請各位比下意見.....如果你已經有個對你一心一意既男友..年紀相約 無咩上進心..仲未有結婚的心..... 我係做acc既..老板又對你日久生情..係工作狂.不過年紀較大.....開始追求中..~ 你地會點???.





  • 咁妳對妳男友都好唔認真啫..



  • venus


    how old are u?





    how old is ur boss?



  • 作為男人,我認同男人一定要有上進心。如果唔係女仔會覺得無安全感


    細個就話可以揀愛情,當女人越大就越想要麵包架啦


    其實男女相處最重要係溝通到先,如果妳同佢溝通唔到咁好難一齊


    就算一齊左都唔可能長久,除非妳只係為錢同佢一齊,跟住生仔就咁一世囉!



  • roy.


    我25.. boss 43



  • 其實.......我男友..係比較孩子氣...諗得比較簡單..想緍結生仔...但未有plan...




  • ronald. how old are you ?



  • 睇年紀係差太遠既


    但好多人都係差好多年架喎 (e.g. 蔡加敏同佢老公)


    所以如果妳覺得ok既可以試下既


    P.S. 我唔係話妳一定要分手








  • 兩個都唔揀!



  • i'm 28 years old single guy


    但老實講,而家好多後生仔都無咩上進心


    我公司有啲仔只係識溝女 (公司內或樓下舖啲女),做野又唔掂


    都唔明佢地諗咩



  • 其實.... 以前我個同事都係揀左個大佢 20 年既


    自己接受到就得囉, 我就接愛唔到大咁多喇


    不過, 你老細既條件都真係幾吸引既, 但佢有冇老婆/女友先




  • 其實樣就似30幾既...


    佢都知我有男友架....


    咁同佢係工作個時..同食飯..佢都唔係個d 想攬埋黎個d人...佢仲好怕羞



  • 我公司 d 女剩係識得溝仔.......



  • 咁佢係你上司嘛, 如果佢成個色狼咁, 你都唔會考慮佢啦,


    佢有冇 date 你呀



  • vanilla H..


    佢離左婚啦....有個12 既仔...


    佢都同我講佢老婆成日話佢工作狂唔陪佢..


    睇得出佢全完無咩接觸女仔



  • 講真, 咁你覺得佢同你夾唔夾先


    我幾鍾意工作狂架, 至少唔會走去亂溝女先啦


    至多走左去做野, 但佢平時使唔使去應酬先, 至怕佢要去應酬出軌啫


    睇返你個男友, 同你差唔多大, 玩又未玩夠, 男人既野, 識多個靚女冇壞架嘛


    唔通咁快想俾個女人綁住咩



  • vanilla H 你係女仔...?



  • 最緊要妳自己點諗?人地點講都無用


    不過妳問得人即係話妳有啲心動啦, right?



  • 最緊要妳自己點諗?人地點講都無用


    不過妳問得人即係話妳有啲心動啦, right?



  • Ronald ..


    咁你有無比d女溝?^^



  • 我都會架


    不過我唔靚仔


    啲女多數因為我穩重同做野方面吸引掛



  • yes ar


    睇個名都知係女仔啦


    你唔岩既介紹俾我啦, 反正佢個樣望落都係三十幾。咁我 二十幾 都夾啦, 哈哈


    不過, 如果你唔 take 呢個 chance 就有 d 唔抵囉,


    可以同上司 keep 住係朋友先, 夾既先再算囉


    雖然我咁教你好似好衰咁, 但係女人有邊個唔想嫁得好筅



  • 成熟既男人係有吸引力 d 既



  • vanilla H ,佢又唔冼應酬/..講真佢平日既行程我都知....放左工佢都係自己or同仔食飯...之後訓..一早又要車個仔返工....好似個摩打咁...連星期日都返因為都無其他賭好...有時踢球囉..


    Ronald


    其實都有少少啦...依家..你真係聰明...


    因為最近唔知點解佢同我傾多左工作上既野..但個時佢都無野既....咁我就覺得佢原來都係個好boss...但之後食飯..傾多左計囉...




  • 可能妳崇拜�


    最緊要係妳清楚自己要咩



  • Vanilla H replied @ 2008-05-18 11:41 pm





    講真, 咁你覺得佢同你夾唔夾先


    我幾鍾意工作狂架, 至少唔會走去亂溝女先啦


    至多走左去做野, 但佢平時使唔使去應酬先, 至怕佢要去應酬出軌啫


    睇返你個男友, 同你差唔多大, 玩又未玩夠, 男人既野, 識多個靚女冇壞架嘛


    唔通咁快想俾個女人綁住咩





    ____


    i think u will like me haha



  • venus,


    呢 d 真係正架


    如果你唔係需要一個人成日陪住既, 我覺得真係 ok 喎


    但你就可能要辛苦 d 照顧屋企囉


    因為佢成日唔在家嘛


    如果你頂得到, (假設佢既離婚原因係真) 咁我覺得博得過囉





    講真心果句, 有時就算有男仔陪都嫌佢煩啦


    尤其係 shopping 既時候



  • ronald,


    其實上兩個星期同佢ot 之後出去食飯..我心諗係佢覺得悶..同埋食飯多講工事,,,.而且有d同事以前都做得夜.但有個做得最耐個男同事又返學喎...放工又走..無人陪佢.....


