老女人,無人要

[老女人]

....睇你打中文都唔慢啦, 大把公司請輸入員啦,
<br>仲有快遞公司, 間間請人...唔係搵唔到工, 而係你唔想去做某些工...
<br>
<br>by 40女 - 10/11/07 19:41
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<br>唔係呀~我用手冩板架咋~
<br>我之前去過美心快餐度見工填Form,一直都無通知,都半年啦~

[Boldman]

老,様唔靚又無身材,無工作<-------- Can I help?
<br>,又無錢,<----- eligible to apply for CSSA?
<br>而家重有病,<-- need hospitalisation?
<br>我精神唔係甘好~ <--------in which aspect?
<br>
<br>by 老女人 - 10/11/07 19:44
<br>-------
<br>want a more direct discussion over the phone, see if I can help?

[EK3]

其實我唔係想負面思想架 -------咁妳平時點過活, 想法係點?
<br>我只不過係面對現實咋~ --------無錯, 做人係要面對現實, 不過妳誤會左個意思, 妳應該積極去搵工, 擴大自己的生活圈子. 咪成日裡係屋企.
<br>我唔單只老,様唔靚又無身材,無工作,又無錢,而家重有病,我精神唔係甘好~
<br>我雖然唔過30, 但身體機能等同6, 70歲的老人家, 工係妳唔搵, 唔係無工做, 病?我都有, 我都一樣會返工, 我精神都唔會好得過妳, 醫生建議我唔好上班, 但我都仍然上, 因為我要信自己!!

[40女]

老女人 replied @ 2007-10-11 7:47 pm
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<br>....睇你打中文都唔慢啦, 大把公司請輸入員啦,
<br>仲有快遞公司, 間間請人...唔係搵唔到工, 而係你唔想去做某些工...
<br>
<br>by 40女 - 10/11/07 19:41
<br>
<br>唔係呀~我用手冩板架咋~
<br>我之前去過美心快餐度見工填Form,一直都無通知,都半年啦~
<br>
<br>你用半年時間去等一份 心儀既工, 去做7仔你半年都搵到 1萬幾千, 等運到?

[OOlady]

老女人
<br>睇睇下你都應該好開心啊, 有咁多人關心你, 不過你30幾啫, 你越講越離譜, 似玩多d喎, 如果你真係想識多d朋友, 唔該唔好再draw attention 啦, 如果你平時咁同朋友相處, 係人都走啦, 完全同你老唔老無關,係關你無病呻吟事!

[老女人]

我重去過卡拉OK(正經個D,唔係尖沙咀個D夜總會)度見工,做清潔房間呀清潔下厠所甘呀,都無通知~都三個月啦~

[EK3]

40女人
<br>
<br>我同妳的想法係一致!!
<br>
<br>用半年時間去搵一份工, 真的唔係辦法!!

[快樂的豬扒冬字]

我都ot完閃喇
<br>聽日見到就見啦,bye^^
<br>
<br>Boldman
<br>比個10你又點話丫,呵呵~~

[40女]

OOlady replied @ 2007-10-11 7:52 pm
<br>我都覺得佢玩野多.....

[Boldman]

都半年啦~
<br>
<br>by 老女人 - 10/11/07 19:47
<br>---------
<br>why wait so long for a job? r u sure that's the only job u can do?

[EK3]

玩野o
<br>等我仲咁認真tim!!

[40女]

EK3 replied @ 2007-10-11 7:53 pm
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<br>我同妳的想法係一致!!
<br>
<br>用半年時間去搵一份工, 真的唔係辦法!!
<br>---
<br>係可以用半年時間去搵一份工, 但唔係明知自己冇錢既做法囉

[EK3]

不過我相信香港一定有這些人, 而且好多tim1!!

