各位正印女朋友或老婆, 當你知道你男友或老公有SL, 你會點面對? (平心而論, 不是針對SL)

我係男人, 有老婆仔女出面亦有女朋友, 覺得屋企溫暖唔夠, 所以出左事, 呢件事老婆都知道, 佢好唔開心, 不過我仲未想放棄我女朋友, 因為女朋友比我我老婆更加了解我!

既然你覺得女朋友比你老婆更加瞭解你,
 點解你唔離婚,
 你咁做,
 只會令兩個女人都好傷心.
 仲有你D仔女.

我丈夫同我離婚,最初我都好想死同報復...之後我咩都冇做因為唔想自己做d蠢事,但我心中充滿怨氣...時間可以幫到我...忘記所有一切...重新做人
 
 所以版主你都要堅強d,加油!!

LADY,
 我曾經都幻想過如果我老公同我離婚我會點.

S replied @ 2008-12-14 11:53 am
 
 既然你覺得女朋友比你老婆更加瞭解你,
 點解你唔離婚,
 你咁做,
 只會令兩個女人都好傷心.
 仲有你D仔女.
 
 S, 係, 的確女朋友比起我老婆更加了解, 但有對細路, 想離婚有好多考慮, 而事實上同女朋友相處係開心啲同埋自然啲, 我愛我女朋友比起我老婆多

Five apple
 
 How old are you?

'我愛我女朋友比起我老婆多' => 賤格

what should i do if i find out that my bf had looked for sl

umbrella

SL專區(平心討論, 反對者發言請自重)
 
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 版主有乜感想呢

我發現佢有第二個,即刻同佢攤牌,佢話純粹迷失,貪玩,叫我俾一次機會佢,
 我俾機會佢,處理左呢件事,但之後我發覺我對佢有條剌,大家無左信任,
 我覺得自己因為呢年事已經唔愛佢.
 之後我巧合地同一位男性朋友暗地裡一齊,後尾佢又知道左,
 我話要離婚,佢又唔肯,事實我地有小朋友,亦唔適合離婚,
 我繼續我既,佢點我唔知.
 我覺得,邊一方有第三者,大家都好難再一齊,
 除非你真係好寬宏大量啦!

你老公幾時開始有SL 啊﹖又真GEI成日對住一個人都真系幾悶。但又真系要看看系什麼男人﹐ 我想一定有一D系一心一意的。可能你老公都系想玩下。又有D人就會扮什麼也不知道﹐ 看到當沒有看到。因為知道自己好愛他﹐ 不能沒有他。其實﹐ 我想他知道你是最好GEI。。。 FINALLY 他都會返來你身邊。你對他甘好﹗﹗support you

honeyp

kellykellykelly replied @ 2008-12-19 11:27 pm
 
 你老公幾時開始有SL 啊﹖又真GEI成日對住一個人都真系幾悶。但又真系要看看系什麼男人﹐ 我想一定有一D系一心一意的。可能你老公都系想玩下。又有D人就會扮什麼也不知道﹐ 看到當沒有看到。因為知道自己好愛他﹐ 不能沒有他。其實﹐ 我想他知道你是最好GEI。。。 FINALLY 他都會返來你身邊。你對他甘好﹗﹗support you
 
 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
 好溫暖的支持說話, FINALLY佢返唔返來真的不知道, 要看看緣份,
 希望佢個SL早D揾第二個, 唔再同我老公一齊....
 
 umbrella,
 
 SL專區(平心討論, 反對者發言請自重)
 
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 版主有乜感想呢 ---> (其實我不憎恨sl,因為要發生一段感情是要雙方的,
 但願這風氣不要繼續差落去, 否則只會更多離婚case,
 做正印的真係好傷心架)

我係人地SL
 佢的態度係兩邊都要keep
 即使佢女朋友有懷疑都好
 佢會用好多大話去隱瞞佢同我的關係
 佢女朋友都好無安全感
 但無佢符
 我都同情佢女朋友
 但大家角色有衝突...
 所以我覺得男人真係唔可以信
 但我認為男人最終都係會返屋企的

Can any one tell me what should I do
 if found out that my bf has looked for sl on web
 but he denied he had actually went out or meet the sl
 he said he just bored and post the message for fun
 i felt hurt and hopeless
 did he look for sl becoz he find me boring and not love me anymore
 why i love him so much for years , and he did that to me
 should i trust him again and pretended that didnt happened
 i felt so desparate

LimiFeu :
 
 Have you ever wish his gf is dead one day

my answer to tht is sometimes it is something that a wife does nt know she was wrong adn alkways thought that she was perfect. Certainly, the man should tell his wife. However, in some occassion, the wife will never learn

my answer to tht is sometimes it is something that a wife does nt know she was wrong adn alkways thought that she was perfect. Certainly, the man should tell his wife. However, in some occassion, the wife will never learn

my answer to tht is sometimes it is something that a wife does nt know she was wrong adn alkways thought that she was perfect. Certainly, the man should tell his wife. However, in some occassion, the wife will never learn

wish his gf is dead one day ?
 哈哈開頭有的
 想清楚之後無喇
 因為我個位比較好
 男人點都錫SL多d
 而且做佢女朋友太無安全感
 做女朋友亦好難keep住新鮮感

海,
 
 我的建議係: 咋唔知
 你要知道
 男人上網識人但仍然係愛你的
 樣樣都出聲只會另大家無引
 因為男人唔會為女人改變
 佢最多咩都再收埋d
 亦不只你男朋友愛上網識人
 然後話悶xyz...
 
