我&我老公一個月賺$43000, 怕養不到bb, 養一個bb實際上要幾多$?



  • 我&我老公一個月賺$43000, 怕養不到bb, 所以可能遲d先生, 
    我地每個月大約比$7000家人, 大約$4000供樓
    我宜家28歲, 怕遲d生年紀大, 養一個bb實際上要幾多$?



  • $43000都唔夠養bb咩?你想幾多呢?

    有d人搵$7,8千都係照生baby啦

    有時唔係下下要有計劃架~

    女人有年齡限制

    同埋唔係想有b就有b架!



  • 我知年齡限制, 但我老公認為宜家ng夠$,

    n 我地想遲d買一間大d的樓,....



  • 咁睇你地肯犧牲幾多.又要住大屋.又要享受.味唔好生攞.生唔生你地兩公婆事.香港十對couples四對不育.你有權揀唔生.不過.要生係仔女揀你.唔到你揀.



  • 咁一係你同老公傾掂數先啦~



  • 我同gf搵40k一個用, 連婚都未敢結呀...ai



  • 有時生小孩子也是講緣份...

    有d人想生但又冇, 唔想生卻又有咗BB!



  • rain,

    我好同意你所講.

    如果你真係想要bb,o米計劃下,

    真係生到出o黎先算,天生天養.

    我以前得爸爸出o黎工作,我媽媽要照顧我地三個細佬,

    我爸爸又唔係賺得多,我地又唔係咁過.唔擔心得太多.



  • anndog:



    你說得對...

    有時d野你越擔心便越難去做得好架...



  • baby are not very expensive to keep, since the first 2 years, u only need to spend on milk powder, diaper, clothes, and some toys, which $1,000-1,500 p/m.

    It gets more expensive when they start school, i.e the type of school you choose, and extra classes you sent them to.

    $40k would be enough.



  • ... my bf & me earning 85000 a month... we worry not enough...



  • 我都驚想生時又冇得生ar....

    唔係你想點就點



  • 我又驚身體唔夠健康,



  • 我地想搬, 係因為想住近家人,

    n 學校網好d, n 如果有bb, 宜家間屋唔夠大



  • 我同我老公搵5萬幾, 都只係敢生一個, 都覺得掹掹緊.....



    好大開支架真係...



  • michelle,



    有幾大開支?



  • michelle,



    你幾多歲生bb ga?



    人地話30歲前生第一胎最好, 我宜家28歲 lar



  • 我知你们是那類人, 生活又想keep住有啲質素,

    don't want a big drop after born the baby,your case almost same with my problem before, 其實真係天生天養,貴有貴養,平有平養..但不可想可以好似以前的..."爸爸出o黎工作,我媽媽要照顧我地三個細佬..."

    is totally different



    我&我老婆收入較好,可keep 番以前生活, 但你们...



    每個月大約比$7000家人, 大約$4000-->$14000

    供樓, 水电煤會treble上,我以前电費$500多,現要$1850,還有管理費,請個印印$3200 &包食...你遲早會請, 因跟你的父母住, 他们會煲电視戲(和你的亞B), 同唔會識教你的亞B,



    生BB不一定30前,係35前,同埋不要只係諗你们total$43000, 過兩年又轉吓工, 可能係揾$5-60000 呢 , who know that !





  • may be earn $5-60000 later.....

    may be really hv to birth the bb later....



  • 有仔襯嫩生,過多幾年,年紀大,到時又有大把野煩!!



  • 丫.仲有,如果你有時間又無野做,上呢度睇下..



    http://discuz.baby-

    kingdom.com/forumdisplay.php?fid=40



    睇完如果你仲因為上述理由唔想生住既,就等你有大屋既時候先再諗囉!!



  • thz 4 ur website



  • 我識個朋友,佢老公都係揾兩萬幾,老婆冇做野專心湊三個小朋友,佢地重要供埋樓添...但一家人活得好開心.而且佢地個個小朋友都好乖.

    其實睇你地自己點諗囉... 到時年紀大想要都未必有.唔係個個都咁易有架...



  • 唔好唸咁多啦,想生就生,到你兩三年後真係搵到五六萬嘅時候又驚份工唔穩定,又要唸一大餐. 其實如果真係有咗BB, 好多生活習慣都會改變,支出自然減少,唔好太擔心啦.



  • 另外我有個朋友四年嚟都想要BB, 可惜天意弄人,都係一毛所出.

    唉..........



  • 你可以等搵多十萬八萬先生, 不過到時你未必生得出喎. 如果真係想要bb就諗清楚, 後生d易d有係事實. 如果你要唔要bb都冇所謂, 咁就可以等到時有"足夠"錢先算囉.唔知你認為想維持現有生活又想生仔要用幾多錢?我老公搵5萬一個月, 都叫我唔好返工係屋企湊女, 我地都認為咁對個女係最好. 錢唔係咩都可以做到. 比如工人湊同媽咪自己湊就一定有分別. 當然如果每個月都唔夠錢比開支就唔駛諗生仔, 但我地依家每月5萬幾, 都已經覺得生活好過好多人, 駛費比人高好多. 基本上可以再用少d儲多d錢. 即使阿女已經返緊幾好的學校同有返各樣的興趣班. 仲有咩唔足夠呢?



