如果男友成日上網識女仔,應該原諒嗎?



  • 我覺得信任好緊要lor…

    離唔離開,真係好睇你有幾愛佢…



  • Flora





    Flora Flora replied @ 2009-08-06 4:16 pm



    kshing~不會吧....

    佢不是回自己就是回佢家人的屋企~

    真係唔知呢.....

    不過佢唔係搵好多,但都用好多在我身上wo~

    有時我要求佢唔駛用咁多在我身上~

    佢就話~我冇咩可以比你~唔似你身邊對你好果d人咁~不過我都想比我的最好你~



    咁你又覺得佢可唔可信?



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    哈,你好似好唔鐘意我地講你bf的不是! 有冇矛盾呢!? 你想拎件事出講,但又唔多接受人地既意見!



    愛是盲目



  • ADDIE,
    我男友同你老公都有dd似~
    佢唔係對我唔好~不過又咁樣上網識女仔~
    仲有好多個msn acc tim~



  • Flora replied @ 2009-08-06 4:16 pm



    咁你又覺得佢可唔可信?



    你又信唔信佢冇係網上識女仔?



  • lady replied @ 2009-08-06 4:17 pm



    i stay with my bf 9 years, and he as least three times have affairs outside.... he promise and promise, but still keep search gals in she.com



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    既然未結婚,點解唔離開他呢?



  • 我同男友只係 3 個月 ...

    但係呢段時間, 其實我一直知道佢係 SHE / FACEBOOK 同 MSN 識女仔



    但係我都一路忍 .. 但係而家我覺得自己忍吾到

    所以出聲



    我吾開心 .. 因為我一開始同佢講我係好認真 .. 但係佢 ....



  • 對得耐悶又唔係wo~

    佢十分鐘意同我玩的~

    而且又係佢地成日要求要見~

    有時我要做野唔得閒~佢都會話但我想你啊~

    我去你樓下搵你啦~咁ga wo

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    你都傻豬豬, 對你好, 就唔會日日上綱識女仔. 想識就必然想偷食, 你地之間係有的問題. 可能溝通小,



  • CHERRY


    你都o岩ge~人總是去搵藉口~
    依個就係理性同埋感性的分別~
    如果係理性的話~我應該一早離開佢.。。。



  • 男人,真係無邊幾個會滿足於一個



  • i have no trust with my bf now, and the feeling is very bad, everytime he go out with his colleagues, i will keep thinking he is telling lies... feeling is very bad



  • Flora



    你認為開心就去啦! 最緊要你既付出你認為係值得同開心既o者!



  • NOAH .. 你覺得應該點溝通呢??



    當我發覺有問題既時候我同佢講 .. 佢話佢都係想安定落黎



    咁如果你真係想定的話 ... 點知 .. 你吾專心一意同我發展

    重要去識人呢



  • 唔post都唔知原來有咁多sister同我一樣~
    LADY~咁你諗住點呀???



  • lady



    因為你對佢冇左個個"誠信",覺得佢已背叛左你!



  • 重有 .. 最衰係而家 .. 大家係冷靜期既時候 ...

    我覺得佢係應該唸吓自己應該定, 定係想去繼續玩 ..

    但係 .. 佢係重不斷識女人



    佢都 45 啦.. 我吾明點解重吾肯定



  • NOAH~~~
    你又講得O岩~
    對我好...又點會識女仔~~
    可能我真係太傻豬了.......wuwu



  • ADDIE, i dun know why i can't leave him.... maybe i am afraid i can't find a man later... because i am not young enough



  • Flora replied @ 2009-08-06 4:18 pm



    ADDIE,

    我男友同你老公都有dd似~

    佢唔係對我唔好~不過又咁樣上網識女仔~

    仲有好多個msn acc tim~



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    恕我直言, 我老公無周圍識女仔, 他一直都無出過軌, 我知他只有呢一次, 因為他唔善於掩飾, 我知他都好痛苦





