好想同佢分手,但一齊左九年,我知我因為唔捨得先係咁拖…突然覺得自己好蠢、好傻、好昂居,為個咁既男人浪費左自己九年時間…唉…





  • 點解你會有咁既想法?



  • 一齊左九年先發覺個男人原來唔係咁中意你,永遠將你排第尾…



  • 但係你將自己同咩比?



  • 我剛剛跟妳相反...不經不閣八年...我可能前世欠了她?



  • 同佢啲朋友…



  • 有人話你應該愛人七分,愛自己三分...



  • 我真係唔知問題出左喺邊,但係呢兩日真係好想離開佢,再咁落去唔係辦法…況且,我諗佢宜家都唔會想同我結婚。我唔想再拖,但每次佢唔打電話比我既時候,我最多只係忍到兩日就會忍唔住自己打比佢…唉…都唔知點好…



  • 可能你真係好愛佢?



  • 傻瓜


    你仲愛唔愛佢?



  • 初初我都諗我係咪真係好愛佢…但宜家某程度可能覺得好唔抵…



  • 佢平時都對你唔好?







  • 好多時都係因為唔甘心而繼續 一齊,


    正正為左唔甘心.....令到失去更多



  • 佢中意同心情好就會對我好好,一日打好多個電話同我傾計;但佢唔中意嗰陣可以成個禮拜一個電話都唔打比我,我連佢係生係死都唔知…


    sex又係咁,中意就日日黎,唔中意就成個月都唔比一次我…


    自己屋企啲貓貓狗狗、自己啲同事朋友一開聲叫佢就有接有送,我?…



  • 有沒有女士感到孤獨,想在聖誕節一起慶祝 (吃, 喝或任何您想要)


    我是男, 28, 175tall, 有車


    MSN or Email me MikeLee28888@yahoo.com




  • 咁佢都幾難捉摸....




  • 我記得有人同我講過,拍拖應該係開心既,當拍拖拍到流眼淚既時候就係分手既時候…


    我諗,我已經拖左三年啦…我陪佢一齊難捉摸左起碼三年啦!每次當佢知我唔開心佢都會tum我,咁我咪又無野囉,來來去去咁…都唔知佢要擾攘幾耐呀!



  • 決段啲啦





    可以做朋友嗎?




  • i went tru all thse things for 7 years and i decided to leave him last year...i divorced at last......i m now single but i met my lovely bf..i am 37 already...





    same case as u..his frds r more importnat that i am..



  • 繼續係咁...第2個9年又好快過



  • 我諗我係驚頂唔到開頭分開嗰種唔習慣姐,但係我叫佢同我講唔要我,佢又唔肯,我又講唔出口喎…





    bingo︰我都想決斷啲…但真係一對住佢就唔敢講…我都唔知會唔會有朋友做,但我知佢唔會無端端搵人。


    bbe︰你嗰陣點同佢分?


    Tigger︰我都驚拖拖下拖多個九年…




  • at the first few years..i didnt want to face the problems..as i knew we have so many problems already......


    till one day..i cant standa nymore.i rather cut it short..i dont have another 7 yrs to waste and i want to get back my happiness..


    so i talked to him..he respect my decision..(divorce)


    but thanks to my frds..frds r so needed to go tru on those sadness days...


    i got 0 penny from him ..i didnt not request him to sell the house we own..coz..his mom treats me like her daughter....so i left with nothing on my hand.......



  • 咁你地有咩問題…同埋你同佢傾左幾耐?點傾?





    我同佢好難傾,我一開始想講我地有問題佢就會即刻stop我…



  • first i told him i have to leave n go somwhere tothink about our marriage..then i left him for 3 montsh..


    after 3 months later..i went back and talked to him...





    we both will get used and find out if we are stilll can b together or not......



  • hi bbe, what you did is correct as we dont have 9 years to waste as time will never come back. its better to let go with nothing and gain what you have from there. We started out with noting when we came into this world.





    You are so brave.





    傻瓜,





    Its time to let go. 9 years is 1/3 of our life if you are in your 30's. You dont have another 9 years to waste as youth is gone already.



  • 點解身邊咁多呢d人ga...



  • 咁我宜家應該點做?我真係唔敢講,同埋一講佢就即刻會轉話題或者tum我或者用sex引我…


    我真係唔識點樣繼續玩呢個遊戲…



  • advisor


    true..i m now found my happiness..i m more happy than ever and so does him...


    he is a nice guy but just didnt work..we have to let go sometimes to exchange our happiness..we both are happy now...and we still keep as good frd..just like one of my family member..



