拍拖7年﹐訂了酒席﹐剛分手﹐我是否很蠢?
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在香港窮男人太多了..以上 鬧你嗰Ｄ都係..所以距地鬧你姐.對號入座...
<br>我知你唔係要個好有 $$$$ 既男人..如果唔係一早知距無錢.你就飛起距啦......
<br>我都有個無 $ 老公..如果你鐘意距.就要出埋女家嗰份哪.
<br>人情收得番,打個和嘅....
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<br>男家嗰份叫佢男家自己比..唔係要女仔比埋呀..以上男人可能會話"係"!!
<br>佢地只能上大陸娶老婆..因為娶 HK 老婆既本事都無.
<br>睇下幾時比 (專扼白痴 HK 男人) 既大陸女人呃..又唔知自己貓樣..
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<br>嫁D比埋男家結婚 $ 嗰份既...駛鬼嫁比佢咩.慘過做亞媽 個女嗰時
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<br>但你識了7年..明知距冇$$, 無和他一齊為結婚儲錢嘅??....咁就真係無計劃既..
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his bf is not pity, it's because he didn't fight for his life, improve himself to earn more money, maybe his bf is a lazy person lei, who knows
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坦白講... 做女人梗係想生活無憂.......我係女人都好明白
<br>只係我唔認同你「suppose愛情一定會提供到麵包」呢個諗法
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<br>你話:「但一想到冇錢﹐婚後生活可能比現在更差」
<br>請問你係為咩結婚呢?
<br>係兩個人合為一個單位定係為左改善生活?
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<br>請放心, 我唔係想話你對與錯, 你亦無必要答我
<br>我只係想你自己好好諗清楚自己既認為「結婚既目的」係咩....
<br>因為咁先可以決定下一步點做...
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<br>如果係為左改善生活, 咁呢個男人睇黎唔係太幫到你
<br>至於你將來仲有冇機會搵到, 咁真係好似場賭博咁...50/50
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<br>但如果你係另一個想法, 咁真係請你珍惜你擁有既野...
<br>你付出7年, 佢都係付出7年... 我估佢唔係唔想提供麵包俾你, 可能係盡左力但無辦法姐...我相信佢呢7年黎背負既壓力都唔細...
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<br>最後想提醒你一點, 結婚唔係兩個人關係既終結
<br>「結到婚」真係唔代表d咩...
<br>好好諗清楚你以後既路想點樣行啦
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hahaha!!! kitty kam, 終於有另一個港女出現幫你啦．快ｄ回應下啦．你跟住落泥搵男朋友，係唔係都要有樓有車接送ga???
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<br>KITTY: 好彩我唔係一個死窮鬼
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<br>keep going!
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kitty kam
<br>你真係蠢左小小,花左7年時間而家得個吉
<br>唔緊要,而家知自己要咩總好過咁樣結左婚
<br>第二時d日子仲難捱
<br>支持你!
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agree to mimi, 其實kitty你要靠自己呀,唔好靠男人啦..我唔睇好而家d婚姻,只要自己有錢,點都開心過無錢
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我覺得你真係好自私........
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<br>你到依家咁...可以講得上你抵死的.......
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<br>你根本一d計劃都冇.........花左7年係佢身上...但係你又有冇諗過...佢一樣係花左7年係你身上......生日,過時過節...又送禮物,又要食飯......果d都係一種付出黎的,不過你當左果d係基本......個個做男友都應該做的.......我話你知...錯哂law...冇野係必然的.......
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<br>如果你一心係想同佢有將來..就唔會一d都唔會plan一下你地的儲$$計劃啦~~~
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<br>唔好講多呀....你一心俾左個波佢...叫佢自己攪掂......不過你一d都冇諗過付出wor~~~
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<br>都未結婚就諗離婚...我都唔知你地結黎做咩......都唔會有好結果的......一定俾你同你阿媽睇死.....
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咁鬼無用無責任感既男人我就真係唔想個女嫁佢，kitty無咩錯,有d廢柴男人都係講一套做一套,好多都係用"真正愛情"做藉口掩飾自己既無能,又有幾多真係識咩係"愛"？
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Kitty:
<br>我真係好佩服你的坦白。不過真係好唔明白你個腦諗乜,乜愛情同錢係掛鈎架?
<br>如果你係愛你的男朋友,你依家就唔會咁做。無錢咪一齊努力儲蓄囉!今時今日你覺得仲有男主外,女主內架?唔好咁天真啦!
<br>你咁聽你阿媽話,咁就不如成世梳起唔嫁,成世守住你阿媽啦!30歲人,仲無自己嘅思想,你估你仲細咩?你咁鐘意錢,如果我係你男朋友,我飛都飛唔切呀!
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kitty同佢男朋友7年
<br>有心既一齊儲到錢la
<br>就係而家今時今日無麻
<br>你地明唔明???????????邊個一個無心先 ~~~~~
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我覺得個男人好死無用,浪費左女人青春,男女天生就唔公平,男人年紀大都有排玩,
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另一位Kitty:
<br>我想講,今時今日嘅男人,唔係個個都咁Loan John,
<br>你話全部港男都係窮鬼,正如你所講,都係對號入座啫!
