五十年代退休一族

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50's
 what work you do again now? Is it difficult to find a job after retirement?

i don't drive, i bike

bike?好啊!對身體有益呢!

Johnny住香港區的嗎?

Kowloon

老人家或上班一族,大多數早睡,我說不上是老人家,也再不是上班一族,睡覺時間比較彈性.
 很快又一天!不經不覺又到夏天了.
 各位朋友你們睡了嗎?

Hi 女休,
 
 Actually, u are only 50 and is still young. Why don't u do some volunteer works and if yr outlook still good, u even can find some office work to do. U must learn something or do some work because u still hv a long way to go. Otherwise, yr life will be a little bit boring!

sein,我也曾想過做義工的,做義工也並不容易,一定要找出自己的興趣,暫時還沒有想到對什麼工作有興趣.
 office 我做不來呢,而且也沒有甚麼office工作適合我,這把年紀不是專業人士沒有老闆聘請吧.
 這年來已丟懶了,雖然感到越來越悶,卻提不起勁工作,沒有什麼頭緒找寄託,日子一天天地過,我想...很快想到入老人院過日子了.
 :(

U can't be like this, u must cheer up yourself. If u are cheerful, u will look younger. Like me, I am over 40, but I look like 30's. Try to find something to do like exercises, it keep u look younger and healthy! Then u will find a job easily and yr life feels great!

What are u doing during day time?

sein ,可能你的想像中我是一個看上去五十來歲的女人吧.
 我的外表看來不過四十呢,如果有機會看見我的話,你一不相信我是一位五十來歲的女人.
 雖然退休了,依然喜歡打扮自己,比起一般年輕女人,我的打扮一定不會落伍.
 女為悅己者容是女人該做的事情,不會因沒工作而不修邊幅,讓自己露出老態,這是我個人的做法.

女休你停左驚未

女休, I agree with you! Thats good u hv such ways of doing. But I am still worrying about the time after 更年期. We cannot control our outlook. Do u think such worst?

女休
 
 你比真實年齡年輕, 值得高興!
 平時你怎樣打發時間?

女休 replied @ 2008-04-16 11:00 pm
 
 sein,我也曾想過做義工的,做義工也並不容易,一定要找出自己的興趣,暫時還沒有想到對什麼工作有興趣.
 office 我做不來呢,而且也沒有甚麼office工作適合我,這把年紀不是專業人士沒有老闆聘請吧.
 這年來已丟懶了,雖然感到越來越悶,卻提不起勁工作,沒有什麼頭緒找寄託,日子一天天地過,我想...很快想到入老人院過日子了.
 :(
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 女休 replied @ 2008-04-17 5:18 pm
 
 sein ,可能你的想像中我是一個看上去五十來歲的女人吧.
 我的外表看來不過四十呢,如果有機會看見我的話,你一不相信我是一位五十來歲的女人.
 雖然退休了,依然喜歡打扮自己,比起一般年輕女人,我的打扮一定不會落伍.
 女為悅己者容是女人該做的事情,不會因沒工作而不修邊幅,讓自己露出老態,這是我個人的做法.
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 wanna spend some time together?

sein,不管如何保養,生理變化是自然定律,更年期問題也不必太擔心,不可以控制在自己手�堛漕き�,讓他順其自然好了.
 我有些朋友,三十來歲已停經,假如她沒有說出來,我們還不知道呢.
 也曾經好奇問她,有否因停經而影響性生活,她說一如過往沒分別,我也有點不相信,若觀她外貌,依然比同齡女性年輕許多,她本身是開美容院的,也許有點關係吧.

Do u know we can eat any supplements to release the uncomfortables during 更年期, my friend told me to take some tablets made from soya bean. Besides the outlook, strenghth is also important to support our whole life.
 
 Do u hv any children? I hv one eleven old girl.

女休 replied @ 2008-04-18 2:35 pm
 
 sein,不管如何保養,生理變化是自然定律,更年期問題也不必太擔心,不可以控制在自己手�堛漕き�,讓他順其自然好了. <------- for your information , Menopause starts areound 48-52 depending on individuals, last for 1-3 years (max)
 
 我有些朋友,三十來歲已停經,假如她沒有說出來,我們還不知道呢. <------ nothing strange
 也曾經好奇問她,有否因停經而影響性生活,<---- hormonal variations during Period is not so important to Sex life
 她說一如過往沒分別,我也有點不相信,<------ actually, there are lots of "special" people around, men and women alike
 若觀她外貌,依然比同齡女性年輕許多,她本身是開美容院的,也許有點關係吧
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 some can be "kept" while others can't, like teething, hand-shaking, slow motion, bending......

Hi Johny,
 
 Thanks for yr information. Actually, are u a man or woman? How come u know so clearly?

我還沒有感覺更年期的跡像,只是心境好像有點進入另一階段,例如想過一點寧靜生活,好想找一些有共通點的朋友,一起吃吃飯聊聊天,甚至想當年,大家可有共識識感,男女性朋友同樣開心.
 
 孩子已完成碩士外出工作了,我的責任也完了,必須要為自己安排下半截人生,讓自己可以活得有意義.

sein,Johnny,你們有另一半嗎?
 日常生活有什麼娛樂?有沒有去旅行?
 有沒有參加一些活動,例如跳舞,行山,打球,打牌....