 比多d空間男人
 多點用男性的角度思考
 你會明白佢地多d

honeyp

就算有講太太的問題在哪裡都未必有用的, 因為有些男人
 的老婆已經是最好, 但當遇到另一個跟老婆完全不同的人,
 佢地會覺得好有挑戰性, 想去証明自己能力....而得到滿足感...
 
 可能這是男人好勝的心態掛??!!

係呀,
 新鮮感最重要
 同埋要識趣
 有幾多老婆自問係知情識趣?
 如果唔係點解男人都錫SL
 而唔係錫老婆呢?

honeyp,
 find your sl to revenge

honeyp,
 唔好唔開心
 睇開d
 你老公會返黎你身邊的

honeyp

LimiFeu,
 講真, 我自問真係一個好知情識趣的老婆嚟架, 不過佢同佢sl開始的時侯,
 那時我地感情真係有d問題, 所以先俾人入到位, 我而家成日keep住自己
 靚d, 另外在sex方面雖然不可能再有新鮮感, 畢竟已經七年了, 但我時不時
 都有製造些情趣俾佢架(eg.性感既underwear/又或者平時都會著得性感d
 吸引下佢架!!) 唉...但係男人不知足的又愛刺激的個性始終存在...
 我會睇開d...不是他會玩到幾時?
 
 LimiFeu, 作為sl的你, 你估男人是否當sl要停止呢段關係, 佢先會唔再
 揾sl呢? 男人自己會不會突然會終止而返去老婆身邊呢?

honeyp,
 
 我認為男人係會停止同SL的關係的
 最大原因係男人覺得有壓力
 但係男人亦可以同另一位SL發展新關係
 問題不在你或那位SL
 問題係男人愛新鮮感愛刺激
 玩定乖完全係男人個心
 女人永遠控制不了
 不要太執著
 給老公多點空間
 等於給自己空間

honeyp

LimiFeu,
 
 你講得好啱, 既然還愛他, 又放棄不了這個家,
 唯有睇開d, 因為就算踢爆左佢, 離了婚的話,
 可能我揾下一個時都會出現同樣情況, 因為現在
 社會風氣而太容易讓男人有sl, 我控制不到...!

honeyp,
 感謝你的認同=]
 老婆凡事應以大局為重
 即係以家庭為先
 你有咩唔開心上黎大家傾下
 兩夫婦多點忍耐家庭先會和諧
 對與不對男人都識分
 只係男人都多情
 傷害了我們
 
 聽日星期日喇
 同老公出去行下
 買下聖誕禮物喇 =]

LimiFeu:
 
 Have you ever been someone's gf?
 some experience to share?
 
 are you planning to be a sl forever?

海,
 我同之前男朋友拍拖5年
 做野遇到依家的佢喇
 發現成熟男人的好處
 做左佢SL
 以為有機會做佢正印
 所以同之前男朋友分手
 原來真相係佢同居女友個位好穩陣
 但係佢好錫我
 所以呢段關係我會keep
 暫時!!!
 
 今次係我第一次亦係最後一次做人地SL
 做SL要有無比的EQ
 有代價的開心
 令我學會珍惜身邊無條件的快樂
 有正常的關係點解仲要做SL呢?
 
 故事講完
 聽日放假你同男朋友去出去玩下喇
 唔洗佢得閒心思思上網識人嘛

我就寧願做幾個人既sl

lady,
 你真係幾個都鐘意?
 佢地知唔知對方存在呢?

我係話寧願...但, 1個都遇唔到.

反正遇到貪新厭舊,
 做人SL又慘,
 做人正印又慘,
 做仔女嘅就更加慘.
 
 Honeyp,
 你最近點阿?
 上個周末有冇同老公一齊佈置下,
 齊齊過耶誕節阿?

Five Apple replied @ 2008-12-16 12:16 am
 
 S replied @ 2008-12-14 11:53 am
 
 既然你覺得女朋友比你老婆更加瞭解你,
 點解你唔離婚,
 你咁做,
 只會令兩個女人都好傷心.
 仲有你D仔女.
 
