我真係咁差?我錯嗎?



  • 今日佢牙肉腫到面都腫咗一舊,見到都好似好慘. 諗住幫佢按摩一下, 但係就俾佢話係"我"令佢咁樣,佢話星期二早上刷牙時好傷傷咗牙骹,加上同日佢飲咗我煲既袪濕湯,令佢啲毒走出來,又話我照顧得佢唔好,早兩年煲過一次袪濕湯,又令佢生"泡疹",佢話:(我講過唔會再煲呢啲湯俾佢飲),宜家又煲俾佢飲,都唔用下個腦~! 我答佢,我唔係唔記得,一來你牙肉腫係咪因此而起?二來,宜家春天煲袪燙都合理,無諗過你有咁多毒! 佢又話,你呢啲咪唔用腦諗下囉!  一個同佢相處咗就來三年既男人,仲同佢生咗個2 歲既BB,我覺得我係一位唔受專重既house wife.....同差個啲師奶..! 



  • 佢當你係工人多過當你係老婆。



  • 3年就咁,點對住佢成世啊,

    唔好咁weak啦,比人咁蝦法。



  • 佢唔舒服發下你脾氣啫,好返就冇事架啦,兩夫妻要互相包容同體諒



  • 佢唔舒服發下你脾氣啫,好返就冇事架啦,兩夫妻要互相包容同體諒



    by 女人 - 05/09/08 09:23



    唔同意.



    唔舒服, 唔係大曬, 唔係一個借口.



    就正如0的男人成日話0的女人: 每個月一次0既經期, 心情煩燥, 但係唔係大曬, 唔好因為呢個所謂0既"特權"而亂發皮氣.



    版主, 咁就要問返你喇, 呢個係咪你老公0既個性? 你老公係咪郁0的就無理取鬧? 如果係的話, 我真係建議你同佢好好咁講下你0既感受.



    佢咁樣講說話, 好hurt的.



  • 多謝妳/你地既意見,唉~!都唔知上一世欠佢啲咩. 佢向公司做野唔開心or病咗,就會脾氣好差,黑口黑面,佢工作上我control唔到,但佢既健康,我還可以向飲食上或生活上control到,所以如果天氣凍叫佢著多件衫,唔夠瞓時唔好食熱氣野,我長氣啲都係唔想佢病,佢辛苦時我仲慘!慘!慘!

    我都唔知自己係咪咁差,有時一啲生活上細微既野,我唔記得做,佢就(黑面)話我粗心大意,就係呢啲咁小事,就足以証明你唔細心同埋做時唔用腦諗下有咩影響.我就話:如果影響唔大,就算唔記得做or遲啲做,你需唔需要咁既語氣,兩個人相處要互相包容,而唔係將人地缺點放大,你咁樣好影響大家感情.每個人都有缺點,無人係聖人.

    PS#佢無咩事,大家都有講有笑,有時都會發完脾氣SAY SORRY(但好少數)但一有問題,就鬧咗先!好Q黑人憎!點解人地的男人可以倒轉頭,握住老婆隻手,安慰老婆,而我就要食咗個黑面先?



  • 好似bowie728728話斎,真係好HURT!心會痛.



  • 睇黎你老公都好大男人喎~



  • I have a auntie have same case as you. Being with a husband for 30+ years(now they are in their 60's) The man yelled at her, didn't respect her for all these years....



    For so many years, she tolerated in such unhappy marriage. It seemed nothing she did can please her husband. She thought about leaving but for the sake of the children and keep the family complete, she stayed in such relationship.



    She puts others in priority.



    Who can she blamed except she does not have luck in her life for a good man.



    Now the children are all grown, the man still yelled at her, but she careless about him and walked out the door as soon as he is unreasonable.



    That's her life. So sad.



  • 緊係妳錯啦!跟個咁既男人!!



    p.s.我都係男人,有時妳要發吓圍先得嫁!



  • 如果傾過係唔得0既話, 咁咪適當地發佢圍0羅... 要比佢知道, 有0的野, 唔係必然0既.



    做人有時太軟弱, 唔會係一件好事.



  • D男人唔鐘意女人好似亞媽一樣成日哦佢。好似我老公,雖然冇你老公噤大男人噤衰格,但係如果我叫佢著多件衫, 唔好食熱氣野, 佢都會勁黑面,有時仲罵我煩,話佢娶個老婆返屋企唔係娶個亞媽。所以現在佢鐘意做乜,喝酒喝天光,日日食炸嘢,我半句都唔哦佢,仲笑笑口話: "Baby最緊要你開心! 我知你有分數。" 之後佢成日感冒喉嚨痛,飲酒飲到好醉好辛苦。

    現在佢知衰, 我叫佢飲湯飲涼茶,佢乖乖哋飲,去同朋友飲酒自動叫我打電話remind佢,不知幾乖。 雖然係噤,我每樣嘢只講一次,唔會講2次,任佢鐘意點就點,一D都唔煩佢,但又表現好關心好信任佢。佢仲成日係朋友面前讚我善介人意同sweet。



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    但我覺得版主唔係因為"哦"佢老公而比佢老公咁惡咁對佢, 而係佢老公本身好大男人----> 我覺得.



  • 我意思係男人都係好賤, 雖然板主係出且自一番好意,一片關心,但佢地唔會覺得你好同體貼,只覺得你煩。



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    明白~

    人地話女人最緊要對自己0既男人"識放識收"原來就係咁~



    諗返起, 都幾有道理.



  • 板主,



    下次你煲湯就肩問佢飲唔飲, 記住係問唔係"叫",等佢自己決定,"尊重"佢, 如果佢唔飲, 你就自己飲, 記住每樣嘢只講一次,千其唔好問第二次。



    如果佢飲,你就提佢可能會谷哂D毒出來,等佢自己決定,佢噤有腦,到時佢無得賴你。



  • 關心唔係錯, 但如果佢唔欣賞, 覺得煩,就係錯。



  • 版主老公根本吾尊重版主,當人地係出氣袋。黐筋!


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