好唔開心，老公唔理我
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幾個月前小產了，心情平伏了許多，今個月原是預產期，所以我又發作...
成日都喊....老公佢寧願陪朋友都不陪我....
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did you see doctor?
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我出院之後，無即時同朋友講小產，但我收到幾個朋友好開心同我報喜...我好難受....
我身體好番左好多,所以我好想再有bb, 老公應承我，不過佢唔願意做，夜晚又唔肯瞓．．．
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找你自己的朋友陪或者返媽咪屋企
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pre/post labour depression?
Can I help?
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may be he don't want this happen again and hurt your body. Don't think bad. Let recover your body frist
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踏入八月，我個心已經好驚，知道自己情緒可能有問題．．．
我唔開心，最主要係因為老公陪朋友都唔陪我．．．佢有返屋企，不過好少主動同我講野，大家無溝通．．．尋日佢都無講野．．．我下午好嬲，打電話問佢，佢話佢有理我，我話佢．．我同佢講，我本來今個月係生仔，應該好開心，bb無左．．．之前叫佢同bb講多d野，佢成日話好想瞓，好倦，到而家想講都無得講．．．
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then you should try to ask some professional for help...just like 家計會
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七月時，我都ok. 只係呢幾日，愈近預產期，我愈唔開心．．．
我真係好需要佢陪我．．佢覺得有，無錯，佢係屋企，不過無講野．．．無溝通．．．下午講完果個電話，佢照原定計劃去打波，夜晚返左黎，不過都係無同我講野．．．
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did he still cannot accept the baby was gone?
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佢覺得我唔想佢同朋友去玩，問我係咪以後都唔應該聽朋友電話，同朋友打波，同朋友飲野．．．只係係屋企．．．
我唔係咁既意思，只係我好想佢陪我．．．同我講野．．．
早兩日佢整牙，係屋企唔出聲，不過佢去搵朋友，留左三個幾鐘．．．我唔明，唔解對著我就唔出聲，對著朋友隻牙就唔痛可能出聲．．
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你早Ｄ休息唔好想太多。
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may be he still suffer the pain for the baby gone. Remember you are not the only one feel pain / lost. So he go out to met friend to try to forgot the pain. As I say look for the professional for help. Don't just guess, as an unhappy person only guess / think bad side.
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婚前講過永遠會對我好，話婚後一定會更好．．．
而家又點？
點解我今日下午電話已經同佢講左，我係因為愈近預產期，所以心好痛．．仲係好掛著BB, 點解佢知道左又係唔出聲．．．
佢個朋友，咪同佢講，女人有左，唔好咁緊張．．你咁緊張會令到佢又好緊張．．．就係聽呢D說話．．．佢好少同BB講野，而家無得講．．．
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is your mother or his mother OK to help?
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I know I'm not woman so I cannot feel your pain, but things happened, let it go, alway remember such painful thing is no good for your body and you two releationship. Even you said 我身體好番左好多, but seem your mind still not ready.
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我真係好需要佢既時候..唔係我身邊...覺得我發顛...點解唔諗下, 我生左bb出黎睇著bb被護士放入膠箱拎走左，其他bb都識喊，但係我果個唔識．．我而家唔敢摸自己個肚，好驚好驚．．．
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nothing I can say...... is this the frist time you have baby?
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seem you two cannot handle this case.
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我最唔開心,你佢自己我既原因,佢都選擇唔講,話我咁激動, 根本無可以溝通..覺得我唔鍾意佢既朋友...
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係第一個bb...佢今晚返左黎，飲左兩支啤酒瞓左係sofa, 我係房
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Did you really talk to him 平心静氣地？
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我好失望...結婚時既承諾...去左邊?
佢唔開心,遇到問題...我無理佢咩?
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mind to tell you and his age? (only around)
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無心平氣靜講過...i nearly mad this afternoon...
換黎既係,佢都無理我...
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Seem you are 數佢 more then want to save your relationship.
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我唔細..已經三字頭...平時,我都算係一個理智既人...有什麼事,我會問..佢做錯,我主動同佢講...搵方法去解決...
今次,我真係唔開心...我估唔到佢見著老婆顛左, 佢選擇唔理...佢唔理我只係愈來愈顛...我好失望...
