男朋友係BANKER好辛苦呀

Money wise..if a salesperson in a prestigious bank can make $10M a year. Please don't call a banker making $2M ....a banker. I thought a banker is worth more spotlight than...$2M

ladymarmalade

tom x replied @ 2009-01-01 1:07 am
 
 Hi ladymarmalade
 
 完全明白曬..
 are you banker
 
 ____________________________________________
 
 我都想@___@, 我係餵雞婆一名

and K, what does your banker boyfriend do

ladymarmalade

Chicken feeder earns a chick feed

sorry, don't get your point....

ladymarmalade

K , yr bf likes to 講粗口ma ?
 
 I know many ibankers they like to swear a lot tho they are hightly presentable in emperor armani. Most likely they are educated in the States and never follow the HK mainstream culture, the pseudo-moral culture. Just do the right things at the right time. So after work, or even in office hour, they like to swear, then swear. U can never imagine a perceived highly educated person being like that. Most of them are very testily impatient, typical "A type" character.

actually, Ladymarmalade is a banker cos she speak like a banker.. ha

ladymarmalade

呢排禽流感, 餵雞婆冇得餵雞了

I see something different. Most traders and salespeople are full of foul languages...they fxxk when they trade....
 
 but a true banker...customer relationship "officer"..I doubt they have a bad temper. but...ppl back from the state coulde be arrogant anyway as that's part of US culture.

ladymarmalade

講開粗口, 正如神仙放屁非同凡響, 老細放個屁都特別香既, 講既粗口都特別動聽
 
 我quote返我以前一個老細講過既精竟粗口啦
 
 1) 你....信唔信我x到你訓係度呀?
 
 2) X你老X, 我而家教你做野呀, 唔通同你口交呀?
 
 我每唔開心一諗住呢2句都會即刻笑返, 勁人好多都好躁, A型性格好易有心臟病架, 我就係一個極A的人, 但唔一定會係一個勁人

okay. read a few posts back on first page. Beautyaiya, I think you shall take Federic's advice. try to close the gap between you adn your "banker" boyfriend. If your "banker" boyfriend is truly glorious, you've much to improve to get hold of him. Otherwise, he'll have many other choices. And you're just one of his once-upon-a-time-he-liked-you.

okay. Finished posts on second page. I think Beautyaiya sounded quite stupid. I doubt if she really deserve a banker boyfriend. Or his boyfriend is really a banker (in the glorious sense). Beautyaiya is more like showing off she has a "banker" boyfriend..and attracting some eyeballs. that's about it.
 
 i'm leaving this thread, and back to my work. bye. sorry for the interruption.

ladymarmalade

That's absolutely normal for a lady being irrational, dependent when devoting herself in a relationship. Too mean to say one is stupid for being normal. Being normal is nth wrong tho we know we can be ever better.

are you in this industry? I thought you get used to be mean...and find myself really nice in some sense.
 
 btw, are you a M or F. you always sound like a shemale...

passerby Y
 he is investment,,,,actually im not sure what is duties...he is busy busy and busy
 do you think, you can tell me Investment banker are really busy >.<
 
 lady
 he dont says foul language to me, of course will says with hid pig & dog's friends...haha
 
 cool7002
 are you banker ?

其實都唔明點解呢度硬係有D人要僚交嗌既?我EX係做I-BANK,而我講既都係事實,我唸passerby Y一定係我地業界人仕同好想有一個BANKER男友,唔緊要,我同佢分開佐你可以主動D DATE佢,或者你地可以好夾,我可以私低下比佢電話你,或者可能你都識佢如果你係做CORPORATE LAWYER既話,好主意哩.....
 
