我奶奶次次去完大便唔洗手, 點算好?



  • 我最近發現我奶奶大小便都唔用hand soap洗手.  點解我會知? 因為我成日聽到她toilet小便的話, 唔會有開水喉既聲, 但如果良久才出來, 即係大便, 她都會開水喉洗手既, 但唔會用hand soap.  所以我早2天把那支hand soap的咀向住牆邊, 即是說如果她有用soap, 會把咀推回另一方才可以pump soap出來.  但2天以來那支咀都無移動, 都重係牆邊方向.   真係好嘩然呀, 我開始好怕食佢煮d野啦.   我現在開始都成日用殺菌hand lotion. 好嘔心呀.  點好呢? 出聲叫她用hand soap會好尷尬. 





  • ask ur husband to tell her la !





    Dunno why they are all so dirty !!!!!!!!





    I used to eat the stuff my 99 makes.... that was before I found out how UNSANITARY she is !!!!!





    On a scale from 1 to 10.... i give her 11 ~~~~ !!!



  • 呢種事, 不宜自己開聲.





    同意樓上, 同你老公講, 叫佢同佢呀媽講.



  • 同你老公講, 叫佢同佢呀媽講...又或者貼張標語在洗手間可以嗎?



  • 貼張紙咪擺明唔妥佢?!





    你試吓俾d ev71腸病毒既報紙佢睇, 有人病死既案例就仲警愓到. 同埋要俾埋點預防(通常都有寫用梘液洗手)佢睇



  • i told my 99 that she must wash her hand with soap before she can handle my children. i explain to her that our hands can spread germs.





    if you have no kids, find another excuses.



  • 其實跟她生活數年啦, 關係都唔算好, 平日都唔會講野. 如果我貼標語在洗手間, or 比張報紙她看腸病毒既news會好唐突. 叫我老公出聲, 我老公唔會理, 因為他都唔會覺得有問題. 他只會覺得我針對奶奶. 我家又無小朋友, 唔可以找excuse為左小朋友著想.




  • 他只會覺得我針對奶奶. 我家又無小朋友, 唔可以找excuse為左小朋友著想.








    by goddess - 05/06/08 13:07





    唔係掛~~~~~ 呢0的咁基本0既衛生問題, 小學生都識啦~ 幼稚園老師都有教啦~ 你老公都會覺得你針對奶奶?????





    睇黎, 如果你同你奶奶嘈交的話, 唔理邊個係0岩定係錯, 你老公一定會企係佢呀媽0個邊先.



  • 可唔可以睇新聞果陣扮同老公討論下, 然後借d易講到...."所以話, 個人衛生真係好緊要......", 又講下你有個同事去完大大係咁易沖兩沖水就當洗左手..."好污糟, 而家d病咁緊要, 咁樣沖兩沖邊得乾淨架......"等等, 我諗咁樣又可以講俾佢聽, 而你老公同你奶奶都唔會覺得你針對佢掛?! 而且我諗你奶奶應該唔會知道你知道佢去完廁所唔洗手既。



  • so you are saying that your husband think it is ok to NOT washing hands after toilet?





    you have 2 issues, 1st is your mil's personal hygiene.





    2nd is your husband's attitude because he thinks you are picking on your mil if your simply complain about something that is totally legit.







  • 我也是跟老人同住.


    去街一定唔洗手,


    全日只會用soap洗一次手,


    就係沖涼果時,


    我都覺得好嘔心.


    佢掉垃圾時隻手伸到好入個垃圾桶度,


    然後又去摸食物......嘔..


    不過佢好在意洗到啲廚房呀廁所一應不染,每日都要洗一大輪


    我話佢又試過,


    放樽洗手液在當眼處又試過


    都冇用,因為佢覺得根本唔需要洗手.


    你個case


    俾咗報紙佢看都冇用,


    不如呃佢話家庭醫生千叮萬囑呢個非常時期一定要洗手,


    咁你捉到佢唔使果陣,


    佢就無藉口.







  • 其實, 佢d衛生意識咁差, 就算你叫到佢洗手, 佢煮飯都一定唔乾淨. 所以....盡量唔喺屋企食, 無眼屎乾淨盲會好d.