女休,hi

Johnny is a man, 50+
 
 I had my Menopause at 49, I almost studied Medicine, so I know

想過一點寧靜生活,好想找一些有共通點的朋友,一起吃吃飯聊聊天,甚至想當年,大家可有共識識感,男女性朋友同樣開心.
 
 孩子已完成碩士外出工作了,我的責任也完了,必須要為自己安排下半截人生,讓自己可以活得有意義.
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 i get no kids, and I am OK with your proposal

my wife noticed of my "bad" temper and the "Heat" before I "discover"
 
 it's over now, after some months

just an acute bone problem last weekend, really painful....

as my wife fed me too well during Chinese New Year

Menopause in men is not so obvious, while it's more obvious in women for late Periods, longer, and finally NO, after some years

噢......更年期除了停經之外,還會怎麼樣呢?
 性情方面是否很暴躁,身體上有什麼變化?對男性或女性還有沒有興趣?是否一夜白頭?或佈滿皺紋?我好想知道呢?

男未休,hi!

女休 replied @ 2008-04-18 4:58 pm
 
 噢......更年期除了停經之外,還會怎麼樣呢?
 性情方面是否很暴躁,<---- can be, even I was Good-tempered man
 身體上有什麼變化? <------- 午後潮熱.....
 對男性或女性還有沒有興趣? <------ depends
 是否一夜白頭? <----never
 或佈滿皺紋?<------ looser skin, looser bones...我好想知道呢? <--- read more books on it
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 depends, each individual differ, with/without labour, number of kids....

我可以見下你的picture 嗎

男未休,為什麼想見我的相呢?見了又怎樣?

我的外表看來不過四十呢,如果有機會看見我的話,你一不相信我是一位五十來歲的女人.
 雖然退休了,依然喜歡打扮自己,比起一般年輕女人,我的打扮一定不會落伍.
 女為悅己者容是女人該做的事情,不會因沒工作而不修邊幅,讓自己露出老態,這是我個人的做法
 
 所以我想看看,希望你不要介意

男未休,首先說,我並不是有心在這�媦郕]自己的外表,只是與sein閑聊間透露一下吧.
 不希望引來誤會,況且看相片根本沒意思,相片可以造假,倒不如乾脆約見我吧,我不介意的. :)

Hi Johnny and 女休,
 
 My friend told me to put some neck cream because manopause will cause the skin of the neck loosen. U know, I still have plenty of things to do, I don't want the manupause brings me so many problems. I am working a part-time job in the morning, and look after my child in the afternoon. During weekend, I will go to gym. I am a single-mother. I have to work and plan my future too.
 
 How about both of you? Johnny, are u still working?

I doubt man has the same effects on monopause as woman has? Is it same age from around 49 to 42 like this?

女休,如你不介意,我想約你,如何可以contact到你.

sein replied @ 2008-04-18 6:09 pm
 
 I doubt man has the same effects on monopause as woman has? <------Basically YES, though not so obviously, and not so much hormonal fluctuation
 
 Is it same age from around 49 to 42 like this? <- should be 52
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 basically YES, seldom as late as 55 or as early as 45

u can see the effect on Alan TAM, Eric TSANG........although Alan is baby face, more than 25x (2, at least)

Fate takes/plays a part 2
 
 If you look at the appearance of Donald TSANG as well as TUNG Chee-wa before and after becoming CE (HKSAR), you know the difference
 
 and, Donald TSANG & Chris PATTEN are of the same age

sein,頸纹好多人是天生的,我有幾個朋友年近六十,一條頸纹都沒有,有些朋友三十出頭已經幾條頸纹,好像藝人宣萱只是三十出頭,已經有明顯頸纹,還有顧紀均不過五十,好早已出現嚴重頸纹,經常戴頸箍以掩飾.
 有說,眼睛四周圍的眼纹最容易看出老態,譚詠麟外表雖然保持得很好,面部皮膚看上去還緊緻,可是眼睛四周圍的眼纹非常嚴重,不露笑容也難掩飾.
 另一位是陳秀珠,她該是五十不到吧,眼睛深陷鬆弛有皺紋,看上去已一把年紀.
 所以後天保養也得先天有好的條件呢.

女休
 我很羨慕你外貌比實際年齡年輕許多, 有咩秘訣呢?

U can't be like this, u must cheer up yourself. If u are cheerful, u will look younger. Like me, I am over 40, but I look like 30's. Try to find something to do like exercises, it keep u look younger and healthy! Then u will find a job easily and yr life feels great!
 
 by sein - 04/17/08 16:38
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 rita,sein還厲害吧,over 40,but I look like 30's,更令人羨慕,我也不算麼,始終女人不到三十的外貌仍然很吸引呢.
 相信她一定有過人祕訣. :)

Hi 女休 & Johnny,
 
 Thks for all yr fully explanation! Any eye cream can introduce?

男未休,你想約見我,除了好奇看看是否如上述所講保養宜,還是有其他原因呢?
 可否告訴我?

sein
 You do gym. You must be very energetic!

不是好奇,是我估計你仍好有吸引力.

Hi Johnny,
 
 I hv another question to ask! I hv a thyroid tumor on my neck which I am taking a medicine call T4. Can I take it for life? Any side effect? For I don't want to hv another operation again. I just hv one. I see whether u know the answer?!