How to be more outgoing???
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My personality really sucks! Anyone can teach me how to be more outgoing?
I was born to be very introverted and shy. But I found this society prefers extrovert / outgoing people. please help!!!
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open mind
don't be a tradiotional HK guys/girls
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anyone here?
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thx engles
how can i open up my mind ? im living in HK, so i have to adopt its culture...i feel im a failure in all aspect, eg career, intimate relationship, family, friends...
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it seems all HK people like outgoing people. as from the job ad, all jobs require "outgoing personality".
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date more ppl and train from it
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Extracomfort
actually, i dont like any socializing activities. & i wont be bored staying at home. very enjoy indeed.
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and no target to date~
i have been unemployed for a few months, no money to go out.
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you dont like any socializing activities,
that's your characteristic..and it is fine
why you have to force yourself become outgoing?
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one word - action! :)
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just feel hard to find a job, even i have a bachelor degree. all jobs in HK requie SELLING / meeting clients, but my image to all interviewers is SHY & QUIET.
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Extracomfort
because "outgoing" is crucial in career. even a customer service/ receptionist needs to be talkative / outgoing.
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birds, so it's job interview your reason for a change? :)
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hm...........
hard to find a job because of the worldwide economic enviornment..
dont put too much onto your shoulder....just relax..
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i dare not to talk to strangers and my voice is really soft. also my face will turn red easily. how to improve?
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talk more....that;s it
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PrincessDaisy
the main reason la.
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birds, if your mission is clear, then it's not that hard for such a change. maybe you can start from joining friend's gathering first, there you may have chance to meet more new faces.
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Extracomfort
maybe, but i have grad for 5 years. and still earning less than 10k.
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most of my frds with the same age earn 20-30k, no matter of their education.
its really a shame for me to tell others what i do.
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feel im useless
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u r not... 每個人都有專長...你未利用到姐
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i was always the top 3 in class (when i was in school), but i maybe those 高分低能.
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因為大學既major 對工作完全冇用, 係搵唔到相關既工. 自己性格又唔岩做sales. 搵文員又唔請, 因覺得我騎牛搵馬, 唔知點好.
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妳好似個自信心勁低...
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再讀書又要好多錢, and 年紀大了,讀左都唔保證搵到好d既工
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yes, im 自信心勁低
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唔好咁啦
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thx, Extracomfort
any suggestion for me?
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im not ambitious, but still want to earn more / improve my career
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要個人開朗d先..唔好亂埋一面
順其自然d.
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Extracomfort
may i know what u do? what do u think i can do ? which field can suit an introvert?
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the interviewer said i didnt smile a lot during the interview and seemed nervous, not talkative...
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marketing...所以吹水係我強項
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its just a post sitting at the reception.
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我都唔多講野..
不過講既野有point
做人最重要係搵到自己既目標
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see. its interesting.
所以吹水係我強項 -> its my weakness . thats why i cant enter marketing.
but there are not many jobs for U grad dont require marketing skill.
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marketing 要communication skill
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PP
i dont have target. and 我行錯曬路. 我跟本唔岩做sales.
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Extracomfort
how to improve the communication skill? i think im ok to talk with my frds. but dont like talking to strangers.
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strangers咪又係人, 唔熟既朋友LOR
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我諗我性格好難改. 諗緊好唔好用十幾萬讀番個有用既degree/ master.
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搵少啲咪搵少啲, 唔好勉強自己outgoing, 否則搵多咗都會唔開心
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版主你幾歲?
係咪同屋企人住?
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sl
依家係好難搵工/直頭搵唔到工. 我大學畢業+幾年business工作經驗. 想搵clerk/account clerk/ shipping clerk/ receptionist/ admin都唔會有得in.
大學畢業, 做唔番自己profession, 只有sales related 既工可選擇.
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Just4U
im 27, living with family.
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你搵d咁低職位, 寫大學畢業實無人搵你in啦
你可以搵啲sales coordinator之類
你係邊科畢業?
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我初出黎做嘢都係好怕醜,因自少都好自悲,唔敢同人講嘢,放假留係屋企,無朋友,就算同學出黎我都唔出,更加無拍拖...
後尾同自己講,唔可以再咁樣,要改變自己,融入社會,一次唔得,第二次,我唔信試多幾次都唔得,放胆去試吓!!我最怕多人嘅地方,但我竟然叫朋友帶我去LKF,我唔識跳舞,但亦都跟住人跳...我怕同男仔傾計,但我都迫自己同佢哋多啲接觸...
自己係一個正常人黎架,怕嘜嘢...
你大學都上到,有咩難到你,話俾自己知你得嘅...你就得...
你未做就睇死自己,己經輸咗俾自己啦...
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sales coordinator is similar to clerk, i rejected an offer of sales coordinator a few months ago, because of super low salary. $9k.
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呢d野冇得教,你唔係咁既人始終做唔到