  • 跟她生活數年啦, 關係都唔算好, 平日都唔會講野<<<< 在同一間屋幾年唔講野,但佢就煮飯你食,都難度幾高亦唔會開心,或者就想辦法大家打好關係





    我奶奶都係咁,有一次在酒樓我陪佢去廁所,給我發現後,我就笑笑口,做個開水喉手勢,叫番佢埋,話:「妳唔記得洗手」,仲幫佢節埋hand soap


    有一次係我個女陪佢去廁所,又係咁,我個女就大聲叫佢:「嬤嬤洗手!」


    好彩我們從來食唔到佢老太君煮既飯




  • 1叫你老公同佢講


    2唔食佢煮既野



  • bowie728728: 無錯, 我老公好錫佢阿媽, 可能覺得佢無左老公, 會孤獨, 所以好多時都遷就她. 我有時complain 奶奶既野, 都係想了很久好技巧先得. 不然, 我老公會即時臉色一沉. 好似有一次發現我奶奶收到信後, 把我一封重要信件夾埋一本書掉入垃圾桶, 已經2次啦, 我發現後跟老公說叫他同奶奶講以後收到信比返曬我地自己分類. 點知老公跟她說"媽, 以後收信後小心些看清楚"





    +ggg: 你有小朋友會好好多, 因為借小朋友把口叫奶奶洗手會容易多. 因為我住外地, 屋大些, 分2層, 好多時我在下層, 她在上層. 所以可以全日都唔講野, 但因為她成日怕我老公返夜班無野食, 所以日日都煮埋dinner比老公, 順便分一些比我, 即係碟頭飯, 我唔洗對住佢食. 所以可以說不上半句都可以. 其實佢煮既食物都係好難食, 好千篇一律, monday 雞+水煮菜 tue牛肉+菜 wed牛肉包冬菇絲粟米仔......來來去去5-6樣野. 我老公都叫她不用煮, 但奶奶成日怕老公公司無野食, 我老公都頂唔順有時會返公司掉曬d野食. 我自己都有時會掉.



  • 又真係好難0既版主...


    正所謂: 相見好就同住難, 更何況, 聽你咁講, 你老公真係好偏幫佢呀媽咁... 呢0的就真係無得講架喎~





    你一係就忍, 再唔係睇下可唔可以搬出去住, 不過我諗你老公唔會制.



  • 其實佢煮既食物都係好難食, 好千篇一律





    .......





    溫馨提示: 版主, 係到講野最好小心0的~ 好似你呢句咁, 人地睇會覺得你係一個好惡頂0既兒媳, 又話你係"港女".. 呢到0的人真係好高興...... 實比人話你: 有人煮埋比你食你仲咁多野講, 咁叻, 自己唔去煮!!?!?!!?..... 咁... 所以講野真係小心0的, 否則好易引起駡戰.



  • actually 雞+水煮菜,牛肉+菜,牛肉包冬菇絲粟米仔...didn't sound too bad. lonely old ladies cook for their SONs. that is all they can do. sad.





    if you can't make her wash her hands with soap, don't eat her food. not that it will make you sick (is fully cooked), because you can't get pass the thought of yucky hands.





    no one can help you here, friend.



  • 去完大便唔洗手, 我開始好怕食佢煮d野啦.


    跟她生活數年啦, 關係都唔算好, 平日都唔會講野.


    日日都煮埋dinner比老公, 順便分一些比我, 即係碟頭飯, 我唔洗對住佢食.


    但奶奶成日怕老公公司無野食, 我老公都頂唔順有時會返公司掉曬d野食. 我自己都有時會掉.


    .....................


    不但係溝通上有問題,連感情上都有問題







  • I will not ask my 99 not to do this and that ....i just ask my husband to do it.... and he will.





    But that DOESN'T mean she will listen lor !!





    Me and my 99 have lived together for 9 months.. due to some personal issues ( now i've moved away ) .





    Before we lived together... our relationship was OK cos we don't see each other often anyways.





    But 9 months ago when we moved in together....


    I noticed her personal hygiene .................





    So me and husband 忍 my 99 ...


    Her cooKing also very terrible .


    I mean if she's not clean but the food is tasty.... I might try not to think about the way she handles food and just go ahead and eat .


    But not only is she dirty....her food is very very very very gross. I'm not 針對 her.... i'm just speaking the truth !


    Becos my husband will eat anything..... he's actually not that picky.... but when he eats him mom's cooking... it will take him 2 hrs to finish his food -.- .





