Do you want your ex-bf or ex-gf to return your call?

  • Are there 'magic' words you can use

    to get your ex to return your phone calls?

    Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words

    that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex

    feel almost compelled to return your call.

    Cool huh?...

    I am going to share this with you because

    this is one of the biggest questions I get

    from the over 35,000 subscribers just

    like you that are trying to put their relationship

    back together.

    So I am going to answer..."How do I get

    my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"



    In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay

    out a complete strategy.


    If you use this technique alone, without

    an 'overall' plan or may

    damage your relationship more than if

    they never returned your call.

    What NOT to Say!

    Before we get into the actual words, let's

    go over what message almost NEVER


    and worse...

    Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

    These usually fall into 2 categories.

    The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

    "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd

    time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

    And the EMERGENCY-

    "Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me

    as soon as you get this."

    Now, I think you can see what is wrong with

    both of those approaches?

    So, I won't go on and on...

    How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest

    To Your Advantage

    Two of the most powerful forces in

    the human mind are

    Curiosity &

    Self Interest

    And here's the BIG SECRET!

    When you combine the two, you

    have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'


    Let's look at what you can say

    that works nearly EVERY TIME.

    In a friendly tone:

    "Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let

    you know I appreciate what you did for

    me. Call me because I want to thank you

    in person."

    Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity

    and self interest?

    John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?"

    "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And

    he feels good because it is a positive message.


    Before you call you need to do the

    "Set Up"...which is figuring out what

    he/she did that you appreciate.

    It can be any small thing...but needs to

    be plausible.

    But more importantly...

    2nd WARNING!


    Please have an underlying strategy

    like I lay out in the Magic Of Making

    Up System BEFORE you call.

    If you apply this technique with

    no underlying strategy and they

    call you back you can do more

    DAMAGE than good if you do not

    handle it correctly.


    What I am saying is...

    What you do before, during and

    after you get them to return your

    call is MORE important than getting

    them to return your call.

    Make sense?

    Have a PLAN!==>

  • this is too complicated

  • I understand what you mean, but think about it, relationship is complicated, it is that simple, I'm sure no one will cry for it, and no one will even kill themselves because of it, right?

  • I want to share some of my opinion but after reading not even half way through your thread I got lost or fell asleep. sorry I ran out of patience la. hehe

  • that's work somehow based on the "law of attraction" (if you ever heard of it) ...

    that is you think of the good of the ex --> happiness inside yourself --> the universe response to your happiness --> ex calls