Really hard to find a good lady ??

Just being cheated by ex , is that really hard to find a good , loyal one ??

i am 37 single , well educated , look ok .

making friends is also fine for me ? any ??

[email protected]

but what do you want then, by just leaving a msn here....

hi Alex,

It's not difficult to find a good girl here if you are sincere.

halo

fay

jenny

Carol

can we tlak in msn now?

[email protected]

hi carol/ jenny,

happy CNY.

nice to meet you

carol /fay / jenny

happy new year , making friends is fine and a soulmate is perfect

alex,

happy new year!! Forget about the past, what's your new year's resolution?

hi there

Kung hei fat choi, happy new year

sf / jenny,

Kung Hei Fat Choi

fay ,

may change my job

jenny , kung kei fat choi too

Alex,

mine is 不勞而獲. What kind of job are you looking for?

alex

why change job? becuz something else has better prospective?

sf ,

i am feed up with the current field , need something new

Alex

what kind of job your are looking for?

fay ,

there is no 不勞而獲的, i am looking for a finance job

sf , fay , jenny

nice to meet u all , need to offline and watch vcd movies , wish u all the best in the coming new year

hi again, alex.

and hi to the rest girls. :)

i cant agree more with Fay, sincere is the way to go!

we have many nice and kind ladies around.

alex

so u got a potential one yet?

Alex,

what's a ideal gf in your mind?

soulmate? I want to find a soulmate too. B ut my friends told me it is difficult and almost impossible.

Yes, just let go...i am sure u will find "the one" very soon.

peace

carol ,

wish u have a good year too ,

Peace,

dont give up!!! if you give up, your designated soulmate will be sad and walk away from you... he's coming in your way... :)

Alex,

to you too!

carol,

thanks so much. have u found your soulmate?

peace

Peace,

not yet, but i'm sure will soon! :P

Carol,

Yes, we will find the one very soon. And the most important thing, we are living happily even though we are single now. :>

wish u physical, material and spirtual abundance in the year of Rat!

Peace

peace, thanks a lot!!

and to you too... you know, things always come back.

since you are so kind and nice, same things will be coming back to you. :)

cheated by ex, is that really hard to find a good one, loyal one?

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I have the same feeling at the moment..

I am looking for a good man too

I am 36, female, also was cheated by my ex and i have spent 3 years to get over from the pain. now I am ok but sad to realise I am old and all of those potential candidate for BF are all have galfriends. Whenever I realised any potential candidate already has gf, I usually turned them into my bloody, then i was told by a friend today that good man are normally already engaged.

i_like_sunshine,

Hi, first of all, gong he fat choy.

Yes, emotional wound will not be healed easily. 3 years is really a long time. Congrulations to you, as you can overcome it finally.

Ladies ,

i believe everyone has a story and life will treat us differently , sometimes , being cheated ia also a good experience at least we will be very carefully to face the next affair , i believe most of you prefer to get an ideal one rather than get a substandard one , 到了這時我倒覺得不容有失,切記勿因為寂寞而胡亂,隨便找個人作伴,這樣往往得不償失,希望妳們都有美好的結局. 沒有愛情,也還有事業, 朋友, 家人 , 很多時我們回望過去,有很多後悔與遺憾,但當時不明白為何時間上會這樣的安排,也不明白自己當時為何會作出這種決定, 造物弄人??? 天意乎? 人力乎??? 是耶非耶??? 唯有說一句: 這叫沒綠份

總信明天會更好，沒法挽回的事，緃使傷痛，但還是一樣的過去，只要你想活下去，便要向前看，

女仕們，祝福你們事事順境

shinny_smile

alex, bless you too!!

認同唔好為有個bf 就亂作決定, 唔好為拍拖而拍拖

:)

Hi, shinny_smile. Kung Hei Fat Choy!

3 years is a long time and I am glad that I did get it over. even though my 'market" is getting small as most people in my ages are already married, i won't lower my standard and jump into a new relationship easily. Actaully many peoples have problems with their partners, and nowadays peoples dont know how to respect their partners. Anyway, wish you all have a wonderful year in terms of relationship.

cheer up , better tomorrow

alex replied @ 2008-02-08 12:17 pm

Ladies ,

i believe everyone has a story and life will treat us differently , sometimes , being cheated ia also a good experience at least we will be very carefully to face the next affair , i believe most of you prefer to get an ideal one rather than get a substandard one , 到了這時我倒覺得不容有失,切記勿因為寂寞而胡亂,隨便找個人作伴,這樣往往得不償失,希望妳們都有美好的結局. 沒有愛情,也還有事業, 朋友, 家人 , 很多時我們回望過去,有很多後悔與遺憾,但當時不明白為何時間上會這樣的安排,也不明白自己當時為何會作出這種決定, 造物弄人??? 天意乎? 人力乎??? 是耶非耶??? 唯有說一句: 這叫沒綠份

總信明天會更好，沒法挽回的事，緃使傷痛，但還是一樣的過去，只要你想活下去，便要向前看，

女仕們，祝福你們事事順境

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Alex,

您說得對! 朋友同我講, 跟愛人最後要分開, 是因為緣盡了!

我與他也是緣盡了, 是有緣無份, 而家, 係要自己去放低, 要放低自己一直堅持不放的東西! 好難做, 但都要去做!

i_like_sunshine replied @ 2008-02-08 12:33 pm

Hi, shinny_smile. Kung Hei Fat Choy!

3 years is a long time and I am glad that I did get it over. even though my 'market" is getting small as most people in my ages are already married, i won't lower my standard and jump into a new relationship easily. Actaully many peoples have problems with their partners, and nowadays peoples dont know how to respect their partners. Anyway, wish you all have a wonderful year in terms of relationship.

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i_like_sunshine,

Thanks for your greetings. You too.

Right now and the most important thing is reminding myself to "LET GO". I must overcome it.

i want loveeeee

今日睇同事三分親, �堶惜@句,如果你浸親不斷掙扎,反而要沉落去,放鬆個人反而會浮起...然後就會游到去你想去既地方....真係好岩...凡事順其自然,,有D野早就注定.....不是你/妳的,就別再勉強

alex, agree