    But later on my husband got so fed up with his mom...


    he asked his mom not to cooK for us anymore.





    Then my 99 cried and said we boycott her.... etc.





    Since then I haven't talked to her.


    We live in a 1000 sq ft flat... her room is right beside ours... and we can stil manage NOT to talk .... not even say " HI " !!





    So alot off people say :


    " oh.. just tell your 99 not too cook.... tell her this and that " .





    Well... unless u've been through it yourself..... you will never understand !



  • 近排d腸病毒同手足口病gum勁,大陸死左好多人,遲早傳黎香港,主要傳染途徑係接觸糞便,試下搵次睇新聞或者報紙既時候,如果gum arm講開d類新聞,可以故意大聲講:嘩!真係好得人驚!以後去完厠所洗手真係要"卒“干淨d!嚇下佢!



  • 洗手真係要"卒“干淨d!<<<



  • bowie728728, cc, princess lola ,





    搬出去住跟本已經唔可能. 我嫁入來前曾經都有問老公如果我跟奶奶合不來會點. 他說我地可以搬出去住. 原來都係bullshxt, 現在老公說"阿媽又唔識英文, 又怕黑怕鬼, 你叫佢自己點可以一個人住. 跟本唔可能放下她一個生活. 我如果工作上要去其它地方住, 我都要帶埋她啦" 我想佢離婚都唔會同我一起搬出去住. 變左我對奶奶既憎恨日益加劇囉. 佢又真係勁痴我老公, 一知我老公next week off, 自己有牌打都唔去, 留在家見我老公. 所以我想2人世界一起2公婆出去食下飯都無乜可能. 有次我叫我老公騙奶奶我地同朋友食飯唔帶埋她, 可能老公大話有樣看, 又帶埋外賣比奶奶食. 奶奶事後跟我說"你以後同你老公想出去2人世界, 不用叫埋我的, 我都曾經後生過, 明白你地想點. 多些出去拍下拖啦" 口不對心, 明比野我聽.








    又有次在老公前說"我知你錫老婆, 比她工作辛苦, 我怕她以為我想迫她工作, hate了我, 我只係唔想她好似我, 老公唔比工作, 成世無打工, 到老來享受唔到社會福利. 事實係...跟自己女兒講phone說"這份又唔做, 那份又唔做, 你估現在好有錢呀, 樣樣都唔願做, 懶左個身唔想再做野. 她想找工都唔易啦, 幾年無工作. 車, 我最緊要d仔女啋我之痳, 佢唔啋我我都唔care既.





    有次奶奶又問老公係咪唔返工因為比老細炒左, 老公鬧完佢後, 她洗開dishes, 見到我放在sink內有一隻碗都唔幫我洗埋(平時都會順手), 又無情情把一些垃圾放在我椅子上.





    她又成日好刻意在我老公前表現關心我. 比如, 1) 買了一對拖鞋比我, 但我成日在家都唔拿比我, 卻在我老公晚上回家後, 拿來跟老公說買了拖鞋比我. 2) 我同時在家, 卻走去問我老公我耳仔發炎要唔要消炎膏 事實比時同我一句都無.





    cc 應該都好明我, 因為她都感受過. 好多野唔係可以大家開門見山講, 有些野係唔講到出口. 但自己又受不來. 想出去住又唔可以. 我唔想因為頂唔順奶奶同我老公吵甚至分開. 因為好可能正中下懷. 最開心既會係奶奶.






















  • ............



  • 乜小便都要用番簡架? 我都係就咁用水洗. 但係大便就一定會用番簡羅. 我老豆仲得人驚, 次次去完大小便都整到成褲都係, 都唔知佢係點去架=.=



  • 我覺得小便用水洗都ok, 但大便一定要用皂液, 因為手太接近屁股, 就算碰唔到屁股, 細菌都會由空氣接觸到手部.



  • 我終於想到方法啦, 但唔sure 是否work. 便是在網上找一些教人正確洗手方法內容, print out左再highlight重要字句, 我本來想把那篇野放廳那張茶幾上, 因為奶奶成日在那處, 但想想下咁樣又太明顯, 最後我把那張野放在自己書桌當眼處, 因為她成日都會四處打掃, 一定會八下我放在桌上的東西. 唔知work 唔work, 但試下先.