[40女]

快樂的豬扒冬字 replied @ 2007-10-11 7:53 pm
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<br>88

[老女人]

我唔係無病呻吟同Pay attention架
<br>我唔係30幾,我40啦
<br>我前日去過見工,都唔請
<br>我無用半年時間去等一份心儀既工,4,5個月前我做過Sales,但間鋪關門大吉我無得撈
<br>我真係有病要長期食藥,而家重甩左好多頭髪
<br>
<br>你地唔相信我以為我響度玩呀？

[40女]

EK3 replied @ 2007-10-11 7:58 pm
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<br>不過我相信香港一定有這些人, 而且好多tim1!!
<br>>>>大部份雙失都係咁, 高不成低不就
<br>

[60's]

老女人 replied @ 2007-10-11 7:44 pm
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<br>其實我唔係想負面思想架
<br>我只不過係面對現實咋~
<br>我唔單只老,様唔靚又無身材,無工作,又無錢,而家重有病,我精神唔係甘好~
<br>
<br><<as we're same age, and seems you're very negative,
<br>here's some instruction i want you to follow:
<br>1) start to have a walk in every morning in nearby park, if you don't like to exercise, just have some walk, to improve your health ~~ don't have to use any $$$
<br>
<br>2) cheer up and get rid of your negative thinking, if you start to think negative again, stand up and go to clean your home, or,
<br>if you prefer to surf on net, search for the website teach you how to cook, or simple exercises that you could work out at home.
<br>
<br>there's lots of information on the web, pick up the topics you're interested and read them, it's not bad to know more information
<br>~~~ keep yourself busy is better than being negative
<br>
<br>3) like others suggested, look for some part time, walk around, don't just sit at home ~~~ again no need to use any $$$
<br>
<br>it's not the end of the world, i want to learn a lot of things, such as kung fu, social dance, musical instruement, swim, tennis, languages, etc. just time not allowed and i'm not good at remember things (yes, i'm a slow learner)

[OOlady]

基本生活都未攪掂, 又話要識男人, 又話朋友, 又話整容...........唉, 好好地re-enginerring下自己d思想啦. nobody can help. cheer!

[老女人]

你地唔信我以為我響度玩我無問題我唔介意
<br>横掂我都習慣左一個人同埋比人睇底
<br>呢D完全唔係無自信既關係
<br>
<br>多謝留言

[40女]

老女人 replied @ 2007-10-11 8:00 pm
<br>你地唔相信我以為我響度玩呀？...
<br>
<br>雖然我唔知你邊句真邊句假...咁你搵份 7 仔做住先啦, 搵到 1萬幾千, 同起碼有份工寄託下, 唔駛諗咁多無謂野

[EK3]

o女人
<br>
<br>總之, 妳要拎信心出來, 一份唔得, 第二份, 見到得為止, 我當年都係咁.
<br>人有三衰6旺, 大家唔係唔信, 不過妳真的要好好珍惜自己
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<br>我要走la!!過兩天係道再見!!
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<br>40女人
<br>
<br>我走la!!88過兩天見!

[Boldman]

Wa~re-engineering

[60's]

老女人, you're being negative again,
<br>
<br>all of us is trying to help you here,
<br>and Boldman also said he would discuss with you,
<br>no one could help you if you close the gate

[40女]

EK3
<br>88 take care~

[老女人]

我都無話要識男人~
<br>我淨係講過我去年都有男人鐘意我姐~
<br>
<br>朋友就真係想識~即使基本生活開支有問題都可以識朋友姐~我又唔係話想問人借~
<br>
<br>不過話想整容就假既~講下笑之麻使乜甘悪~

[40女]

老女人 replied @ 2007-10-11 8:12 pm
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<br>真係架...咁你搵份 7 仔做住先啦, 搵到 1萬幾千, 用作基本生活開支, 同埋起碼有份工寄託下, 唔駛諗咁多無謂野..你體弱, 7仔算唔粗重既工

[老女人]