 TOM X:
 
 咁你女朋友係做I-BANK定係RETAIL BANK? 如果係RETAIL既,咁就可能你真係唔好放棄,如果I-BANK既話,咁就可以打輸數,因為投資銀行女BANKER的確好忙冇時間同你拉鋸,加上近排佢地壓力好大,冇比人炒都擔心出年唔知有冇邊隻IPO可以上度,佢地而家都係度傷緊腦筋,或者你可以試下咁,如果佢真係做投行既,比多D安慰佢,再做住朋友先,因為呢段時間係非常時期,同呢一類女仔性格好強,唔多需要男人既同情同呵護,所以你係言語上要特別小心,唔好下下比佢覺得你係度同情佢咁,一係你就一頭半個月唔好搵佢,如果佢曾對你有FEEL,佢會心思思,呢個係女仔既心態.....睇下到時佢會唔會搵番你,但亦都有一個可能佢搵番你只當你係知己,到個時你一定要開口問清楚佢中唔中意你,或你想同佢發展,問清楚後得唔得你都可以有個決定.唔緊要啦,試下先啦,試完唔得都叫死心呀嗎! 係咪?

ladymarmalade

passerby Y replied @ 2009-01-01 2:11 am
 
 
 are you in this industry? I thought you get used to be mean...and find myself really nice in some sense.
 
 btw, are you a M or F. you always sound like a shemale...
 
 ______________________________________________________________________
 
 我都話我做餵雞咯, 家陣avian flu冇野做好慘呀, she.com有好多人見過我,你開條thread話懸紅起LM底就得架啦, 我係唔係shemale唔緊要, 但係咪你太多 gender stereotype係你價值觀裡面呢? btw我係benefit條thread有我既she.com 2008大事回顧, 你可以參考下
 
 Beauty, 支持你呀, 唔好理其他人點睇~~~~

HiBeautyaiya,
 
 她是做緊 "Corporate 同 Commercial Relationship Manager 一類，即係作為銀行同銀行之公司客戶的中間人係銀行ｏ既前線工作人員"
 我知道她想同我有發展的,也都試過了, 只是我的表現總不能如她的要求. 她是那種對自己人有諸多要求的人, 但對朋友很友善及很會HELP朋友的人, 其實我都想同佢再做朋友.. 不過這次我地搞到有D不開心..

i thought there wanst any title called "banker" nowadays? : P

hi ladymarmalade,
 
 You do like to "吹水", haaa.. I like you.

CORPORATE LAWYER is not a BANKER
 
 don't make people laugh

Hi Tom:
 
 點解搞到同佢唔開心?不如建議你從佢既星座去改善,我好信星座架,因為真係有D幫助! 作為女性,我都對自己既BF要求會高D,係會高過做朋友個時,如果佢唔係做I-BANK應該壓力冇咁大,我唸佢係對你有意思,唔係女仔唔會對你有要求,例如我對我EX既要求就係一個例子!其實有時你係要細心D留意下佢既表現,如果佢係一個極冇安全感既人,我唸你中意同愛佢既,應該比多D時間同耐性!希望你考慮清楚,有一日佢應承佐你,你要好好對佢,唔好傷害佢.....女仔係週詳考慮後以為可以有依靠但最後對方係咁既會好傷心....

KK,
 
 I did not say Corporate Lawyer is a BANKER, please read it carefully. I just wonder someone came from Legal field. Did you copy?

hi Beatyaiya,
 
 我都同我男朋友分開咗, 情況都係因為佢太注重再意佢事業, 佢唔係banker但佢嘅工作佔咗佢全部時間, 加上佢要讀書考試,佢每日都有無限嘅工作要做, 佢連自己嘅私人時間都無的.
 
