我係relationship認識到一位女任, 大家都一齊了3個月左右, 近來發覺佢啲脾氣越來越差, 經常為一些少事而agrue, 但我己盡量忍耐, 我好驚會有一日會向她說分手....我每次同佢傾電話或出街都好大壓力, 好驚講錯野或做錯一些無相關既事又發脾氣...eht should i do rrrrrr





  • 我係佢部pc 到睇佢啲相, 佢話我唔尊重佢, 無私人, 佢又嬲咗我幾日, 我26, 佢30,我對佢既愛被她的臭脾氣快覆蓋了.....



  • she is waiting for ur propose for months..



  • 仲唔分手,等咩呀



  • 你現有幾愛她呢



  • 你現26歲TOO YOUNG,你吃不住她的...小心受傷害



  • 找個時間跟你女人傾吓,將問題解決,忍唔係辨法



  • why dont you talk to her?



  • 小男人,



    if you really regard yourself as 小男人, then you cannot get along with ladies, especially for a lady several years older than you.



    Just find out what happened in the relationship and find out more about how she feels. Her temper may have a reason, the argument maybe because of something else. No necessarily because of the issues that you told her or your action.

    Ladies may hide their real concern.



  • There maybe days that a lady would become crazy and she may not wish to behave like this.

    Or she may be frustrated about something in her job, her life , her family, her health, her dreams, her past experience.



    just patiently dig deep with lots of love and care.



  • 分手啦, 我都曾經有過一樣既經歷

    每次見係擔會唔會唔覺意整嬲�

    見面既時間用黎點樣氹返佢多過互相交流

    每次都係提心吊膽咁, 好辛苦



  • 你現26歲TOO YOUNG,你吃不住她的...小心受傷害 <<<< Good point



  • 我們終於分手了....点解女人會咁絕情, 我又無做過對佢唔住既事......好唔開心




  • 走得快,好世界! 努力…加油…走走走 !!!!!



  • 小男人

    咁你係唔係開始話要搵一個溫柔既女子呀 ?



  • 男人搵女人招數:

    作個故仔出黎,講到個女好唔岩,自己又好可憐,

    然後睇下邊個母愛氾濫既女子落搭,咁就得米 lu ~



  • 我而家唔知自己想点, 又哭不了, 又唔想食野



  • =^.^=

    你好變態......泠血



  • 佢話一句唔夾....就分手, 當時我唔知講乜好, 各位男任, 我還有機嗎?



  • 而家charm 到上綢到無人理= =



  • don't want to be harsh



    you're having a master, not a girlfriend,

    wake up, be a man, leave her,

    it's not a healthy relationship,

    you two should be in same siutation,

    now, from your description in the topic,

    just like a master & a slave, your girlfriend is a master/boss,

    you're a slave/maid,



    it's not normal,

    being a life partner should care and love each other,

    with better communication and understanding



    forget her, move on and good luck



  • tks mature lady



    i think i should know how to do next time~~



  • 佢都冇心同你認真,當你點心之嘛。分手仲好,一定唔好返轉頭!!



  • 佢成日話我管住佢, 我只係一日打兩次電話, 佢都話我煩, 我問佢野問多重復一次, 又吊9 我話我長氣, 究竟想點, 我好想知我係咪比佢玩緊.........唔通真係網上無真愛!!!



  • 唔使講粗口喎,你地識左幾耐先一齊?



  • 一個月到~~~~



  • 我可以好肯定同你講..

    你同佢分左手,絕對係好事.



    我都有同樓主&樓上果位Thomas雷同既既經歷,

    但係我好忍得,又好愛果個女朋友,

    唔敢去嬲佢,每次都覺得係自己既問題.

    攪到個人日日都好痛苦.



    最後終於都要分手了...



    分手左4年左右之後,

    我發現當日同佢一齊既經歷,將我正常既性格扭曲左.

    對住鐘意既人唔知可以做咩,成日形住怕呢樣怕果樣.

    又對感情冇信心,開始拍拖時已經唸定第時會發生唔開心既事.



    我都唔知第時點搵老婆.. .. ..



  • 我真名叫Ronnie.....我唔係小男人, 只係佢令我好似無地位咁, 多謝thomas and 姐喱仔 和其他綱友意見, 可能分手真係好事, 長遠來看, 等仲辛苦, 長痛不如短痛, 我還是放生吧....

    Thomas講得加啱, 我自己都唔知第時點搵老婆, 唔識点想重生發展一段新感情.....我既愛情路真係好辛苦, 未識佢之前我己經和一個7年既女友分手, 現在的她還以為可以重新開始...但又是分手收場, 我的缺点只是長氣和過份照顧伴侶(但我真的一天兩個call 給她 ), 但真的會令她說分手嗎?



  • 板主, 睇你的經歷,你分手是好事呢~

    明白你現在是很傷心所以在此 起板傾訴~

    但你出topic同分手都係呢幾個鐘頭既事哩~

    係咪耍花槍詐?



