您們有無試過突然間唔知點解唔再愛一個人?

[Federic]

OK, my ONLY advice before I head off to the gym:-)



Barbie, you problem with your current bf is that your relationship has become a HABIT and no more spark in your daily interaction. If you live together with him, try to throw things upside down such as moving all things from bedroom to living room, and vice versa. If you eat dinner at 9pm, try eat early dinner or midnight snacks. If you have sex at night, try do that in the morning.



Changing daily habit will help eliminating feeling such as "take it for granted", "old husband old wife", and restore your relationship/love/feeling and spice up your life.......

[Barbie~]

Really?ok..thanks,i try to change all the habits from today.

[Barbie~]

i tried it one day ,it seems really better than b4 wor~

[李男友]

Barbie,

我覺得你有咁既諗法唔會係突然間既事黎,其實可能係你心�堶惜@早都已經有呢個念頭,只不過到左今日你要釋放出黎呢...

[Barbie~]

i may agree ,even i hv no any other sp ,maybe my heart has been changed very long time ago

[李男友]

Barbie,

咁其實會唔會係你因為對你sex partner有左感情,所以令到你對你bf既感情轉淡啊?

[Barbie~]

甘我又分得好開,我對sp一定有感情,但我無期望他會升我級..俾我做他女友.不過如果他肯升我級,我都想專一為他徹底愛一次.....他大我8 年,思想成熟..我都中意~

[msncam]

OO..which means other guys, including me, dun have any chance more...><

[Barbie~]

no la,too much la..dun want to hv any more guys anymore

[李男友]

此終我覺得sp/sl都係一種遊戲,太過投入到最後結果可能最傷既自己...

希望你唔好介意我咁講,因為我未試過,我只係用旁觀者既身份黎睇

如果你真係認為唔再愛你bf,出d同佢提出分手對大家都好既

拖得太奈對雙方都唔好啊~

[msncam]

not even being bf..

[Barbie~]

honestly ,i do enjoy to hv a lots of freedom ..i dun really when i start to think abt it ...even i will be chose to be single .i will not hurry to get any bf right now...

[Barbie~]

But my bf treats me too gd ..so ,i want to change our habits firstly ..lets see my feeling to him will come bk or not..

[李男友]

Barbie,

咁其實你既立場都好鮮明,咁你打算同唔同你bf discuss啊?

[李男友]

Barbie~ replied @ 2009-06-07 12:17 pm



But my bf treats me too gd ..so ,i want to change our habits firstly ..lets see my feeling to him will come bk or not..

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Ok. 咁都好既,再比大家多少少時間,睇下感覺會唔會唔同左啦...

此終好既男仔可遇不可求既,我聽你咁講你bf都算係個好男仔黎啊...

[Barbie~]

過埋下半個月..我會有決定..一係繼續一起..結婚生仔同一係放棄sp...

OR keep relationship with sp ..to be single again

[李男友]

Barbie~ replied @ 2009-06-07 12:22 pm



過埋下半個月..我會有決定..一係繼續一起..結婚生仔同一係放棄sp...

OR keep relationship with sp ..to be single again

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有左決定or有咩唔開心or有咩唔知點解決既都可以上黎大家傾下啊...^-^

多口問句...你sp佢本身有女朋友嗎?

[五尺]

又係sp=.=

[Barbie~]

i never ask him this question ~maybe he has ..but it is not important .we all like to be single.he lives alone

do u think the guy only make love with me three times a month ,will hv gf or not?

[Barbie~]

我呢個Sp就算對我幾好...都無用,他根本養我唔起就算他肯養,又要供車供樓加膽養費比前妻..仲要一班仔成日飲酒...不過他應該幾好收入~

[李男友]

Barbie~ replied @ 2009-06-07 12:28 pm



i never ask him this question ~maybe he has ..but it is not important .we all like to be single.he lives alone

do u think the guy only make love with me three times a month ,will hv gf or not?

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um...好難講喎.我又唔了解你sp為人.或者佢本身已經有(maybe 好多)女朋友,一有時間先揾你"頂"下時間....真係唔知.要你自己先知啊...