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我下晝真係喊著同佢講，今個月我應該好開心，就黎生仔，而家無左bb...既然佢知道我唔開心既原因,點解唔理..?
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Can I help?
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我打左字，舒服左好多．．．
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我喊完好想瞓
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Sleep, then
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Go to sleep la, but I really really suggest you should ask for help, if you realy want to recover your relationship.
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多d搵朋友傾下計
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我唸到妳有幾唔開心.,點都會過..試試出去旅行...有幫忙
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mrs ka replied @ 2009-08-16 2:40 am
如果我係佢我都示會理你。你繼續咁發癲落去，冇人可以同你溝通。佢都有壓力架，返到黎屋企又係對住個竭斯底裡既人，慘過返工。 你已經係個成熟既人，呢件事已係事實，無法改變，你應該盡量快d比生活納入正軌，而吾係要人係到pamper你。 我睇左你d posts,只覺很annoying,見到都煩。人生中有好多大事黎緊，sometimes shxt happens,咁又點，你都係要死頂架啦。老公又點？吾包保佢會對你一世都咁好咁有耐性。佢都只係一個人。 人黎架乍！
亦有可能係你賀爾蒙作怪，你認真d去揾professional help啦, 你繼續係到埋怨嗌生嗌死都冇用
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每個人處理壓力既方法都吾同,尤其男人處理既方式更加同女人既吾同. 吾通要老公一齊同你攬住鹹到呼天搶地至叫做good?
同埋你明知佢吾理你,你就越發癲,有d 擺明係attention seeking 羅. 我最頂吾順呢種人,所以我係你老公都吾會理你. 我聽到都已覺討厭. 係一種自我放縱既行為,但又要求其他人處理. 係不負責任,討厭至極既行為.
怨怨怨怨怨, 就係你而加個樣.
諗下好多係第三世界國家既媽咪,係惡劣既生存環境底下, 冇左仔女既, 多不勝數,比你慘好多既都有,為生存,人地咪一樣要繼續,人地又係咪個個都有個老公係身邊當佢BB咁呵返??
吾該你長大啦, 你係肆意放任自己既情緒同行為,我一d都吾覺得你可憐. 醫生又吾係話你冇得生. 同埋啱啱至冇左,又要老公黎過, 你係咪癲架? 你老公都未過心理陰影個關, 再者佢可能想你身體好返復完後至算.
都幾個月啦,如果你要選擇咁繼續落去,搞到屋企成個壓力煲咁,隨便你. 不過你咁做只會令你老公壓力越黎越大,屋企氣氛越黎越緊張,佢越黎越少返屋企. 然後男人會逃避,可能會係出面揾SL/SP 慰藉,咁你中有冇下一年既anniversay, 都好難講了
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mrs ka replied @ 2009-08-16 2:20 am
我當笑話咁睇羅.... 哈,咁能白痴! don't you know a vow is made to be broken
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唔好諗咁多，休息一下啦...
你地始終都係兩夫妻，
發生呢件事大家都唔想...
你地其實應該仲後生，
慢慢黎啦...
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您唔好唔開心,我生咗bb已有三個多月,身體都ok!您點解會咁樣,我都想知道點解BB會咁樣,您仲後生,再生過啦!唔好亂想咁多啦!!要多多休息,請問現在有無返工呢!!
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yyy
replied @ 2009-08-16 2:06 am
mrs ka replied @ 2009-08-16 2:20 am
咁你而家想點? 如果佢係吾中意講野,生左出黎都可能冇乜野同佢講. 抑或你有本事令個BB番生,等佢可以再同BB講多d野? 你講咁多廢話無非想老公內疚,想人地個心吾舒服？你究竟想點呢？ 你話老公"做錯"你會同佢講，咁請問乜野為之＂錯＂？你有你把尺，人地都有人地把尺，你又知你老公冇野睇你吾順眼，只係平時忍住吾講(尤其係你大肚時費事激你)。
似乎係你眼中只有你自己係最大。
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i want sex..
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a depressed woman, normal behaviour
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想生仔easy啦.我幫妳..
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can chat on phone? i want some...
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幅伯一把年己,我怕你頂吳po~~:P
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幅伯 thx your help, can chat on phone now?
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I am OK to chat on phone now
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passerby u phone no?
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