單身的煩惱......請給意見..... (非善意者勿進)
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nayio
你指見過一兩次果個?? 呢個只係有d好感~
我地冇common friends呀~
Advice
我好耐冇鐘意既人喇~
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luvxsum,
one or two times is enough, find a chance to request his assistance, if that boy/man refuses to help, then okay, another one please.
I am sure that boy/man generally if they can they'll try to help unless they've got some difficulties, e.g they have their gf(s).......
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A.Wenger
而家就係通常好既男仔都有girlfriend
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i always disagree female do the first move, if the boy likes you, he will chase you no matter how.
just my thought.
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g
其實我就係唔做first move 果隻...
之前亦因為覺得個男仔唔係真係好鐘意我...而冇同佢一齊
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Maybe he hasn't got, you really don't know. If you don't try, you are doomed to failure.
而家就係通常好既男仔都有girlfriend ---> Haha, I am sorry, I am probably a good boy(an extremely little bit handsome), with a good prospect and are willing to try my best take care of my only one.
P.S I am not advertising myself like those advertising posts around, just to show there's some boys remaining still, you should never give up to try if you really wish to have a mate to be with you, to take care of you only.
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luvxsum
我想問下你覺得男女可唔可以淨做朋友?
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luvxsum
well, worth waiting for the one.
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5係無 只係你未遇到
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wenger
u ain't in HK, no matter how good/handsome that you are, advertising for yourself is no use on a HK site. ha!
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C'mon Luvxsum, this is the year 2008 =.=
who cares about who's taking the first move? Be ambitious
This is your future we are talking about
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g
Who knows, I can be available, but from June only, but I am not going to advertise for myself as I keep my options open, I am not in a hurry.
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A.Wenger
希望在人間...可能只係我異性緣唔好呢~~haha~ 我都算係較樂觀既單身人士架...
不過而家返左工...social network比以前更細~ 都幾難遇到好男仔~
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nayio
honestly, men cares.
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wenger
u coming back for summer holiday?
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really... none of my men actually cared
I think the main point here is how to keep the relationship going after whoever has made the first move
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deetee
當然可以做朋友la~ 我都有男仔friends 架
g, advice
mr.right 真係可遇不可求
nayio
可能我以前失敗過...
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Yes, you know 希望在人間.
So at least you understand that, 不過而家返左工...social network比以前更細, or you may try to contact your friends, they have their social networks as well, then the time you join their social parties, your social network will be extended, the probability of finding a mate will be higher then.
g
yes, for the summer holiday
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all my male fds told me if they dun need to chase the girl, no fun and kinda scary for them.
luvxsum
yes, so no need to rush.
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男仔介唔介意真係唔知....
我可能traditional d...
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C'mon, everyone must have been rejected in their lives b4
Live your life with courage
I have been rejected too, who cares?
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nayio
its those asian men whos 'face' is more important than anything else
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失敗係成功既母親,倒霉係成功既祖母,懦弱係成功既天敵。
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The first move doesn't always indicate proposing to them =.=
It could simply be a night for "hints" and "temptations"
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Learn how to play the game, sis
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A.Wenger
朋友方面...我成日講笑咁話靠哂佢地架la...
佢地話>>有好既自己都要左啦~
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luvxsum,
Add on Nayio's words, plan for the first step today if you think he is the right guy you cannot afford to miss.
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佢地話>>有好既自己都要左啦~ <-- That is for sure la
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luvxsum
haha your fds are very honest to you.
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nayio
haha~ 我諗我就係掙咁呢d skills.......
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luvxsum
如果你有男性朋友既
即係話你唔係唔識同異性相處
只不過係唔識點同佢地談情說愛啫
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luvxsum
At least, you can start to train your courage towards boys. You can train yourself to be confident in front of boys. As your social network extends, at least you won't be bored.
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luvxsum replied @ 2008-03-04 4:28 am
nayio
haha~ 我諗我就係掙咁呢d skills....... <-- Then gain the skills
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deetee
係~ 中point~
A.Wenger
好似deetee咁講... i wont be shy in front of boy...
but i dunno how to go further...
nayio
how to learn?
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but i dunno how to go further.
1st step : General particulars(ask him about hobbies, favourite stuffs...)
2nd step : Chat about something common(e.g news, hobbies, recent experiences....)
3rd step : Try to declare your interest to have further meetings(by doing the same thing together)
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BTW, how did you know this guy?
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luvxsum
應該唔會好難學啫
我雖然唔係女仔...得閒一齊研究下哈哈
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DT: You need lessons on how to "tempt" a guy!?!?!?!?!
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nayio
見過一兩次果個?? 工作上遇到的...
不過之後應該冇乜機會撞到
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Then it's kinda hard wor
Do you have any other candidates?
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A.Wenger
呢3個steps..一般social 我都ok 既~
deetee
我就係要搵人研究下
nayio
um....有個以前鐘意過...但斷左contact既男仔
最近我朋友撞到佢
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Be frank, be nice, be sincere, be cheerful in front of boys, try to impress them, try to be sociable, keep your options open, never refuse or rule out any available and possible options. It's not difficult for a girl like you to find a great boyfriend to be your mate.
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These three steps are so general indeed. Everyone knows, but to apply sometimes that's another story.
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nayio
um....有個以前鐘意過...但斷左contact既男仔
最近我朋友撞到佢 <-- Then is he occupied now?
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A.Wenger
yes..really difficult to apply.....
但我又諗...如果刻意既話...咁樣會好累(spiritually)
唔通自己本身冇可取咩?
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nayio
dunno r..
我朋友同佢換左電話咋...um..我都知佢facebook ge...
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nayio
其實以前我地係一大班fd 出泥玩...佢有送過我返屋企既..
但後來我個fd 同佢best fd 散左...就冇左contact...
(我through我個fd 識佢架)
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我朋友同佢換左電話咋...um..我都知佢facebook ge... <-- Then ask your friend to call him and ask him out for a gathering lor (with your friend, of course)
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You don't want to initiate, and you want somebody to pay attention to you, in the world, there are no such things as free lunch.
It doesn't mean you are not attractive enough though, or you are not a nice guy, but you want your target to pay attention to you, then the only way to do is to be sociable and approachable towards him.
Nothing is automatic, you are not allowed to be passive always.
Also, you haven't tried once even, how can you say you are tired spiritually ?
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Oh i see...
then that's easy la
how long have you guys lost contact?