  • 咁我宜家應該點做?我真係唔敢講,同埋一講佢就即刻會轉話題或者tum我或者用sex引我…


    我真係唔識點樣繼續玩呢個遊戲…





    試下搵其他野吸引自己注意力la


    e.g 打機, 睇書, 睇戲, 運動, cook, etc



  • advisor





    let go with nothing and gain what you have from there. We started out with noting when we came into this world





    this was what i told myself when i decided not to get anything from him..



  • silly


    i think u have to sit down n talk about ur problems with him seriously..just reject him when he uses sex to seduce u..



  • 其實我宜家就喺佢屋企…我宜家同佢講定聽日先講好?但係佢宜家喺度做緊啲唔應該做既野…佢唔中意我喺佢做呢樣野嗰陣騷擾佢…



  • 傻瓜,





    我係過來人, 同老婆拍左9年拖, 剛結左婚... 結婚我係為左責任, 不過婚姻生活並不太如意... 如果可以再揀, 我會分開好過!!



  • ..............................................


    你仲要就佢?


    你當自己係工人?


    你係人! 你可以變公主, 女王~


    無必要就佢丫~



  • 唉…我試下啦…但係可唔可以教我一句開場白呀?



  • silly


    just thnk what u going to tell first..is he ready to talk now? does he has to work tmr? if yes..why dont u talk tmr? i think it needs hours to finish the talks.



  • 呢d野...我無咩經驗...


    不過如果係我


    我會直接同佢講~


    我地之間有問題~


    我要解決佢~




  • 'hey..we need to talk.......'



  • 我好肯定唔駛好耐時間囉…


    一係就比佢stop左,一係我就執野走…



  • 好…我一於宜家同佢講啦…聽日我會返黎report



  • remembe to calm down...dont argue ar..



  • so... any updates?



  • 惠敏係個人板



  • 我地兩個尋晚都無訓,我一路喺度諗緊點講,佢就喺度做佢自己做緊既野,大家完全無傾計、無交流。





    到今朝我臨走嗰陣我同佢講︰「不如比十日時間大家諗下好唔好再一齊啦。」


    佢話︰「又做咩呀?好地地諗咩喎?」


    我︰「我覺得我地好有問題,我根本一啲都唔重要。」


    佢︰「好!你講得呢句就返唔到轉頭,以後唔x駛黎啦你,痴x線,xxxx,成日煩x我,我都就x曬你架啦,你仲想點x樣呀?換衫走啦,唔x留你啦!」





    之後我換完衫就出去洗面刷牙,之後返房,佢又無端端同我講對唔住呀,我係燥啲,我對你再好啲囉…





    之後我無睬佢走左…





    咁宜家即係點呀?



  • gosh... he always use such sentence to talk to you?





    i think he does not know how to respect other people at all.





    firstly, have you make up your mind yet?


    break up or carry on with him for the rest of your life.


    it is a very important question



  • 我都唔知呀…佢對我好嗰陣就真係好好,我全部屋企人同朋友都覺得佢對我好…





    但係佢對我差嗰陣就只得我同佢知…佢對我差我就想走,但每次都忍唔住自己打返電話比佢,都唔知要拖到幾時…





    今日仲要搞成咁,都唔知即係點…又唔知佢晏啲會唔會打比我…唉…宜家好煩呀!



  • 係就快啲啦, 等多啲人執執位打多四圈



  • 講清楚小小...



  • 我覺得拍緊拖最起碼一日要有一個電話囉…起碼我都知你無事嘛,但佢可以好耐好多日都唔打一次比我,我都忍左起碼三日先打比佢,但一拎起個電話就係 咩呀…


    即係嫌我煩嗰啲聲線。





    佢成日都旨意我幫佢餵貓狗,遲左一陣餵就同啲貓狗講唉…無人錫你架啦…





    佢啲朋友、同事叫佢車佢去邊去邊,佢永無甩拖,但我…佢就話架車就黎無油,總之籍口多多,心情好好先會車我返工。試過有一次佢約我喺一個地方等車我返屋企,但我等左佢九個字,佢打黎話比我知佢黎唔到…因為要車個朋友去將軍澳。





    但我好肯定佢出面唔係有第二個先對我咁,佢係由始至終都係咁…





    大家覺得我值唔值得為個咁既人繼續落去?



  • silly





    dont worry.. u take these few days to see how he react and respond.. i understand how u feel.. like my ex hubby..he never called me in a day..at least i know he is safe..


    and he always sacrifice his sleep for his friennds bt when for me.. he will never remember to wake up..sigh!!


    now..u may think deeply..dont listen to others.


    .u think if u need this guy or not?


    ..is this guy u want to be with for ur whole life.?..


    u are the one who spend ur life with and u are the one who face him till end of your life..not ur parents nor ur friends... u weigh it...