好唔開心,結左婚又點?!



  • 其實結婚之前已經知佢性格唔好,但係已經一齊住,所以都照結婚。佢平時對我一般,每一次有時有節要慶祝,佢咩都唔會做,如果我唔開心,佢會更加心情唔好,令我更加難受...星期六、日你唔好旨意佢會陪我出去,佢只會在家,同平時放工一樣,上網睇新聞同埋睇女人!佢會睇其他人既相,其他人既blog,但係自己老婆既就睇都唔睇,佢連結婚既相都冇睇過...佢覺得我身材唔夠好,所以成日上網睇大波女,我真係好唔開心,又唔可以同其他人講,佢認為宜家係佢養我,我宜家只係返part time,佢已經覺得養起我已經對我勁好,其他咩唔好對佢有要求...



  • I understand how you feel. But now that you are married, it is hard to change anything. I supposed, you have to either learn to live with it or have more communications to let him understand. But from what you have written, I think you have to live with it and try to be happy instead. Sorry to hear your story.



  • 佢唔會同我溝通架,因為佢講唔夠兩句就令我好難受,佢不會理人感受...



  • 男人都係咁既咩...?定係我已經嫁錯左..?



  • 你老公...聽落真係麻麻地



  • 佢覺得自己搵到少少錢就可以養起我,咩都要我慳...仲慘過未嫁時



  • take things easy and think positively. Afterall, you are married to him now. Better to spend a happy day with him than to be unhappy.



  • 只是結左婚幾個月就已經係咁...



  • 一係你搵返full time


    自己又做好d令佢更愛你



  • not only已經嫁錯左..


    is, u should not coupe with me at begin



  • baby,我都覺得你講得好岩,我之前已經出去搵工,佢見我in得成,又唔想我做,又話間公司呃人又呢樣個樣,其實人地係正常公司



  • 我同我老公好好ga


    我覺得其實要令個男人更愛自己


    先係解決問題既方法


    如果係相愛既


    先會肯為對方付出同一齊解決問題


    你想想一開始一齊既時候


    佢愛你d咩,你又愛佢d咩



  • 我好羨慕你呀baby,我其實都唔叫愛過佢...而佢一開始就瘋狂咁鍾意我,所以一追我已經想同我結婚,而我見佢對我咁好,咩都好緊張我,再加上之前失左幾次戀好唔開心,所以好快都嫁左俾佢...但係好多野都唔同曬,我地一齊住左幾個月就結婚,我知道佢已經冇咁愛我啦...因為佢好多野都唔理我感受...



  • 女人要為自己著想下, 你搵份工 la< 唔好聽佢講, 起碼唔使為佢而咩都要慳, 佢對你唔好, 你咪對你自己好d law



  • 我同佢一齊住之後就只係同朋友出過一次街,買左兩三次野俾自己ja,其他都係好普通既家庭開支,同埋買野俾佢,但係佢都仲係想我慳...我唔通要慳到好似人地拎綜緩咁咩...



  • 「我其實都唔叫愛過佢.」心兒都心是這樣想, 難怪男人對你這樣衰, 究由自取, 等天收



  • try to find and chat with more fds....


    or find part time jobs to do....


    dun spend all time in yr husband ....maybe better u



  • 搵full time喇, 錢又唔係俾得多, 愛又唔係俾得多, 限制就多多多. 把鬼!





    女人嫁咗都要有"自己"架~



  • 咁...客觀d講, 版主結婚真係結得好求其, 是但有個人對自己好d就務求早早嫁鬼咗自己咁...



  • 其實佢開始覺得我靚,同埋係好女仔,會係好老婆囉...





    不過到左一齊住,就相處得唔好,因為佢日日都只係閉關咁上網,返到家都唔點理我,佢又要我唔好返工,我日日都好辛苦咁過,都唔知做咩好,但係又唔係好似人地d闊太咁可以行街shopping,我都唔知我讀咁多書為乜...我那陣好唔開心,但係佢就好憎我唔開心,所以那時開始我地就關係唔好啦




  • 我都知我嫁得求其...





    我都有同佢講過唔愛佢,但係佢都堅持想我嫁俾佢...而且之後對佢越來越好了,亦好多野都就佢..



  • 心兒, 為你自己著想下, 做一d你自己開心的事, 如果2個人一齊係唔開心, 咁不如一個人仲好



  • 做得「金絲雀」梗要困在籠裹面。





    簡單d講又咪係怪 husband 吾夠金比你花費做濶太。





    味懶清高話悶悶悶, 讀左咁多書為セ....超



  • 今日是妳的報應



  • 唔掂...