  • .... 係喎, 咁點解你又唔出去做野呢?


    你應該出去做返野, 唔好日日都對住佢.



  • 唓,使乜煩,





    以毒攻毒,奶奶下次大完之後,





    即刻請佢食燈,仲要係用手食咁樣.





    佢呵幾次,呵到爆廠就知驚.





    咪等佢污遭唔洗手呀啦~



  • 最緊要佢有抹屎.忽.......



  • 如題的我在上面就答曬








    但有些題外話...


    以我了解就係咁....





    奶奶:


    日日都煮埋dinner給個仔,還要分一些比新袍,但唔好食都有時會掉


    成日都會四處打掃包括新袍住樓上的地方





    新袍:


    幾年無工作


    跟奶奶生活數年啦, 關係都唔算好, 平日都唔會講野,唔啋奶奶





    想請問版主:


    你老公一個做工,你們又冇小孩,你為什麼唔做工又唔做家務?


    唔搬開住,咁現在間屋屬於誰的?如果是奶奶的,咁你好似樣樣都依賴人喎!





    疑問:


    版主聽到奶奶同你老公講"成世無打工, 到老來享受唔到社會福利."


    和個女講"這份又唔做, 那份又唔做, 你估現在好有錢呀, 樣樣都唔願做, 懶左個身唔想再做野. 她想找工都唔易啦, 幾年無工作. "





    佢冇講錯,做老人都係想家和萬事興,也是唔想個仔做夾心人,幾拾歲,又服侍仔、又服侍埋個年青新袍


    佢只不過冇衛生常識





    唔知我講完這番說話,會唔會又變罵戰??



















  • .... after my husband asked 99 not to cook our food anymore... she was very upset and angry !





    ... but my husband would still ask if she wants to go eat with us ... when we go eat... and 99 will say ' No la, I'm busy... .... '





    ... then she told her daughter that me and husband are very selfish... that we go out for dinner without bringing her....





    ... and she even wrote a letter to my husband ... she actually waited till I went out ... and then read the letter to my husband... and crying and crying and crying !





    .... but thank god my husband stood on my side at last !!!!





    Goddess,





    As I'm reading ur post... I feel you !


    I totally understand how u feel ... ~





    You know how most 衰99 will act 衰 even infront of their ' sun po ' ...


    but me and ur 99 is the same !!!





    She will act all nice to me... especially infront of my husband !


    At first... I was so stupid... cos I thought she was really a nice person...





    But after living with her.... I realized how EVIL she could be ... and all her acting became useless !!





    Always tell other people how bad we treat her... which is soooooo NOT true !! Always making fake stories up .....





    I dunno how Goddess you can live with ur 99 for a few yrs....







  • +ggg - 05/08/08 19:22





    我幾同意你0既分析.





    所以我都有問, 點解版主唔出去做野?



  • 我未結婚,不過對於話你奶奶同你姑仔講d o野同你講d o野唔同,我又覺得正常喎。我媽同我講d o野同阿嫂講d o野都唔同啦。





    同埋另一點,你唔想同奶奶住,點 解最初你知要同奶奶住都嫁俾你老公?



  • by love.2day - 05/08/08 15:59





    通常呢d自己都有抗體, 佢自己食唔會有事...



  • bowie 728728, +ggg,





    我無做工既原因, 有好多細節我無同你地講. 我係因為嫁去外地生活既, 都工作多年啦, 初初來到外地第一年, 都想休息下了解下當地, 同埋好enjoy honey moom period, 之後日子我去左college讀書, 但在我初初來生活數個月, 我奶奶已經細細聲跟我老公說"其實你老婆可以找工作做", 但我老公覺得初到貴境, 想找份好一點工作都唔易, 所以suggest我不如先讀書, 有當地學歷加埋本身之前工作經驗會好好多. 我自己有plan, 也打算快著手找自己想做既工作. 但我奶奶之前一直不斷跟我說她朋友見到這處那處請人, 但那些工種都唔係我想做. 打個比喻, 如果你做開文職工作, 有份當清潔員既工, 你會唔會去做? 我老公有跟她說我會點plan, 但她好似唔明, 重係好急幫我找工作. 見我有工唔做去返學都已經好不滿了. 但我老公都未緊張我工作既事, 老公好好, 叫我慢慢來, 又唔係無錢開飯, 我唔大洗老公跟本養到你, 如果唔係想多些savings, 跟本都唔想我出去打工, 想多些在家見到我. 我真係好感動, 但只係我說我點都會工作, 但都想找一份工可以配合到老公既時間, 不然, 我真係成日都見唔到他一面了. 老公都叫我不要理埋d無謂人說話, 最緊要他明白我.