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<br>板主Kitty:
<br>你男朋友都真係幾無用,不過正如其他朋友所講,你自己都好大責任。
<br>你話佢唔負責任,難道你又好好咩?你比咗女仔最寶貴嘅青春比佢,同樣佢都係。
<br>所有事情都唔係只有一面,轉一轉角度,又係另一個世界。
<br>你都成三十歲人,不如自己努力,對自己好啲好過啦!
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Kitty,
<br>Please don't feel upset about how others comment on you here.
<br>i agree with you, you are of no fault. Just that some people here can't understand you.
<br>I think what you feel now is "sum tam". A man who can't even make a few ten thousands savings after working so many years...he can never give you the confidence. its meaningless to marry him.
<br>People may say "love shouldn't be counted on money". That's very wrong. only those rich people and people who have no financial problem can say this. But when you are in a financial problem, you'll realize how important money is. nobody can survive without bread but just drinking water.
<br>women always need to consider for themselves the first priority. It sounds selfish, but its life.
<br>Work hard and find antoher good man. I'm sure you'll meet someone that you deserve. Good luck.
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酒席的問題也算﹐更大問題是一個家。佢自己連一層百幾萬的樓仔都供唔起﹐(供完其它野要我負擔)更唔好講首期了。婚後連自己的家也沒有﹐將來會點?
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kitty
<br>呢條事已過去 唔好諗咁多
<br>而家要為自己努力!!! support !!
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我情況同你一樣...樓都買唔起...你男朋友做咩ga?
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<br>七年感情就係因為錢咁容易放棄到？？一點留戀同唔捨得都無？七年你應該同佢經歷左好多先係ga！你話佢有能力比到你ge野，佢都會比你，證明其實佢應該幾鍚你，同埋佢儲唔到錢的原因，會唔會係出去行街食飯買野送禮物等消費都係佢比？
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<br>要搵一個鍚同愛自己的男人好難，搵到就唔好咁容易放棄，個人認為結婚係因為愛對方而結婚，但睇你似係想改善生活有人養有錢洗所以結婚多d喎？而家好多男女結婚，都係大家儲錢同埋公一份婆一份ga啦....點可以寄望一方面比曬錢出曬力，況且你都話你浸過鹹水係外國讀書，理應有返咁上下賺錢能力呀...又點洗靠男人養呢？
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<br>當然要錢定要人，係你自己決定，決定左之後，後悔與否，係你自己先知，但係提醒你一句，心靈上的寂寞，比物質上的寂寞更加難受同可怕....
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咁睇黎你都好清楚自己做緊既野而唔係一時衝動啦.....
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<br>做人... 最緊要就係清楚自己做緊咩...因為之後有咩後果都係自己承受返
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海鳥
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<br>講得好!!
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<br>多謝你回應我呀
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<br>不過都要講返句，我係女仔，絕對唔係幫住d男仔講野！
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<br>我而家都同我男朋友一齊住，出去街街食飯都係男朋友比，但係我唔會要求我男朋友買野比我，去街最多係玩十零蚊扭旦，買對十幾廿蚊的耳環比我，我已經好開心ga啦....
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<br>佢賺錢多過我，所以屋企的expenses都係佢比多d，我比少d，屋企大家都有份，所以因應大家的能力夾返份都好應該...^^
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呢個女人, 唔要都擺.
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如果真係娶左版主, 最蠢既就係佢男友.
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好彩, 呢到仲有值得娶既女仔
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問世間情為何物
<br>直教金錢相�
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<br>難道夫妻真的不可以同甘共苦嗎?
<br>不可以共患難, 攜手創天下嗎?
<br>(當然, 任何一方是爛泥型, 就作別論)
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問世間情為何物
<br>直教金錢相�
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問世間情為何物
<br>直教金錢相�
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最唔掂係反問自己係咪好蠢, 好似買錯左乜野基金, 股票, 俾人呃曬錢咁.
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真係咩人都有.
<br>以為結左婚就咩都有人比錢.大難臨頭各自飛,知道男方冇錢即走,唔理拍左幾多年拖,幾多年感情,冇錢冇得傾.
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坦白講，個個女仔都想有個有咁上下財政能力的男朋友或者老公，但係，唔係個個男人都可以咁叻ga嘛，唔叻ga男人唔通無資格拍拖結婚咩....
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<br>講真，你要我金錢上，照顧埋男方我就真係接受唔到啦，各顧各我就ok，起碼大家經濟上要照顧到自己，唔好無時無刻旨意對方啦...如果唔係對方會好大壓力ga，況且有手有腳，餓唔c ge...
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Pass: 在香港窮男人太多了.
<br>我唔係話全部港男都係窮鬼..
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<br>我班朋友全數都係公一份婆一份..
<br>包捨我在內..
<br>大家支持家庭開支..
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<br>唔係以上部份男仔所講,港女只要 $$..