講講下都無曬心機講~
<br>得唔到人信任的人就是一個失敗者
<br>好無安全感
<br>感覺同"中女"傾計的心情完全兩様
<br>
<br>我不是玩,都幾十歳啦有乜甘好玩,我重知醜字點冩
<br>你地誤會我以為我用半年時間搵一份工係因為我無講清楚,係我唔岩~
<br>
<br>不過都好多謝大家響度留言
<br>我會好好反省同調教自己
<br>多謝
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[OOlady]

anyway, 你自己唔行出你0既圈圈, 冇人可以幫到你, 攪清楚你依家最需要咩自啦.
<br>take care

[60's]

我會好好反省同調教自己<<<don't, your problem is you think too much,
<br>
<br>if you're really stop chatting with us here,
<br>please walk out your home and look around the fast food shop, 茶x廳, 小吃店, sometimes they put sign outside the door and look for new staff
<br>
<br>good luck & cheer up

[60's]

just walk out and look around,
<br>many shops looking for staffs

[老女人]

雖然我唔知你邊句真邊句假...咁你搵份 7 仔做住先啦, 搵到 1萬幾千, 同起碼有份工寄託下, 唔駛諗咁多無謂野
<br>
<br>by 40女
<br>
<br>句句都係真話,只係講整容係假~你見我講得甘流暢好似賣廣告甘都估到我講笑啦~我邊有錢同心情呀~不如死左去投胎做個BB女重快啦

[老女人]

please walk out your home and look around the fast food shop, 茶x廳, 小吃店, sometimes they put sign outside the door and look for new staff
<br>
<br>good luck & cheer up
<br>
<br>by 60's - 10/11/07 20:25
<br>
<br>我之前都有想過去茶餐廳同7仔度見樓面和理貨員既工作,但係我BF唔鐘意,佢話抛頭露面喎~
<br>
<br>(PS我同我BF都好耐無聯絡)我唸我都係走去試一試先

[老女人]

多謝各位留言和幫忙,Sharing
<br>
<br>拜拜

[Janis]

Hi, 點解甘快走丫. 其實我覺得唔好時時都用個老字形容自己. 雖然年齡是沒有辦法停留, 但是什麼是老 ? 40歲和一個30歲的比是老, 30歲和一個20歲的比又是老, 就算你22歲在一個15歲的面前也是比她老. 每一個人都會有老的一天, 除非他在年青的時候就死左.
<br>老女人: 其實我很不想這樣叫你, 還是叫你做好朋友好一點,好嗎 ? 我想你現在最重要的是改變你自己的想法, 將精神放在工作和健康上. 其他的都不要想. 我覺得做人最重要是快樂和健康. 至於老的問題, 什麼人都會有老的一日, 無論你是富有/窮人.
<br>
<br>來的時候, 什麼都沒有帶來. 走的時候, 也是什麼都帶不走. 每個人的不同, 就是你一生的生活是快樂還是不快樂.

[janis]

冬 & 40女 : 我的ex bf 就是因為想我走, 所以就這樣說, 他說的是事實, 我比他大13年, 因為我不肯放棄這段感情, 所以他說了很多難聽的說話. 我不肯放棄是因為我自己執著, 我喜歡他, 而他和我只是為了報復. 所以我現在仍然是很痛苦. 我到現在還是不想放棄, 還妄想他會回來.
<br>不過我不會認為自己是老女人, 我只是年紀比他大, 有差距沒有可能的錯配. 我想再過多幾年, 他走哂樣的時候, 只要我現在好好的對自己, 好好的保持, 到時我們有機會再見的時候, 他一定會好驚訝點解我的樣子好像和他差不多.
<br>
<br>=)

[老女人]

Janis
<br>
<br>我知道
<br>我明白
<br>我之所以叫自己做老女人
<br>我都估到自己點解一年間可以變得甘老
<br>可能因為我有病
<br>係今年既事
<br>令我身體同外貎變得好差
<br>我都想改變自己做番個正常人
<br>我現在都有做PT
<br>同埋我自己在家都會煮野食
<br>有營養D同埋可以慳D錢
<br>
<br>改變唔到既係
<br>見工個陣人地間公司唔請
<br>我都無辦法

