同男友突然嘈交, 你地覺得點?

你地成日講住幅晝, 真係好煩, 理下版主單野啦

我真係覺得好無助,

no need to fan
 
 just suggested u should ask him out tonite to speak
 
 is sat, if he doesn't need to work, can be with gf ?

casioster
 你同佢傾下你感受, 如果都唔多理, 又覺你好煩, 咁你走啦, 搵個鍚你既男人啦, 你唔洗諗可以改變到佢, 佢係咁就係咁架啦

原本明晚一齊晚飯, 佢話我煩, 唔去

甘像我以前個frd,他可能唔係想分手,不過他講到明他唔太care呢段關係羅!

我拍過十次拖, 最清楚D男人, 信我啦, 分左都唔洗恨

擺到明, 唔care 你

i only had 2 serious relationships (4 n half yrs and 1 yrs).. but quite a few intimate encounters with 'friends'..
 
 if he don't want to see or call..
 
 i am afraid ..
 
 he wants new girl or he has one already..

benefit,我都有咁諗過.
 
 我同佢講過, 佢唔太care我, 佢話佢唔識表達自己, 好似我之前發生了點事, 佢好care 我, 好warm.

that's good..
 
 i suggest ...
 
 u buy him sweet soup .. since he has temper..
 
 and talk to him sweetly .. ask him you are there for him if he has any problems..

benefit ,
 u seems think very positive wor ..
 but do u know men ga? if the guy always said busy and told lies ,he doesn't really like the gals much .at least ,i know if the guy likes the gal,will not make her down and worry .

版主，妳要識男人心理，同點樣同佢相
 處。但我奇怪其他人好似幾悲觀，一面
 倒。

maggie.. i understand..
 
 please kindly read my post above..
 
 is just casiostar likes this guy and seems they have not really sit down and talk about this communication problem..
 
 i think there is no harm in trying to talk sin..
 
 if this fails.. then something is up..
 
 at this moment, we don't know why he lost interest..
 
 is it because he has pressure from work / parents / gf
 
 or he lost interest in the girl ..
 
 would u not agree ?

我男友夠大壓力, 成日好忙要開工啦, 都唔會咁對我, 仲每天放左工, 一定打俾我, 同我傾下計, 有時佢做到好夜, 都要走來望一望我先心息

ladymarmalade

佢搵幾多錢一個月呀? 俾盡佢1XK一個月啦, 搵1XK已經係咁既態度, 俾佢搵1XXK一個月咁佢就真係要日日星巴你啦, 搵錢愈多, 壓力愈大, 壓力大大手然哂既
 
 不過佢咁既質素搵到咁多錢先算啦

板主:
 原本我同佢話不如今日食lunch, 佢話要返parttime, 所以冇陪我, 今早我突然心血來朝打去佢屋企, 佢聽電話, 我心都碎埋, 佢又呃我
 ____________________________________
 
 板主:
 你明白佢躁你的原因嗎?...... 就是他覺得你没有給他"空間".
 
 他可能想有時就算唔返工, 都有自已事做, 不是不愛你表現, 只是佢想做自已野的保贵時間.
 
 但有時人的表達方式不好. 與其向你講"我自已放假都想做自已野,唔陪你la", 以免你烦落去問點解唔陪我呀..... 只有惜其他藉口(如返工)來說以免你"乍型"
 咁唔係犯大罪.
 
 每個問題都有根源, 與其在结構上鑽牛角尖, 尋根究低, 你才知道點解佢有咁既反應....
 
 (待續)

你的想法是: 我很珍惜我們相處時間, 所以要求在大家off work 一起....
 他: 除了一起時間外, 我也想有自已時間.
 
 無論怎樣, 大家攤開個話題出來說. 大家達成共識及明白. 那他不會諗藉口不跟你一起, 而你又明白, 不會覺得他骗你.
 做一個善解人意的女友*, 係男友之福, 他自然覺得你是最好了.
 
 他次躁是因為自已的"謊言"給揭穿了, 又覺得自已私隱給你侵犯, 才"發難乍"先發制人者.
 
 *善解人意的女友 : 不是セ都無主見的小女人. 而是:明理, 大方, 思路清晰地給男友處境設身而想, 作出適當提點, 及知道自已定位.

你地唔講我都無留意係喊畫.
 
 不過我覺得幾好睇.
 
 可唔可以介紹下呀?

ladymarmalade

我嫂自少冇家庭溫暖,好想有一個自己既家, 未同我哥一齊時已經生左一個小朋友, 果時佢先得17歲
 
 讀書讀到中三, 冇份工做得長, 冇上進心, 唔諗將來, 最弊係佢先天性係好冇自信, 心地太好, 但又唔夠聰明去保護自己, 我亞媽另外一個仔(人地會叫佢做亞哥, 但我已經同佢脫離關係)都同樣係d學歷好低既人, 亦都係冇份工做得長, 忍住忍住唔講d負面既說話形容佢地, 我諗大家都知道佢兩個係咩文化層面既人, 不用多講
 
 講聰明, 我亞媽另外一個仔聰明過佢老婆好多, 而且人又狡滑心地唔好(已經好就住咁形容)所以佢洽到佢老婆應一應, 一個男人對女人做過既衰野你想像到既佢都有做過, 簡單黎講就係食軟飯, 肉體, 精神, 性虐待, 仲有明目張胆地媾女
 
 佢老婆點解會有d咁既命運
 1)太渴望有一家
 2)唔聰明, 讀書少
 3)物以類聚, 自己出身唔好, 圈子自然都係出身唔好既人, 所以我其實都係出身唔好
 4)冇諗過做任何野改變自己出身
 5)本身性恪懦弱怕事
 6)唔好彩遇著壞人
 
 所以女人千其唔好俾書佢讀, 否則就真係冇得蝦架啦
 我幾愛一個男人, 我都唔會容許佢蝦我
 因為我就係成長係一個活生生既悲劇中
 今日佢扯你頭髮, 聽日佢會打跛你隻腳

ladymarmalade

http://www.arterotismo.com/PaulAvril/index.htm
 
 我純粹係因為覺得靚先鍾意

唔該曬!
 
 我都係純粹係覺得靚.
 
 ^_^

ladymarmalade

CS你想話是學做過獨立的女人嗎?
 
 講呢樣野我認第二都唔會有人認第一
 所以我ex覺得我係一棵仙人掌, 扔埋一邊可以唔駛理, 悶悶地囉出黎睇下
 不過佢真係真係好忙, 絕對忙過果位做cs既朋友
 所以我都好體諒�
 我從來冇乞求過佢俾多d時間我, 我接受唔到自己扮到成日可憐小狗咁
 我接受唔到既咪走囉
 不過如果我都頂唔順, 都唔會有女人頂唔順架啦
 或者佢從來都冇覺得我吸引, 完全係我既問題, 佢一d問題都冇

如果你真系唔想分手既,
 不如你先俾返D私人空間對方先拉.
 唔好逼得太緊吖.

ladymarmalade

我講咁多野係想講
 版主係真係俾佢男友蝦緊 (背後原因點解男友會蝦佢,版主唔夠大方?原因唔重要,但事實佢真係俾人蝦緊)
 再係咁懦弱真係會有粉身碎骨的一天
 希望佢見到別人故事, 別人犯過既錯佢唔會跟本犯