 我曾經都好似你咁辛苦, 但我從來唔會怨佢或發佢脾氣, 我只會不斷咁體諒佢, 我相信佢係為咗工作忙而且我知佢想為佢自己事業更上一層樓, 我地試過兩個星下期都見唔到面, 我只有自己搵節目搵朋友, 但有邊個女仔唔想男朋友陪吓拍吓拖..我只有自己搵節目搵朋友,其實真係好寂寞的, 有時有心事想同佢傾都怕阻住佢唔敢揾佢,只有等佢打比我,而佢每日都會打比我就算出咗trip佢都會日日打比我sms我的同我出街佢會好尊重我去邊食咩都會問我先, 唔舒服會關心我, 試問我仲點解要怨佢呢佢已經咁忙,但都抽時間出嚟, 其實佢自己都知好道佢唔可以好似人地嘅男朋友咁日日24小時咁陪住我, 但每當佢出trip我就會好唔捨得但我從來都唔會比佢知道我唔開心, 佢都有問過我同佢一起係咪好寂寞, 我只係會笑笑口咁好似當傾計咁話如果佢有多小小時間陪我就好了,但其實我心知道我地係唔會有改善的,雖然佢安慰我話遲d希望會有改善...終於有一日佢被公司派去第二度做嘢, 長時期都唔會再返嚟, 我地就咁樣分開咗, 之後都好似朋友咁間中聯絡, 但其實我心係仲好掛念好掛念佢,不過我都沒辦法,唯有相信係你始終都會係你, 唔係你嘅無論你做咩都無用. 希望你早日找到你嘅幸福.

hiBeautyaiya,
 
 從佢既星座去改善 ?? really, ok I will try.
 無疑, 她是一個冇安全感既人, 而且是一個極不容易相處的人.
 如有CHANCE的話, 我知道我一定會好好對佢,絕不會傷害佢, 可惜已很難回頭.
 
 Now I just wanna be her normal friends again, maybe I will try to contact her tmw.

hi 過來人,
 
 照你咁樣說, 其實你們的關係已VERY GOOD. WHY 你地不結婚, 然後一起去第二度做嘢.

ladymarmalade

過來人, my situtation was simliar with yrs~~but mine is even worse~~~he was born and works in the States, but sometimes had trip to HK, so we met every 2 month or even longer. And he's the flip-flop type, anyway not as caring as yr guy. That's totally an abnormal relationship, tho I know I have a abnormal background so only deserve an abnormal relationship.

ladymarmalade
 
 I am very interested in your "abnormal background". Can you tell me some?

tom X
 
 我心係好想同佢有future的, 但我自己有時諗既然佢做得呢個決定, 其實短期內都無考慮過要穩定落嚟, 我覺得如果一個男人想結婚的話, 佢自己會提出的, 我地嘅關係又未到可以談婚論嫁. 其實我都好想佢返嚟我身邊ga.

ladymarmalade

i released a bit b4, find it yrself~~~actually some of my she.com friends know it , it's not a big deal nowadays and i dun mind sharing
 
 But very reluctant to disclose upon request , sorry

ladymarmalade
 
 So how long has this relationship been going on?
 What are you planning to do? keep on waiting or find a better person?

ladymarmalade
 
 SL?

ladymarmalade

nearly 3 years, that cannot be quantified by length of time as we seldom met. The last time I met him was half an year ago.
 
 I'm so lost now~~~~ no plan

HI過來人:
 
 我明白你既感受,咁樣其實係有等於冇,一個只注重事業既男人唔會係一個好男人,亦都唔會想同你結婚,你個個雖然注重事業,但都起碼顧及你感受,我EX係連感受都唔會顧你,要來做咩? 可能上天憐憫你,知道你地唔會有未來所以將佢分隔令你重新一段好D既感情.....祝福你! 但千祈唔好同佢進行LD relationship,辛苦同浪廢時間!
 
 to Tom X:
 
 唔好咁快打輸數,從佢星座入手先,仲有一定要同佢講中意佢及想同佢一起,如果佢冇反應先放棄都未LATE,唔好因為佢比檸檬你食就怕,女仔係口是心非架!
 