    你就唔到一世


    出去做野喇, 佢亦都唔係堅恃叫你唔好返


    只係唔太想你去


    坦白講句, 你而家同社會脫節左你就慘...


    到時想唔跟佢都唔得


    咁就一世喇



  • 一個人無所事事喺屋企, 不事生產, 使錢使得仲多.



  • kk,


    我都想一個人...但係都已經結左婚,好多野都唔可以唔理佢...只係知道佢又唔俾呢樣唔俾個樣



  • 咁離婚 la, 無問題 ga, 唔好為左一紙婚書, 同一個唔開心的人一齊, 時代進步, 唔好咁守舊



  • 多謝你地呀,我都覺得應該要爭取下出去做野,至少個圈子大返..



  • 痴線....





    出去做返野啦, 點解要為左個男人攪到無曬自己呢?





    既然你當初已經知道佢係個咁0既人, 我唔明白點解你仲肯結婚0羅.










  • 心兒





    你好呀~你老公同我以前一個男朋好似..所以我好明白你既痛苦,有時同朋友或者家人出去都想老公一齊囉,你去搵full time啦!!!不過講真..我唔知你幾大啦,但係咁真係好難捱落去,2個人唔溝通,咪即係同一屋簷下,咁一齊為咩?



  • 因為已經一齊住,而且好多結婚既野都搞左...唉...



  • 咁你都同佢結婚??



  • 好多野都唔可以唔理佢...只係知道佢又唔俾呢樣唔俾個樣





    by 心兒 - 03/19/08 12:42








    真係痴線....





    家陣養狗咩, 鐘意就摸下, 唔鐘意就SO都唔SO下咁呀?





    我覺得版主你未為你自己爭取過.





    無錯, 結婚的確同單身唔同, 好多野都要顧對方感受, 但我覺得, 版主老公呢0的限制跟本就係無理.



  • 記住, 女人除咗個老公, 錢同朋友一定要keep住儲!



  • 唔係爭取, 而係你應該去搵工 , 起碼自己使自己$$, 都開心d



  • 因為已經一齊住,而且好多結婚既野都搞左...唉...





    by 心兒 - 03/19/08 12:47








    你自己都唔識諗啦~





    你連自己都唔維護自己, 仲有邊個會維護你呀?



  • venus,thx 呀...我已經試過好多次,想同佢溝通下,但係每次佢一聽我講唔開心,佢就好不滿...之後一定會講d好hurt既野...依家同佢已經冇再鬧交啦,但係真係好唔開心,唔係好明點解佢覺得我身材唔夠好又要娶我,我話唔想結婚,佢又唔想我走...



  • 快d搵份工...女人要有錢係手嫁,唔係比人蝦死!!同埋講真,結左婚又點喎,未有bb前你好想清楚啦,唔係一世嫁~



  • 我諗, 佢認為, 佢肯娶你, 肯比錢你洗, 呢個就係你幾生修到0既福份.





    0的男人永遠都係咁自以為是架啦~



  • 同你地傾下,都冇咁唔開心啦...





    如果我出去做野,佢就會緊張我囉,因為怕有其他男人o者...



  • 其實我好想知,點解自己有老婆,都成日上網睇女人,佢尋晚仲迫我去睡,因為佢想睇女人卦...但係個個男人都係咁既咩?



  • 我覺得佢跟本唔當你係老婆.





    衰0的講, 你老公變態.



  • 我都幾肯定佢係咁想...



  • bowie728728 replied @ 2008-03-19 12:53 pm


    我諗, 佢認為, 佢肯娶你, 肯比錢你洗, 呢個就係你幾生修到0既福份.


    0的男人永遠都係咁自以為是架啦~





    哩句又真~


    我都見識過唔小



  • 你真係西利, 對住呢種男人對咁耐都仲未顛.



  • 變態?有咁誇張咩?


    我都唔知呀,只係想佢放工會陪我多d,星期六日搵一日同我出下去...



  • 小尼








    我身邊都有個啦~







  • 心兒 replied @ 2008-03-19 12:54 pm


    其實我好想知,點解自己有老婆,都成日上網睇女人,佢尋晚仲迫我去睡,因為佢想睇女人卦...但係個個男人都係咁既咩?





    睇下女人好正常


    佢去睇男人你就驚喇



  • "因為佢想睇女人卦...但係個個男人都係咁既咩?", why you like to ask this kind of stupid question.