  • 45呀…

    甘lady你幾大呀…

    唔好把自己d青春放曬佢身上wor…



  • FLORA

    其實, 呢一刻, 我自己都好 CONFUSE ... 我同佢講過, 如果佢返得黎我身邊, 我希望佢以後吾好咁 .. 但男人一次不忠, 百次不容 .. 我吾知應該點



    CHERRY

    最初我成日同自己講要信佢 .. 信佢同出面既女人無嘢 .. 但係我而吾信囉



  • lady replied @ 2009-08-06 4:21 pm



    i have no trust with my bf now, and the feeling is very bad, everytime he go out with his colleagues, i will keep thinking he is telling lies... feeling is very bad



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    我好明白你既感受, 我有同樣唸法



  • lady!!
    你要為自己諗下了~~~~!!!!
    佢45都唔定~有冇攪錯~~
    我男友25歲~所以唔定都有得講~
    你真係好愛佢wo!
    你要為自己諗下呀~



  • 35



  • lady,



    其實一至兩星期搵晚大家聽下歌, 開支紅酒, 將早幾日, 幾個星期所做既野同對方分亨, 不論, 買衫, 買股票, 公事上, o靚模, 國家大事, 乜都講一餐, 大家會了解好多, 好過個個星期去睇戲, 入到戲院 兩個鐘都無交流, 家陣日又熱晚又熱, 出去飲野, 又成身汗....最好就係屋企傾下計.



  • APPLE 我 35



    我今日重見佢係到 SHE 到識女仔



  • lady,

    如果同佢真係無曬信任,

    真係要抽身喇…

    為自己諗下



  • 唉,lady~



    45歲都仲未定性?



    不過而家香港地男少女多,如果男人稍為有d 條件都唔怕搵唔到女人,,仲有,女人老得俾男人快



    所以各姊妹都要自己keep好d 仲有唔好靠男人囉! 點都要自己有份工作,搵到自己啖飯食先得!



  • ADDIE, i think u are more lucky, he only got one time....but my bf.....



  • NOAH ..



    係屋企開紅酒, 傾梗 談論吓 .. 我地都有做



    我甚至陪佢去踢波

    夜晚幫佢掠骨 / 磨沙同攞起雜誌一齊傾計都有



    咁點呢



  • 男人係米已經唔知咩叫專一呢?

    覺得唔離開個女朋友/老婆,但識第二個好正常?



  • lady



    有時玩既次數都唔代表乜啊



    one time 可能係同對方有曬感情想keep住

    many time 可能係逢場作戲 鳥倦之還會返你身邊



    不過而家外邊引誘太多啦,唔好講上網識啦,返大陸玩都又平又多選擇~ 剩得我公司d男人都幫襯上面d妹妹唔少啦



  • lady replied @ 2009-08-06 4:21 pm

    i have no trust with my bf now, and the feeling is very bad, everytime he go out with his colleagues, i will keep thinking he is telling lies... feeling is very bad

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    我好明白你既感受, 我有同樣唸法

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    我都好明白呀!!!
    一次不忠百次不用~有一日我男友冇聽我電話一整天~我又會諗佢去左邊~
    點知佢話電話冇電



  • CHERRY ... YES U ARE RIGHT



    我男人根本吾心足 .. 因為我知道佢身邊既女人, 個個係靚女, 唯獨我 ..



    所以佢吾選擇我都係岩



    不過, 我起碼吾會好似佢之前既女人咁傷佢



    佢須然 45 但係重好 FIT 睇落都係 3 字尾 4 字頭, 無人睇得出佢 45 的



  • noah, i try to talk to him many many time... he said he want stble, but still keep search gals, so what can i do? apple, thx for ur advice, i try to leave him, but failed... i live with him almost 7 years, just like married.. how can i leave him????