  • 咪係law...又要生活富泰,又想生仔,做人有時要學吓取得平衡,

    唔好比個d廣告嚇(4 million養大個仔)死人...

    我今年32剛剛有bb...但之前努力咗成2年...

    所以咪以為一定有...我等咗2年叫做好彩,有d人甚麼都有唯獨是

    生bb試咗6,7年都冇呀,所以你28歲係時候做準備la



  • thz 4 ur comment, i think age is more important than $, n also i know many ppl 想生都冇得生, v. worry ar....

    actually 我之前睇過中醫, 諗住準備生bb, but seems we wont birth bb in the near future, so now stop 咗睇...



  • 你上來曬命???吾好玩啦!!!!



  • 曬命?

    y?



  • 其實睇中醫要衡心同時間& money la....有時佢哋嘅理論係要先排毒再補

    肝腎之後補氣血所以都要破長時間(尤其係女仕們la)...可以的話由現在開

    始慢慢地調理,你還有時間要比耐性架



  • do u hv any gd 中醫 which can 幫我煲藥 ga?



  • 我地既收入同你地差唔多,宜家就黎有第二個bb tim,我都我點怕,不過唔係怕冇錢養,而係要返工,冇時間照顧。其實生細佬係睇你地有個想唔想生,覺唔覺得must生,如果係就要早d生,遲d想生都生唔出,我有d朋友真係咁!!



  • 嘩...我同老公搵$26000咋...好難講話夠唔夠既...睇你地係過緊d咩生活囉...



    bb既野 , 有時唔係話你想要就有架...好講緣份...



    我同老公一結婚已經想要bb , 雖然經濟能力唔算好好 , 但希望趁後生 , 早點生bb , 結果做了婚前檢查 , 發現先生有問題 , 要做人工受孕 , 排期又等成年了...所以話...係想生就早d囉...





  • you and your husband still have around hk$10,000 in saving. I think its enough for raising a child lol..如果你給太多太好的東西給bb, 都不會是一件好事, 因為佢第時唔會識為自己爭取自己想要的東西同珍惜現在擁有既野



  • 我同男友搵30000, 準備下年年尾結婚後就生b. 錢, 我知道錢好緊, 不過佢年紀唔細, 33歲, 計過, 當佢做人老豆時已經36歲, 好話唔好聽, 仔仔大個大學未畢業, 佢就退休...



    好多野我都要計算, 但係無可能所有野都計得最好. 有時回想, 我家姐姐夫有錢結婚, 但一直唔結, 拖左年幾, 就係年幾入面, 我老豆突然過身, 見唔到佢嫁...佢都好遺憾. 呢d野無人知會點, 正如生仔, 我諗大家都希望三代四代同堂...所以, 有些擔心是多餘的



  • 我覺得你地講既野好rite, but may be 我老公 d fds, 多數32-33生, so he doesnt think birth bb later is a problem,,, i think i hv to talk to him...



  • actually 我同我老公講過, 想 this year 生, but he said not enough $, if i talk to him again, seem 我好恨, 好心急 gum....

    i sometimes feel upset, y 我地既想法 r so different, n i dunno how to talk w/ him on this



  • klj, tell your husband that you are really 好恨, 好心急 because the chance of getting pregnant is slimer when you get older. Some people would take several years to succeed. But the bottom line is you must get his support before proceeding, otherwise you will be very lonely and helpless when you are really pregnant.



  • klj:我其實覺得現階段並吾系你地收入問題.因為你地收入比好多夫婦都已好好了.除非你個BB系要日曰佷鮑魚.食燕窩當飯咁la。咁便沒話好說了,反而.我覺得你家下的問題是在你和你老公身上,如果你倆沒計劃清楚,並吾系一同地想生小朋友.咁我覺得你倆真的要大家坐下來傾掂先好生,因為好多不幸的小朋友便是由這樣的父母產生的.最基本,第時你兩公婆向個小朋友面前頂咀.最受傷的始終系小朋友.我諗你想生BB都一定想佢有一個開心的童年.並吾想佢因為大人而心靈受到傷害,這是一世的.到他長大後.他的性格都會受影響,希望你和你老公可以諗清楚到底大家想掂,吾好只系諗住一方就另一方而去生bb,如果你老公根本未準備好,你硬要生的話.咁你老公個心總會有點不開心的.佢對bb態度亦會吾同.因為每個小朋友都想父母都一同地去愛他的.



  • 我吾想push 我老公, so i m thinking, may be 佢開口先算, but sometimes 諗諗下, 好似佢話生就生, 吾生就吾生咁, 我吾想我好似 waiting 4 his order



  • 我覺得咁多位講得好岩

    我同老公加埋都係搵萬幾,但係都諗住生

    小生命係好可貴呀!

    真係睇下你在乎邊樣多d


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