未婚女士們~

今天,又在掙扎結不結婚這個問題...

如果結婚結得不開心,那為什麼還要結婚呢?

有沒有未婚女士,仍然單身,卻很享受自己的人生的?

可以分享一下你們維持未婚的心態嗎?

hi

hi, Tu82,

i am single too, but i am not sure if i will be same as you , thinking about to just stay single to spend my rest of my life.

but i don't feel too bad to be single, may be i am too busy. But lately really do feels headache to get alot of my friend complaint about why i am not try to go out more and get a boyfriend, but not sure why, i got no feeling like most of the girl just always thinking where to find a boyfriend.

May be because of my job, kind of busy all the time, i think there is too tired just like those girl just keep doing all the make up and dress up to go to the bar to meet some guy

Or may be because of my apperance, i don't think that is too difficult to get a boyfriend, but that is what make me headache, all my friend also complaint about i am quite pretty, but why always hiding myself, may be because i get hurt before, or may be got too many guy chase me around before and give me headache, that make me thinking those guy just thinking about food around with woman but nothings

今天,又在掙扎結不結婚這個問題...

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淨係睇呢一句, 就顯示出你未適宜結婚住. 因為你根本就唔想結婚.

你幾歲, 如因年齡而結婚已經係錯嘅決定.

支持 dolly 講法.

其實,結婚D野都攪得八八九九...

我當然係愛對方先想同對方結婚...

但對方對結婚的事都幾冷淡...

昨日,我同男友講安排好結婚既事,好開心,佢就話佢根本一D感覺都無...

佢話無感覺,我個心都幾難受...

如果佢無感覺,咁點解又要同我結婚...

結婚,係佢提出先既...

佢咁冷淡,我又點解要勉強自己呢?

多謝 MOMO 的分享...

我諗 MOMO 你係女強人 TYPE...

而且仲要係幾成功果種...

佢話無感覺,我個心都幾難受... <========有心結婚, 無理由無感覺!

佢咁冷淡,我又點解要勉強自己呢?<=======咁你真係要諗清楚啵! 依家重有彎轉喎!

佢話佢對婚禮無感覺...

佢同我結婚係想同我一生一世,想娶我番屋企...

佢話佢唔在乎形式上既野...

就算佢對婚禮無感覺,對娶我為妻都應該會覺得開心啫...

佢話佢預咗會同我一生一世,所以對同我結婚都無感覺...

佢既冷淡既態度,同佢既講法,令我好confused...

Tu82,

i think you have to think it clear before you marry, a guy who had not much feeling about marry with you? how it that happen?

i heard about some similar story before, most of the time, at the end the girl after marry, will find out at the moment she gotten marry, the husband actually had another girl around him. but there is so many girl or boy will marry with a person who they just loved by not gotten love by, so that is all up to you

i think may be you are right, may be i am quite successful, but not really really success i think, i can support myself for live, i think that is minimum for living, i can do whatever i want as well, i think that is kind of luck, may be because i am a girl who love to spend time at home alot, thats why i doesn't gotten feel rush even i am not too young :P, what i concern is at least i can just buying anythings i want, doesn't like there is so many girl have to ask different boyfriend to buy them those brand handbag :P , may be because i already can get what i want, thats why i am not rush la

also, i believe faith la, if there is someone for you, he will appear la, hehe, i do keep myself in good shape especially on skin, even all my friend had to ask me what to use la, if you love him, just go marry, what to confuse?

you can find someone you love is more lucky then those ppl just can find someone who love you but you not really love him, isn't it? :)

Hello Momo,

Thanks for your reply!

I do love him... But not as much as I can totally forget my own need and fully follow him...

Plus, somehow, I realize I'm not as happy as I expected when I'm with him. Sometimes, I would give up my original plan in order to spend time with him. But at the end, I found that I was not that happy... I would think back and imagine maybe I would be happier if I go with the original plan instead of being with him...

You're right, I really have to think clearing before I make a serious mistake of marrying the wrong person.

Tu82, how old are you? are you really just because of your age?

i am not young too, but i do not worry about that , that is faith mah

at least i still knowing about i can attract those guy to looking to me if i go out and dress a bit nice la

just to sure to not give up yourself even he seems give up the relationship with you

my ex-by still act like a crying baby and tell me i give up the relationship, and try to long to make me to go back to him, but the feeling is gone, there is nothings can go back to the same

i won't be because of my age and stay with a person who i had no feeling with, even now, there is a guy who come waiting for me everyday, and doing everythings and try to ask me to try to have relationship with him, but NO feeling , then why have to try?? don't be waste yourself, and waste your time, i do that for the last few years

my ex-bf is a western, he live aboard and i live here, waste so much time to travel around , and also plan to marry, but eventually, both of us not give up to move to other country, then we have to end the relationship too, even he understand i spend so many year with him and he had no money, i still stay with him for those time, at least let those guy knowing love is not about money , and you, not sure how long you stay with him, but what we need is a healthy and normal love life, and not just most of the people to marry a person just because of "responsible" to someone