珍惜眼前所有



  • 在感情上,大家都有可能遇上自己喜愛的人,



    但你總不能確定自己是否能得到的對方的心...



    感情總不能一廂情願。



    當你愛的人出現在你面前,我們能做的事就只有盡力,全心全意去愛她...



    你可以對她一心一意,花盡心意去愛,但絕不能失去自我!



    要愛人,先要懂得愛惜自己。





    當自己盡心盡力去愛一個人時,



    千萬不要希望對方為自己做些甚麼,



    因為你有權選擇人,人也有權選擇你。



    人總不能得到全世界,過程是美麗的,情節是動人的。



    一切在努力之後,都可能是徒然,



    但盡心盡力的過程,卻教人多麼享受!



    得到是我們希望的結果,得不到卻是苦澀,但叫人陶醉!



    因為一切事情都在迷糊中,總有很多想像空間。



    也許比真實的來得溫暖,來得動人。



    保持著這點距離,讓大家的關係更美。 





    這點距離之美,能讓人一輩子的回味.



    愛一個人,要學懂放手,學懂不計教,找到自己的位置,讓大家都快樂。



    擁有需要珍惜,失去需要放手。讓自己灑脫做人,學懂愛人愛自己。



  • 我同意



  • 要愛人,先要懂得愛惜自己。


    我最愛看這類文章!謝謝你的分享



  • may be you can put it as the lyric in a song. cheers:)



  • may be you can put it as the lyric in a song. cheers:)



  • Oh. I stole it from someone actually. :P I ain't smart enough to make up this kinda of passage.





    But thanks all for reading though. Just feel like sharing.



  • 愛一個人,要學懂放手,學懂不計教,找到自己的位置,讓大家都快樂。





    擁有需要珍惜,失去需要放手。讓自己灑脫做人,學懂愛人愛自己。





    -> 醒目同知道自己做咩既人, 應該識叫自己停啦; 夠啦.


    貪心既人只會呻自己為對方做好多好多,


    但需知感情唔係算式, 唔係1+1=2,


    懂得放手就等如放開自己.



  • thank you for stealing it and share it with me anyhow, you are a good theft, haha



  • heili,





    However, while we were in relationship, we wouldn't think that way. Our mind was captured by "the one". So... very hard. I don't think I can stop it by myself. Can't use the brain well.



  • eddie,





    you're very welcome. i thought nobody would read it.



  • Snow, that is because you are not fully mature yet.



  • eddie,





    hmm.. why?



  • It takes strange people like me to read it, appreciate it and reply it. :)



  • Snow





    無論結果係點, 又或者係唔係"the one"都好,


    最重要係過程中做好自己既本份為首要任務,


    需知感情係一隻手係拍唔響既, 何況感情係一種很"玄"既事物,


    能做到問心無愧都已經足夠~







  • eddie,





    strange people attract those are really strange? should call ourselves weird Haha..





    I log out from the file and read it once in a while to remind myself.



  • heili,





    Right! 問心無愧 is enough.





    Even "一切在努力之後,都可能是徒然"



  • I do not call this weird. in fact, i am a normal person only i can appreciate your wordings that all.



  • I do not call this weird. in fact, i am a normal person only i can appreciate your wordings that all.



  • I do not call this weird. in fact, i am a normal person only i can appreciate your wordings that all.



  • I do not call this weird. in fact, i am a normal person only i can appreciate your wordings that all.





    the she system just do not welcome my chat here this afternoon, haha, keep kicking me out :(



  • Snow





    "Even "一切在努力之後,都可能是徒然""


    又唔洗諗到咁灰既, 做好自己就可以了.


    我依家對人, 對事, 對感情都會係咁以做好本份為原則,


    唔諗結果因為唔想俾自己咁大壓力,


    但結果反而會好好多,


    因為係自己冇壓力之下去做會發揮到自己既本質,


    而唔係俾人捉住我隻手迫我去,


    做人開心好多lu~










  • eddie,





    Hehe.. It's okay. Now your messages are here.



  • Dont you just hate the refreshing in she? and plus the system out keep occouring, may be it is a sign telling me to stay out and look for friend in msm or mobile. :)



  • eddie,





    yes, it is annoying.





    Hehe.. How has the friend searching been?



  • i dont know how many times i said if the system is out i will just go somewhere else, but failed. i still hang out here once in a while. kind of like some gals said i dont think my boy friend love me as before but....., hahha



  • haha.. we all greedy, aren't we?



  • " greedy " i dont think so, I cant come up with the right word to describe it, but i certainly will not call it greedy in such case.