    點解我無做家務? 我唔係無做, 我初初都有一起分擔家務, 後來發現我拖完既地, 清潔完既kitchen, 洗完既碗筷, 奶奶都重頭再清潔. 我自問好乾淨, 唔係因為我清潔不夠. 身邊既親友都說我奶奶潔癖, 我反而覺得她只係奄尖某些野. 之後我都無再幫手拖地. 但其實我都有做其它家務如洗衫, 倒垃圾, 洗toilet, bathroom之類. 用完kitchen都會再清潔好. 其實我老公一日3餐都要prepare比他, 我奶奶每天都會一大早煮好比老公dinner, 但如果老公當天公司有野食, 奶奶都不用煮, 我自己食自己, 唔係真係什麼服侍埋我食. 早餐我天天都要煮比老公, 消夜呢, 有時奶奶出去同朋友lunch都會帶埋野食回來比老公消夜, 有時她無買, 我自己煮比老公食. 我老公好多次叫她不用煮, 但她自己緊張我老公在公司無野食. 硬係要煮.





    講開間屋, 其實間屋係我老公, 但for some reasons, 老公用奶奶名買屋, 後來加返自己名入去, 一直係老公自己供屋, even 我地係夫婦, 離婚又好, 間屋我一丁點份兒都無, 但我奶奶一直想我出去打工原因係幫手供屋.





    cc會好明我, 因為我地處境都有點似. 唔一起生活都唔會知難處. 比如我奶鍾意貓, 我都未出聲要養, 我奶奶成日大大聲說'我頂唔順ga, 最憎d貓狗污漕到死, 又臭" 所以老公叫我將來奶奶去世後才養. 我說只養在basement可唔可以, 唔上樓上, 老公都說唔好. 但我奶奶重好後生, 同埋身體非常健康.





    姑仔: 正所謂相見好同住難. 初初見她, 她說自己份人乜都無所謂, 我老公又說奶奶好易相處, 我都一早問定老公相處唔到會唔會搬出去in case夾不來. 老公說時好好聽 "相處一世既係我地2夫婦, 你同我媽如果合不來, 我更係會同你一起搬出去住"










  • 版主, 0者係話你依家唔係香港, 咁你依家身在何方?







  • 或者咁講你會覺得我係風涼話,但係情況係你老公同你奶奶夾份買樓,你覺得你老公可以再負擔多一層?因此好簡單分析,佢話果句「 你同我媽如果合不來, 我更係會同你一起搬出去住」根本廢話。





    我個人俾你建議﹕


    索性早出晚歸,去學校lib睇書好,去公園坐下好,去做下義工都好,當係多d溶入人地文化,兼可以見少d你奶奶。



  • 相處下來, 都了解到奶奶為人既, 同埋聽到親戚說當年我老爺申請左個仔一家來生活, 因為初到步無屋住, 所以老爺叫佢地一家3口住在老爺間屋. 可能始終那個仔唔係奶奶親生仔(奶奶是第3任太太), 怕老爺個仔一家住落唔走, 當自己有份分屋吧, 所以住了一排, 奶奶已經出聲叫佢地不如快些找地方搬. 之後連我姑仔都說自己阿媽無乜人情味, 人地仔細老婆嫩, 工作上又未stable. 所以我聽埋一些, 又看到一些, even奶奶當初成日口聲聲說當我是女, 我都係聽下便算.



  • bowie728728: 我住澳洲.





    姑仔: 間屋我老公的, 但只係有埋奶奶名. 我未嫁比老公前, 都唔會問太多比如間屋邊個名那些問題, 都係嫁左比他才慢慢知所有事. 我老公早年說如果我地夾不到, 間屋比奶奶住, 我地自己出去細細地租apartment住. 其實係work, 只係老公唔會願意放下奶奶自己生活, 同埋在他而言, 我地住住下搬出去住, 我奶奶會好hurt, 好似無左個仔. 同埋怕她看不開自殺, 因為奶奶以前都曾經因為同老爺為了好小事吵咀, 拖埋我老公同老公細佬去碼頭想跳海, 但因為老公細佬猛拉住她才沒有跳下去.