  • 有溝通 都攪成咁,



    掉轉去唸, 你會唔會敏感左, 佢根本無識其它女仔, 不過一話出去應酬下, 你自己就會覺得佢去左識女仔. ..如是者, 好難攪, 你都唔信佢, 好難一世 woh.



  • lady replied @ 2009-08-06 4:28 pm



    ADDIE, i think u are more lucky, he only got one time....but my bf.....



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    我以過來人講, 你其實仲有機會, 你耍為自己打算



  • 我都明既,愛上左一個人,唔係甘易話走就走…

    自己都係過來人,

    都係留番係呢個男人身邊…



  • 為免混亂我改做 OLD WOMAN



    NOAH .. 我無亂唸 .. 佢三更半夜同一大清早都有電話同 SMS 的



  • sorry,打錯左名…





    lady,

    我都明既,愛上左一個人,唔係甘易話走就走…

    自己都係過來人,

    都係留番係呢個男人身邊…



  • i saw he post the topic here one month ago, he said his sl give him unforgottable moment to him wor... how hurt???



  • sorry lady



  • LADY



    咁你又唔駛咁SAD,你一定有你獨特之處佢先俾個GF既地位你既姐,你唔靚但我唸你其他地方一定好好!



    會唔會係佢俾人HURT得多所以而家想自私D對自己好D? 先去識其他人尋開心?



    其實外表好重要? 我覺得一個人既心先係最緊要,, 人會老,老左咪又係一模一樣!



  • Flora replied @ 2009-08-06 4:31 pm



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    我都好明白呀!!!

    一次不忠百次不用~有一日我男友冇聽我電話一整天~我又會諗佢去左邊~

    點知佢話電話冇電



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    嘎...無電, 我一定唔會滿意呢個答案



  • Lady~
    其實我bf今日都仲有reply佢條thread~
    不過我都係扮冇野~
    咁其實lady~你有冇諗過自己開展一下自己ge世界?
    你要加油啊~



  • flora, 個 case 我覺得好易解決 - 先發制人, 佢再唔改, 你就唔好搵佢, 唔聽佢電話一排, 之類 - 要玩下手後, 一定要比到個 alert 佢知. 等個衰佬想偷食之前, 都會驚, 會收手. 除非佢唔愛你者, 愛你一定做咩之前都會三思.



    止於 lady, addie 個 case 我比唔到意見.... 幾 complicate 下.



  • ADDIE~
    我係咪太易信人...-_-
    不過我個心都會有DD覺得依個ANS好牽強....



  • CHERRY 前日我同佢講冷靜既時候, 我有提及到, 佢個心吾滿足 .. 佢覺得以佢自己既條件, 佢係應該揾到個又靚身裁又好既女人 .. 佢聽完之後無反駁過呢



    YES 我係我個自己既優點 .. 例如: 我選定咗既男人我會好專一, 好就佢, 事事以佢為先添 .. 咁點呢 .. 佢話我呢 D 女人吾識玩手段, 係男人既玩具, 可能佢講得岩, 我傻 ...



    男人有邊個吾想身邊既女人又靚又身裁好, 行出黎個頭都 "額" 得高 D 啦

    心地 .. 你覺得對佢地黎講重要咩!



    我果個都係有經歷既人 .. 佢都結過婚亦離過婚, 又有過好多女人 .. 咁咪一樣係咁



  • flora, 被你知道左, 你又無野, 又同佢一齊 hee hee 哈哈 又一日, 咁比我都當無事, 出去再偷食 啦.



  • noah...i did call his sl, three times... three difference sl...., try to ask what they want.... if they want together, just let me know.... and i leave.... but they said i am born in stone age, nowadays is cyber age, said i have to take it easy..



  • noah replied @ 2009-08-06 4:38 pm



    止於 lady, addie 個 case 我比唔到意見.... 幾 complicate 下.



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    我都知我無咩可以做, 入黎呻吓,可以舒緩我D唔開心!


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