bf ma ma 地得...

as for this sp business...
 
 what do you guys think about it?

yy
 
 to man......sp is for solve sex need ...hv little feeling only, won;t broken each other family

libby....
 
 i love him a lot... just that...I want to have a normal relationship too...

yy,
 
 I am a gal, I would tell you don't even think about it.
 
 Take a look at the threads, have SP and being 2nd fiddle. Meet up for sex only, a free hooker to the so called SP. No, we have dignity, either no sex or get a new bf. Don't give yourself for sex only.

I think he really get some erect problem. You should ask him to see the doctor... My problem is alway too hard and long which make my partner feel plainful...

true...
 
 但係 sex 係唔係一個 must 呢...I wonder....
 
 I really love him and I can put up with it now...
 but for a long term relationship...something there is rough time...and I am not sure if I can stand temptation at that time...
 
 so I got to figure that out before marry

keke coke.. that is BS...
 you can always make yourself come....
 dont lie :P

yy
 
 remember.........when you get older, you will want more sex......
 
 u knwo it?

我是男，我都不讚成求其找SP.....
 
 背後一定要有理由呀!!你就來結婚，什麼都要想清楚

禁夠竟 can marry or not?

beside this area, he is truly a decent guy...

yy
 
 can marry, but you need to hv a sp

if u can help ur bf, why need a SP??

tommy...
 
 but he will be furious if he find out right?
 plus isnt it hard to boundary b/w real bf and sp...?

Being SP, you will have to find time to see each other for sex. And what if you want and he doesn't or he has no time, and vice versa.
 
 Maybe you should learn to DIY or get some sex toys to get yourself fullfill.
 
 I can understand why you are worried as you are still young. Whether you will want to have more sex when you are older is all depends on individuals. No guarantee at all. I know people who are out of sex in their late 20s. And they can't understand why we have to have sex and called me sex mad. Hahaha !!!!

how to help ar 過內人?
 
 really just tell him straight?

禁 libby...
 
 重要唔要同佢講佢 ma ma 地呢?

no, not straight telling him
 ...how about consult 家計會...they are expert....??
 
 u still hv time...u r not get marry w/ him tomolo.....
 try more ways to solve it

yy
 
 it is easy to control, your man won;t knwo u hv a sp
 
 bf= love + sex
 sp= feel + sex

有冇人做過 sp ar?
 
 分享下 ar

yy,
 
 Don't listen to Tommy, he is disgusting. How dare he suggests to you to find a SP when you haven't dealed with the problem 100% yet.
 
 I think the best is to have a heart to heart talk with your BF. Sure he knows his problem but not wish to face it. If he does love you, he will want to face the problem and get help so to make you a whole woman. It is hard for men to accept that they cannot fullfill their partners but if is true, either he has to let you get a lover to fill up your sex drive, or let you go for a "duck".
 
 One more he can do, he can fullfill you with the help of some sex toys. Instead of you playing with them, he plays them on you. Like in some 4 jai movies.

yy
 
 i hv sp before...........
 
 do u want to know?

Don't know any SP but SP is purely sex. Some SP said they just meet up, don't talk much, just get into the bedroom, strip off and fxxk.
 
 Why do this to yourself? So cheap. Worse than a hooker.

u really consider SP?? if yes, go ahead.....me and libby will juz stop helping u!!!

I think there is too much information flowing in at one go...
 I need to take some times to digest it....
 
 anyway, I am off work now and got to leave....
 but thank you all for all your very precious suggestions...
 
 people always say she.com only have 8 婆...
 but I think they just being shallow....
 
 thanx all again for your help!

if u can, add me to discuss later.......
 
 goodnite by the way......take care

yy
 
 thx
 
 do you mind to chat in phone now?

I hv sp b4 ....so good

yy,
 
 If you choose to get married with him, please dont go to find any sp la. Respect to husband. Get married and get a sp? it's a kind of BS. I will ask so how much you love him?
 
 Ask yourself what you really want and find a man that's best fit you.
 Sorry to say, as long as your words, I dont think you love him so much that can be his wife.

yy,
 
 Please think carefully before considering to be a SP for another man. He is your SP and so do you. You are his SP too. SP has no future. SP is not safe. Who can tell if your SP has sex with others and how many and if he is protected?
 
 Think a bit positive. Talk to your BF. Don't tell him he is ma ma. Tell him you love him much and sex is not really too big a problem though would be much nicer if your love life with him can be better. Reassure him that you love him and should be frank and honest with each other. Try to get to the bottom of his problem. Get some professional help.
 
 This is not only do you good but him as well if the problem can be solved. Finding a SP won't solve your problem. How can you face the man you love when you are fxxking around ( sex with no love = fxxk ). Think of how hurtful it will be to him and what if it is you who have problem and he can't get enough from you? Will you be happy to know he has been screwing around?
 
 Be a clean, sensible and clever woman.
 
 Good luck !

libby,
 
 u r great!!

Thanks 過內人 !
 
 This is what I think about love ~
 
 If you truly love someone, you will want to help in all sort of ways. Give up without trying and turn yourself in doing something that you should not (may well regret later) is not love.

hi yy
 please add me msn
 [email protected]
 Thanks!!

Libby,
 
 u r single, or married??

try viagra :d

i think he is not ma ma tei, ma ma tei maybe hv 3-5 min, less than 1 min?? u define la . . .
 but viagra might really help, at least it can extend the erection period, by then u'll probably hv your fill :x

yy, 想成點...希望你想得清清楚楚