極度孤寒的未婚夫

4月結婚了, 但現在想悔婚. 因為未婚夫愈來愈孤寒...籌備婚禮, 用錢很多, 他都不想付俾錢...我可以點呢?

早ｄ走

你意思係咪佢"一個豆零"都唔想比, 定係還是想以"價錢低"為目標先????

要用幾多錢,唔係一早就計劃好o既咩???

佢應該預左ga wor

呢ｄ男生　唔洗恨

結婚之後d錢都係大家洗架啦

之後分佢一筆仲實際

他說他很愛我, 但我真的不能忍受他的孤寒. 情人節, 我給他的禮物是一個三天兩夜的短程旅行. 他只帶了很少錢去旅行, 最後連小費都話因為無帶錢要我俾. 昨天的情人節禮物是一盒Olay mask.

如果你為Ｄ甘既野就想悔婚，吾該快Ｄ，米害人！

我從來沒有收過花.

聽起上黎, 版主你都幾物質架喎.

我夠無收過花啦~~~~ 我同男朋友拍左三年, 佢都未試過送花比我... 咁唔通我又要同佢分手咩?

反而你不如問下自己, 係咪真係咁鐘意佢?

喂,咁佢咁o既性格你一早就知ga la..唔鍾意就一早唔鍾意啦,點解而家先話想悔婚??

我真的不是貪錢的女人. 亦有其他人追. 真的沒有如何要求他送什麼給我. 買樓, 由首期到裝修, 現在都是我俾的. 他有一層樓要供, 不過, 以他的收入, 不會沒有錢剩. 但他從來沒有提出將來幫我一齊供.

你地結婚之前無計劃過將來架咩??

我感覺你地好似話結就結咁喎.

如果有問題,點解唔一早提出?

而家o既問題係,點解你到而家先想離場?

你之前就覺得唔鍾意/有問題ga ma

拍拖初期沒有這麼多費用要支付, 到結婚才知道. 要佢俾錢, 佢會好心痛.

冇plan ga meh?

那妳真的要想清楚，婚後大把機會要處理成個家的錢財問題，以妳倆現時對用錢毫無共識，肯定將來家無寧日。

小小 replied @ 2008-02-15 1:33 pm

我真的不是貪錢的女人. 亦有其他人追. 真的沒有如何要求他送什麼給我. 買樓, 由首期到裝修, 現在都是我俾的. 他有一層樓要供, 不過, 以他的收入, 不會沒有錢剩. 但他從來沒有提出將來幫我一齊供.

此人中毒太深。

拍拖初期沒有這麼多費用要支付, 到結婚才知道. 要佢俾錢, 佢會好心痛.

by 小小 - 02/15/08 13:35

我會覺得版主你好唔成熟0羅.

我接受公一份, 婆一份. 一人一半, 但現在發覺他連一半都不想出.

結婚要用好多錢呢個係人都知架啦, 有乜理由話到林結婚0個一刻先至知???

你地兩個究竟有無溝通好先至講結婚呢樣野架?

你兩個今年貴庚呀?

siu siu...yr man like...leave him la!!!

ya..agree with 子由..

首先要有共識,唔係搞到一半先發現有問題

可能大家都沒有錯. 只是我們不適合對方吧了.

我都想跟他說清楚, 但他根本不想俾. 他說沒有錢幫我供樓. 唔通要他 list 一個 breakdown 出來解釋嗎? 根本他說是不想俾.

小小, I am in a similar position as you, except we are not engaged yet. I also do not know what to do. I love him, but the fact that he's a cheap person bothers me from time to time and makes me worry what will happen in the future.

如果真係咁的話, 真係唔好結好過結喇, 結婚要比錢, 離婚又要洗錢.

昨天的情人節只是這件事的導火線. 可能是一直積壓著, 才爆出來.

我想講, 連餅卡的錢都是我俾的.

我真係極度唔明白, 點解有0的女人, 唔同自己0既另一半有一個共同0既共識先至結婚?

版主你係咪真係咁恨嫁呀?

> 首先要有共識,唔係搞到一半先發現有問題

The problem is I know this long time ago, but I love him, so I don't want to make it like a big deal. I've brought this topic up before, he said this is all he can do and is not going to change. What can I do then?! All I can blame is I can't leave him!

昨天的情人節只是這件事的導火線. 可能是一直積壓著, 才爆出來.

by 小小 - 02/15/08 13:42

me too!!! same here!!

為什麼裝修, 買材料的錢都要我俾呢? 平時去食飯, 他要等到 tea time 才食. 如果要食好一些, 那一次一定是我俾錢的. 因為我不想見到他不願俾錢的樣子..

我以為愛他, 可以接受他的孤寒. 現在, 我發覺自己做不到.

如果要看電影, 十次有八次都是我買票.

SS, since u are not engaged yet, leave him right away..

u two dont have agreements at all, how to plan the future??

wow so many girls have flats and live alone?

i want to have a gf like this, i have a flat too, financially stable.

他有俾少少禮金, 我剛才話我會俾番佢.

有時有好多實際同現實問題,唔係"I love him"就可以將問題置之不理..而家係一個現實社會,你要為自己o既生活好好打算同考慮

我真係唔想佢覺得 si 底了這些禮金.

grace, maybe you are right.

我自己有足夠能力買樓, 供樓. 但是否有錢就代表全部都由我俾呢? 我失業的時候, 他會不會幫我供呢?

He wants to get married and has asked few times already. But I refused/postponed. I don't know how to have a future when I know that he will not be willing to contribute anything.

小小, how long have you two been together?

識了很久, 但拍拖不夠三年.

Talk to him what u think! If not the one.... better separate instead of getting marry! Be fair! If you want flower, just tell him you want flower!

自己的生命，自己的生活由自己負責，點解你層樓要他供？

唉..工作了.

I feel so sorry for you girls. Think it through and talk to your bf before you actually go sign the paper.

我們兩夫妻, 層樓他有份住, 為什麼他不用幫忙供呢? 當交租都要吧! 大家都是打工仔.