 TO lady:
 
 唔好灰心,好既野永遠都係最後先來.....唉,點解我都懷疑我係咪愛佢,本來失戀而家變佐安慰人,又或者佢比我太大傷害化悲憤為力量.....

ladymarmalade

Beauty你都話有事業丫,我真係百冇呀

ah ha.. i do quite prefer my partner to be a banker
 as i also dun hve much time to be with him~~ hohoho

Beautyaiya
 
 我唔係好明你�儱N思咩叫 "可能上天憐憫你,知道你地唔會有未來所以將佢分隔令你重新一段好D既感情....." 上天點解要憐憫我呢? 我同得佢一起我就預�鷛

唉過來人,我唸都唔敢唸同佢結婚,半年都搞成咁,所次未來唔敢唸lu.就算再係埋一起,都會有條痕!我有個朋友都係LD佐成三年,但佢地兩個讀書時就識,所以LD我都覺得係要睇兩個人既感情去到邊,我覺得上天自有安排!不過都真係睇你兩個有冇心去keep.Anyway,祝福你兩個啦!
 
 Lady,
 
 事業呢樣野好空範,都係打一份工,點樣先叫事業哩?又唔係自己做生意,所以我都可以講百無,哈!只係可以自己養活自己,唔使靠人咁者.唔明點解d男人搵度一個可以獨立d既又嫌三嫌四,唔通真係想搵一個豪門女士,真係男士嫁入豪門,唔係門當戶對既,都有排受,而家發覺香港社會既男士越來越脆弱,冇出聲,冇責任心,個個都想吃軟飯咁,唉！

hi 過來人,
 
 既然你好想同佢有future的,就無所謂何人提出結婚.至於你地嘅關係什麼時候才是到了可以談婚論嫁, 又誰可說得準呢.
 有時兩個人能否在一起都是睇一時的衝動多於詳細的打算.
 
 Hi Beautyaiya,
 我一早已同佢講中意佢及想同佢一起,大家都也一起賞試過, 不過我總是"ta唔著"佢. 而且大家已糾纏得太耐了, 我才決定放棄.
 
 像你這樣同你EX糾纏了半年, 痛也痛了, 煩也煩過了, 到了this moment其實你已經什麼"隱"都沒有了, 剩下的只是一個決定 : 玩定唔玩而已.
 但其實你必定還是愛佢的, 我相信當任何人用心地去愛一個人時都不這麼容易放得心中那份愛..me 2 u 2..哈.

hi Beautyaiya,
 
 不過睇來你有些灰心了, 否則為什麼要彈"香港社會既男士"呢.. 正如你所講 "好既野永遠都係最後先來" 耐心等等啦..

Bankers....
 
 最忙係倍老闆同客落club,沖涼,
 
 真係搵錢搵得好辛苦.

Hi Tom X:
 
 咁者係你同佢拍過拖呀?.....如果係咁可能真係唔夾,大家要既野都唔同,或者唸法真係差好遠都未定!但點解佢同你拍過拖又叫糾纏哩?唔係你咁快同佢講要娶佢下化?我同你情況唔同,我個情況係佢造成,亦都可以講佢可能未必有咁中意我先會咁.冇錯,我還愛佢,但佢做出來既野係好令人傷心,同通要我死唔要面捉住佢唔放....話曬女仔要面!因為我都唔係好清楚你既情況,例如你平時點同佢相處等等,佢既反應等等,所以我都唔知比咩提示你好,只係可以話你知女仔如果對一個男仔冇feel,係會比男仔決絕d暗示佢知或拒絕的,除非個d十八廿二既女仔,唔中意人又要拖住人佔人便宜.所以可能只有你最清楚佢係點,咁如果你當面同佢講中意佢,第一次唔得,你應該等有機會再講,第二次都唔得既,可能佢背後都有一個,及當你真你知己,女仔既直覺係好準架,中意既一般唔會咁拖拖拉拉.所以你再睇下有冇機會再作打算,過埋今個情人節先啦,好冇? 比多d信心自己啦....

hi Beautyaiya,
 
 我同佢沒有完全正式地拍過拖, 即是沒有拖手仔, 但我一早已表示我想同佢一齊, 所以大家就KEEP約會.. 但佢也都唔俾我拖手仔 .......所以叫做糾纏LOR. 最近,其實佢也都暗示我地唔得..
 