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<br>對於你既金錢價值婚姻意義, 我不想特別討論. 不過, 如果你一開始就知道自己要咩, 我覺得你好蠢. 點解同人地7年, 男友有幾多斤兩你可以唔知. 仲要係, 佢有幾多錢就係你對搵對像既重要條件. 再者, 三年前你話要結婚開始, 就應該摸清男友個低. 如果當年佢仲係無既, 儲三年點都有少少, 好過而家先開始儲.
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<br>你係一個好清楚自己既人, 有一個點樣既老公, 你係有要求. 將來, 如果人地唔可以FULLFILL, 你就要即刻走, 唔好再浪費青春.
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作為一個導演，在劇本上妳應該留空多條伏線,好等觀眾去思考。太差喇妳套戲。
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有男人為第二個女人唔結婚
<br>亦有女人為錢銀唔結婚
<br>公平既~
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<br>不過有d chi sin o者~
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我只係想知妳有咩信心飛左人之後可以響兩年內搵到人同妳結婚 ?
<br>發左七年夢之後仲繼續發夢
<br>咩都係一廂情願咁
<br>幾時醒呀 ?
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你唔好再講你男友什麼唔掂, 什麼無用啦, 仲要舉曬例. 我係你另一半真係好傷心.
<br>既然你make咗decision咪唔好結囉, 邊個阻住你先. 有無需要講倒你男友幾差幾廢, 然後等所有人去支持你呀! 我係女仔我明白你唸緊乜. 但又有無需要咁look down自己男友呀!! 你唔結就算啦, 無謂周圍唱你男友
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其實﹐佢唔係一半酒席既錢都無﹐而係想酒席､蜜月､影相､租屋､生活費都一人一半﹐但我mom要十圍﹐同埋要買樓﹐如果唔係唔好結。學我mom話齊﹐如果連呢D都做不到﹐將來生活點算? 我在想﹐要等佢做得到上面的﹐又要等到何年何月?
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我都好明白你而家ge感受！
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<br>Shall we talk ?
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<br>[email protected]
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貧賤夫妻百事哀 ...... 果然冇錯
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唉, 都唔明點解仲有咁多男人要結婚又無錢俾. 無錢就唔好結,等有錢先啦. 硬係要無錢去結婚, 死路一條
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竹門對竹門,木門對木門,自己有幾多斤兩自己知..女人如茶渣,愈耐愈cheap,你該想下自己有多少籌碼先講,如果個男人有本事,你估娶左你之後又只有你一個咩會..e個世界財大氣粗,有錢那個人就是掌權,有多少個女人可以找到一個又有條件,又專一的男人......你要記得戴安娜的ending是離婚的。
<br>好多時見到的女仔,express個個一齊的男仔都要好叻...但e個世界上的人是由金字塔形咁排....有多少人是在頂上,而她們往往又唔知自己在咩位置.........
<br>那個咩kitty講e到的男人個個窮鬼....請小心...可能我份糧多你一個dup....唔好似為睇唔過眼的人是對號入座
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我廿幾歲儲到80萬都未敢結婚, 因為買樓都未夠, 你bf連擺酒都無能力, 住屋點算呀?
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u not love ur boyfriend, i think u choice broken up with him is good choice for u and him.
<br>if u love the guy, u will not care too much, because u will happy to share everythings with him.
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廿幾歲先得80萬仲好意思講出黎既, 好威咩
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唯有希望版主搵到個有錢男人娶佢啦, 不過要對佢唔好既, 等佢明白咩先係首要
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好同意"Come on"的講法。
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<br>你唔好再講你男友什麼唔掂, 什麼無用啦, 仲要舉曬例. 我係你另一半真係好傷心.
<br>既然你make咗decision咪唔好結囉, 邊個阻住你先. 有無需要講倒你男友幾差幾廢, 然後等所有人去支持你呀! 我係女仔我明白你唸緊乜. 但又有無需要咁look down自己男友呀!! 你唔結就算啦, 無謂周圍唱你男友
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<br>你都己經同佢分左手，佢有錢定冇錢己經同你無關。
<br>佢又無做甚麼對不起你的事，尊重一下這一份感情，不要再說他的不是了。
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我冇估錯佢應該住公屋
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妳同左佢7年依家先知佢冇錢??
<br>妳有冇搞錯啊!!
<br>仲有,平時出街洗費係佢都係佢出?如果係佢儲唔錢有乜咁奇!
<br>妳話佢連百幾萬層樓都供唔起,供唔起就係供唔起ga啦,冇錢就係冇錢,有幾奇!妳估香港個個男人份人工都買得起層樓?
<br>淨係層樓咁簡單?有幾多野要洗錢!
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<br>我覺得妳真係好過份囉,為左咁就分手,有第3者都話丫,妳付出左7年時間,難道人地個7年就唔係時間??
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<br>兩個人結婚,如果唔係冇人湊bb迫住要自己湊冇得返工,咁梗係兩個返工好啦,錢都搵得多d,兩個人一齊,唔係應該攜手創造一個家既咩?!
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只係冇錢買樓遮,咁就唔要一段7年的關係.
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<br>妳話個男人窮到三餐都成問題,租屋都冇錢,咁都有得好講丫
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有綜援
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