    佢係返工個時好似教女咁同d女同事講公事架..



  • 係嘛,如果妳真係覺得ok咪試下囉


    女仔都想要成熟穩重既


    不過我識啲女仔都唔係,可能佢地仲細,搵個靚仔算數



  • 呢個又係一個正 pt 喇


    佢成熟, 咁即係會當你係細路女喇


    好多時佢都會體諒你唔夠世故, 仲會好錫你架


    呢個係荀盤黎架



  • q_la,


    我都好想搵到一個我鍾意既男仔呀


    如果你真係令到我鍾意你咁都幾好喎


    不過, 我怕你愛到我死, 但我又唔鍾意你就慘喇


    又或者調轉都大鑊



  • 其實.......我男友..係比較孩子氣...諗得比較簡單..想緍結生仔...但未有plan...





    this is same as my bf, no plan, no motiviation, no ambition, only like play, play play.......if i were you, u no need reject your boss, but just keep same as exiting relationship....



  • 係啦, 拍拖又冇話要拍一世, take chance, 點解唔可以


    你敢寫包單你男友對其他女性冇心動過咩



  • but are u sure your boss like you? My previous boss also did the same, having dinner after OT and sometimes having lunch together with his mother on Sat after work...but he didn't go fuerther wor...



  • 但我bf係一心一意ma



  • koyou 你又幾大?



  • 就算係一心一意, 點解唔可以識多個朋友啫


    只要你當你 boss 只係朋友既話冇乜野對佢唔住啫。


    冇人叫你越軌咁嘛, 你買野衫都睇下岩唔岩先試啦



  • 所以最重要係妳要麵包定愛情囉


    如果妳揀妳個boss,就一定有麵包,可能有埋愛情 (因為唔知妳地會發展成點,唔敢講)


    妳而家個男友只可以俾到愛情,但麵包就..........(除非佢肯為妳奮鬥,但聽妳講就暫時唔會)



  • ronald, 崇拜..其實都有架最初...依家有時都會諗起佢



  • Vanilla H replied @ 2008-05-19 12:02 am





    q_la,


    我都好想搵到一個我鍾意既男仔呀


    如果你真係令到我鍾意你咁都幾好喎


    不過, 我怕你愛到我死, 但我又唔鍾意你就慘喇


    又或者調轉都大鑊


    _____


    哈我會比較擔心妳


    因為我係the king of 放低 even if i like u so much...



  • BTW apologies to Venus for 插播


    good luck to your choice making :)



  • venus


    我都廿到尾啦你老細仲有做d咩令你覺佢追你呢?





    不過佢有細路都惡搞...如果一齊之後又同埋一齊做野, 有咩拗撬, 又或者你做錯野佢鬧你, 你頂唔頂到先, 我就頂唔到架啦





  • q_la,


    乜唔係 love 架... 唉......


    算啦, 我冇吸引力





    venus,


    好野真係多人想要架喇


    唔通要個桔都唔要個橙咩


    冇左個橙執返個桔就聽過


    咁佢有冇 date 你呀



  • 祝妳好運啦,希望佢真係鐘意妳再追妳啦


    但妳係咪真係會為佢放棄而家個男友先? 同埋係咪值得


    妳真係要好好諗下,費事到時後悔啦! haha



  • koyou,


    咁呢個都係一個 pt , 個細路除非睇得開啦, 都幾煩





    至於工作上就緊係轉工啦, 唔通仲做埋同一間公司咩



  • Vanilla H


    like before love 嘛


    有些字不應輕易說出口



  • vanilla h..


    你講到佢咁好既??.. 其實我識左佢差唔多3 年啦..


    以前都有同事話佢好似特別錫我咁.


    佢係公司同離開公司真係.兩個人..


    直到上兩三個星期先知佢係識得笑..同講笑話~.




  • venus,


    可能我唔鍾意 d 冇上進心既人啦! 男人黎講真係要扣分囉


    仲要冇諗過結婚喎,,,, 即係浪費緊女人既青春啫


    冇諗過結婚,當係同居都應該諗下將來啦,





    q_la,


    係喎.... 我真係唔夠穩重



  • 我boss.同我食飯..都食左差唔多3個week啦...


    最初覺得ot 完出去傾完野食埋野..車返我返屋企..夜係正常啦...之後個星期明顯佢成日等到收工先找我傾..又等到七點幾d同事走曬先走之後就話一齊食飯啦..


    仲要12.5放假個日 早上打我屋企叫我一齊出去research d野....lunch 同dinner都一齊


    le個星期又問同bf d 野.同自己wife le d 私人野又講.問以前拍過幾多次..又問bf點追我...


    真係問到點追我喎...心諗眼前係咪一個傻佬...haa



  • 好明顯, 你對佢開始有好感喇


    你呢個時候應該拎多 d 佢既 background 再 compare 下


    幸福係要自己爭取既


    我要訓喇, 聽日又要捱.... 都唔知幾時先可以做少奶奶


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