朋友真的完全死心嗎?

    咁佢抱咩態度同你過夜?

    死屍咁? 定係扮唔理你JA?



  • 唉...又係呢D CASE~~其實有D野發生左, 就返唔到轉頭~可能呢一下佢都係心軟...但係繼續一齊都唔會開心, 因為唔會變返之前既SWEET~



  • 唔知喎 ~ 都冇人同我講對我有心 ~ 我鬼知咩 ~~~ 



    >>> 嘩, 咩你好想有人對你起心呀? 男人真係好花心呀



  • 小肥~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 晚上好呀 ~~





    不過我要去洗白白喇 ~ hehe




  • 已想得好清楚,我太希望佢咩都要做到最好,有D咩我覺得吾好,我都話�怴A我attitude 又差...



  • OT, 快D返~~





    HELP~講得太多, 會厭倦



  • => 版主你覺得你女朋友真的完全死心嗎?

         咁佢抱咩態度同你過夜?

         死屍咁? 定係扮唔理你JA?



    我就真的不知道,因為她說吾會再比機會,心也死了......



    她好唔想的....不過我堅持.....也冇做d 咩咩...只是訓覺



  • 問心, 你改唔改到你的壞習慣? 要求別人做樣樣都好之前, 都要想下自己係唔係可以做到樣樣都好@@



    如果好想挽回, 最重要讓她覺得你改變了



  • 其實我真系想知我可做d 咩令佢重新接受我



  • 吾洗灰心, 女心好易心軟, 你親手做個cake 比佢, 用D成意, 一次吾得兩次, 但一定吾好有下次, 再有就冇得求



  • 好難架啦~~如果咁易既就唔駛分手啦



  • actually .. i have been changed a lot, even a lot better than before, but she said my changed is only for NOW... can hold in the future at all....



  • 試下啦, 吾試一定吾得, 就算吾好食, 佢都有小小心軟, 你女友中意你平時為佢做什麼



  • to hi..



    yes thanks! i have done something sweet to her with heart, but seems like doesnt work ..



  • 你可吾可以真係改呀?



  • actually .. i have been changed a lot, even a lot better than before, but she said my changed is only for NOW... can hold in the future at all....



    >>> 無錯!! 俾我都覺得咁........ 恕我直言, 你真係可以改, 定係想tum 返佢先做門面野?

    俾我係個女, 都會咁想, 俾佢睇到你的誠意, 不要以為做一兩次就等到成果, 用心去改, 我覺得佢係會睇到~



    sweet 野不一定得, 俾佢睇到係真係細心關心佢, 而唔係做野想tum 佢開心



  • to hi, 





    that's a good idea too, let me try to make a cake for her then. 



    => 試下啦, 吾試一定吾得, 就算吾好食, 佢都有小小心軟, 你女友中意你平時為佢做什麼



    其實佢只是想簡單的生活, 兩個人開開心心



  • to hi 



    如果係你, 你死左心,但又冇第三者,would you 比多一次 chance 佢??



  • to forgetttrouble, 



    如果係你, 你死左心,但又冇第三者,would you 比多一次 chance 佢??





  • to hi, 



    i will change for sure, cus it is not only for her, since my attitude too big to all the poeple.. so i need to be changed. but i have been changed a bit la ...



  • 如果我死心, 我唔會同你有咩瓜葛



  • 女人死心時是不是無得救?





    if she's willing to meet you, she still has feelings for you, not a dead case. Time will tell, action speaks louder than words, best of luck :)



  • 我當初一分手就無返轉頭,even連佢最後錄音講出佢的心聲我都無聼,仲將錄音機dum左。





    不過我覺得你應該有機會架。比多d誠意,改善自己的脾氣,寫低你對佢的承諾,如果再犯就你唔岩啦。



  • to forgettable, 



    yes .i know once women in DEAD HEART .. is hard to return .... but i do really hope this is not a dead case ...



  • => if she's willing to meet you, she still has feelings for you, not a dead case. Time will tell, action speaks louder than words, best of luck :)





    many thanks ! i do hope so .. i will do all of my best ... at least have a try, i dont want to regret for my life !



  • to Ann



    =>我當初一分手就無返轉頭,even連佢最後錄音講出佢的心聲我都無聼,仲將錄音機dum左。



    不過我覺得你應該有機會架。比多d誠意,改善自己的脾氣,寫低你對佢的承諾,如果再犯就你唔岩啦。



    many thanks for your support and hint eh .. i will do that for sure



  • 記住你做的不是為了取悅佢而做, 係真心想改, 而唔好俾佢覺得你做俾佢睇而已



  • => 記住你做的不是為了取悅佢而做, 係真心想改, 而唔好俾佢覺得你做俾佢睇而已



    that's totally true..i really want to change with heart... but the probelm is ... how not to 俾佢覺得你做俾佢睇而已. cus she thought what i am doing is only for NOW ..



  • 要走既都係會走





    脾氣差真係好難頂的



  • => 要走既都係會走



    => 脾氣差真係好難頂的



    我知道了...所以要改孌



  • 我同你個案差唔多..女人一變..唔使唸..頭也不回..


    自已為自已打算..



  • 頑皮的仔仔~ replied @ 2010-02-26 11:21 pm






    我同你個案差唔多..女人一變..唔使唸..頭也不回..

    自已為自已打算..







    咁就慘啦.......佢有冇聽你電話?? 有冇見面??



  • 係佢打俾我..我唔聽啦..聽黎都唔改變到d乜..見??見黎做乜丫..


    咪令自已心神錯亂...不如抽離重新去過另一種自已既生活啦~



  • =>頑皮的仔仔~ replied @ 2010-02-26 11:32 pm



    =>係佢打俾我..我唔聽啦..聽黎都唔改變到d乜..見??見黎做乜丫..

    =>咪令自已心神錯亂...不如抽離重新去過另一種自已既生活





    如果�昋搢M絕, 而你又仲好鍾意佢既話.....真係會令自已心神錯亂



  • 所以我電話都轉左..無謂再拖泥帶水..男人..做大事..要果斷~



  • => 所以我電話都轉左..無謂再拖泥帶水..男人..做大事..要果斷~



    that's right !!!!! wowowo u are the man  !







  • 佢要狠...我重狠過佢重得..女人成街都係..


    只要自已係對女人好..到時咪放長雙眼睇下邊個幸福D...


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