想問一下大家(男人)有無成日有種比太太迫到就快死嘅経験?





  • 甘又無喎....


    你有?



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  • 有,想問下其他人係吾係一様.



  • 你比你太太迫到就快死?


    點迫呀? 講呢聽吓...



  • 我自己係一個不高不低嘅員工,人工大約30K左右.太太都係差不多一様,因為太太自己屋企係一個小康之家,又係家中唯一一個女仔,重要係家中細女.両個哥哥.我都係家中最細一個,有一個哥哥,一個姐姐,父母退休了,生活不大問題.其実以我同太太収入,生活係過得幾好,不過問題就係我太太,不賭不酒不煙.只係中意旅行.上年同前年,大大少少旅行一共超過10次(吾計廣東省,澳門)最初我都無セ所謂,但係我地層樓Loan由下年起,開始可以過罰息期,太太希望由依家13K一個月加到17K 一個月,由11年減少到9年多D, 因為我地以前試過一次由25年減少到13年(毎個月還款多D同一次性還款幾十萬)我自己就覚得無這個必要,但太太就勉強迫我,我知道就算毎個月加到17K,去旅行都吾会改変,我對太太講,一係去旅行,一係吾加.但係太太就一予吾理我,日日夜夜煩住我.我就快精神病



  • 我老婆唔鐘意去旅行, 但係好鐘意做一d要供好耐同好困身既嘢, 例如佢未拍拖就去買層同佢入息唔相符既樓, 結咗婚佢又急住生仔, 啱啱生咗個女, 又要話追個仔, 娶佢我又要同埋佢阿媽住, 養埋佢阿媽, 而加又要賣咗我同佢果2層樓買過另外一層(2層都係供到1半), 我想自由d, 唔想做埋d好困身既事



  • 所以成日聴到D女人講,好多野自己無想過他人,一講又話你,一係就以行動抗議(最中意係無声抗議).所以我地講亜Ma係世界上最好女人,明未?



  • johny





    女人唔同男人,生仔女有期限,急住生仔好正常.


    你地有能力買甘多樓,年紀都應該過30啦,女人想生bb好正常


    養埋佢阿媽 你有無同太太講過唔想換樓?


    溝通最重要阿...同太太傾下啦



  • Man





    你哋有冇平心靜氣傾過先? 你太太可能出生於小康之家, 從來未捱過, 佢唔明白你都好正常啫, 試同佢傾吓你既苦況, 又或者佢見你捱得辛苦都會心痛同體諒你呢!



  • 咁呀.........離婚lor~!!



  • Girl,





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  • 咁女人去旅行有無期限架???



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  • 算啦...鬼叫你肯咩? 你有無得反抗?


    有時屋企果個..未必最了解你果個。只係大家有個伴姐。



  • i discussed yr case with my bf


    his response is why you both have so many annual leave to go holidays?


    but to me going trips around 5 times / year (including short trips) is not TOO surprising


    for the loan, i also think it is not necessary to change. did your wife contribute her part?







  • 未必係"了唔了解"問題既, 就係因為對方了解你"肯", 久而久之, 欠缺一點亙相體諒及溝通.





    朋友幾了解你都好, 甚至紅顏知己, 朋友就係朋友, 朋友之間感情, 又唔同夫婦果種感情.




  • 又唔同夫婦果種感情可以代替.




  • ha replied @ 2007-12-29 10:32 am





    i discussed yr case with my bf


    his response is why you both have so many annual leave to go holidays?


    but to me going trips around 5 times / year (including short trips) is not TOO surprising


    for the loan, i also think it is not necessary to change. did your wife contribute her part?


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  • ha replied @ 2007-12-29 10:32 am





    i discussed yr case with my bf


    his response is why you both have so many annual leave to go holidays?


    but to me going trips around 5 times / year (including short trips) is not TOO surprising


    for the loan, i also think it is not necessary to change. did your wife contribute her part?


    ----


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  • oic, a lot of ppl take leave like you two.


    From a female pt of view, i can understand your wife's thought - in short, maintaining a preferred standard of living and free from loan asap.


    i still think going trips several times a year is not too surprising, but for the property loan, you need to express your burden to her with good reason e.g. keep some money in pocket for investment. It is not wise to clear your pocket for a flat, financial advisors often advise ppl to maximize no. of years and minimize monthly payment of a flat.



  • 你個point其實冇錯, 錢就得咁多, 邊可以兩樣要曬, 我覺得你同佢講到咁白都唔明就係你老婆問題。當然, 萬事必有因, 點解你老婆咁想供快D, 每年係都要去N次旅行, 作為老公既你可以了解下個"因"係乜。



  • 我有差唔多情況,最後選擇離婚,因為我頂唔順一個成廿到尾既女人都係除�鷑p錢之外就乜都唔去諗,個個月俾萬幾蚊佢零用(屋企開支唔駛佢理)佢都話唔夠。我就辛辛苦苦去返工搵錢,佢就一d都唔會去諗唔會去慳,攪到個個月我搵咁多就駛咁多,又係只係成日話我唔同佢去旅行。佢會慳d駛我就同佢去環遊世界都得啦,你估我唔想個個月去旅行玩下咩!


    盲目咁忍�鰲N�鼳\6年,結果選擇離婚算啦。



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  • 明白了,不過有時現実生活中,結婚係一件自己思考過大事,要去到離婚,又係一件更大事.不是電視中講要離就離0甘簡単.



  • Man - 01/07/08 11:32





    今次認同你所講


    p仔case未必太兒戲


    好似she.com醜八口吻, 扁低同性抬高自己咁



  • 你個point其實冇錯, 錢就得咁多, 邊可以兩樣要曬, 我覺得你同佢講到咁白都唔明就係你老婆問題。當然, 萬事必有因, 點解你老婆咁想供快D, 每年係都要去N次旅行, 作為老公既你可以了解下個"因"係乜。


    ----


    講過因為太太不賭,不飲,不煙,電視同旅行係最大興趣,快D還完Loan,就可以多D$去多D長線旅行,這個就是因.



  • Hi Man,





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  • i see your wife has no problem wor.


    Do you want to keep money for other entertainments which your wife not allowed?



  • 我想.....好似無


    要Other Entertainments我依家都可以



  • 你就照佢意思供多D, 但放唔放到大假, 放假時又得唔得閒, 唔係你老婆能決定。唔知你明唔明。即係"唔見人"既次數越頻, 去旅行既次數越少。得唔得?



  • 呢個係溝通唔到時既非常上上策



  • 好似幾好計.Mich你都有試過呢個経験?



  • 我見我老爺都俾我奶奶逼得好緊要


    我老爺每個月俾兩皮野我奶奶, 乜屋企開支都唔駛佢負責, 一個人擔起頭家 + 打理生意, 一年返足 365 日.


    我奶奶就晚晚打牌打到點幾兩點, 個個月去旅行, 3日唔埋兩日就燕窩魚翅 (雖然我地都有份食, 不過其實唔係需要食 or 成日都想食囉), 仲日哦夜哦話老爺冇發達.







  • 真係家家有本難唸得經,睇返其他人講嘅経験,突然覚得自己係平凡一個.比我更差情況嘅人大有人在.寫寫下覚得自己有点幸福添.



  • man, you are somehow lucky.


    many ppl do not even afford a property, not to mention spare money for travelling. it is quite good for a couple without children to earn 60K a month la



  • man


    其實我覺得你地兩公婆都冇唔�琚A只係大家對同一件事既睇法唔0姐。唔好話男人同女人呀,就算同性別既兩個人睇野都有唔同。你睇下可唔可以同佢傾下囉~哈!祝~好運啦^^


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