SL真係難搵. 見親都唔合適! 大家有冇同感?
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Don;t think it is hard to find SL. Hard to find good quality SL.
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should say, it is easy to look for sex here but hard to find someone nice to hang out with. many weird people in she.com, men and women.
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i totally agree with lady...why need to lie?
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single
<br>is it easy to find sex? I dont think so.
<br>you are rignt, hard to find a match one to hang with. need some common interest at least.
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"good quality" SL is a new term. whats good quality?
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it depends where is your bottom line...
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<br>if you want to find a quality one, it's not easy..
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sl ...at the end became sp....focus mainly on sex and lack of caring..
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bb,
<br>Im finding a quality one. With good quality inside. Even hard?
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dont insist on the term. be friend is a start.
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if quality one, both should have better communication, caring, sharing about life...and know how to maintain a relationship...instead of only looking for sex..
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Women love to hear lies and men need to lie to get sex.
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<br>bemysl, it is really not hard to find sex even for men. there are many weird men and women actively seeking for sex in she.com. Just that you are not attractive enough.
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sl 真係幾難搵, 就算我有好多時間, 都未必有人會欣賞~haha
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this is just two way stuff....not one can control...
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<br>even one with quality inside, the other dun have...what can u do?
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single
<br>If Im attractive enough to attract weird woman, I prefer not to have that :lol:
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i agree....to start as friend...
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<br>but ppl will pretend as a good friend ....it really takes time to see a person..
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bb
<br>the key to me is never insist. let it be, or let it go.
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bb
<br>there is no urgency to commit to anything. be friend for a few years is also fine.
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maybe you do not have what it takes to even attract those women seeking sex here. They don't reveal their msn and just add guys. Many have few msn too.
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bb, like you said, all pretend to be friends in beginning but still focus on sex only later.
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um....for gals...more emotional driven....sometimes, not easy to let go ...
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single
<br>you should be right. I think those really want to have sex/sl will rarey answer. they only add msn actively.
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bb
<br>girl are less rational. i am quite afraid of those girls.
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single, agree with u
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thats why i said hard to find lor.
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bb, SL is also just for sex only. Just different name to get sex.
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<br>bemysl, those women may pretend to be looking for friends but they are actually easy to go to bed with.
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sometimes...gals are a bit less rational....but, i think guys should be a bit considerate...
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single,
<br>i dont want to see bed as the only goal. tired of that.
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bb, seems you are not suitable to play this game. you should focus on having bf only.
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bb
<br>there are a lot of "girls are...", "guys should ..." theories around.
<br>mutual consideration is what I prefer.
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um.....so, u mean sl = sp?
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<br>i wonder sl need more sharing and communication...or ...love feeling..
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agree with single. bb should be a young girl.
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bemysl, your excuse and lie is so common. ask any men and they all said the same thing. at the end, then they only want to meet for sex. I am sure you are the same.
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single
<br>i may be the same. as you said every man pretend to be good in beginiiing and finally its sex. its your call to judge, not my call to tell :lol:
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i agree both sides need to be considerate...
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<br>becos i didnt meet the considerate one...that's why i said so....well, this is just communication....single, communication and understanding are important..
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bb
<br>you have to be considerate too before you ask from the other side. i call this "fair".
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anyway, i want to be a young gal too...
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<br>but, i think ppl need to understand the stories behind..
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Hi, seems u 2 are seriously discussing huh :)
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bb
<br>you are definitely young to me i guess.
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<br>lady
<br>not very serious here. only blow water.
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i can tell you i'm a considerate person....
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<br>but someone is not....that's why i'm mad and grumbling here..
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bb
<br>its good enough if you arre considerate.
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anyway, i always treat others in a nice way...but at the end got hurt... this is my problem...not becos of young gal...i'm old.
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how you got hurt?
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how many gals do u want then?
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I dont need more. Only discuss here.
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someone keep looking for gals ... and told me that he is just playing with me...what can i say?
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<br>but, i got emotionally sticked to him...and really feel bad....
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apart from so called 'being considerate', 'good quality', 'communication', 'mindset'...... , these kind of requirement, another thing which is one of the key elements that leading the relationship to develop is timing. If both parties are ready and sync, then that'd be good.
<br>my 0.02 :-)
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"and told me that he is just playing with me"
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<br>he told you directly? how?
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lady
<br>its true. however hard to get. so I raise this title to discuss.
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how? over the phone!!!
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how should i respond??