[老女人]

janis
<br>
<br>welcome back & your support
<br>
<br>I leave la, I still not have my dinner, I go to cook now
<br>
<br>take care & good luck
<br>thank you 88

[mi]

老女人"我真係老女人嚟架
<br>有陣時夜晩得自己一個人既時候,會覺得自己好快死,真係好自卑~" 我13歲時已經禁唸..........嗰時已經對人生絕望...........是識到依家嘅男朋友,先對人生有返希望.........所以佢是我人生唯一愛嘅人,除佢我唔會再愛第二個......雖然好傻......但我已經無辦法再愛第二個......

[passerby]

24 years old?

[mi]

why u know me24??????????

[yocool]

[email protected] take it easy

[RMK]

mi~~
<br>我個 case 同你有點似, 但我無你咁青春囉 ^_^
<br>我 bf 27, 我就 34, 相差 8 年添

[saya]

板主 - 女人
<br>
<br>不想寫老上去,- 健康第一, 先好好照顧自己身體!
<br>
<br>你的吸引力共不單靠妳的身材或樣貌, 追求永遠青春是不可能的. 只要保持儀容整潔, 心情愉快便足夠, 妳的確己步入中年, 但這其實並不防礙妳去享受生活, 以及分享其它生活的樂趣.

[cherrypill]

我都係三十幾歲先識倒我男友，我地拍咗年幾拖仲諗住出年結婚添，所以千祈唔好氣餒，呢個世界總有希望的。

[中女]

版主(我都唔想叫你老女人)
<br>請你抖擻精神
<br>搵工
<br>醫病
<br>先諗搵男人
<br>
<br>你再咁厭厭悶悶, 死氣沉沉...
<br>無病都變有病, 小病都屈到變大病, 唔係嚇你, cancer都係咁屈出黎(誘發)
<br>老實講, 你至少都去打半日工, 有寄託之餘, 同人都會有話題. 朋友自然多
<br>至於男人, 無男人想湊一隻苦瓜+哎呀唉唉唉悶蛋
<br>
<br>樓上好多人講既嘢都啱, 只係你自己聽唔入耳
<br>我都長期食藥, 雖然唔係咩大病, 但都會困擾我, 不過我唔會呻到樹葉落
<br>
<br>唔係人哋強, 而係你自己唔俾自己快樂, 無人幫到你!

[me2(age)]

其實大家唔駛咁激動,版主可能長期積壓,所以變成咁,我好明白佢既心情, 佢現在沒動力找一些新的事物,,幸好她還動力找工做及料理自己,,其實比她更worse 既大有人在,,又唔好講到佢咁差!! 我知有些人不做工, 等屋企養,,那些更可恥!!
<br>
<br>版主
<br>我希望你如果可以, 多點和家人溝通! 我相信你不會是另一個社會廢物的。
<br>努力, 加油!
<br>
<br>其實可能你還有"心理病", 如果你不介意的話, 和有心機的話, 我可送或借給你一些心理書籍。

[cherrypill]

我响未識倒我男友前，都有六年冇拍拖。所以呢個世界o的o野都唔係一定。
<br>各位姊妹，加油。

[中女]

我都贊成版主做吓義工
<br>搵屋企附近既組織, 可慳車錢
<br>助人助己, 好大得著
<br>
<br>甚至參加附近教會都好, 熱心d做教會事務, 等自己有投入感, 亦加強自己對自己既肯定.

[RMK]

cherrypill,
<br>我都係, 我係今年先識我男友, 未有佢之前我曾經以為就咁會得自己一個...因為年紀唔細...所以各位唔好灰心啊...

[me2age]

中女
<br>我相信而家版主係無心機去做義工,,,因為當一個人連基本開支都未ok, 怎會有心情去做義工呢!