同男友突然嘈交, 你地覺得點?



  • 琴晚, 突然同男友嘈交, 佢send sms 話比我知佢份工唔係可以成日好快咁reply到我sms (我都知佢返工, 冇要求即時回), 重話佢好重視份工, 好啦, 到11點幾, 佢send sms比我, 話佢攰, 想早點訓, 唔打比我了, 但我都同佢講想傾一陣.



    到佢放工打比我, 語氣好冷淡, 佢好燥, 嘈左幾句, 收線後sms, 到點幾, 佢話我咁大個人唔識諗, 唔識分輕重, 原本我同佢話不如今日食lunch, 佢話要返parttime, 所以冇陪我, 今早我突然心血來朝打去佢屋企, 佢聽電話, 我心都碎埋, 佢又呃我, 我sms佢唔覆, 電話唔聽, 最後都有聽喇, 佢又發脾氣, 講多幾句就cut我線, 仲要之後到而家都搵唔到佢...



    大家覺得, 佢想分手嗎?



  • 妳首先要查吓佢有冇第三者, 或妳是第三者.


    佢以往有冇試過呃妳,


    佢是否真是工作好煩和好攰.


    妳了解完再, 決定



  • 八雲:





    我同佢一齊半年, 沒有第三者.


    他曾呃過我一次, 明明不用返工, 但和我說要返工, 最後是和朋友去踏單車.


    他的工作常常要企, 都幾攰, 面對不同的客人.


    但最近對我, 我暴燥了許多.



  • 我覺得佢心理唔係太正常, 照你咁講





    你有被虐狂既咪繼續同佢一齊啦



  • 其實我也覺得他有點控制不到自己的情緒, 但又未到虐待狂



  • 搵定第個啦, 完全唔可以接受, 佢應該唔係讀太多書吧



  • 佢真係唔係讀太多書. 但你覺得佢想分手嗎?



  • ladymarmalade





    你呢幅係咪男插男? 好核突



  • 佢做邊行架, 係咪真係太忙所以心情唔好?



  • 你太睇低你自己, 當你你大個左,有智慧,有自信,多左女人味,識得打扮, 你就會覺得同呢d垃圾一齊係侮辱你自己





    而家放唔低係好正常, 但睇野要睇遠d





    你咁care佢想唔想分手做乜啫, 問題所在佢係一件未受過教育既垃圾呀




  • 核突?名畫黎架, 歷史同藝術唔駛送檢架



  • ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 5:48 pm





    搵定第個啦, 完全唔可以接受, 佢應該唔係讀太多書吧





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    同讀幾多書有咩關係呢? 咁你整張咁既相出黎又讀幾多書呢? 你從事藝術的嗎?



  • 原來唔止我一個話你核突



  • ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 5:55 pm





    你太睇低你自己, 當你你大個左,有智慧,有自信,多左女人味,識得打扮, 你就會覺得同呢d垃圾一齊係侮辱你自己





    而家放唔低係好正常, 但睇野要睇遠d





    你咁care佢想唔想分手做乜啫, 問題所在佢係一件未受過教育既垃圾呀


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    我都覺得重點不在佢想唔想, 是妳想唔想囉



  • 有得選當然選個學歷高d, 雖然讀得書多都可以係一個賤人



  • 我唔想分手, 我好愛佢, 我26歲, 不是小朋友了,



  • 如果妳同妳男友相處唔開心, 妳用盡方法後都不能令妳自己覺得開心, 咁咪分手囉. 做人要開心, 拍拖都是要開心, 何必要自己令自己唔開心.



  • 根本佢就唔想對住你, 覺得你煩過西....


    分手啦, 佢已經唔鐘意你


    鐘意一個人, 表現唔係咁



  • 讀幾多書,都有權利去愛人, 他做 Customer Service, 所以好忙



  • 佢有冇試過兜巴星你呀?



  • ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 6:01 pm





    有得選當然選個學歷高d, 雖然讀得書多都可以係一個賤人





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    同意, 所以名畫亦唔一定代表有品味



  • cc, 我諗佢真係覺得我煩.





    八雲, 我地常吵架, 但過往一個月, 我們真心相待, 果一個月入面真係冇嘈過交, 仲好sweet.



  • casiostar replied @ 2008-12-13 6:01 pm





    我唔想分手, 我好愛佢, 我26歲, 不是小朋友了,


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    妳肉體就不是小朋友, 但思想就唔知.


    我會覺得如果妳真是好愛佢, 妳就會包容佢的缺點, 由內心發出來的, 不會介意他所做的不是, 如果妳介意, 又令妳唔開心, 我不覺妳是好愛佢囉.



  • 佢唔會打我.



  • 岩呀, 好多名畫變左黎保值同炒



  • 容忍已超愈限度, 你得閒下張小閑既再見野鼬鼠啦, 你應該有共鳴



  • 八雲, 我只是想他不要太大男人, 太暴燥, 其他, 我一直在忍受, 我很愛他,



  • 可能工作心情唔好呢



  • 你首先要建立自信



  • yyn, 我也想這樣, 我也想自己想多了. 謝謝你.