 S, 係, 的確女朋友比起我老婆更加了解, 但有對細路, 想離婚有好多考慮, 而事實上同女朋友相處係開心啲同埋自然啲, 我愛我女朋友比起我老婆多
 
 ==============
 
 Five apple,
 俾你老婆見到呢D說話嘅話,
 實傷心死.

hello~
 
 咁可能我好好多啦,我case係......我同佢只係男女朋友,拍拖咁耐佢一向比我image係好專一,好情深...到之前我地相處出現問題(大家性格唔夾)有冷靜期,佢就搵左好幾個女人,不過可能未認真卦...我都唔知...之後我發現左....就要係我見到佢原來有返大陸搵女人for sex.......當時好傷心...但可能都係心軟.....而家都仲一齊,但佢唔知我知佢咁多野,我有時都好矛盾,就係因為我想仲一齊繼續...所以冇揭開我知道既事...但有時諗起...會諗...值唔值

honeyp

replied @ 2008-12-23 12:38 pm
 
 反正遇到貪新厭舊,
 做人SL又慘,
 做人正印又慘,
 做仔女嘅就更加慘.
 
 Honeyp,
 你最近點阿?
 上個周末有冇同老公一齊佈置下,
 齊齊過耶誕節阿?
 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
 
 突然好warm呀, 有人問侯一下我, 但你沒有show your name, anyway,
 我同老公現在幾好, 全因我扮唔知, 而佢咪以為現在享緊齊人之福,
 但係我個心其實好痛, 好似造就佢繼續去偷食, 不過暫時沒法, 所以
 我每天都會上來看看我呢條thread, 互相安慰一下同我一樣case的人囉...!

honeyp

fancy,
 
 我勸你真的暫時忍耐, 若然你未決定與他分開之前, 唔好俾佢知,
 佢只會發難話你check佢, 到時可能佢唔想失去你而會騙你不會有下次,
 但大家已經有條刺, 很難面對...
 
 暫時講到呢度, 要開工, 今晚上來再傾過...

honeyp replied @ 2008-12-23 1:59 pm
 
 replied @ 2008-12-23 12:38 pm
 
 反正遇到貪新厭舊,
 做人SL又慘,
 做人正印又慘,
 做仔女嘅就更加慘.
 
 Honeyp,
 你最近點阿?
 上個周末有冇同老公一齊佈置下,
 齊齊過耶誕節阿?
 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
 
 突然好warm呀, 有人問侯一下我, 但你沒有show your name, anyway,
 我同老公現在幾好, 全因我扮唔知, 而佢咪以為現在享緊齊人之福,
 但係我個心其實好痛, 好似造就佢繼續去偷食, 不過暫時沒法, 所以
 我每天都會上來看看我呢條thread, 互相安慰一下同我一樣case的人囉...!
 
 ==========
 我是S阿,
 唔知點解頭先顯示唔到個名.
 哈~

if he said he did't have sl/sp, but just add some girls in MSN and had some chat
 is that a betray
 
 2) if i found a lady's dress in his home (he live alone), does that equals to he had have sex with the other one
 should i trust him if he denied ?
 
 3) '到時可能佢唔想失去你而會騙你不會有下次'
 how can I know if he is true or not ?

am i stupid , are the answers to obvious

'大家已經有條刺, 很難面對'
 ....
 how can i know if i can trust him again

honeyp

if he said he did't have sl/sp, but just add some girls in MSN and had some chat is that a betray <----好多男人都會咁做, 只係MSN好難証明, 可能佢只係想玩下....
 
 2) if i found a lady's dress in his home (he live alone), does that equals to he had have sex with the other one
 should i trust him if he denied ? <--- 我相信好少男人會咁蠢會放條裙係度俾你發現, 你可以問下佢, 看看他的表情及語氣有咩解釋.
 
 3) '到時可能佢唔想失去你而會騙你不會有下次'
 how can I know if he is true or not ? <---咁就睇下你會唔會俾機會佢, 可能佢只會收得再埋d, 不過如果你想揭開個真相, 咁你要有好大決心囉, 想清楚先去做呀...真真假假有誰會100%肯定, 最緊要係想不想信佢

Honeyp,
 乜你咁夜都唔訓阿?
 呢種天氣,
 最適合訓覺噶了.
 我一早就訓到豬咁咯.

'男人會咁蠢會放條裙係度俾你發現, 你可以問下佢, 看看他的表情及語氣有咩解釋. '
 I didn't go to his home very often, just an incidental finding in one occasion, did not see it in the second time i went there, I asked him retrospectively
 He said he had no idea there was such a dress in his house, he said he will go back and check , but then there is no further explanation.
 Is there a chance that he bough it for fun ...

honeyp,
 Merry Christmas!希望你同老公有個開心又sweet的聖誕節^^

我想問下如果男人係出面有SL但佢玩完之後自己放棄出面個SL而返番個女人即係個老婆身邊,個老婆先至最後發現有呢件事, 咁你地做老婆既會唔會介意呢?還是係知道左都會有條"次"呢?

honeyp,
 尋晚同老公過得開心嗎?

Just Curious,
 我覺得老婆個心一定有條刺,好難當無發生,亦會對老公無安全感,大家要時間去再建立陂此的信任.
 但係介意都要扮信佢,始終做人老婆要以家庭為重,對嗎?

Just Curious,
 如果你想繼續呢段感情嘅話,
 只可以扮大方,
 刺,一定有噶,
 你要睇下點樣平衡.