女友不願上床. 該分手?

you said:她從不以我的角度來思想
 so..did u ever consider at her side?
 ur so selfish n cheap

你明知人地係christian,你仲咩溝人,溝得教友就預咗

every gal want to have sex with here bf in fact. try a different enironment or eat sth special before discussing this issue

係呀教友唔溝得架

傋c姑好過溝教友la

你去信埋教喇,教友對教友一般寬鬆d(成班偽君子),你信了就咩都有得寬恕.

飛左佢la............下次死都唔好追D咩基督徒, 攞黎煩, HK重有大把靚女

版主貪條女係處未玩過,半推半就咁特別刺激

why dun u consider getting married with her soon?

結左婚冇左新鮮感就唔想玩啦side氣

係呀!趁佢仲嫩口助多幾野

佢死都唔肯 , 你都冇辨法架
 你地睇下可唔可以用第二d方法解決你d需要lor
 如果佢都係好激動咁唔肯... 你又真係好想要
 咁... 即係你地唔夾啦....
 講真..... 佢咁注重呢d野...
 結左婚... 都唔慌會好啦...
 諗下分手啦

kennycbchan

As a Christian myself, I wish you can try to understand her because intimacy is God's gift after marriage. Maybe she used some wrong words and made you feel bad. But if you can understand her, not only you are having a wonderful and nice girlfriend, but also a very good wife in the future. Email me at [email protected] so that I can send you a link regarding to this topic and hopfully you can be closer to her even more. Wish you two nothing but the best.

我太太都係基督徒,係婚前係唔可以性行為,但我無怨過lor,
 你要體諒佢lor,如果唔係你結�鰼B都係一樣,你愛一個人係要包容佢既一切,
 唔係為�魕呇茈h分手,枉你仲話自己係大學生,連做人道理你都唔識,
 好女仔難求,你要好好珍惜....

我想問下男人對有感情既人 ml 同冇感情既人ml 有咩分別架?

貪人純啦! 溝神妹啦! 溝得神妹都預左有排頭痕架啦!

excuse me all christians,
 
 Is a christian allowed to do self-masturbation?

如果大家要既野唔同, 就唔好勉強喇

kennycbchan

The Bible really didn't say that Christian can't masturbate but when a person is masturbating, that person must be having sinful thoughts or fantansy against another individual. So, it is going against the idea within the Bible. When this situation happens, Christian would try to re-focus those energy to do healthier activities. Hope this help.

kennycbchan
 
 thank yo ufor answering my question. I still can't understand:=
 
 1. For christian , masturbation is a sin right?
 
 2. for non-christian, is masturbation = doing a sin?

I really suggest you to break up with her....you guys have totally different values...it is not a good idea to force her into sex...she is a good girl...if you truly love her, you wouldn't mind waiting because you would marry her in the future anyways...don't you think it is really wonderful if your wife is a virgin? But if you don't love her enough, why would you want to steal her virginity? You really don't deserve a good girl like her....A devout brother who is willing to wait deserve her.

it is totally misleading and absurd.
 
 all brothers both christian and non-christian are waiting for a good fxxk together only

I would have to say yes as the answer to your first question. As for non-Christian, I think it is ok as long as you do it privitely and not against the law. Hope this help. :-)

kennycbchan,
 can i email u too?

Sure, nice to meet you, Christian.

then how about wet dream? to christian, is wet dream a sin? but it's all under unconcious, what can those men with wet dream do?

i want to email to u 2 kenny

i would like to email to keeny chan two

novice,
 
 As for non-christian, many of them do sins without a thought, they talk behinds people's back, get gealous of people, lie....etc, so masterbation is really no big deal comparing to other sins they are committing.....

never answer questions in the right way
 
 all bull shxt

Wet dream, haha. Those are caused by our bodies naturally, so no we should not feel bad about it. Just like having a morning erection. It is definitely comfortable but we can pray to God and ask for stregth and put our focus on to the correct thought. I also want to add that nobody is perfect, including Christian. If you are interested, I would encourage you guys to go to a Christian bookstore or attend church to seek answer and guidance.

again and again

Sorry, I had a mistype. I was trying to say "It is definiely uncomfortable " Sorry, everyone. :-(

no harm done as long as it is all bullshxt

Now I see why the Bible says christian and non-christian shouldn't be together..both parties would suffer due to different values. Sex issue is not the only one that they would have different opinion on...there are tons of other issues that are going to cause clashes between them...of course, a fake christian or a christian who act the same as non-christian would have fewer problems getting along with a non-christian partner.

watch_out, it sounds like you have a religion background. Am I correct? By the way, nice to meet you!

kennycbchan,
 
 Ya...you are right :) Nice meeting you too.

kennycbchan

watch_out, you can just call me Kenny. So, what is your name?

hi watchout, welcome to join

hey kenny chan
 
 how about talking to oneself in a thread a sin?
 like masturbation?

Kenny,
 
 It's fine to just call me watch out, as I don't want to disclose my name here...

nice meeting you, christian :)

watchout,
 r u m/f?

Kenny, christian :
 
 I guess we should both pray for the host's girlfriend ? So God can either convert the host or break them up...otherwise it is not impossible that the host would drag his girlfriend into the sin ....
 
 christian,
 
 I'm female....

yes, let's pray. By the way, i am also female.

板主,
 3年你都算好野架啦,唔通要學無間道:3年又3年咩.
 勉強無幸福,好心分...

以前既人類廿五歲結婚已經好遲，所以傳統道德上既 "婚前不應有性行為" 仲勉強站得住腳，因為太細既唔應該有性行為，過左廿歲既忍幾年都已經結婚，所以都無乜所謂。
 
 但廿一世紀既今日，早過廿五歲結婚既人少之有少 (多數都係學歷低，早出社會做野，或者屋企極富有，想早 d 抱孫既人）一般女仔都去到廿七過後甚至越來越多過左 30 先結婚既人。
 
 人類性能力或者生育能力最佳既時間係 around 25 歲，過左後其實 physically 係走緊下坡。要一對互戀互愛既男女係精力最旺盛既時候唔做愛，去到結左婚後身體各方面已經開始走緊下坡時先開始做，我覺得係好唔人道既做法。
 
 好多人之所以反對婚前性行為係因為佢地好主觀地認為反對婚前性行=淫亂。佢地覺得人類係無結婚約束下進行左一次性行為後，會忍唔住繼續同唔同既其他人做愛。我覺得咁樣只會反映到佢地本身心入面對自己陰暗既思想。
 
 以我所以，大把口口聲聲話婚前唔會發生性行為既男女 (其中以女性為多)，其實佢地都試過曬愛撫 (摸，巢)，口交，只不過係未真正入過。我覺得咁做有 d自欺欺人。　　"我仲係處女呀" <-- 究竟係邊個程度上係呢？思想上？形式上？醫學上？　個意義係唔係真係咁大呢？

christian,
 
 how long have you been a christian?

我想問下兩位處女基督徒，妳地幾多歲？

其實各位原來討厭男人叫雞係因爲驚傳aids 俾自己 .....=.= 明白.....