你同佢係點認識嫁?

[Barbie]

internet~but not she

[李男友]

Barbie~ replied @ 2009-06-07 12:32 pm



我呢個Sp就算對我幾好...都無用,他根本養我唔起就算他肯養,又要供車供樓加膽養費比前妻..仲要一班仔成日飲酒...不過他應該幾好收入~

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佢年紀幾大啊?睇黎應該係做d高層喎....唔會養你唔起既

如果你真係鐘意佢我相信你唔會介意啊 ?

[Barbie~]

think too much ..our status is not very gd right now..is just ok ,better than sp relationship ..but not gd than couple relationship ..i dun mind what he thinks abt me ..i can earn money to take care of myself independently if i really loves him ..but i will not like to force anyone loves me if he doesn't want me stay with him ~

[李男友]

Barbie,

哈哈....睇黎你係鐘意d無拘束既感情啊...

[Barbie~]

yup~i hv to go la..chat later ~

dun know y i like to hv a lot of freedom right now?

[conferring]

咁突然?

[李男友]

Barbie,

c u & chat later

enjoy yr holiday ^-^

[Barbie~]

conferring,

可能谷得太耐,一下子爆發出來了~感情的東西....變了就是變了

[李男友]

唉...感情呢樣野冇話邊啱邊個錯既

一日未結婚大家都仍然有選擇權利

[Barbie~]

甘我又同意既..不過我宜家比以前現實咗.我以前中意一個人可以什麼都不顧後果..宜家人大咗..對自己中意既人有要求..開始覺得他唔再達標..我就會疏遠他.

[李男友]

啱嫁.隨着年紀既唔同,自己愛情既觀念都唔同左啦

而家既你我諗你會想揾番個俾到安全感你既人啊...

[Kort]

變得比較現實

不再做夢。

[Barbie~]

係呀,同埋對自己好,思想成熟..有少少經濟基礎..唔好要我照顧番他轉頭..以前我好中意一個男仔..但唔好叫他照顧我..連他自己都無能力照顧自己..我諗番覺得自己好傻..他甘無骨氣..又唔上進..我都會中意.

[barbie~]

無曬人啦?

[mon]

Hi barbie~



女仔大佐,思想成熟了,便對身邊的人也有所提高.這亦令妳不再愛他了.

[Barbie~]

我還愛他..只不過他既然沒有想過改變..那所以我不再勉強自己等他姐

[李男友]

畢竟女仔都有日想嫁個好歸宿

唔駛點捱

[mon]

那妳便看看有沒有適合的人在此時出現,有的話便可以考慮了

[李男友]

Barbie,

都係果句"順奇自然啦"

[Den_Nis]

我個女仔fd 寧願同個月入一萬既一齊捱都唔簡個太子仔.....好令我配服~~



兩個都唔樣衰~~~

[Barbie~]

好唔好~看您用那一個角度看..一個可以照顧曬您但您對他完全無感情..送比我都未必要..另一個能夠照顧到自己少少..而彼此相愛..可能我會揀後者.

[mon]

感覺對女孩來說很重要,timing 在其中起了一個相當重要的位置.

那妳願意等,還是不停的去尋覓?

[Barbie~]

不過我應該都就黎接近完全淡忘他..失望得早已盲目了

[mon]

那....分開了嗎?

已經開始步出人生另一個出口?

[Barbie~]

唔等啦,他連承諾會將來照顧我都無..點等?

[李男友]

只可以講你地有緣冇份啊...

[mon]

"他連承諾會將來照顧我都無"



這一句很傷妳心吧...

沒心的傢伙.

[Barbie~]

但是...還有更多出口..未知怎樣好..希望放棄了一個我曾經最愛既人先..再想想和sp有機會否..若沒有..就想想和現任應否繼續一起..若無法選一.就會重過單身生活.

[mon]

那麼多的出口,真的不必為妳擔心呢,

不過,問問自己,妳想怎樣.