好想結婚生仔讓父母開心



  • 不過似乎我都係嫁唔出



  • 好想結婚生仔讓父母開心......





    那誰令妳去開心......?



  • 別人開心我便開心



  • 別人開心妳痛苦



  • 好~~





    好一個樂觀的人~~





    妳覺得嫁了人...才是妳人生的最完美結局...?



  • kurt replied @ 2008-08-24 11:12 pm





    別人開心妳痛苦


    = 父母年紀大我想佢地開心 而我要走既路仲漫長








    老老實實 replied @ 2008-08-24 11:12 pm





    好~~


    好一個樂觀的人~~


    妳覺得嫁了人...才是妳人生的最完美結局...?





    = 對女性來說一定是完美的 不過是不是一個完美結局不是靠我個人努力對麼﹖



  • 人生並不能完美.人非永恆,世事難料



  • kurt replied @ 2008-08-24 11:23 pm





    人生並不能完美.人非永恆,世事難料





    = 我知道的 所以我感嘆開post



  • 女人的最幸福......無疑是能夠找到一個好的歸宿....





    女人要去找到一個男人相伴不難.....但要能得到一位好丈夫...實在不易......



  • 隨著日子,人變得成熟了,因為我們學會怎樣保護自已


    前面的路,所餘無幾,我們都要決定


    那些要保留,那些耍放棄,連沮喪也快忘記了,無數理想,願望,完美,都被拋諸萬裡


    但我心�谷陪荅u理,它使我依然在飛




  • 老老實實


    所以唯有隨緣會開心一點不勉強了





    kurt


    是什麼真理﹖


    我只想開心的過做自己喜歡的事



  • pana





    I just know a lot of peoples are not happy after they married, they have childs.







  • kiki


    我知道結了婚不一定表示永遠幸福快樂


    但這個人生必經的過程我真的想試


    盡了自己努力如果結果不好的話亦無悔



  • Hi pana,





    I want 2 childern... too many ?



  • 大地有一層皮膚.而這層皮膚有許多的疾病,其中一種就叫做人



  • pana





    I agreed with you.


    In the same time, searching a RIGHT man is not easy.


    Do you have a SUITABLE bf?


    Does he support you in finance?





    As government note us that you must prepare $ 4 million to have a child.


    Can he do it?


    During the process is not a easy job to you both.



  • tom





    How long have you married?


    In fact, I think two childs in HK is just fine.


    The main point is we have a rotten society.



  • 有$並不代表可以教好小朋友.要是想生小朋友的話最好放棄工作,從小和他一起成長..



  • I am still single.. I just wanna to hv two childern after married..



  • kurt





    I know, so I don't prepare to have child in the future.





    I have cats is enough even I'm single. They're my child already ^_^



  • 某夜你快樂過,不經意的得到我,在我生命 ,打了死結幾個,帶來無窮痛楚..我問 誰錯,給我生命又遺棄我.................



  • kurt





    wow, 好深呀!


    Can you explain to me?



  • 如果為左父母開心就結婚生仔 不如諗下比多D時間陪兩老愛下佢地TUN下佢地開心好過





    結婚生仔好大責任



  • Hi Kurt / Kikiping,





    生命是一種喜悅, 成長是一種滿足, 不是 cats or dogs 可取代的.


    不須從小和他一起成長, 因為我們並不是在複製另一個自己, 新生命有自己的方向, 我們只須要教化.



  • no ar kiki


    送比所有為自己一刻快樂而不理小朋友感受的人..............



  • 生命是一個過程,可悲的是它不能夠重來



  • hi kurt





    如果每個人都用你這種悲觀的角度去看, 如何面對將來... 明天永遠是好的, just do it.



  • 不是悲觀....我好識享受生命



  • kurt





    I got it, I saw many couples didn't plan it well then bored the baby.


    When they're growing up, they just blame the child when they did something wrong.





    But, their parent never give them notice. Only blame, only shouting.


    OR


    Some parent just give money, luxury stuff to their children.


    Never give their caring heart.


    Poor childrens nowaday.





    SOme childrens even don't know how to respect peoples politely.


    Well, too much....can't tell it all here.



  • Hi kurt,





    how old ar u ?


    如何好識享受生命 ?




  • 窗邊千千飛花,散墜已煙消.


    天邊淒清孤燕 伴落霞遍遍


    天色昏昏秋風,送夕陽西偏


    躺叫喚 倦透心天色己漸暗


    憶悲歡 念往昔溫馨已盡散




  • 多謝咁多位給我留言


    我想每個人都會有dreams有wishes


    做唔做得到除左後天努力外


    都講求緣份命水


    所以隨緣啦




  • 我想每個人都會有dreams有wishes


    做唔做得到除左後天努力外


    都講求緣份命水


    所以隨緣啦





    認同妳的想法~~




  • Kikipig replied @ 2008-08-25 12:12 am





    pana





    I agreed with you.


    In the same time, searching a RIGHT man is not easy.


    Do you have a SUITABLE bf?


    Does he support you in finance?





    As government note us that you must prepare $ 4 million to have a child.


    Can he do it?


    During the process is not a easy job to you both.





    我媽咪個輩都唔係用four millions去養大一個細路哥


    貴有貴養平有平養


    反而好多讀得成書既都係出生自低下階層



  • Kikipig replied @ 2008-08-25 12:20 am





    kurt





    I know, so I don't prepare to have child in the future.





    I have cats is enough even I'm single. They're my child already ^_^





    我有consider去養隻pet(如果真係結唔到婚)



  • 女人要經過結婚,生仔,人生先會完滿。


    如果沒有經歷,會一生遺憾。



  • CDollar





    well, i don't plan to have child indeed.


    So i must regret that ?!



  • 好難講~~~


    而家可能你咁認為,10年,20年......你會點認為???


    有D人後生個時候,都系唔要BB,到唔可以生個時候,就想生。


    同埋仔女,系有助夫妻感情。



  • Pana





    I support you. I married too, to the one I really love and admire. Yes, my mom and dad are super happy about it.





    But if your point of view is for others that is not very true, u should work towards it for yourself.


    Good luck!



  • the most enjoyable things to do in the world is to play with you kids, to care them, to support them, to love them, to guid them.... those experienes you will never forget and nothing can be replaced.





    My advice to all ladies here is to have you kids sooner or later, you must have them and taste such never imagaiable and fantastic experiences. Kids are really greatest gift from god.





    By be rationally, you must be able to some one love you and ready to sacrify for the kids.... it is all about, time, love, patient, caring and finance of course..





    Good luck



  • Hi Kid/SpringG/CDollar,





    Totally agreed with yours opinion.





    人生其中一樣不能回頭的就是生小孩, 有能力的夫婦應該生.