雖然我已經有一個好固定,對我好好的男朋友,而事實我又唔想同他結婚,甘多年,我身邊亦不乏愛侶,



  • 但總係無一個能夠令我甘於為他留低,我好想成立一個家庭,但為何我沒有想和他結婚的衝動?



  • 因為求過於供



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  • bb



    can we talk in msn now ?



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  • 太陽po



  • lets chat at here la



  • 因為你唔愛佢.



  • 然我已經有一個好固定,對我好好的男朋友,而事實我又唔想同他結婚,甘多年,我身邊亦不乏愛侶,

    但總係無一個能夠令我甘於為他留低,我好想成立一個家庭,但為何我沒有想和他結婚的衝動?

    =============================================



    因為妳太多選擇囉....



    但仲有甘多"愛侶",係咪過份左呢....







  • 唔係,我唔會同一時間有多個男朋友,我知道一直留係我身邊這個是最好,但有時也會愛上別人,但即使愛上,如果對我不好,我也會慢慢走開...

    不知自己在尋找怎樣的男人才覺得好.



  • 或許你倆沒經歷什麼,而且你也覺得他不會離你而去...故還在迷茫中..



  • 我同你有同一個問題, 處境同你不多, 唔見大家時可以幾日都無一個電話, 我唔想打比佢, 佢又唔想打比我, 打都係幾分鐘, 但我又唔係有第二個喎



    真係好淡, 可以無左佢都無咩感覺



    有時真係有D炆



  • 我有時不太清楚自己想什麼,愛上另一個時,會和他約會,發覺還是身邊那個對我最好,就會抑壓自己不要和另一個再發展下去,但會就此把喜歡的感覺埋在心裡.

    再和自己男朋友一起時,有時會想起那個自己喜歡的人...再想想縱然愛也不會有結果...

    但也會不其然傷害了男朋友的感受,我很自私嗎?



  • 花心, 未玩夠





    我勸你短期之內都唔好結婚.



  • 我好honest話您知我已經玩夠....



  • i guess you are looking for a perfect bf, but the fact is, there is no mr. Perfect in real life.



    and eventually you are back to the once who accept you as who you are, but you think he is not good enough for you......



  • 係淡左定未玩夠?



  • 請大家一齊在條cheap港女blog留言, 踢爆佢吹水呃無知電車男.

    http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/michelle-0303/article?mid=243



  • 我有時不太清楚自己想什麼...



    very common in girls..



  • and very commom on guys too....



    no sex differentiations ^^



  • 可能是淡咗,他對我好好,但沒有什麼想和他結婚的衝動.但我喜歡家庭



  • lol.. true..



    我喜歡家庭.. is also a dream of many but when actually building it.. is not easy..



  • 我同樣有呢個問題, 同BF一齊已經7年, 明知佢係個好男人, 但係又會同時鐘情其他人, 甚至同有一段時間同另一個男人發展, 雖然最後同第三者分開左, 但係好明顯自己已經唔可以再同BF繼續走落去。



    bb, 我估你係明知道佢唔係Mr. Right, 所以唔想同佢結婚, 你同佢一齊只係怕一個人寂寞, 當你同時鐘意其他人時, 你又怕另一個人係某方面唔及你BF好, 所以唔敢放棄BF, 你想保護自己。我都試過呢種情況, 結果失去左自己鐘意既人, 而對BF既愛就點都再x燒唔起, 最後只好決定同BF分手, 去搵另一個人。



  • i realised that there is a Confusing Generation....

    who confused about the concepts and just mix everything together....



    they messed up with with how they feel, what they want but they knew about the ultimate truth.... who really fit them and what could benfit them.

    So sad....let the emotions overtook their mind, and eventually they just talked about Feelings, i was one of them too



  • yes.. normally you will lose both party..the lover and your stable bf..



  • Callice,

    我假設您講既野係對.甘如果您已經喜歡另一個人,但明知個個將來一定無宜家呢個對自己甘好,仲要博.唔一定有結果...甘您會如何做?

    比您揀多一次?您會怎樣行?



  • 我當時既情況有D唔同, 第三者對我真係好好, 我只係基於道德責任&世俗壓力唔想揀第三者, 因為佢年紀我好多, 雖然後來已經諗通左, 但係已經太遲, 第三者都已經放低左我。



    我覺得揀邊個都好, 最緊要係開心, 對於我黎講, 可以同一個自己最愛既人一齊就係最開心, 你自己應該FEEL到你愛邊個多D, 同邊一個一齊開心D.



  • 因為你的性格就係水性陽花. 既然上天給你一個這樣的角色, 那你就好好演活佢!



  • callice,

    我覺得同男朋友一起開心些,因為他什麼都就我.我覺得自己中意第三者多些,因為他成熟些,吸引力多些,但無甘錫我^^



  • same as your situation ....... so confusing now ......

    and i can feel how conflict i am !! want to get married ... but dun want to with my BF , but he is a very very very good man ........ and sometimes will " fall in love ? " with other mans .......

    of coz ..... just think of the other mans ..... dun dare to take any action ...



    up to now ....still confusing ........and very afraid of losing everything ......



  • bb & doglover,



    你要問下自己想要愛情多D, 定係要安全感多D

    以前有人同我講, 好男人唔等於Mr. Right, 我聽你地咁講, 應該係BF係某方面唔係你想要既人, 我只可以講, 真正既Mr. Right仲未出現, 我同樣都係到等緊佢出現



  • Callice ,



    but... what if there is no Mr. rt and i break up with my BF ??? ...



    that's what i most concern .... i know it is selfish ...but who doesn't ??? .....



    i want love and safty ..... greedy ....i know ...



  • 我好明白呢種擔憂, 因為我都有同樣既憂慮.



    好多人拍拖, 尤其是係男人唔係揀一個自己好鐘意既人, 佢地覺得相處得舒服就得.



    你同BF一齊, 但又會經常鐘意其他男人,遲早都會比你BF知道, 到時都係一樣會失去佢.



  • 失去咗個時你就知佢好~~



    我以前都有個咁好既男朋友~

    因為第三者分開2次

    第三次佢都仲想我番我一齊添~~ 我都費事累人 ^^



  • SORRY¬ 應係 失去過先識珍惜

    到時一定唔係你而家個bf~



  • bb replied @ 2009-01-25 10:23 pm



    callice,

    我覺得同男朋友一起開心些,因為他什麼都就我.我覺得自己中意第三者多些,因為他成熟些,吸引力多些,但無甘錫我^^



    一句講曬...花貨!!!!!


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