 唔係我對自己沒信心, 係我唔想再花時間這麼糾纏下去, 大家都唔細啦.

tom:
 咁佢可能真係當你知己,佢仲有冇ｄ咩蛛絲馬跡暗示中意你呀？冇既咁我覺得你都係唔好花時間啦！女仔一但當你知己,就好難再轉變唸法,除非你一直無私奉獻,有一日佢受到最大打擊可能會應成你發展都未定！但我相信現代社會唔會再有咁既男仔願意等待,你亦都唔會,因為唔係做緊電視劇！算啦....到我安慰番你,放低啦！

hi Beautyaiya,
 
 有, 我追了她半年後, 第一次(今年年中)佢要求我地可以開始,當時其實我已經想放棄了, 結果我地正式地DATE過一次. 之後佢就無聲地消失, 無論如她都不接我TEL. 當時真的HURT得好緊要.
 
 第二次(3個前)佢主動搵反我, 1個月後我要求俾大家多一次機會, 她也默認了, 然後我地又開始約會,剛剛時都很順利,可惜只能維持1個月不到, 又再次不順了, 她開始話我煩, 開始不怎麼接我TEL, 開始彈我這樣那樣的. 但我地都間中會出來DINNER..
 
 其實我在她心中可能只是一條"雞肋"..HAHA
 (死啦, 如果佢有上SHE, 佢一定知道我在說她.)

Tom:
 
 我明啦！佢其實唔係咁中意你或你唔係佢既tpye,但想比機會同你試下因為我相信你有你既優點,可能佢睇係你既優點份上所以比機會你,但佢過唔度自己個關,通常女仔對自己心上人有期望,亦者係希望對方煩佢多ｄcall佢以證明佢係對方心目中既地位！所以呢一點我肯定你唔係佢杯茶！
 第二,一係佢亦都可能過去受到好大傷害,呢一點你要問佢,如果佢肯講既你就開導佢,如果佢肯講證明你有機,唔肯講你就算啦！點解你地半年先見兩次面既？都唔叫拍拖呀．．．又唔係LD關係,有點兒複雜！咁啦,你比多次機會大家,即係第三次,人總要比自己設下期限！第三次佢仲比機會既你就真係唔好成日打比佢,間唔中send下短信比佢就ok．．．．仲有第三次機會就要小心處理,唔係就冇架啦.講真你真係咁愛佢？

hi Beautyaiya,
 
 我地終於用步on SHE 啦..
 
 哈你真的很了解她, 你地女仔果然有很相同的特點. 佢亦真的是過去受到一次好大傷害, 佢也大約地同我的呻過. 我同佢真係不同TYPE, 開始時我所有的朋友都已睇死我地唔WORK 了.
 
 我地唔係半年先見兩次面, 而是中間有3個朋沒有CONTACT. 我的下限期到了, 所以我相信唔會有三次機會.
 
 講真的我真係很愛佢的, 不過如果對方無意弈只好CUT LOSS...

hi Beautyaiya,
 
 睇來衣家係我霸佔了你條thread了..

Tom:
 
 唔緊要啦,正如我所講好既係唔會來得太早,可能上天都係比你實習下同女仔相處技巧,我相信你一定會搵到真正屬於你既人,都係一句"落花有意,流水無情",但係一場春雨後,落化一定會有一堆水等住佢漂落來.....我都聽你講CUT LOSS佐,因為女仔第六感好準,我絕對相信我ex係識佐第二個.冇所謂啦,我好彩仲有份專業既工作,所以我都承受得住,亦都好多謝你既指點及安慰!THANKS A LOT tom. :)

hi Beautyaiya,
 
 我都係相信只要肯賞試我一定會搵到真正屬於我既人, 過程自然有苦有樂.. 不過追女/男仔是一種美好的事, 所以無論結果如何在我的記憶中都是樂的多.
 
 至於你, 相信你只要放得低, 最終這次經歷都會成為你的美好記憶中的一部份.
 
 有時傷感地牽掛一個人, 都可以是一種迷人的感覺....人生百味, 味味皆"正". 是吧.