  • casiostar replied @ 2008-12-13 6:08 pm





    八雲, 我只是想他不要太大男人, 太暴燥, 其他, 我一直在忍受, 我很愛他,


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    通常, 都不要諗妳可以改變一個人, 江山易改, 本性難移, 妳接受就一齊, 唔接受, 就要考慮走.



  • 連去踏單車都要呃你, 同佢溝通都好辛苦


    呢度大把好男仔, 至少八雲一定好過佢



  • 我接受的, 我很遷就他, 也過份地擔心 / 關心他.



  • 可能你右腦太強, 有時都要用下左腦平衡返



  • highlighted two alleged facts here..





    到11點幾, 佢send sms比我, 話佢攰, 想早點訓, 唔打比我了...





    11pm ? how late does he normally sleep when u guys are sweet together ?





    could you use to call him when times are good ?





    understood work is not easy these days.. but not too difficult to call or text for a few mins ?





    tell him that in relationship, can share good and BAD.. maybe he had a bad day or tough time from boss or bad time with parents.... can still share with you..





    今早我突然心血來朝打去佢屋企, 佢聽電話, 我心都碎埋, 佢又呃我...


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    what did he lie to you about ?





    if you guys want to continue.. need to find time together to communicate your position..





    if there is love.. then should really come out, talk about how to compromise.. how u can make him feel better..





    if this nothing to talk about attitude persist, and you cannot reach him.. then he may have someone else in mind..





    you are 26, even if you are 36, still lots of time..





    best wishes..
















  • 男人有時做野做得辛苦或者唔如意


    可能會暴燥D





    呢D時候最好俾佢一個人靜下,唔好send sms或者 call佢,如果唔係佢會覺得你好煩





    佢個人心情平復左自然會搵你



  • ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 6:12 pm





    連去踏單車都要呃你, 同佢溝通都好辛苦


    呢度大把好男仔, 至少八雲一定好過�


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    謝謝, 我已經有女友, 妳也很好, 幾博學



  • 八雲 replied @ 2008-12-13 6:15 pm





    ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 6:12 pm





    連去踏單車都要呃你, 同佢溝通都好辛苦


    呢度大把好男仔, 至少八雲一定好過?


    ------------------


    謝謝, 我已經有女友, 妳也很好, 幾博學





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    嘩!! 你地係咪做"枚"��, wakakakaka,講笑者,無惡意



  • 我也知道該讓他靜一下, 但平日吵架, 他也會reply 我sms的.



  • 好似我亞哥同亞嫂咁, 我亞哥勁蝦我亞嫂 (細節唔講)





    蝦左十幾年, 我亞嫂人格已經俾佢蝦到唔係一個正常人咁(完全冇自尊, 叫佢坐唔敢企), 最後我亞哥蝦佢蝦到覺得冇得再蝦 (一個人俾你精神虐待到變左精神有問題, 仲可以同佢玩到d乜), 咪返大陸蝦其他女人囉, 最後離婚收場一毫子謄養費都冇俾到, 一個三十幾歲女人得中三學歷拖住個女周圍寄人籬下





    脾氣只會愈黎愈大, 佢只會對你愈黎愈差



  • casiostar replied @ 2008-12-13 6:20 pm





    我也知道該讓他靜一下, 但平日吵架, 他也會reply 我sms的.





    佢應該好大壓力










  • 有壓力可以同女朋友share嘛, 但不是不理女友



  • 但平日吵架, 他也會reply 我sms的..





    yes.. he has pressure.. but not sure from what.. and for what reason why he switch off mob.. and was he at work when he switch off mob..



  • ladymarmalade replied @ 2008-12-13 6:20 pm





    好似我亞哥同亞嫂咁, 我亞哥勁蝦我亞嫂 (細節唔講)





    蝦左十幾年, 我亞嫂人格已經俾佢蝦到唔係一個正常人咁(完全冇自尊, 叫佢坐唔敢企), 最後我亞哥蝦佢蝦到覺得冇得再蝦 (一個人俾你精神虐待到變左精神有問題, 仲可以同佢玩到d乜), 咪返大陸蝦其他女人囉, 最後離婚收場一毫子謄養費都冇俾到, 一個三十幾歲女人得中三學歷拖住個女周圍寄人籬下





    脾氣只會愈黎愈大, 佢只會對你愈黎愈差





    個女人前世做錯d咩


    個女人而家点吖



  • casiostar replied @ 2008-12-13 6:24 pm





    有壓力可以同女朋友share嘛, 但不是不理女友





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    有時男人唔想將自己工作上�黈z點,暴露係GF面前



  • i feel so ashamed of having such sibling





    share with u later guys , got to take exam at 7pm now , see ya



  • 有時男人唔想將自己工作上鮋弱點,暴露係GF面前


    ...............





    is all speculation..





    please arrange a nice meeting with to find out as soon as possible.. like tonight..





    then u can clear your mind..







  • 係呀, 好多男人都係收埋收埋, 你一管佢就發出黎架啦~


    雖然好似好無品, 但有時都係個人性格黎的



  • 佢唔會收埋的, 咩都暴出黎.



  • 核突?名畫黎架, 歷史同藝術唔駛送檢架





    你呢d係性交圖片喎, 乜可以光明正大咁展示既咩? 等我8pm考完試番黎, 摷下d春宮圖比大家


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