  • (((成世無打工, 到老來享受唔到社會福利.)))


    請問你係咪在US ?





    (((我拖完既地, 清潔完既kitchen, 洗完既碗筷, 奶奶都重頭再清潔. 我自問好乾淨, 唔係因為我清潔不夠. 身邊既親友都說我奶奶潔癖)))


    但就唔講個人衛生,都幾無奈!





    (((姑仔建議﹕


    索性早出晚歸,去學校lib睇書好,去公園坐下好,去做下義工都好,當係多d溶入人地文化,兼可以見少d你奶奶。)))


    好有道理,一日釐係屋企真係會脫節,你咁後生應該出去乜都做下...


    如果你在US,真係做工冇分等級,我個女初到此地,都去外賣餐館接電話落柯打。


    堂堂一個法官去chinatown買送,帶住個紅色半心膠袋fing fing下...





    不過既然係你老公唔比你做,咁錫你,你咪遷就下你奶奶,等你老公唔好做夾心人lor....







  • 總之就~ 相見好同住難啦~~~ 唉~~





    其實, 如果比我第日結左婚, 我都唔會同奶奶一齊住.



  • 老公一句怕阿媽會自殺, 我都真係只可以事事忍, 大聲一句都無, 咪只好唔出聲唔同她講野. 我真係怕忍唔到口鬧佢, 到時有乜事我好蝕底. 所以多謝你地作為我既listeners, 因為我實在成肚氣, 但老公又唔係好好既對像可以乜都講得. 雖然我老公曾經說如果我有什麼有關奶奶既事不開心, 跟他講, 發洩在他身上, 但原來係唔可以. 講完後佢既口臉會唔同左. 所以我(由其m來前後)情緒好差, 夜半時都會哭起來.



  • 噢...原來澳洲...相信新移民搵工都唔易....


    我勸你遷就下=/=要食佢唔洗手的食物,不過真係要想辦法攪好關係,如果唔係一家三人都會生活得唔開心




  • 所以最好方法係閃,我諗你初o黎報到未必有咁多朋友,周圍去下,行下,都唔錯。





    係呢,有車牌未?有車牌咪買架平車周圍去下,無車牌咪去考囉。



  • 你老公係唔係獨生子?



  • 你夠膽的話…你奶奶識「扮」跳樓,你都得o架。你再咁谷落去,真係可能係你跳喎。



  • bowie728728原來未結婚呀, 咁你可以選擇, 真係唔好同奶奶住啦, 我阿媽, 我所有女性朋友, 都係同奶奶有口齒印, 包括埋我大嫂都同我媽有心病. 我媽都有同我講以前阿嫂未婚前好好, 婚後有埋個女衰曬. 我媽都好多complain, 我咪叫我mom唔好再理, 人地一家有自己安排, 人地既工人工作唔乾淨跟本都輪唔到她理. 佢唔鍾意見到咪少一點去大嫂家. 但我mom又想多見下孫女, 最後都係日日去.



  • 老人家既野.............唔俾飽飯佢食就得嫁啦!



  • +ggg: 都唔會一家3口唔開心既, 起碼我老公唔會有乜野唔開心, 因為在他眼中唔見我同奶奶吵鬧已經當無事發生.





    姑仔: 車牌同車我都有, 我都有時同一些朋友出去, 但weekend都一定在家陪老公, 但最衰我老公又好鍾意係屋企, 唔係有事做都唔出去. 因為佢話日日返工, 放假當然唔想再出去. 近年油價又好貴, 更加唔會無所事事開車出去. 唔會跳樓既, 我只係怕自己depress會有病.





    bowie 728728: 老公唔係獨仔, 我奶奶有2子一女, 但聽他說以前奶奶未同老公住埋一起前, 老公自己住, 奶奶同細仔住了數年, 但因為奶奶頂唔順細仔一家當她工人, 天天5-6點起床煮早餐, 細仔又迫佢學車, 想她車d孫返學放學. 但她又好怕開車. 好多野她頂唔住之後建議同我老公一起住. 老公又好錫奶奶, 就算都係enjoy自己一人生活, 都在無選擇下一起住. 所以點解老公跟我說他唔理奶奶, 奶奶重可以去邊.