    我思想較老套認為女細過男既一段關係好大壓力,兩人能不理這個原因, 走在一起是很難得,點會因為咩野一天兩個call而令他覺得煩~熱戀期開始就話你煩,擺明唔夾就無謂免強了~ 定係有些事情你不明白佢想法所以他撒嬌呢, 這些就你自己先最明白了~~



  • 蛋糕講得對,無謂勉強大家啦。若果熱戀期都接受唔到每日兩個call,可能大家在溝通上出現問題。

    我覺得兩個人能走在一起,應該開開心心、舒舒服服的才對;若不,冷靜一下或者想想應否分手好了。



  • 有冇扑到佢先



  • you met her here? if so, you still post this topic out??



    i'm afraid she'll drop out before you....





  • 湊女你估咁易架,你諗清楚有冇咁既耐力,唔係就長痛不如短痛



  • 搵果個啦

    下次唔好咁易開始



  • 搵果個啦

    下次唔好咁易開始



  • 佢大過我ka



    anywa, 熱戀期己經咁樣.....長痛不如短痛....可能大家真係唔夾....多謝你丫, 蛋糕



  • 所謂愛情,不一定會善始善終,不必過於追求麯直 .



    請君惜取青年時,轉眼已經直奔二張豪七



    把思邃輓回来吧,現在是好好享受鮮衣怒馬的時光...



    seem我都繫26呀 汗一個自己老績



  • 小男人 replied @ 2007-11-07 3:56 pm



    我係佢部pc 到睇佢啲相, 佢話我唔尊重佢, 無私人, 佢又嬲咗我幾日, 我26, 佢30,我對佢既愛被她的臭脾氣快覆蓋了.....



    did you ask for her permission before using her pc?

    it's your fault if you didn't respect other's privatcy



  • Ronnie, please cut the crap! i would not believe you!!



    我係佢部 pc 到睇佢啲相 = death penalty

    i assume you did not ask her before, same as checking her phone or may be msn history, holy shxt!

    i really think it must not be your first time too? you also promised not to do it again?? every man is like that.. chicken shxt... why you need to see without permission, no trust??



    但我真的一天兩個call 給她 you mean mobile or home, or her name?? sorry, i do not think so, you are 小男人 and should be calling 2 times in half an hour at least!! and how about MSN, SMS, facebook, friendster... i bet you are those checking where she is, what she doing, controlling who can or cannot talk to...



    i had a bf exactly like you, i have suffered for over 1 year. yes 長痛不如短痛, but please do not post out the story of your side, covering the true facts and trying to find people to comfit you. so childish. be mature baby, time to grow up and think about the others. you are 26 already, be a man, a real man... ok?





  • omg'



    你是否•single now? 你試過給男友泠落嗎?

    你試過緊張一個人嗎?

    你試過你喜歡人多過他喜歡你鳴?



  • ronnie,



    i am not single now

    i have been 給男友泠落 (i am sure it is normal, everyone has MOOD!!)

    你試過你喜歡人多過他喜歡你鳴? sorry, i would not like to count. it is very childish. love is not like this.



  • 我都試過比bf 睇我電腦d野,我當時真係火都黎埋,因為佢係資料夾內資枓夾又click開, 似搵野多過手痕,but當時家人在我吾想爭執,佢就覺得無乜問題,佢又對我唔係差~但呢件事發生年幾了,我個心一想起, 即看這post又想起,我個心仲係好唔開心, 唔知佢點解要咁, 係咪唔信我!

    所以ronnie你既然錯了,現在又分了手,咁你就不要對下個女友咁樣了~

    同埋,你個"ex-gf"在這裡識,她看了你這post會很生氣,最後連朋友都不能做~



    你上面話有個7年ex-ex-gf, 我諗你曾是一個穩重的人,現在一下子不懂由新開始,也怕再失敗所以好敏感~



    不要怪我長氣,我不是老婆婆我比你年輕但我做過曬你做既事,多年後回想就會覺得好好笑了,keke



  • 一日兩個電話都話我..

    狂我叫我男朋友打多個電話比我都話無野講..

    不過我都係同佢分左手.. 路..

    好唔習慣. 好掛住佢..



  • 蛋糕



    我而家經常check 佢和打比佢, 都係出於關心, 熱戀期唔通一個電話都唔打咩~.~anyway...tks yr adivse



  • 經常check 佢和打比佢 or 但我真的一天兩個call 給她

    so confusing..



    surly, you know what you have done. you are just telling one side story, it is just not too good to your ex gf. please learn how to RESPECT!!



    after you know how to RESPECT someone, may be you can start learning what is OTHERS' FEELING!!



    remember, different person has different feeling and point of view.



    good luck and all the best dude!



  • 條女咁...飛左佢啦.



    =.=!



  • if 條女really like this, of coz 飛左佢.



    but i am sure both of them have problem...

    right now, i do not see ronnie is saying he has any problem at all.



    one hand cannot make any noise!!



  • 爭吵永不會完, 怎愉快~~~~



    給小氣的人



  • 愉快 is not free!

    many people want to find 愉快 but just counldn't.



    work hard kid!



  • omg



    點解你好似咁燥既...



    我做錯只是睇過佢d 相 2 次, 長氣, 和1日2個call....搞到分手....that all~~~



    咁既原因要分手的話, 好簡單, :她都不愛我, 找個籍口分手吧


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