珍惜眼前所有
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在感情上,大家都有可能遇上自己喜愛的人,
但你總不能確定自己是否能得到的對方的心...
感情總不能一廂情願。
當你愛的人出現在你面前,我們能做的事就只有盡力,全心全意去愛她...
你可以對她一心一意,花盡心意去愛,但絕不能失去自我!
要愛人,先要懂得愛惜自己。
當自己盡心盡力去愛一個人時,
千萬不要希望對方為自己做些甚麼,
因為你有權選擇人,人也有權選擇你。
人總不能得到全世界,過程是美麗的,情節是動人的。
一切在努力之後,都可能是徒然,
但盡心盡力的過程,卻教人多麼享受!
得到是我們希望的結果,得不到卻是苦澀,但叫人陶醉!
因為一切事情都在迷糊中,總有很多想像空間。
也許比真實的來得溫暖,來得動人。
保持著這點距離,讓大家的關係更美。
這點距離之美,能讓人一輩子的回味.
愛一個人,要學懂放手,學懂不計教,找到自己的位置,讓大家都快樂。
擁有需要珍惜,失去需要放手。讓自己灑脫做人,學懂愛人愛自己。
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我同意
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要愛人,先要懂得愛惜自己。<---對!
我最愛看這類文章!謝謝你的分享
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may be you can put it as the lyric in a song. cheers:)
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may be you can put it as the lyric in a song. cheers:)
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Oh. I stole it from someone actually. :P I ain't smart enough to make up this kinda of passage.
But thanks all for reading though. Just feel like sharing.
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愛一個人,要學懂放手,學懂不計教,找到自己的位置,讓大家都快樂。
擁有需要珍惜,失去需要放手。讓自己灑脫做人,學懂愛人愛自己。
-> 醒目同知道自己做咩既人, 應該識叫自己停啦; 夠啦.
貪心既人只會呻自己為對方做好多好多,
但需知感情唔係算式, 唔係1+1=2,
懂得放手就等如放開自己.
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thank you for stealing it and share it with me anyhow, you are a good theft, haha
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heili,
However, while we were in relationship, we wouldn't think that way. Our mind was captured by "the one". So... very hard. I don't think I can stop it by myself. Can't use the brain well.
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eddie,
you're very welcome. i thought nobody would read it.
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Snow, that is because you are not fully mature yet.
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eddie,
hmm.. why?
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It takes strange people like me to read it, appreciate it and reply it. :)
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Snow
無論結果係點, 又或者係唔係"the one"都好,
最重要係過程中做好自己既本份為首要任務,
需知感情係一隻手係拍唔響既, 何況感情係一種很"玄"既事物,
能做到問心無愧都已經足夠~
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eddie,
strange people attract those are really strange? should call ourselves weird Haha..
I log out from the file and read it once in a while to remind myself.
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heili,
Right! 問心無愧 is enough.
Even "一切在努力之後,都可能是徒然"
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I do not call this weird. in fact, i am a normal person only i can appreciate your wordings that all.
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I do not call this weird. in fact, i am a normal person only i can appreciate your wordings that all.
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I do not call this weird. in fact, i am a normal person only i can appreciate your wordings that all.
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I do not call this weird. in fact, i am a normal person only i can appreciate your wordings that all.
the she system just do not welcome my chat here this afternoon, haha, keep kicking me out :(
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Snow
"Even "一切在努力之後,都可能是徒然""
又唔洗諗到咁灰既, 做好自己就可以了.
我依家對人, 對事, 對感情都會係咁以做好本份為原則,
唔諗結果因為唔想俾自己咁大壓力,
但結果反而會好好多,
因為係自己冇壓力之下去做會發揮到自己既本質,
而唔係俾人捉住我隻手迫我去,
做人開心好多lu~
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eddie,
Hehe.. It's okay. Now your messages are here.
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Dont you just hate the refreshing in she? and plus the system out keep occouring, may be it is a sign telling me to stay out and look for friend in msm or mobile. :)
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eddie,
yes, it is annoying.
Hehe.. How has the friend searching been?
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i dont know how many times i said if the system is out i will just go somewhere else, but failed. i still hang out here once in a while. kind of like some gals said i dont think my boy friend love me as before but....., hahha
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haha.. we all greedy, aren't we?
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" greedy " i dont think so, I cant come up with the right word to describe it, but i certainly will not call it greedy in such case.