男朋友對每一個女仔都咁好,是好是壞?



  • 如果男朋友對每一個女仔都咁好,其實可以點?



    有時我真係好呷醋,我覺得佢唔重視我。佢直認自己對每一個女性朋友都很好,咁我會諗,我呢個女朋友同果班女仔有咩分別呢?



    我唔想為左呢d野嗌交.... 佢對女仔好,所以佢身邊都有好多女仔,我覺得好無安全感。



    我知道晌呢個case,大家只能講個「信」字,大家又點睇?



  • 有無同佢反映過先?



  • 是壞



  • 有同佢反映過,但佢覺得無問題... 我又唔想搞到自己好似好小氣咁。



  • 改變自己心態



  • guccifop replied @ 2008-05-07 6:12 pm





    有同佢反映過,但佢覺得無問題... 我又唔想搞到自己好似好小氣咁。


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    是壞,


    仲要係好壞



  • 同好壞冇關.


    你信同按受咪繼續囉.



  • 我覺得好矛盾...





    定係鍾意佢,就要忍?





  • 忍唔到







  • guccifop replied @ 2008-05-07 6:23 pm





    我覺得好矛盾...


    ,就要忍?


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    忍得一時,忍吾到一世







  • 有時對其他女仔太好,會令D女仔誤會你男友對佢地有意思,或令d女仔對你男友產生不受控制既遐想。





    我覺得你作爲女友,絕對有權表示不滿。





    男仔應該對女友以外既女仔維持基本禮貌,但唔應該對佢地過份好。













  • rosy_shadow replied @ 2008-05-07 6:53 pm





    有時對其他女仔太好,會令D女仔誤會你男友對佢地有意思,或令d女仔對你男友產生不受控制既遐想。





    我覺得你作爲女友,絕對有權表示不滿。





    男仔應該對女友以外既女仔維持基本禮貌,但唔應該對佢地過份好。


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    最慘佢bf就係想令d女仔產生不受控制既遐想



  • 講個信字


    佢咁好


    d女仔可能會鍾意�


    睇如你信佢愛你


    那也不是問題.......



  • 有時對其他女仔太好,會令D女仔誤會你男友對佢地有意思,或令d女仔對你男友產生不受控制既遐想。





    我覺得你作爲女友,絕對有權表示不滿。





    男仔應該對女友以外既女仔維持基本禮貌,但唔應該對佢地過份好。


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    最慘佢bf就係想令d女仔產生不受控制既遐想


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    我都覺得我男友係想令女仔鍾意佢,佢enjoy女仔鍾意佢果種感覺...可能同女仔鍾意男仔追一樣?不過作為一個女仔,一個我唔鍾意既男仔追我,我唔會覺得開心,但我覺得男仔諗法又唔同。





    我淨係想佢知道,佢出面有幾多女仔都好,我係最好果個。





    我亦認為佢係知道的,唔係佢都唔會同我拍拖。



  • 我淨係想佢知道,佢出面有幾多女仔都好,我係最好果個。


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    男人係要死果一刻先知道


    邊個女人係最好



  • 我淨係想佢知道,佢出面有幾多女仔都好,我係最好果個。


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    男人係要死果一刻先知道


    邊個女人係最好


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    或者係...佢仲細,得24歲,都未玩夠。





    唉,以前就好想搵到個條件好的,好啦,而家總算遇到了,原來問題也不少。


    有又煩,無又煩,想搵個好伴侶真的不容易。



  • 對我黎講, 不論係男仔女仔, 對個個異性都好唔係一件好事


    只要講番轉頭, 做乜事要對人人都好呢? 如果係朋友, 咁有需要幫忙, 係應該既.





    但如果對異性朋友都攪到好似對男/女朋友咁好(有時跟本係會好過), 咁會唔會果個人已經唔知道咩叫朋友同情人既分別呢.





    以guccifop黎講, 本身佢bf係有目的地對人好, 咁真係好難原諒喎, 係唔係調番轉, guccifop都對個個男人好, 成日同d男性朋友傾電話, 單獨去街都無問題嗎?





    我情願我另一半係對全世界都衰, 只係對我一個好, 都好過對全世界都好好lor.










  • if u are young gal, then u have time play with your bf


    try with him more a few year,


    but if u will be 30 ages, pls leave him la


    coz u have not much time find more good guys


    bad guys have much, coz I have many ladies fd has not bf


    up to now they will be 40 ages more la




  • 我情願我另一半係對全世界都衰, 只係對我一個好


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    大力,我都認同你的講法。





    其實我find out我男朋友一樣野,就係佢有時真係突登對d女仔好,令d女仔誤會,甚至投懷送抱、鍾意佢。但佢同左我一齊之後,已經收儉好多,但佢d女性朋友仍不時找他,d女仔不求什麼,亦唔需要負咩責任。我男朋友係ABC,我明白可能這是基於文化上的不同,佢會話全部都只係普通朋友,但我有時都會唔開心......





    我好鍾意佢,唔想無左佢。


    有時我會proud of有個條件好的男友;但相對地,「擔心」的成份也很重呢。



  • coz I have many ladies fd has not bf


    up to now they will be 40 ages more la


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    miss, 我今年23歲。但我都想穩穩定定搵個男朋友。雖然我可能仲算細個,但拍幾年拖,都30啦,講緊係順順利利會同呢個結婚喎,不過at this moment,我唔覺得男朋友係我結婚對像,probably係因為我覺得佢無諗過結婚,i mean晌佢既life入面暫時無呢個念頭。





    我都知道,年紀大了,更難找對像,所以我先俾咁大容忍我男朋友,因為難得我真係好鍾意佢,而且條件很好,很有事業心,做事很認真,我怕自己再遇唔到咁好條件的。佢對我又唔係唔好,只係衰在keep meeting girls,加上我地long distance,對彼此要有很大的信任先至維繫到。



  • Girl:


    He is just taking advantage of being ABC in HK.





    HK people misconceived ABC as open and sexually casual. Like that bull sh it "Gwan Mui" personality.





    I know ABC, they are only friendly, but not promiscuous.





    In your boyfriend's case, he is just using a lame ABC excuse to flirt with girls. Guys act like this(all guys, not just ABC) simply keeps their eyes open.





    The guy you have is enjoying getting attention from girls. There is nothing you can do about it to make him stop.





    Like he can't make you stop going for a shopping fun.





    He is not a keeper, if you ask me.




  • 我都知道,年紀大了,更難找對像,所以我先俾咁大容忍我男朋友,因為難得我真係好鍾意佢,而且條件很好,很有事業心,做事很認真,我怕自己再遇唔到咁好條件的。佢對我又唔係唔好,只係衰在keep meeting girls,加上我地long distance,對彼此要有很大的信任先至維繫到。





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    我同你一樣........ 我同我bf都係long distance,不過好似衰過你,因為佢係鬼仔 =.= 有時我都好介意佢對身邊d女仔好好,不過,咁多女仔撲埋去,有邊個男仔唔開心..... 所以我都由佢,同佢傾過,佢就成日叫我dun worry, dun worry。就算佢對d女仔無野,我都勁擔心啦!真係你講個句,要對彼此要有很大的信任先至維繫到.... 真係超難keep囉